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Gloria Williams
Columbus, OH · 2 months ago
HOT

If we go fifty-fifty, then what day do he do the laundry?\n What day do he wash the dishes?\n What day do we clean the house? What date do he watch the children? What day do he pick the kids up from school? Remember, he wants to do fifty-fifty. What day do we cook?😆😆😆😆

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Rodney Saucier, Sr.
Long Beach, CA · 2 months ago
HOT

Do what’s best for YOUR household. All households are not the same.

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Season Reason
2 months ago
HOT

Gone are the days when men took care of most the bills...

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Dwayne Gates
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

It’s no such thing as 50/50. It’s 100/100 . Nothing less.💯💯💯

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Hell Bound
Chicago, IL · 2 months ago

She wants to spend her money on BBL, liposuction, nails, wigs, lashes, etc.

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AO PR
Washington, DC · 2 months ago

They over value their 🐈's Most think a phat dunky means a free ride. what happened to building together.

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Eddie Jeffers
Columbia, MD · 2 months ago

no such thing as 50-50, called being grown and we take care of our house.

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Big Sull
Pittsburgh, PA · a month ago

I ain't messing with no chic who doesn't what to contribute, this is a team and building is a team sport. If we're not building together we're not enjoying my accomplishments together equally either. That's what brings appreciation. I can give my son a car but if he works for it he'll appreciate it more and want to take care of it better. If I was rich I wouldn't even be in a relationship dead ass

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pain32971
Greensboro, NC · a month ago

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Nancy Portee
Durham, NC · a month ago

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆😆

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Whuteva
Houston, TX · 2 months ago

My 50% would come from the pockets of another man!🌸 Lol

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Erica Bryant
New York, NY · 2 months ago

No he should be paying the rent. Do you go 50/50 cleaning cooking taking care the children. Driving the kids to after school activities.

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Barbara Jullen
Lutcher, LA · 2 months ago

Real,but I'm not going 50/50 On bills,if we married, we are not roommates. I have his back and he has mine

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Melissaperry Perry
Louisville, KY · 2 months ago

you heard him exactly

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Allen Simmons
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

I thought a couple was supposed to run the house together.

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Michelle Allen
Hinesville, GA · 2 months ago

A married couple usually has a checking account that both incomes go into.I myself have a private saving and 10% percent of my pay.Goes into my saving account and he has a saving account and 10% percent of his pay goes into his saving account.That's called marriage husband and wife we Put are income together,and pay all are house bills and that's really what matters.That's what you call marriage.It's not a sacrifice.It's called marriage love commitment.

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Frank27
2 months ago

I've been married 34 years and me and my wife still go 50/50 on bills cause nothing free in life 👍and to get ahead in life takes 3

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Richard Jefferson
Texarkana, TX · a month ago

there goes equal rights 😂😭😅

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Vikki Mo'ss
Hampton, VA · 2 months ago

The hell im going 50/50 on bills. I can date my self for that

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CHIP william
Covington, GA · a month ago

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Nick Higginbottom
Tunica Resorts, MS · 24 days ago

all Facts given then he walked away............

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mr2023
Wallace, NC · 23 days ago

she pressure tho😤💥

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alief tx
Houston, TX · 25 days ago

and gon stay by yourself 🚮

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Monte Russaw
Lufkin, TX · a month ago

that's right

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Brooklyn Chick
Queens, NY · a month ago

kinda Slo Mo...☑️

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Tony C Johnson
Sacramento, CA · a month ago

😆😆😆😆😆

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SaySumthinSicsummaBich
New York, NY · 2 months ago

If you putting in 50% effort into a relationship. It aint gone work

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Gary Mathis
Monticello, IA · a month ago

she got out of the car my mouth started watering

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Tracy Wright
a month ago

it's a 50/50 thang that's makes 💯

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Naimah Marshall
Washington, DC · a month ago

old school ; A his and should be able to provide shelter, food and clothes for himself and FAMILY ( wife and children). It does t mean the wife shouldn’t help out with food , bills, or whatever but a man should be able to take care of basic needs. Now if you decide to shack up with a guy technically he not responsible for you so hey if he want 50:50 then oh well.

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Kevin Randolph
Douglasville, GA · a month ago

I know I may get killed in the comments. But I still to this day go to work and hand my wife my check on payday. She is the CFO and handles bills, grandbabies etc. and I am perfectly ok doing it this way. If I need money for me things I get it. But she handles everything else. we have been married 28 years tomorrow. And we run like a well oiled machine.

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PrettyAfricanBootyScratcher
2 months ago

He has said nothing. I have a husband and I don't pay bills. Next....

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Marlon Colquitt
Smiths Station, AL · a month ago

He right ✅️ and the majority will never be marriage material 👍🤔

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Jamal Washington
Charleston, SC · a month ago

Y'all Itches Crazy

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Hostile Nerds
Charlotte, NC · a month ago

😆😆😆

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Wolviie
Memphis, TN · a month ago

With the cost of living you both need to pitch in. The days of her pocketing her paycheck are over.

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Shuntaya D
Newark, NJ · a month ago

There're men out here whom pay half. There're men here whom pay all , and there're men out here whom pay none! The men whom goes half are likely modern men. The men whom pay all the bills are traditional men. The men whom pay none are broke opportunists. 🤔

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MILK FIRST THEN BREAD
Washington, DC · a month ago

Women want an old school value man but don't act like old school value women. Don't dress modest, don't cook, clean, not faithful, don't know how to act in public, all in other men faces, not nuturing, combative etc.

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Madeline Garvin
Fort Wayne, IN · a month ago

I wouldn't waste MY hard earned money on such frills.

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Tachee
Hartford, CT · a month ago

LoL EXACTLY 💯😂

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Bernard Ellerbe
Tampa, FL · a month ago

🤣🤣🤣😂😂😂☠️☠️☠️☠️

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Kem SW
a month ago

we don't live in the 1950s where a household can survive off one income. That was the case at one point but with the cost of living both people need to work and contribute. The price of everything has gone up except salaries

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Michelle Cassidy
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

Her priorities: 1. Either take out a loan and get a BBL or 2. fly to Turkey and get a cheap BBL. Obviously by them weird edges on her thighs in the wrong spot she went with the turkey bbl. Her thinking was get a big booty, find a rich man, hire a cook. Nothing whatsoever in there about love or connection or BOTH parties being all in for the relationship. Now on the other hand, he is clearly happy in his relationship. I betcha his woman hasn’t messed with her body like that. And I bet he loves her. I bet they cuddle and laugh and support each other. Go ahead women keep messing with what the good lord gave you. Go for that bbl rot smell. It’s fine. It shows me what your priorities are.

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Yvonne Slater
Kissimmee, FL · a month ago

If I have to have one like you, I'd prefer to be by myself too

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Deonta Williams
Cincinnati, OH · a month ago

no such thing

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To Be Are Not To Be
Phillipsburg, NJ · 2 months ago

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Bleu daye
Lawrenceville, GA · a month ago

So true, and this is why these women are always by themselves.Wonder why they can't get nobody caused care of them.But they don't know what it takes for someone to take care of them and what they had to do to repay it

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Randall Timmons
Huntsville, AL · a month ago

The right woman can get all her bills paid!!💯💪🏿so if you not her you right you will never!!

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Mach Speed
Pace, FL · a month ago

Can't do 50/50, but you comfortable doing a 100% by yourself. MIMS.

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Derek Carter
Mobile, AL · a month ago

he won 😆😆😆😆😆😆

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