AmITheAsshole
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692 Comments
Time to abolish HOAs
Judge should order HOA to replace his ramp with one that is aesthetically appealing for the property..!!π€ππΌπ²π
I've heard some HOA horror stories, but this takes the cake! Shame on them!
She should be ashamed of herself, smdhβ¦
I'm proud of the judge putting that woman in her place. If she's soooo concerned about the ramp looking ugly she should buy him a new one from Home Depot. She outta get sued!!
so why doesn't hoa just go and paint the ramp for him and make it have curb appeal...duh...what a pos...
Screw the HOA God bless our Veterans πΊπΈ
She should pay court costs for bringing such a frivolous and meritless suit.
I would never, ever live in a neighborhood where I had to be a member of the HOA! Never.
This is why I believe HOAβs should be disallowed
hey judge
Karen
This is why Iβll never live anywhere with an HOA, theyβre so ignorant
Fantastic judges response. HOA is a joke and gives Karens leverage to tell people what to do with land they have bought.
So glad the judge put this women in her place. The wheelchair ramp stays!ππΊπΈπππ»ππ»ππ»ππ»ππ»ππ»
she sounds crazy that's crazy my brother has cerebral palsey and he lives in a one bedroom apartment and they never gave him a ramp for almost 7years I couldn't understand why so I went to Brandywine village office in East Boston Massachusetts and asked them why doesn't my wheelchair bound brother have a ramp and they couldn't explain dumb asses everyone else that was handicapped had one he could of said the crap out of them ..β¦ within like two days don't cja know he had a full on ramp like seriously he could of busted his whole head wide open they are lucky but I'm still mad about it why did it happen before he moved in my brother had a good ass paw suit but he's to private for all that he don't like all the comosion ya k oe whatvi mean ending story he has a ramp but it should of never evr had to go lime this
why didnt HOA help him build a nicer ramp for a disabled Veteran..
This is your America
Give this Bimbo dunky of the year....
Thank you, judge! A judge who actually has common sense! Who knew there was one actually out there! So many judges should learn from this awesome judge!
the neighbors should be forced to paint it the color of the house
Instead of acting stupid they should help the man. Get the HOA to install a professionally made ramp. Raise money if necessary. Sell lemonade or a 50/50 raffle if you have to ππ
She said it with a straight face thatβs scary. Now he should paint it camouflaged with 2 giant POW MiA flags on both sides
She is a POS!!
No empathy whatsoever - you know she's a maga.
We got a karen run hoa in our neighborhood. Ugh. She filed a false police report claiming my girlfriend and i were having sex at the neighborhood clubhouse back in 2021, also telling the officer not to interview us. We've never been in the building. I didn't learn about it until after the statute of limitations ran out, so i couldn't sue her. Her name is Irene Sanders, and she lives in John's Creek, Georgia.
Yes, he should sue her and her HOA for harassment and mental abuse! The judge will help him do that! Itβs a shame that he has to live with this harassment community in the first place.
So instead of attacking him. They could have helped him. The man lost two legs serving in Afghanistan. Has he not given enough?
Anyone that fraudulently sues a disabled veteran should serve a year in prison.
She should be held responsible for all legal bills and fined for bringing something so stupid to court.
Witch
God bless the judge and every Vetran
Great job Judge β€οΈ That is discrimination
She is disgusting!!!!
First mistake is living in an HOA
Good for the judge, sheβll get humiliated for the rest of her life
The Man should have reported it as an adaptation violation with the state. They don't play around with ADA compliance violations and like to charge big fines.
she should be charged with Violating the Americans with Disabilities Act and she should also be required to pay for the installment of a new ramp for him. if she refuses charge her with contempt of court and sentence her to spend 90 days in jail.
If she has a problem with the aesthetics she can paint it to match the community.
Typical Karen
He built what he could afford. Veterans donβt have tons of money. Iβm glad the judge took his side!
While our Country is in shambles and literally down the tubes , this nonsense lady is suing one of our heroes for building a ramp to go in and out his home ? Ladies if he was my neighbor I would've built it myself ! What in the world has become of our Country ? a bunch of egotistic self centered , hateful people NO compassion is multiplying like popcorn and NO conviction !
This woman is absolutely pathetic. How dare her?
Great judge
I can't believe it, either. She must be 1 heartless witch.
Bet she never thought of offering to help the man make it a better ramp. That wouldn't enter her pee bain.
Moral of the story never buy a house in the HOA
If I were a resident there I would set up a government fund me account to get him a new ramp. Or ask the residence owners that I know to take up a collection for him to get a new one or call veterans orginations to help get a better one built. I roommate in a condo and the female manager tried to one up me but she always walked away frustrated because I wasn't submissive to her. I didn't break any laws but she was always on me about stupid stuff.
These HOAs need to have laws put to monitor them and give the people rights. These are people who have unlimited money and probably have never been anything in their life.
outlaw HOA's
π€π€π€Ε΅tf
screen shot all post check what is taken down continuously. Bias.? Sue them
Remarkable Judgeπ
GOOD. JUDGE...π
Thank U Judge for Protecting this Veterans Rights from this "Karen". Ungrateful for All this Veteran did for this Country. Actually the Entire Community should have taken the initiative to build a more substantial ramp for Him as well as make it compliant to the Association's Standards instead of making this a hardship for this Disabled Vet. They should b Ashamed of Their Lack of Compassion ...
what a witch
HOAs suck!!!
this lady is totally out of her mind but you reap what you sow
HOAβs should be banned, these Natzi wanna beβs are crazy and need to be stopped, I pay my own mortgage so some Karen is not gonna tell me what I can and canβt do with my property
These HOAs believe they are Gods!!
Oh sheβs absolutely lovely.
Wonder who she voted for?
The Judge should tell her if she doesn't like the way it looks then HOA should build him a better looking one!
Freedom isnβt free .. you need to find out what itβs like living without protection!
I mean whoever agree with her they are the eye sores of the neighborhood.
she never said thank you for fighting for our country, a fight he has nothing do with. but she has something to say about him making getting in and out of his home. to me she and whoever agrees with her is the Isle of the neighborhood
Federal law supercede HOA rulings. Attorneys should know this law by heart and this should never have gone to court. What a waste of time and money.
She has a lot of nerve
Thank you Sir for your service π !