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trisoctahedron
7 hours ago

She beat him up b-4 leaving...😆

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K M
Saint Joseph, TN · 7 hours ago

😆

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India Pilon
Utica, OH · 2 days ago

Went thru this with my sister’s passing! Her husband had to send a copy of her death certificate to each entity her name was on

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Bobby King
Charlotte, NC · 2 days ago

and I would max out every last card because she is in a place where credit is not accepted

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DOC1
Goshen, NY · 9 hours ago

If his name is not on the credit card, no further payment is due.

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janet landini
Salem, NJ · 2 days ago

it happened to me when my husband passed. I had to get his death certificate to prove that he was deceased.

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Gypsyli
Ash Fork, AZ · a day ago

No joke...I feel for him. Had a similar situation with absolute morons at Wells Fargo.

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Ares
2 days ago

This crap happened to me!! 🤬🤬🤬 stupid ass bankers..

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Janet Dunn
Sherrard, IL · 2 days ago

what happened to your face.. No means No... 😳

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Cindy Sluys
Blaine, WA · 2 days ago

I ran into this after my mom passed. I eventually gave them the phone number and address with plot number to the cemetery. Most would just say thank you and that would be it. Some would call back saying something about not being funny giving them the address of a cemetery. I told them yeah it wasn’t funny to me either of her dying.

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Chris Garrett
Martinsburg, WV · 2 days ago

I had a bank (bb&t) put a hold on my name when I tried to open an account somewhere else because they said I owed them money for an overdrawn account. I told them thats impossible because I've never had an account there. after being transfered sever times and being on the phone for about 2 hrs they agreed that I never had an account there...... but they refused to remove the hold until they could "investigate" it took 4 months to get them to remove it before I coukd open a bank account anywhere else and I was told by a few attorneys that there was little i could do about it without thousands of dollars up front with no guarantee I'd win. our banking system needs to be wiped out and rebuilt. we've given them far too much power.

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Dolly Wright
Portland, OR · 6 hours ago

Death certificate will handle this! However, it takes weeks! 🙄🙄

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Anna Sheerazi
Brooks, CA · 10 hours ago

A lot of workers don’t know what deceased means

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Nancy Robles
Phoenix, AZ · a day ago

we have ignorant people in the world and I'm truly sorry for your loss

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Gayle Rogers
Maryville, TN · 2 hours ago

Just cut up her cards, dude!

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Rosalie52
Las Vegas, NV · 2 days ago

😍 When he says, "If you do get to talk to her, please find out the passcode for my computer!"

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Sherry Howard
Climax, MI · 2 days ago

that's how stupid and corrupt banks are join credit unions

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Leticia
DeFuniak Springs, FL · 16 hours ago

True story...I gave the credit card address oh how to find my deceased mom. when he realized what i was saying he was offended🤔😆

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Shawn Gagne
Davenport, IA · a day ago

Pull everything out of your bank and join a credit union.

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Rochelle Stankavich
Kent, OH · 9 hours ago

Agree. People don’t listen 😲

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Charles D
Ghent, NY · a day ago

Find a female family member or female friend to pose as your wife over the phone

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Margaret Loy-Caine
Asheboro, NC · 11 hours ago

Same thing happened when trying to have a phone shut off after my sister passed away ! Are people really that stupid 😲

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Baahalla homestead
Cookeville, TN · 2 days ago

same goes with cell phones. I had an account at tmobile. both phones paid for under just my name and I gave my gf at the time a phone. we broke up a year later and she took the phone so I called to cancel the line. they wouldnt let me because I didnt have the phone in my possession....so I asked so im stuck with tmobile for life bc my ex took my phone thats completely paid for? she said no I can cancel my account at anytime so thats what I did. pretty sure she was new and not qualified for customer service.

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Dolores Mason
Essex, MD · 10 hours ago

Very well said sir!

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jaydog97
Barbourville, KY · 11 hours ago

Man just wants that passcode

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Barbara Baxley
Myrtle Beach, SC · 14 hours ago

So sorry for your loss. 🙏

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Joshua Tree
Huntsville, AL · 18 hours ago

The same thing happened to me when my father died. The woman at the credit card company insisted on talking to my dead father. I repeatedly told them he was dead. Finally they got it and I handed up the phone.

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Matt beaudoin
Goffstown, NH · 2 days ago

this man should run that cc up as high as he can and when they call well she must have wanted some things to take with her.

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Deborah Price
Antioch, CA · 15 hours ago

This totally messed up. If the bank wanted proof they should have asked for a copy of the death certificate. But don’t treat someone like this who has just lost a loved one. I know people lie about things like this but since the bank person didn’t know for sure could have handled it with some compassion.

