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Beautiful1983
South Bend, IN · a month ago
HOT

Talk to your ex. I totally get being upset but you are upset with the wrong person. The call to the stylist never should have happened. Not her fault your ex didn't speak with you.

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Liz Zwegat
Eastlake, OH · a month ago

Actually, I don’t think anyone should make any sort of decision concerning a child without consulting both parents. My opinion.

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Candace Gulley
Claremore, OK · a month ago

that salon owner is a saint. she handled it perfectly and she is 100% correct but also regardless of whether or not "she likes heat in her daughter's hair" her father is allowed to make decisions in regards to HIS child as well. I cannot stand when bitter exes act like they have the only say in every single aspect of the children THEY created TOGETHER 🤔let that man be a dad. 🙃

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Teresa Noe
Morristown, TN · a month ago

I think the stylist has more integrity than someone who made a fool out of herself. It's the adult who is her ex and apparently the little girl's father so how lady is that the stylist's fault? Insight into adulting might be a good idea for the girls' momma lol 😆 😆😆.

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Shelly Peterson
Moses Lake, WA · a month ago

I agree with the stylst.

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mickey
Mantua, OH · a month ago

how does this lady think she's right?🤔it's between the dad and her period

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C Jeffries
Albuquerque, NM · a month ago

There are so many things wrong with that conversation! First off, how in her "right mind" did the mother think it was a GOOD idea to call the salon? Accountability starts/ends with the EX! Secondly, shared custody means he makes decisions as well. Thirdly, tinsel is trending! Good job Dad for LISTENING to your childs, wants and needs ( within reason)🥰

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Im.over.all.ya'll...
a month ago

And now we know why he didn’t want to be with her anymore and why the daughter wanted dad to take her for her hair appointment. 🤷‍♀️ What does the woman want her to do? Glue her hair back on?? 🙄

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Pink6Money
Oak Park, IL · 4 days ago

Be mad at him.

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Michael Ecker
7 days ago

She's only upset because the father brought the child in.Obviously being her ex but the father has rights too.So

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Mary Arp
Roanoke, AL · a month ago

what is she supposed to do? Ask everyone that brings their child in if they have an ex and is it ok to cut their hair 😭

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MARLO Lopez
a month ago

the dad just wanted something cute for his daughter n if you didn't like it take it down hair will grow back trust me it will

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daniel Suris
8 days ago

it's the salons fault doing extra shit to charge more because the father don't know any better and they took advantage

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Michelle Barnes
Portland, OR · 9 days ago

If he's a custodial parent, he had the right to have his daughters hair done. The salon is not liable.

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Marjorie Pritch
Palm Beach Gardens, FL · 8 days ago

What a nasty person, no wonder she has an ex. Just saying.

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pamela payne
Newark, DE · a month ago

I’ve been in this situation too many times. I sell eyeglasses and had a mom bring her son in and purchase designer frames. Dad calls freaking out that he didn’t agree to this. The kid was already wearing them. Like this is between you and your ex wife. Honestly I would be embarrassed to even try this. Also had a wife do the same thing after husband had glasses rushed. A 60 year old man had the phone ripped out of his hand when I called back. She didn’t want to pay for a rimless mount frame. I was like maybe you should come with him next time and hubby needed to grow a set.

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John Smith
Jacksonville, FL · 12 days ago

just a woman trying to get her kid hair done for free

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Thomas
Palatka, FL · a month ago

listen Linda 😆

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Lisa
St. Petersburg, FL · 15 days ago

Mom has no reason to call shop thats on dad period

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John Cox
Kingsport, TN · 15 days ago

Let me get this straight you let a stranger add things onto a bill when he wasn't the one paying and name not on card and mom made an appointment. They did what's called a bait and switch for more money. Under federal law what the owner did was illegal and what the dad did is illegal have fun in court

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JWP
El Mirage, AZ · 25 days ago

she's trying to power trip with no power 😂😂🥺

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Newsisgone
Spokane, WA · a month ago

how is the hairdresser supposed to know the ex wasn't in charge or needed your permission? are you now saying that hairdressers need signed permission slips? and since those can be faked, they need to be notarized? it seems to me that the lady on the phone may be trying to scam and get a refund. not gonna lie, since tiktok and instagram--I never knew there were so many actors in the world. People will lie straight face while selling you garbage. they will fake outrage in order to get something. it's absolutely pathetic.

