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Footz
Bronx, NY · 2 days ago
HOT

This is why dating is dead! Because these women expect stuff from us men but we can’t expect sex? It’s why i don’t even speak to women anymore! For what? This? They expect us to provide for nothing!

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margaret cleveland
Houston, TX · 2 days ago

That cheap azz meal,ain't worth no punane

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Tony Williams
Maywood, IL · 2 days ago

extra thirsty dude! I'm a real man and I cant understand how we got so low to think $42 is equal to having sex,,, wut ever happened to getting to kno the female first? 🤔

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Lisa Harris
New York City, NY · 10 hours ago

he is so wrong you got to sleep with someone because they take you to dinner that's just messed up, get to no the person first, because everything that looks good ain't always good so be careful

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Ronetta Walker
Eastpointe, MI · 2 hours ago

no meal is worth my punnie cat in the first place you can't put a price on it now if I choose to be intimate that's one thing but if I don't it is what it is and if you wasn't going to pay for the meal let me know ahead of time before we eat before we get to ordering that we was going to split the bill so I can choose if I'm going to pay it or not don't ever sit there and let me order and eat then ask for separate bills then tell me in face did I give you some punnie cat last night how you going to even compare the two definitely when the bill is only 40 something I would of paid my part and left you where you at and never look back

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Marlo Jackson
New Castle, DE · a day ago

I've never seen a video like this with white people....SAD

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BigDo 2k
La Plata, MD · a day ago

see y'all missing it when she said why am I paying for my own food? like she was expecting something right? bottom line is ain't nothing new about this communication is all that's required and if you don't know now you know..

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Brennan Huff
Pittsburgh, PA · 10 hours ago

That’s crazy when I go out to eat I buy my dog something pay for that girls food you bum

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Louise Murray
Lithonia, GA · 17 hours ago

Goofy . You think he was gonna get some snatch for $21. You have lost your mind

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Chrystal Adams
Columbus, OH · 13 hours ago

i love my oldest brother he taught me 16 to bring my own money on a date and when the put out or get out method was pulled on me I didn't ask questions argue or nothing I called a cab and was gone.!!

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Tabatha
Pittsburg, CA · a day ago

lol. That's what she gets for entertaining this loser, again.

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French Fries Montana
Salt Lake City, UT · 9 hours ago

If this is guys expectations from a simple meal on a first date? yall game level is below a casket ...😭😂 women stop dating these dead ass bums. They had no proper upbringing . Im a regular guy and even i know when you ask a woman on a date you as the man pays the bill always unless she says shes going to pay and even then you tell her No.. These guys expecting sex because they upgraded from waffle house to I hop 😂

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Delores Nicks
East Saint Louis, IL · 12 hours ago

this is the saddest thing I've ever seen who ever said you suppose to give something intimate as sex for a plate of food

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Maritza Hernandez
Parlin, NJ · a day ago

So he expects ass for $21 dinner

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lina hearts
New York, NY · a day ago

For a $20 meal he will die single with the shingles

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Alex Rodriguez
DesMoines, WA · 2 days ago

drizzle drizzle, if she doesn't want to be in a relationship she doesn't get what comes with a relationship. a man protects and provides

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Str8fan
Ocean Springs, MS · 30 minutes ago

Girl run. Don’t put out , get out. He expects you to screw him and he’d pay for your breakfast

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Floyd
Los Angeles, CA · 30 minutes ago

today's relationship is on a whole new level especially this lgbt

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Lachanda Brown
Charlotte, NC · 31 minutes ago

Jesus..😳I can't 😳

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Valerie Sutton
Kansas City, MO · an hour ago

over 21 $ he wants someone to lay up nplease

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Demetrice Nelson
Newport News, VA · 2 hours ago

my homie fatcat funny 🤣😂

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Mandrill
Fort Worth, TX · 2 hours ago

dating boys

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Bushidoka
Worcester, MA · 33 minutes ago

this shit is crazy

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jim point
2 hours ago

Taking a girl to breakfast or dinner or lunch does not mean you're getting laid it means you're getting to know someone And if you invite somebody to go that usually means you're paying otherwise you say that before you go to the meal

