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Candace Gulley
Claremore, OK · 3 months ago
HOT

that salon owner is a saint. she handled it perfectly and she is 100% correct but also regardless of whether or not "she likes heat in her daughter's hair" her father is allowed to make decisions in regards to HIS child as well. I cannot stand when bitter exes act like they have the only say in every single aspect of the children THEY created TOGETHER 🤔let that man be a dad. 🙃

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Beautiful1983
South Bend, IN · 3 months ago
HOT

Talk to your ex. I totally get being upset but you are upset with the wrong person. The call to the stylist never should have happened. Not her fault your ex didn't speak with you.

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Teresa Noe
Morristown, TN · 3 months ago

I think the stylist has more integrity than someone who made a fool out of herself. It's the adult who is her ex and apparently the little girl's father so how lady is that the stylist's fault? Insight into adulting might be a good idea for the girls' momma lol 😆 😆😆.

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Guest
a month ago

Omg blah blah blah then maybe next time she should take her OWN daughter please!! She just looking to create more drama for God sakes!

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MikeMcC
Lehighton, PA · a month ago

Call the hair police, dad asked for it, this is a mom and dad problem. Mom is an idiot.

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Chelle Rounds
Matthews, NC · 3 months ago

WOW!!🤯 The salon owner has the tolerance of a Saint, she's definitely been doing this for a while!! Tip of the hat to this awesome woman!!🥰

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mickey
Mantua, OH · 3 months ago

how does this lady think she's right?🤔it's between the dad and her period

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C Jeffries
Albuquerque, NM · 3 months ago

There are so many things wrong with that conversation! First off, how in her "right mind" did the mother think it was a GOOD idea to call the salon? Accountability starts/ends with the EX! Secondly, shared custody means he makes decisions as well. Thirdly, tinsel is trending! Good job Dad for LISTENING to your childs, wants and needs ( within reason)🥰

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Shelly Peterson
Moses Lake, WA · 3 months ago

I agree with the stylst.

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Im.over.all.ya'll...
3 months ago

And now we know why he didn’t want to be with her anymore and why the daughter wanted dad to take her for her hair appointment. 🤷‍♀️ What does the woman want her to do? Glue her hair back on?? 🙄

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JWP
El Mirage, AZ · 3 months ago

she's trying to power trip with no power 😂😂🥺

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John Smith
Jacksonville, FL · 2 months ago

just a woman trying to get her kid hair done for free

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Retired USAF
Haw River, NC · a month ago

This lays squarely on the EX not on the stylist

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Mary Arp
Roanoke, AL · 3 months ago

what is she supposed to do? Ask everyone that brings their child in if they have an ex and is it ok to cut their hair 😭

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Michael Ecker
2 months ago

She's only upset because the father brought the child in.Obviously being her ex but the father has rights too.So

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Bruce Gentry
Denver, PA · 3 months ago

if I was the owner, I would just laugh at her as loud as I can, shes such a cornball

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pamela payne
Newark, DE · 3 months ago

I’ve been in this situation too many times. I sell eyeglasses and had a mom bring her son in and purchase designer frames. Dad calls freaking out that he didn’t agree to this. The kid was already wearing them. Like this is between you and your ex wife. Honestly I would be embarrassed to even try this. Also had a wife do the same thing after husband had glasses rushed. A 60 year old man had the phone ripped out of his hand when I called back. She didn’t want to pay for a rimless mount frame. I was like maybe you should come with him next time and hubby needed to grow a set.

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Brad Hardy
Santa Rosa, CA · 2 months ago

She needs to take it up with the Dad. His permission is just as valid as the mothers.

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Newsisgone
Spokane, WA · 3 months ago

how is the hairdresser supposed to know the ex wasn't in charge or needed your permission? are you now saying that hairdressers need signed permission slips? and since those can be faked, they need to be notarized? it seems to me that the lady on the phone may be trying to scam and get a refund. not gonna lie, since tiktok and instagram--I never knew there were so many actors in the world. People will lie straight face while selling you garbage. they will fake outrage in order to get something. it's absolutely pathetic.