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Nalini karp
Gig Harbor, WA · 11 hours ago

You need an original copy of her death certificate. The bank will honor that. This is from my experience.

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ZAK SHARHAYE
Boston, MA · 4 hours ago

HELLO Mr: HORNSPy DID THEY CALL YOU BACK AND GET YOUR PASSWORD TOO YOUR COMPUTER 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣 MAN U ARE FUNNY

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Sharon Kozola
New Lenox, IL · 8 hours ago

Show her death certificate

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Mary Joiner
Vidalia, GA · 4 hours ago

my daughter passed away and I went to cut her lights out and pay her finally bill. They told me I couldn't turn her light out or pay her bill she has to do it . I told her thank you hope u get that bill paid .

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Carl Sadler,Sr
Williamstown, NJ · 2 days ago

I’m going through something like that now. My wife is in hospice care and the utility bills are in her name. She can barely talk due to a stroke and barely hold the phone. It’s the same with her credit cards and other bills!!! Guess what???!!! When she dies they can try to get their money from the grave!!!!

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Chas j
New York City, NY · 17 hours ago

DEI hire .

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Edward Mitchell
Staten Island, NY · 13 hours ago

I know a friend that happened too he just had his friend to say yeah this is me I want to cancel my card the woman at the bank said okay no problem man thank you

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Marilyn Levy
New Orleans, LA · 10 hours ago

Take the death certificate into the bank and handle it in person or send copies to all credit card companies with certified letter request.

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SD
9 hours ago

You always have to use the death certificate and your marriage certificate to prove who you are. If you are a trustee you can also show that paperwork with the death certificate. This isn’t new. What is odd is that the lady didn’t understand when he said she was dead but this isn’t shocking. Send them the death cert so they can properly help you. Everyone has to do that.

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Jane Van Noy
Anderson, IN · 5 hours ago

well, that's just funny as hell!

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Eileen DeLuca
Georgetown, TX · 15 hours ago

You have to send in copy of death certificate

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SD
9 hours ago

When someone dies and you are left to take care of things for them, order at least 10 copies of their death certificate. It will be needed everywhere. Some places will take copies but others want originals. Banks, CCDs, utilities, etc.

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Sonia Toltl
Hackettstown, NJ · 13 hours ago

This happened exactly when my mother passed. !!! No matter how many times i said deceased. and i did even send them death certificate. Unbelievable. I finally said we’ll contact the long island medium. maybe then you can talk to her 🤪🤪🤪🤪🤪💕

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Robbie Daly
Annandale, VA · a day ago

People are stupid. maybe she doesn't know was passed away means! deceased is another word they might not know. try "dead" "died" keep it simple for dumb people

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Linda Zacher
Kittery Point, ME · 7 hours ago

I went through this after my dad passed. Had one heck of a time trying to cancel his cell phone. They kept insisting on talking to him so I said OK I’ll give you a number but it’ll be long distance and I hung up.

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Vicki Price
Portales, NM · 2 days ago

it happened to me on a trust fund... with my s'n'l🤔

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Lynn Broussard
Rockville, MD · 9 hours ago

at least he has a sense of humor

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Veronica Craddock
College Park, GA · 12 hours ago

Bills collectors kept calling my mom for my brother whom had passed away. She got so tired of them calling.. she said go to the Damm cemetery 🪦 and you'll find him there !!! That was funny 🤣

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Bianca
2 days ago

That's why you ask for the mailing address to send the death certificate so the account can be canceled

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Brian Swift
Oxford, GA · 11 hours ago

Bank of America did not release my deceased wife’s bank account to me (even though I had a court document stating her assets were mine now, and all other paperwork). They had me come back to the branch, wait to see the branch manager, have him call the central office, they would give me instructions to do something else, and when it was done it would be resolved in “5 business days”…and then suddenly, NOTHING HAPPENED. This went on for 6 months! Actually, when I first went in there to report her death I found out they had suspended my bank account too! It took me a couple of days to get access to my own money!!! That could have gone very badly had I needed groceries or other needs for myself and my 8 year old son!

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Harry Thoman
Newport, PA · 2 days ago

just max out her cards and stick them with the bill.

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Reba Taylor-Stewart
Fort Mill, SC · 7 hours ago

Sir if she’s decreased you do not owe anything on those cards you’re not held responsible for anyone that is not living.

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👁️Got_This[54]!🫦
7 hours ago

I 100% believe him

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K M
Saint Joseph, TN · 7 hours ago

😆

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