AmITheAsshole
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I didn't shove cake into my wife's face. Someone commented that "if your wife can't have fun, run". It's not about that it's about respect. Why would you disrespect your wife in front of everyone like that? She spent all day making up to look beautiful and then you do that. It's not funny, it's disrespectful and classless.
The cake and the face is stupid.It's always been stupid , and yet people continue to do it.
I warned my husband on our WEDDING day at the cake cutting that if he did THAT to me, smashed cake in my face, "he'd be DIVORCED faster than he got MARRIED." We were SEPARATED less than 2 years after our wedding day. He was such a narcissistic egotistical misogynist jerk. I didn't even like him when I first met him; he was such an egotistical person. 🤮 Always listen to your instincts ALWAYS.
Who hires a clown for entertainment at a wedding?
I don’t understand, did she throw the cake in the wrong guy’s face?
Relax. Doesn’t even register of importance on that day.
He will get a nul to night for sure
Bro I hate this so much like yea thats what I want when I’m celebrating something a damn cake in my face cause I wanna walk around sticky and have to go home and change my outfit waste of a cake and a waste of my time
If you can't even get a piece of the Wedding cake. Take back your gift and leave.
Men don't usually dress up often. This guy probably felt so good about himself until this.
My wife and I never smashed cake in each other's faces. I've never seen a point to it and still don't. If you want to do that for your wedding I'll support you but I've always seen it as a waste of cake.
people do not have any common sense or morals now days. no matter the subject. why would anyone think this would be a good idea??? idiots everywhere
That girl is extremely annoying and doesn't deserve to be married to anyone ever
I think it was just a little too hard and maybe immature. You can tell they are meant for each other though. She was the ONLY person in the ENTIRE room, that knew he was pissed and not to laugh. She knows him better than his family and friends. I pray they got through this 🙏
MAYBE just maybe she found out he cheated on her!!!! ????
there's one thing of shoving cake in the face,BUT thowing a whole piece across at his face along with the pan as he entered the room is ridiculous- not even funny
Cake in the face is a childish antic. if you're that childish, you don't need to get married because it'll only be downhill from there
Cake in the face is Stupid.
Not funny at all
I would have to annul the marriage. This is awful
Brother, run, fast!!
why would anyone think this is funny? at all?
I hate that people do that. its disrespectful and not cute or fun. why bother get dresses up and have a nice wedding just to ruin it
Is anyone else getting the vibe that she didn’t mean to throw it in the groom’s face and was maybe waiting for somebody else? She seemed to get really upset when she saw that it was him! 🤔😱
wow, absolutely no respect for him at all, he should run
Grow up! What made you think that was a good idea?? how is that even funny???
By the look on her face, I’d say she was expecting somebody else.
Cake in the face is not fun! Do you think a man wearing gold shoes would forgive that? Annulment time.
WOW smfh
cake in the face is a sign it wont last. no respect.
I’ll never understand how someone thinks, “oh let me smash fkn cake in their face and ruin all their clothes, looks etc” I never understood it and I honestly feel it’s very disrespectful. I don’t even know why this is a part of weddings or any event.
I'm pretty sure I would just leave after that happened.
I can "loosely" read lips...and re-watched her saying "I thought you were going to get me first," or something very close. Watch her hands as she says it. And the jerks egging her on (to the right) seem to be instigating and urging her to do it, knowing full well his hands were empty. 😡 Most likely the best man/best friend who thought it would be funny and roped her into doing it under false pretenses. 😢 Just my thoughts & interpretation...
Why would anyone think that’s a good idea? My husband and I shoved a little in each other’s mouth. We discussed it before hand. I said don’t you dare! He said I would never! And I trusted him. And he didn’t do it. lol
In WHAT way would ANYone think this would be a fun thing to do???
the wife did this to the husband not the other way around what the hell is everybody commenting talking about the disrespect towards the wife for
she looks very concerned
She just ruined her wedding
the instant regret she felt is all over her face. a whole ass cake wasnt necessary
Can I get a refund 😆😆😆😆😆😆
How was that funny!🤔🤔😲
it's so many people married for the wrong reasons and wonder why they are not happy
The look on her face says it all. Evil
divorce
Looks like a cheap ass wedding anyway anyways in the basement of a church!!
Why in the heck would you do such a thing on such an important day?😲🤔😲
yall sound dumb.. it's just cake.. relax. most of yall marry or raise felons or are racist.. talkin about divorce over cake in the face of that's enough to end things yall weren't in love for real in the first place
why did she do that
I never understood why people do this. I would shut everything down if my mate did this to me. There’s nothing cute about it. It’s not traditional. It’s embarrassing.
True disrespect disguised as a joke. it will only get worse.
I would not be able to get over that if my partner did that at our wedding. Just saying…
You’re supposed to feed the cake to each other and not throw it in their face like that! It’s disrespectful
🤔 She is not the right one. She stood there and looked at him like she enjoyed that s*** run, man run
really? maybe she's a prankster? we never get the full story
Yes, I absolutely agree that if the wife asks the husband to not shove cake in her face, it should be 100% respected, hands down! But to be completely honest, men are just adult kids. They want to have fun. In my personal opinion, if my husband did that to me, I would have fun with it and do it to him too! Marriage isn’t all rainbows and butterflies, but having fun as a couple and getting a little messy is totally acceptable.
That was mean
I don’t know the dinamic’s of it. However u said you spent all day on beauty as if she planned it. Why would she intentionally if you didn’t provoke. U must of done something bad. Idk just my point of this video. If not sorry if she is just intentionally doing it out of hatred.
Just childish no class
And she threw it hard in his face. That would have ended it for me right there. Not funny!
That’s the stupidest thing I’ve ever seen. You can hear the loud cow in the background saying OMG, screeching and cackling too. What a classless bunch of backwards hillbillies here. 🙄😒
Ok I’m co fused how was the day ruined? There’s no context… that’s corny… Why the sad music? Did some one pass?
I feel like this is staged but still…
Not cool!!
WTH
if if we're for me. It would be a divorce before a wedding