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Charlene Miller
Irving, TX · 6 months ago

You can always start over. Make you goals and achieve them. I had to move 2000 miles away from family. Now it 14 years ago. Then my life started prospering. Sometimes you have to cut all ties. GOD is faithful as long as you keep him first and stay away from people who don’t support you.🌸

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Lori Lockman
New York City, NY · 6 months ago

Lesson Learned, Forgive And Move On

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Honey Dreads2
Oceanside, CA · 6 months ago

Call 211

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Elitess
Somerville, MA · 8 months ago

Girl, when you really think about, It’s not the mother it’s you. Your lips look like you smoke hella weed. I don’t condone negative behavior that she did but you are grown and need to take accountability for yourself. If you up and left your stability to go to your mommas house to NOT or Avoid paying rent, sounds like the Apple don’t fall too far from the tree.

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magoo munchkin
Minneapolis, MN · 7 months ago

this IS TOXIC, get away to save yourself. your life- your choices

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Universe
San Marcos, CA · 2 months ago

you should have thought about visiting her before leaving everything behind. she wanted you with the whole package but you came alone

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Knockit Off
5 months ago

just start over move on

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Trocilyn Rufus
Stockton, CA · 8 months ago

Guuurl why didn't u get a job transfer?!

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Tricia Hanson
Coram, NY · 6 months ago

Post office job can transfer u didn’t have to give thst job up ..federal job u can work in any state just transfer

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Elizabeth Steward
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

"man they don't make roommates like you anymore,or yeah you would be a good friend"please let it go honey, you got something coming your way for sure, you right "😦🥺😸🐈💌

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Bobby Johnson
Pomona, CA · 5 months ago

yo bahd

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Karen Newell
Centereach, NY · 5 months ago

Sounds like my sister. Sorry love.

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ROBERT PIERCE
South Holland, IL · 5 months ago

❤️💪🏿💯

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Rosa Correa
Wilmington, DE · 5 months ago

Your family is not always your family, take this as a life lesson and do better than them, just be happy. Life is too short

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Anthony West Jr
Kingsland, GA · 6 months ago

Imagine if you just left and did even better than you had before...Imagine how she would feel then! Just Imagine!

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David Thompson
Chicago, IL · 6 months ago

what did you say to her first? You not telling the whole story

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Anna Jurado
San Jose, CA · 6 months ago

Why leave all that good stuff to live w/ mom's in the first place. And what normal mother would ask that of there child. We ALL WANT THE KIDS GONE, Living their live.

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terry harris
Chicago, IL · 6 months ago

I was about to cash app u until you said you found a boyfriend out there so I figure he's going to take care of you take care of yourself

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imwayup
Schenectady, NY · 6 months ago

Damn I’m sorry mama. You look young enough to rewrite your story. You got this. God wanted this for the big come up!!!!

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Lavina Jones
Alton, IL · 6 months ago

If yu had all that goin yu should of stayed where yu was yu kno how she is

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open your eyes 👀
Akron, OH · 6 months ago

🙏 prayers for you it happens sometimes in life but you can not give up 🙏

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Netta Gonney
Brooklyn, NY · 6 months ago

you never should let someone convince you to leave your life behind

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Rasheeda Raheem
6 months ago

Amen

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Shelby Sargent
Lake Charles, LA · 6 months ago

My mom is same way!!!!

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Kris Austin
Tampa, FL · 6 months ago

im sorry, baby girl. i wish someone was there at the moment before you made the decision to move to tell you to imagine if your family turns their back on you. you are a young, beautiful, talented woman. never ever forget your worth. its never too late baby ever. im 39 yrs old and i just had to realize that for myself . now im walking in Gods time. Gods steps.

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miss means
Brooklyn, NY · 6 months ago

I thought when you grew up the goal was to get out of your mama's house. Why go back if you already had everything going well for yourself

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Tammy Shipe
Aliquippa, PA · 6 months ago

life isn't always fair especially when family is in the mix. Family can be negative in your life. Get away and make long-distance phone calls. Sounds like your mom has issues with you. Could be she's jealous or you might remind her of something that happened in her past and she might not understand why she's having a hard time with you. Getaway and keep your relationship long distance. Get into therapy to understand what is going on. You can choose to stay strong and positive. Or stay and be miserable.

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Svetlana Hall
Macclenny, FL · 6 months ago

Your mom has a beautiful daughter (u) what's wrong with parents these days

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LetsBeReal
Emporia, VA · 6 months ago

That’s why I chose my family…blood isn’t always down for you to succeed.

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Svetlana Hall
Macclenny, FL · 6 months ago

Ohhhhhh my God mam you wherewithal off where you were

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Raymond Sneed
Corsicana, TX · 6 months ago

Believe me Ik a so called Moma like this

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Peggy Winters-Stevens
Murfreesboro, TN · 6 months ago

😳😡🥺

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wiley harris
St. Louis, MO · 6 months ago

Sad and hurtful

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B Slid
Waldorf, MD · 6 months ago

It’s mental health baby

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luglue
Hanover, PA · 6 months ago

But hang in there and stay positive. Keep your mother far distance, I would never see her in person ever again or even speak to her. You know that you're a very successful person and you are intelligent and beautiful. And she knows it too; she's jealous, and I'm sorry to say this, but you know the truth: it's not going to get better. You have to distance yourself and protect yourself from that abuse. You have to build up resilience towards her because she's going to come back trying to be nice and apologize to you, or she's going to need your help, and she might end up homeless. You know your mother's patterns, always think 10 steps ahead of her of what she might do. I believe it was her plan all along to have you move up there because she knows you're successful and you're strong, and she can count on you and your forgiver.

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mimi guinn
Columbia, PA · 6 months ago

Bby u dont need them or her she just wanted to use you anyway move on do what u gotta do

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JM commenter
6 months ago

Keep your own life solid they use you and kick you out.

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Sonia Taylor
Warren, MI · 6 months ago

So sad

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Lisa
6 months ago

Sounds like you’re better off without them. Do yr thing and let yr siblings deal with that. Sounds like a blessing in disguise not being welcomed at mom’s new place-

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A “Nene” M
Belvedere Tiburon, CA · 6 months ago

Sometimes you can’t even trust your own people they can be your worst enemy🥺

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Immortalcaine
Brooklyn, NY · 6 months ago

That’s why u don’t listen to anyone

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luglue
Hanover, PA · 6 months ago

But I believe she had you move up there for a backup plan because where she's moving to now is not going to work out, and if she needs to move back, you're already stuck there when you moved for her.

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Rowena McNeal
Vance, AL · 6 months ago

Oops learn how to say “Illinois” first bookie

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Cheryl Moore Huff
Peachtree Corners, GA · 6 months ago

How dirty can she be?😢🥺😡

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santin
San Antonio, TX · 6 months ago

I don't believe a word you're saying and even if it were true you're responsible for your own actions I say no Mom I'm a grown up I'm going to go ahead and stay here and just continue my life no parent is ever going to beg their child come stay with me let me support you don't believe it

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nicole gates
Sumter, SC · 7 months ago

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