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Marcela Miranda
Santa Clara, CA · 5 days ago
HOT

Let’s be clear, it’s not a “tradition.” It’s a lame excuse for a bully to exercise their right to stupidity in the name of tradition.

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Kelsey Perez
Lynn, MA · 22 minutes ago

HeLL NO - that was evil behavior ….. she tried to first ruin the cake with the Barbie smushing it , and then frosting on her face 2x. At that point I would have taken the whole cake and put it on that ladies head.

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Jimmenia Eggleston
Kankakee, Illinois · 2 hours ago

Auntie would have caught a left and a right 🤛🏾🦶🏾

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Abigail Macias
San Antonio, TX · 3 days ago

It’s a tradition but she still shouldn’t have done that much it’s always just a dot like she was wrong for that

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JoAnne Blakeney
Virginia Beach, VA · a day ago

I understand some families do this as tradition and in their mind to show the birthday girl is loved and surrounded by friends and family wanting her to have fun. The first smear was, ok...you got me, happy birthday to me. The second smear was just mean...You can see it in the birthday girl's reaction. So glad my family never did this.

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Kevin13
Clearwater, FL · 4 days ago

Look one time. OK wasn't funny. But there was No need to do it a Second time, she got the idea. Girl was visibly shaken..Not funny at all.😲

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Carmen
Melbourne, AR · 5 days ago

oh yeah shes definitely a hater. 😆

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spunkey
Fort Lee, NJ · 5 days ago

But did you see the woman behind her? She looked like she was going to push her head into the cake. All of these three people behind her planned this. Disgusting

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ImJustAMeanOldLion
New Port Richey, FL · 5 days ago

Aunt is fat, old and ugly. What a horrible thing to do to her niece😲

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G Wernette
Hondo, TX · 5 days ago

why was her effigy bent over the cake? is that also tradition?

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VALENTINE
Salt Lake City, UT · 9 hours ago

See but she has probably spent all day on her makeup jsut to get it ruined. That's what girls hate when they get older. I don't even want this on my brithday jsut for that reason

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EllejayBee
Tacoma, WA · 8 hours ago

my neighbors were from Nicaragua and every one of their birthdays their mom would shove their face in the cake or maybe did something like this one of them anyways that was way back in the late 90s

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Eddie Money
5 days ago

Well that aunt won’t be invited to thanksgiving dinner 😂

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Dulce Amor
Patterson, CA · 5 days ago

I grew up with my family doing this and I disliked it from day one. As soon as I was old enough to defend myself, I spoke up against it and made sure everyone knew that I considered it disrespectful. Anyone who chose to cross that line with me after knowing how I felt about it, found out my version of “Eye for an Eye”… I will treat you as you treat me. Set your boundaries no matter what “traditions” you where raised with. Love = Respect 💕🙏🏼

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t hobbs
Paso Robles, CA · 5 days ago

I dont care if its tradition. I would have cried as well. That woman is gross and evil doing that.

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Christine Thiro
Staten Island, NY · 5 days ago

Wow fists would have been thrown

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Antonette Brennion
Queens, NY · 3 days ago

that was a little different

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Ray Chasez
Graham, WA · 4 days ago

id throw the whole cake on her

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Donna Owsiak Derivan
Brookfield, CT · 4 days ago

I would’ve punched her hr second time she did this to me!!! She assaulted me

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Karen Ranck
Seagoville, TX · 5 days ago

so disrespectful

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Stacy O'campo
Palm Springs, CA · 5 days ago

“Tradition” More like Generational Curses you have to Break! You remember the feeling of being a kid & having your face shoved into the cake or someone take a piece of cake just to shove it in your face! It’s a Humiliation Ritual & just because you went through it, does not make it okay to do it to the next person/generation! Grow up & enjoy the memories don’t make them wish they could forget every birthday they ever had. & yall wonder why kids can’t wait to grow up & have there own families that they won’t do this trauma too! I’m Spaniard & We Do Not Do This! This is more of a Deep South “Tradition”! 🙄😒

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NunyaCA
4 days ago

The first time was enough. That she went in for a second time, she should be thanking her niece for letting go of the knife.

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Celines Rivera
Clifton, NJ · 5 days ago

Not a tradition, they do that to me we fighting I don’t care who it is

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Britt
Urbana, OH · 3 days ago

im definitely white, and this was something my aunt Tammy did on every birthday... I definitely dont miss it. but she would shove cake in the birthday girls/boys face... every year. I always hated it and never wanted to celebrate my birthday when she was there because of this.

