AmITheAsshole
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I didn't shove cake into my wife's face. Someone commented that "if your wife can't have fun, run". It's not about that it's about respect. Why would you disrespect your wife in front of everyone like that? She spent all day making up to look beautiful and then you do that. It's not funny, it's disrespectful and classless.
The cake and the face is stupid.It's always been stupid , and yet people continue to do it.
I warned my husband on our WEDDING day at the cake cutting that if he did THAT to me, smashed cake in my face, "he'd be DIVORCED faster than he got MARRIED." We were SEPARATED less than 2 years after our wedding day. He was such a narcissistic egotistical misogynist jerk. I didn't even like him when I first met him; he was such an egotistical person. 🤮 Always listen to your instincts ALWAYS.
the wife did this to the husband not the other way around what the hell is everybody commenting talking about the disrespect towards the wife for
Immediate Divorce!!!
OMG! The gold and black! Are you kidding me?
Men don't usually dress up often. This guy probably felt so good about himself until this.
I like how it's focused on the men putting cake in the woman's face. even though it was the woman doing it in the video. Personally however (my own two cents) does it really matter? It's not like it couldn't get cleaned up and it's not really embarrassing either. it's stupid yes true, it's pointless.. also true, but it's a fun way to say to your partner that "I don't care what you look like or how big of a fool you are made out to be. I'm here for you no matter what." and then you can prove it. if it's not done out of hate who freaking cares. make the wedding fun. let the cake fly. it's not like a true man wouldn't get you back later that night anyways 😆
I find throwing cake in your partner's face is so insane and childish.
I told my now ex wife before the wedding that we aren't doing the goofy ass cake pushed in the face
My wife and I never smashed cake in each other's faces. I've never seen a point to it and still don't. If you want to do that for your wedding I'll support you but I've always seen it as a waste of cake.
people do not have any common sense or morals now days. no matter the subject. why would anyone think this would be a good idea??? idiots everywhere
Maybe they should cut the cake first, BEFORE saying their vows and making it official!
Bro I hate this so much like yea thats what I want when I’m celebrating something a damn cake in my face cause I wanna walk around sticky and have to go home and change my outfit waste of a cake and a waste of my time
if that happened to me, I'd have never signed the papers. Marriage would never happen. Should have the bride bounced and enjoy the rest of the party, as much as possible.
I think it was just a little too hard and maybe immature. You can tell they are meant for each other though. She was the ONLY person in the ENTIRE room, that knew he was pissed and not to laugh. She knows him better than his family and friends. I pray they got through this 🙏
He should have the marriage annulled immediately….
She did him dirty!
That's not fun!!!!
I would have to annul the marriage. This is awful
So disrespectful
Why would someone think this is funny!! this is called ignorance & trashy people!
But, why? These childish acts are ridiculous’
I hate that people do that. its disrespectful and not cute or fun. why bother get dresses up and have a nice wedding just to ruin it
I hate it. I really do.
Cake in the face is not fun! Do you think a man wearing gold shoes would forgive that? Annulment time.
By the look on her face, I’d say she was expecting somebody else.
I would not be able to get over that if my partner did that at our wedding. Just saying…
At least she showed what an ass she made of herself 👍
This was terrible! I dont think doing that to him was funny at all.Total disrespect!
The one thing I asked my husband was to not shove cake in my face. He said, honey I know I’d ruin all our years of love it if I ruined your day and men really don’t get how rude and pointless it is. I’m supposed to see a woman doing it. Either way it’s tacky and pointless. You can have fun on the dance floor but shoving cake in someone’s face isn’t fun for the person getting cake shoved in their face
I’ll never understand how someone thinks, “oh let me smash fkn cake in their face and ruin all their clothes, looks etc” I never understood it and I honestly feel it’s very disrespectful. I don’t even know why this is a part of weddings or any event.
you spent around 500.00 and up just to throw cake in ur face🤔why couldn't you take some cake and share a bite then take the icing and kiss the person with icing instead
I bet she's feeling really stupid right about now
I would never disrespect any Man,like that. I haven't forgotten the face of my father. He would be disappointed if I disrespected a man like that.
that's a pretty awful tradition
Yes, I absolutely agree that if the wife asks the husband to not shove cake in her face, it should be 100% respected, hands down! But to be completely honest, men are just adult kids. They want to have fun. In my personal opinion, if my husband did that to me, I would have fun with it and do it to him too! Marriage isn’t all rainbows and butterflies, but having fun as a couple and getting a little messy is totally acceptable.
🤔 She is not the right one. She stood there and looked at him like she enjoyed that s*** run, man run
And she threw it hard in his face. That would have ended it for me right there. Not funny!
How was that funny!🤔🤔😲
it's so many people married for the wrong reasons and wonder why they are not happy
she looks very concerned
True disrespect disguised as a joke. it will only get worse.
NOT funny! It's extremely childish and uncalled for.
The look on her face says it all. Evil
I mean the accuracy though
That was mean
That would be a huge red flag of I made a huge mistake!
why would she do that. She would die if that was her wedding dress
really? maybe she's a prankster? we never get the full story
Is anyone else getting the vibe that she didn’t mean to throw it in the groom’s face and was maybe waiting for somebody else? She seemed to get really upset when she saw that it was him! 🤔😱
You’re supposed to feed the cake to each other and not throw it in their face like that! It’s disrespectful
I don’t know the dinamic’s of it. However u said you spent all day on beauty as if she planned it. Why would she intentionally if you didn’t provoke. U must of done something bad. Idk just my point of this video. If not sorry if she is just intentionally doing it out of hatred.
Just childish no class
That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever seen. You can hear the loud cow in the background saying OMG, screeching and cackling too. What a classless bunch of backwards hillbillies here. 🙄😒
Ok I’m co fused how was the day ruined? There’s no context… that’s corny… Why the sad music? Did some one pass?
I feel like this is staged but still…
MAYBE just maybe she found out he cheated on her!!!! ????
Not cool!!
WTH
if if we're for me. It would be a divorce before a wedding