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Lamarr Bennett
Milwaukee, WI · 3 hours ago

you enjoy the meal and don't make her feel obligated. Don't worry if she enjoyed the meal sex is coming believe me

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Shannon Whisman
Canton, MI · 3 hours ago

What makes women think that we wanna pay for everything all the time?And get nothing in return.I'll support you one hundred percent bro 💯

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Kareem Lindsey
Indianapolis, IN · a day ago

Solid😂😭

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Pamela Davis
Cuyahoga Heights, OH · 3 hours ago

He’s too fat for sex

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Jerry Cotton
Bay Springs, MS · 14 hours ago

that cat cost money

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Rick Hurt
Dallas, OR · 2 days ago

this guy is a POS

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T.M.M.
Norwalk, IA · 2 days ago

😂😂😂

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James B
Richmond, VA · a day ago

😂😂😂

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Kareem Finch
Indianapolis, IN · 10 hours ago

wow, are brothers doing this now? holding chicks hostage until they clap cheeks? these new dudes are wildn out smh 🤦

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it ain't right, why?
New York City, NY · 10 hours ago

the cost for STDs 21 dollars really 😳

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mud
Blue Ridge, GA · 11 hours ago

I will gladly pay for my own food!

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Aadam Edwards
Philadelphia, PA · 12 hours ago

crumb

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Tammi Diekmann
San Diego, CA · 3 days ago

she don't have to put up with men like him. run Lil lady run

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Renee
a day ago

this is why I don't date 😳 I don't have a problem paying for my own food however I be damned when a man decides when and what I do with my body 🤌🏽

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$$$
Blanchard, OK · 14 hours ago

We gotta deal with period mood swings and pregnancy problems along with all the attitudes but they can’t deal with our hormones when we wanna have sex

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Brian Quinn
Dover, FL · 17 hours ago

freeloaders

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Neisha Neisha
The Bronx, NY · 2 days ago

to think she gonna sleep with him because he brought her food is crazy work thats why never argue pay you're have and be out on him who ever ask should pay

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acruz2635
2 days ago

Let’s say the average income is 20 bucks an hour. Obviously some make more and some make less but for the sake of argument let’s say 20. That’s over 2 hrs of his life that had to be sacrificed. Depending on what he does, that’s 2 hrs of physical and mental stress that he gave in exchange for that meal. And that’s before tip. But she wants to act like it’s so absurd to expect a little lovin in return

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DeeeeFizzzzz
2 days ago

Never take no first time date out to eat. More often times, yall don't even click on the first date. Wasted $$ and a bad female attitude

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Chris Cook
Ventura, CA · 2 days ago

Cheep ass dude. Stay away from these types of people.!

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Sheldon Sherbs
Weirton, WV · a day ago

The real question, is why are you filming this?

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Emanuel
Philadelphia, PA · 2 days ago

Smh 🤦‍♂️

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Holy One
Rochester, NY · 18 hours ago

First of all, I wouldn’t have went on a date with a guy like these because before we went on a date, he would’ve knew it’s just a date I’m not entitled to sleep with you because you bought me a meal that I can pay for myself .

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brain@rot
Scottsdale, AZ · a day ago

Bro failed the test…

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Sagittarius
Honolulu, HI · 2 days ago

He should've just picked up a streetwalker gosh why pretend like you want a real date with that intention wasting a sistas time what a loser

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Black Queen
New York City, NY · 3 hours ago

He ain’t even that good looking to be acting that way either

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Cheche Chance
Boston, MA · 5 hours ago

Wow! Pimping an't easy😰

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Cdj Johnson
Lemoore, CA · 6 hours ago

exactly..up the box . or ill put it back in stock.

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Bret Berry
New York City, NY · 6 hours ago

hell yes brother

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Zanders Bobbie
Atlanta, GA · 6 hours ago

wow

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RJHamp
Southaven, MS · 6 hours ago

Good he did RIGHT 👍👍👍👍

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lisa lantz
Sayre, PA · 7 hours ago

She must be broke as hell she can't afford 21 bucks 😂

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Linwood
Danville, VA · 8 hours ago

😭😭😭he is so serious

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