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my business
Red Bluff, CA · a month ago

talk to your ex!!! he's the one you are mad at the one who needs your permission not the Hair dresser

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Chelle Rounds
Matthews, NC · a month ago

WOW!!🤯 The salon owner has the tolerance of a Saint, she's definitely been doing this for a while!! Tip of the hat to this awesome woman!!🥰

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Vicki Sweet
New Cambria, MO · a month ago

Why blame the salon owner. I love the laughing shock the owner shows with mother‘s ridiculous statements

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bigmomma
a month ago

Dad has the same rite, with somethings so little, he didn't cut her hair off or color it ,

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Justme
Toledo, OH · a month ago

She had consent from her parent PERIOD

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JT
a month ago

Definitely not the fault of the stylist

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DoBetter
Orlando, FL · a month ago

I see why he's your ex, putting other people in your problems. The hairstyles was doing what she was asked to do! Talk to your ex.

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Robin Steele
Indio, CA · a month ago

jeeez take it up with the ex. salon not responsible

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Jane Ruggeri
Delray Beach, FL · a month ago

Agree with the owner. p.s. the tinsel can be pulled out

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Mrs. Childers
Gulfport, MS · a month ago

I bet that daughter loved her hair and that evil person had it taken it out

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Alicia Davis
Sacramento, CA · a month ago

Ur absolutely right… that’s the parents’ problem.. u did so well handeling it

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Tech Ops
Los Angeles, CA · a month ago

Why are people so dumb? It’ll grow back!

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Mitzi Clarke
Madison Heights, VA · a month ago

very professional . Goodway to handle conflict.🙏🏼🙏🏼💕💕

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Janis Clumpner
Allyn, WA · a month ago

When “Karen” is your mom……

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Shelia
a month ago

It’s not her fault Mom. She did as she was asked and paid for her services. You need to find something else to gripe about.

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Airwrecka
a month ago

Dad has her half the time which means he's a good dad or he wouldn't have her, mom has to get over herself, ANYTHING for daddy's girl 🤷‍♀️✌️

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L.Jaye
Pullman, WA · a month ago

poor salon owner. who would want to own a business dealing with this crazy society?

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Thomas
Palatka, FL · a month ago

all I know is I can see half a boob

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W
a month ago

um yeah lady. if the kid was with her dad it's ok her dad. not the store... holy shit

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Joy Whitfield
Mishawaka, IN · a month ago

her PARENT gave permission. a judge would laugh you out of court . the only difference between a good haircut and a bad haircut is about 6 weeks. take it up with her other parent.

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Bruce Gentry
Denver, PA · a month ago

if I was the owner, I would just laugh at her as loud as I can, shes such a cornball

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Katelin Stach
Gold Bar, WA · a month ago

what tf do you want them to do? scream at your ex for u? go back in time?

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Elizabeth Brown
Anchorage, AK · a month ago

Going forward mom should let the dad know she will be picking and paying for all the daughter's hairstyles. She didn't pay for it the daughter depending on the age possible picked something she liked not "Mom"..that's the problem mom don't like it. Did she come home bald or with a Mohawk? It don't matter if your daughter likes it it's her hair. Guess what it grows back..

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Angela Moxley
Springfield, OR · a month ago

listen karen take it up with your EX

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Christina
Port Richey, FL · a month ago

That child's has two parents.

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Rick Crawford (RICKDADDY)
Sevierville, TN · a month ago

Karen needs to call her ex

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Michael James
Thornton, CO · a month ago

"Who's the highest person there"???? Probably her. She looks like she just smoked a bowl.

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