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Carlos Mercado
Camden, NJ · 5 days ago

This generation is so soft can enjoy the dumb funny moments

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ronald caraballo
Brooklyn, NY · 4 days ago

money shots

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put bta
Los Angeles, CA · 4 days ago

notice how she RAN once she got up.

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Ray Jordan
Mesa, AZ · 5 days ago

I’m Mexican American and this is NOT a tradition at all!!!!

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Roberta Johnson
5 days ago

I don’t think that any of that is necessary no matter what tradition it is! U can tell this young lady spent time getting ready for her birthday and then it gets ruined by someone who acts like they’re in jr high! And then to go back a second time?!? Shame on that old lady

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Jared A
5 days ago

this just seems like a lady that can't stand when the attention is not on her

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Fei Rez
Pinon Hills, CA · 5 days ago

No, that’s what bully looks like

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Luis Cayo
Long Beach, CA · 4 days ago

Autism??

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Rachel Lopez
Phoenix, AZ · 4 days ago

Looks like it was planned the other girl must be her daughter told her mom to do it ,the other sister is behind her with her hand open doing something weird like wanting to push her head in the cake. My oldest got me once on my birthday, everyone laugh even me , it was unexpected but that booger hot me..lol But the look on that families face is mean!!! 🌸

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Sarahi Pena
San Bernardino, CA · 5 days ago

traditional things have nothing to do with kindness yet being and acting kind plus considering someone who's being celebrated feelings have a ton to do with one another.

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Leonardo Pena tapia
Reading, PA · 5 days ago

only stupid people do this

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Bonnie McClelland
Nacogdoches, TX · 5 days ago

Why

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Jamie Campbell
Sioux Falls, SD · 3 days ago

remove the aunt from all family evens

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Annette Craig Jones
Gulfport, MS · 4 days ago

Iam white and HELL NO . I hate people doing this especially at weddings!! 😲😲

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CelestiteV
Cayucos, CA · 5 days ago

Bully!!

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Kelsey
5 days ago

If you do that with me, I just dont know, maybe I'll deal with it like she did, maybe nobody is eating cake because it was obliterated into your face. I'm a prickly pear and I dont deny it. I dont know anyone dumb enough to disrespect me like that

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Terri Mac
Charlottesville, VA · 4 days ago

purely ugly behavior...

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Ch Lee
Thornton, CO · 5 days ago

good job of her keeping her cool most people would have smacked her face after she did that to the poor girl 😲

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brat lives matter
4 days ago

so the aunt is def an AH but also can we talk about how cute that dress/top is?

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Mar Rosa
Victorville, CA · 4 days ago

I am of Mexican Heritage any Family member or guest doing that at my parties will be Horse Whipped 🐎 and then some . (No it's not a Mexican Tradition)

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Melissa B
4 days ago

im chicana...and I dont like that shit...its like a waste of money for someone hands to be all up in the cake...like cmon really

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Rebecca Hill
Citrus Heights, CA · 5 days ago

This is a stupid trend. Someone did that to me. A fist would be in their face.

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jayne simon
Crabtree, PA · 4 days ago

Get that blue shirted cow out of the building and back into the barnyard!!! If the cow is reading this, YES its you!!! 😆

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8L3JSR
Toledo, OH · 4 days ago

this is not a culturally traditional thing to do, for those saying it is. its a FAMILY tradition. those dont mean shit to anyone but the family, and rarely does it mean anything to them.

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luvmybabies0117
Rockford, IL · 5 days ago

Some families do it some don’t but this is NOT “tradition” tf?!?! Be so for real. Two of my Hispanic family members an my daughter share a bday. 2/3 got cake shoved in their face while on their 2nd for one and 3rd for the others bdays that shit is traumatic for them so you can guess which of the 3 didn’t get caked cuz I would have lost my shit if someone did that to my daughter on her 2nd bday.

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easy money
Santa Maria, CA · 4 days ago

trash

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Cindy DeSousa
Denair, CA · 17 hours ago

Looks like jealous woman’s daughter is next to her.

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Devonne Marrs
Fort Worth, TX · a day ago

Yeah but you see as she stood up the other lady got out of there quick.

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Stephanie Brishea Cox
Lavinia, TN · a day ago

tf?? grown ass woman doing this is weird. even weirder when they do it to kids in my opinion but 🤔

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therese bradley
Las Vegas, NV · a day ago

Baby's dnt cry. That nasty witch should not get ur heart.. That fat old ragedy witch is so jealous it's killing her.. Never be around that again.

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Julie Daugherty
Dayton, OH · 2 days ago

yeah she would have got the whole cake to her face

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