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DNGA_ling_SWNGA
Missouri City, TX · 8 months ago

women don't like accountability

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Christian Morgan
Bethesda, MD · 9 months ago

They’re appalled that bro got his own standards and boundaries

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Mr Keep It A Buck
Merrillville, IN · 9 months ago

Why are these chicks playing stupid? Guys don’t want their girl at the club because it puts them in situations where they’re pursued by other guys. Mixed that with alcohol… ain’t nobody got time to be hearing, “one thing led to another!” 😂

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Jessica Reichert
Columbus, OH · 8 months ago

ion like going out either I feel it ion like feeling all them energies

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DezzyGamigTv
Franklin Township, NJ · 8 months ago

they think partying is everything and going out is life. some people genuinely like each other's company and can actually do activities with each other

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Nikkels
Suffolk, VA · 9 months ago

Clubs r for single people

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James Butts
Atlanta, GA · 8 months ago

he is trying to tell yall that it's about character and preference.

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Scott
Austin, TX · 8 months ago

It took me some time to realize this is the right way to go about it. You can't be demanding your partner doesn't do things. You can only say what kind of person you will be partners with.

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Tha truth!!
Fayetteville, NC · 8 months ago

Women still don't know. We don't want a girl that goes out to the club and party point blank facts!!!

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ThatOneBrokeDude
Milwaukee, WI · 8 months ago

He’s right…get with someone with the same interests or mentality. Don’t get in a relationship and try and change the things you don’t like about someone it’ll never work out, it might work out for awhile but the difference become a problems

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Civilized Savage
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago

I’m the same way, if you go more then once a year, you not for me, and that once gotta be because yo friends forced you to go 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Black Rose
Sunrise, FL · 8 months ago

He is keeping it real !! l admire him to the upmost!! All men should be this honest with women! 🌹🦜🤔

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Monica Chambers
8 months ago

He is my type of guy… so cool… family type of guy… let’s have fun. Let’s go on a cruise… let’s travel… let’s have friends visit… let’s play board games… let’s go to a museum… let’s enjoy reading and discussing a book…

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Daniel King K-os Parr
Idaho Springs, CO · 8 months ago

Est gee is a stand uo dude

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I'm outcheaaaa
8 months ago

I've been at peace for the past 3 years. I wouldn't trade it for nothing in the world.

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Marcus Frazier
Houston, TX · 8 months ago

women dont get it

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HereWeGo
8 months ago

I feel this ..'we just like each other'...nothing better than being home with you and yours💕

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Chris Thomas
8 months ago

wise man

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Breanne Mccathern
Pageland, SC · 8 months ago

I feel him tho , frfr . Don’t let me stop you i know what my standards & boundaries are , if I see it don’t align ima continue walking

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Sovereign
Jackson, MS · 9 months ago

smart man

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Kim Ellis
Paterson, NJ · 9 months ago

BECAUSE THEY'RE INTO THAT DEBAUCHERIOUS CRAP, THEY THINK EVERYONE ELSE IS INTO THAT.WHEN DID IT BECOME A THING FOR "WOMEN" TO GO TO THE STRIP CLUB?! IF MEN WENT HANGING IN CHIPPENDALE'S HE'LL BE CONSIDERED GAY🤔 THE COUNTRY PUSHES A GIANT BOYCOTT ON CIGARETTES,NOW HOOKAH, WHICH IS WORSE,IS FASHIONABLE 🤡

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Timothy Owen
Rockford, TN · 8 months ago

you go home and spend time with your partner. If that's not fun or something you wanna do then you ain't with the right one. When you find that one, that's all you thing about all day is getting home and spending time with your best friend.

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DRILL BABY DRILL
Lehigh Acres, FL · 9 months ago

GOOD MAN VERY WELL SPOKEN!!!!👊🏻

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Sean Brown
Bogalusa, LA · 9 months ago

I roll the same way, and I totally agree with him .

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Kim
Florissant, MO · 8 months ago

Immature thinking. Communicating is key

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Virgil Bass
Asheville, NC · 9 months ago

I respect them on that you ain't trying to stop you from doing what you doing he's just saying that he's not going to be with you why you doing what you doing he prefer to sit with his woman and not go to the club me myself personally I don't dig chicks that spend most of their time in the club anyway only thing you doing in the club is even looking for a man or getting drunk and when you get drunk you're probably looking for a Man too

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Luis Alcala
Newark, NJ · 9 months ago

He real insecure n immature

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Misti Battle
Columbus, OH · 9 months ago

I'm a woman and I'm sorry I have to say I agree with him 😊😁

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Maine DILUSI
Levittown, PA · 8 months ago

facts

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Kevin Kearney
Warren, MI · 9 months ago

Amen

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TiffanyMariee
Manchester, NH · 8 months ago

That’s exactly how my man and I are. We love and respect each other . We don’t do any social media platforms. We have no one in our business. We love ittt❤️❤️❤️

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mike g
Jacksonville, FL · 8 months ago

If you have a man or woman have somebody and still going to the club not good because club is for single people not people in a relationship

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Dwight S
Wyoming, MI · 8 months ago

I agree

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Korey Moore
Roanoke, VA · 8 months ago

find an introvert and shut up, he said he didn't know....what to do other than like each other, flimsy response!

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DurkEO SurkEO
Baton Rouge, LA · 8 months ago

FrFr

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Coca Cole
Birmingham, AL · 9 months ago

I haven't been in the club in over 40 years what the hell is so special about y'all going to the damn club I don't have to go to the club cuz the club is in my living room or whatever part of the house I wanted to be in with my man not everybody else's man not a room full of strange man I come dress myself up and put my clothes in his phone and let my ass hang out in my text kick out for my own man in the privacy all our own confinement with our own music and whatever we want to do what's so happy I don't understand about that that's why y'all single and will be dead single women

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Thomas Easton
West Columbia, SC · 9 months ago

bra that's boundaries and you bneed that..She want to club I don't care but I can't entertain you anymore

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1DEEP
Patterson, LA · 9 months ago

I Love Natural Beauty. I Just Wanna Put That Out There🤣🤣🤣

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Talaferrio Tucker
Gastonia, NC · 9 months ago

I feel em it make sense only chis in the club is loose chic searching even if you got a man you looking for something and you should go find it

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Her
St. Paul, MN · 9 months ago

Smart man

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Guest
Sumter, SC · 9 months ago

We need to meet I HATE clubs just👋😁❤️ cuddling

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Latisha Hogan
Baltimore, MD · 9 months ago

I understand once in a while,but if u going out every weekend u looking for something,time is worth more than anything if u don't want it with me I'm not gonna beg you 💯

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Ling ¥ Year
8 months ago

This is the realest shit ever. Let those belong to who they belong to. If they don't belong to you, don't allow them to belong. That's gonna go way over a whole lot of heads. Let people be who they are, so you don't don't fall for representative. There are way too many representatives out here.

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