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Katherine
Wilmington, NC · a month ago

No wonder she's an EX

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Tresa Tate
Judsonia, AR · 25 days ago

your not wrong she got what they paid for

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Alice Rodriguez
Yonkers, NY · a month ago

thr child went with an adult. your ex so why you calling the store. you calling the wrong person maam

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wizardess
Baileyton, AL · a month ago

1st, ex's responsibility 2nd, was child already told no by mom 3rd child's age there is a lot more to this story. maintenance for the hairstyle and custodial timeshare. the stylist bears no responsibility, there was parental consent. might be a case of daddy irresponsibility. I don't know how much maintenance tinsel takes, but if daddy is a weekend parent he should have discussed the issue with custodial parent. did Mom already say no and child was playing mom v dad game. So much we don't know

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Muffin
Wyoming, MI · a month ago

She needs to talk to her ex. That call never should've been made. And not take it up with the stylist/owner, who, handled it all well and she did the right thing too. Telling her everything that happened. Making it clear and so covered. And you know what? she didn't even have to take the call. Just ridiculous. 😲👍🙌😎🫶✌️

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Michael Shane
Columbus, OH · a month ago

Wow just wow sounds like mom dont like dad having any power or choice making ability at all. Narsist all day

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Angel McDaniel
Charlotte, NC · 16 days ago

Sorry... Definitely not her problem. Father and Mother's issues....

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Penelope S.
17 days ago

She needs to take that up with her ex husband and not that lady

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Rocky
Oklahoma City, OK · 15 days ago

She’s mad about her ex and is taking it out on you.

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Allison
20 days ago

mom should have been there if she was that concerned about what happened to her daughters hair! the owner handled it well!

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Slippery Johnson
Acworth, NH · 13 days ago

a parent brought her in and gave parental consent to do whatever was done. The mother needs to take it up with him

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DixoncYder
24 days ago

What’s she want her to do 😂😂😂😂

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CA Resident
a month ago

I can see why he is her ex.

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Thomas
Palatka, FL · 3 months ago

listen Linda 😆

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Muffin
Wyoming, MI · a month ago

She needs to talk to her ex, that call never should've been made. She shouldn't have taken it up with the stylist. She

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Billie Teegarden
Marion, IN · a month ago

sorry about the mom's luck not your problem you had concent and payment 👍

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Johnny Retro
Fond du Lac, WI · a month ago

Sounds like a you problem, figure it out.

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Manuel
Everett, WA · a month ago

wrong if if the lady wants she can report it to the debit card she didn't give permission and second the lady should have checked the name on the card everybody nowadays to see the debit card and they just let it get scanned

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Lauren Eagle
San Antonio, TX · a month ago

ex probably did it on purpose to piss off the ole uptight control freak mom

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bigmomma
3 months ago

Dad has the same rite, with somethings so little, he didn't cut her hair off or color it ,

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lee harris
Grimes, IA · a month ago

She handled that well.

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Samantha Mcnamara
Dearborn Heights, MI · a month ago

great stylist

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imjustsaying
Poughkeepsie, NY · a month ago

All the stylist needed was parental consent & she got that. It's not up to her to know your parental relationship.

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Mary Scholz
Cape Coral, FL · a month ago

You’re taking it up with the wrong person. The ex is the person you need to talk to

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DoBetter
Orlando, FL · 3 months ago

I see why he's your ex, putting other people in your problems. The hairstyles was doing what she was asked to do! Talk to your ex.

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MARLO Lopez
3 months ago

the dad just wanted something cute for his daughter n if you didn't like it take it down hair will grow back trust me it will

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Airwrecka
3 months ago

Dad has her half the time which means he's a good dad or he wouldn't have her, mom has to get over herself, ANYTHING for daddy's girl 🤷‍♀️✌️

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my business
Red Bluff, CA · 3 months ago

talk to your ex!!! he's the one you are mad at the one who needs your permission not the Hair dresser

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Marjorie Pritch
Palm Beach Gardens, FL · 2 months ago

What a nasty person, no wonder she has an ex. Just saying.

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Pink6Money
Oak Park, IL · 2 months ago

Be mad at him.

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