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tammy smith
Brooksville, FL · 2 months ago

He has had 2 years to tell you about his barbaric family customs. He waited until 2 days before the wedding to tell you because he knows this is wrong. He does not have courage enough to say no to his family knowing this is offensive on every level. Now look at the future if you marry him. They will tell him how to live his life. He will not stand up to them when it comes to raising children. He will honor them over what you want and need. This is a family you do not want to marry into. This is a gift from above saying.....NO

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emily kress
Tacoma, WA · 2 months ago

I would say if you wanna go to the doctors to have me checked that's one thing but literally having your creepy dad and brothers watch there's more to that then seeing if I'm "pure" and how exactly is he proving he's a virgin besides just saying he is??

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Carole Cheitowskyj
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

Tell them you'll go to your gynecologist and get a letter.

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watcher
New York City, NY · a day ago

yeah, no way in hell

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Tracey Anderson
Lawton, OK · 2 days ago

I think it's kind of weird because your father-in-law will always have that twinkle in his eye when he looks at you lol?

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Horace Carr
McDonough, GA · 2 days ago

Hell no

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Marcia Johnson
Knoxville, TN · 2 months ago

Don't do it. Now how are you going to know for sure that he hasn't been with someone. I SAY NO DON'T DO IT 😡😡

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Joanne Scavio
Phoenix, AZ · a month ago

Don’t do this!!!! If he loves you, he won’t make you do this!!! This is sick. Really sick. Do you want to marry into this SICK family???

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Kathy Rodgers
Virginia Beach, VA · a month ago

yeah I would say go to a doctor and get a confirmation. that's just disgusting that his father's family has that as a tradition. no no no no. it should be a doctor checking you. and no one else.

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austin snyder
Chula Vista, CA · a month ago

What country do you live in?

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brandi hernandez
Phoenix, AZ · 3 days ago

no

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Jon Robison
Thomasville, NC · a month ago

Break Up With This Guy

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Thomas Reed (Naturalkilla)
Youngsville, NC · 2 months ago

stick to your guns.you shouldn't have expose yourself for a wedding. craziest thing I ever heard.

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Semon Whiten
Seattle, WA · 2 months ago

run before it's too late

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Chizel
Orlando, FL · a month ago

can't be real. why can't your dr. verify this for the family. or even a gyno chosen by his family. if real and you allow his father, you will feel awkward every time you see him and his family. not healthy. Run

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Rebecca Burrell
Worcester, MA · a month ago

girl run then what will be next you have to sleep with his dad first to make sure you can get pregnant move on with your life

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Mark Harris
Boston, MA · 2 months ago

that's crazy, why don't you let me do the check in, and I'll let them know what the deal is problem solved 😳

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BONES 97
Winston-Salem, NC · a month ago

what country he from

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Frank
Waterloo, NY · a month ago

I would call off the wedding and post a warning about him and his family. dont sound like he loves you if he willing to let his family see your goods. you not losing nothing special

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Ebliz0315 Ebliz
New York City, NY · 2 months ago

Hell nah😭😂

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Marcus
Fort Worth, TX · 2 months ago

creepy, creepy, creeper 😳😳😳

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mcrespojr
The Bronx, NY · a month ago

The doctor can do that. His father is not your doctor.

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Brian
Gastonia, NC · a month ago

I see a divorce in your future

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Desanta Duckett
Chattanooga, TN · 2 months ago

a doctor can tell too. no grown man that isn't a doctor has no right to do that. that's creepy and weird.

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jerk mean
Anaheim, CA · a month ago

sure she's at a friend's house "wink wonk"

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Cynthia Marie Perry
a month ago

at the hospital or no way done by a doctor. not their father and uncles hell no.

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Pat Jackson
Omaha, NE · 2 months ago

Not only is that wrong on so many levels but it would his mom to check you. If he really wanted to know he just go to the doctors with you. His father is gonna show you he knows sign language...🫣

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Floridaboy 22
Pompano Beach, FL · a month ago

Excellent!

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Carole Cheitowskyj
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

you better not!!

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Sonia Thomas
Elkhart, IN · a month ago

hell nawl

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Victor
Douglasville, GA · 2 months ago

no

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Sean Carter
Columbiana, OH · a month ago

I think if yuu try an find a middle ground maby no family show an sense he doesn't know what to look for he can have a Dr maby him you an your OBGYM have alil sit down together I'm sure that would make yuu feel way more comfortable an he is still also getting the reassurance that you are pure too an then your happy cause only your husband not his dad bros an uncle had to see you I think that sounds pretty good if it has to go that way at all. 😁

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Mona Mona
Des Moines, IA · 2 months ago

NO. HAVE A QUALIFIED MEDICAL PROFESSIONAL MAKE AN UNBIASED ASSESSMENT WITH YOUR FIANCE NEXT TO YOU. He could say anything he wanted or do anything. I'd feel like it's a trap to see if I'd let anyone touch me.

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Jay Sparks
2 months ago

you are either with it or not but doing a little research it was done by a respected elder woman hopefully not by the father himself and for all the males to be watching 🤔

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Michael Whitfield
New Orleans, LA · 2 months ago

how is he checking, with his piece or finger. What other way....is he a Dr.

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Grannytrippin
San Francisco, CA · 2 months ago

No no no

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Mr man Wells
Clinton Township, MI · 2 months ago

hell no!

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Donna Spearman
Milwaukee, WI · 2 months ago

they are evildoers

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Eddie Ortiz
Arlington, TX · 2 months ago

Hell NO!

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Chacon Yvonne
Fresno, CA · 2 months ago

no!!!!!

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Michael Poole
Little River, SC · 2 months ago

fake

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Michael carver
San Bernardino, CA · 2 months ago

I'm sorry sweetie you would even have to entertain the idea?, let alone hear about this "TRADITION?" right before your wedding?Sounds pretty barbaric to me! and most likely humiliating to you?

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Dorothea Herbert
Savannah, GA · 2 months ago

no you should not let his father touch you that's crazy. that sounds like a family you should not marry into.

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bigmomma
2 months ago

If you go through with proving yourself , That will only be the beginning

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Dwayne Carter
Augusta, GA · 2 months ago

Hell Nah

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PWolf
Trenton, NJ · 2 months ago

No

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Gregory Hall
Wethersfield, CT · 2 months ago

Absolutely outrageous. Y r u asking what should you do? Duh.

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Lau Harris
Pensacola, FL · 2 months ago

No hell NO,

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Tiffany Cobbs
Dothan, AL · 2 months ago

hello no