AmITheAsshole
AmITheAssholePlus is your go-to Circle for real and raw interpersonal conflicts—big or small! Whether it's roommate drama, family feuds, awkward friend situations, work disputes, or 'would I be the asshole?' hypotheticals, this is where you ask, "Was I wrong here?" and get outside perspective. Leave the scripted drama and AI scenarios at the door—this is for real talk, real dilemmas, and real judgment.
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I watched this last night. Honestly, it's rude to ask whether one has been invited, but it's also rude for the co-worker to continue to discuss her wedding plans with someone she deliberately omitted from the guest list. So OP could have just said that she was tired of EVERY conversation being about the wedding, and could they talk about something else for a change. As it turned out, however, she got her wish, and is no longer plagued by her coworker's constant wedding talk. And for her coworker to have excluded her in such a way means they really weren't as close as OP thought, so even though it may hurt briefly, it's good that the mask came off and she knows who she's been dealing with all this time.
I wasn't invited to my coworkers wedding but others were didn't bother me one bit
When my kids were VERY little this would sometimes happen with kiddie parties. I would explain that not everyone can be chosen to go to ALL parties. Even at their own parties we can only afford a select number of family and a select number of friends. And sometimes it is just family. They were taught that there are boundaries right at a very young age. (As adults they now get this) And that this doesn't mean that you are NOT friends with the party kid. Still be NICE to them. You are still school friends. Maybe just not close party friends yet. Kindness counts. There are different kinds of friends. So when they grew up and are adulting and are not at every single wedding from high school, college and work going broke on gifts and bachelor and bachelorette parties and showers they are happy not upset they happily get it.
you need to say that while it's all good, you really don't want to talk or hear about an event you were Not invited to. that should signal her not to talk to you.
I don't make friends at work, don't need or want the drama. I just do a great job work my hours and go home.
get over it
Use distraction and change the subject. Never fails, but you need to plaster a big friendly smile on your face. How about them Red Sox? Are we getting any snow? Hey, let me tell you about my niece's scholarship!
ask her and if she says you are not invited tell her it is inappropriate to talk to you about it. if she persists cut contact.
not invited. you'll still live
When I was married (worked at a hardware store) I invited all the store employees to the reception only. Alot around my age came. Big party. Good memories. 8/4/84
When she brings it up let her talk then go.."that's so cool..I'm going to XYZ that weekend and then talk endlessly about the cool trip you're taking"...even if you make it up. DO IT.
Oh my....the world stopped spinning because someone got left out and now their feelings are hurt.
2017?