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As a female, I agree with the fact that men use sex as a form of bonding. Blame society and his upbringing if he doesn't have many other ways to do so. Women who withhold physical intimacy are ALSO cheating. They are cheating their partners out of a way to bond with them. That may be the only way for now, or it may be the only way he has found to bond with you that you'll accept because of societies conditioning of him and you conditioned him with your lack of emotional intelligence that manifests as annoyance at him for not being who you think he should be instead of meeting him where he is and not forcing him to be who he doesn'twant to be to you for whatever reason.
I think the problem is men are way to dependent on sex
A man can remain loyal to his wife. A boy cannot.
that's stupid, if you cheat then you shouldn't be in the relationship that your in, there is no excuse for cheating, why are you going to be with someone just to go outside of the relationship, you don't get what someone to mess around behind their back, you get with it because you want to be with them, Shaq , I respect you but this makes no damn sense
Shaq! I'm ashamed of and for you giving that hellish answer. No one can "force" a real man to cheat. Not a real man who has a spine and some morals with and/or about himself. No. That's a cop out. A cop out response. And no, it is not based on the woman. Everyone is and/or should be held accountable for their own actions. Especially where it comes down to and when it comes to this subject and to cheaters. Whether males or females, but especially in regards to the men who have been called upon and who are looked at and to as the leaders of and in their homes. But also within our communities. So no, Shaq. I'm not with you on that.
Shaq tries to sound intelligent, he is not
Shaq is right, but there's also a selfish cheater. The one who gets everything he wants but still wants more
This video is in black and white and you can see the makeup on her face. Now back to the cheating part 〽️
See what all young people don’t know, when you’re young, men want all the sex. When you’re older, married, and settled down, women want more sex, and the man is preoccupied with work, video games, whatever. 🤨
Bull crap a person going to do what they want to do if you thinking longing you thinking wrong
problem is women became undesirable when they started having multiple sexual partners. then they wanted to pick and choose with who has more money or who can do what for them. but then they don't take care of their man and they end up pushing him away so he does what he does. I gave a woman the world once a month she would get nasty and then go out and do what she did. when I confronted her on it she told me I could go if I didn't like it. okay no problem I did everything to support the relationship but she still wanted to go out and have fun. I'm sorry but if you're fun is sex and you're not doing it with who you're committed to. you're not worth a relationship.
I think Shaq is right.
He's not wrong. Cheating IS wrong, but a woman who starves her husband is probably cheating her damn self. If you're married you are NOT supposed to withhold from each other, why? Because if you do, you subject the other person to desires that are unfulfilled and will eventually lead to sin.
...all a woman needs is for a man to be suave and complementary & she slides them panties off, completely forgot her man, but with men...it takes a lot longer to heal and the new women are all suspect 🥺
I like how you put that and said that, and it is so real and so true, Shaquille. I'm glad you're keeping it right and I thank you for that. I'm putting it out there for us. Women and men that are cheaters, much love bro
there's no pin pointing to why anyone cheats, a wife's poor attitude, people settling for someone they really didn't want to be with in the first place, people who lack self confidence and are desperate for validation. this applies to men and women . you have to know exactly what you want from your relationship with that individual. women get with men for money and not love
So true bro thank you for putting it out there
Definitely depends on the woman
that sounds STUPID.
Shaq is 💯!
Don’t matter what you think
amen Shaq amen
I believe that. Some women make it hard to love them.
met a woman after I was happily single but lonely for needing just one woman. She lost her job at the start of the relationship & I moved in to consolidate her's and my bills. She became difficult to deal with and started holding back on intimacy and became verbally rude. Nevermind I was paying all the bills. So.......I went back to seeing a woman who enjoyed my company with no strings attached. I stopped sleeping with my "girlfriend" and slept in the other room and eventually relocated to my man cave in the basement. Six months later she breaks up with me ( while I'm still paying all the bills) and tells me I'm free to date someone else as she's going to do the same. A month later ( after a small argument) I tell her I'm leaving. Currently moving in with my new lady and transitioning from one house to another. the moral of this long paragraph is that she didn't respect me, she didn't appreciate me, and I got the hell on. Her loss
😂😭 that's egotistical 🤔nobody runs 💩except God, get it right,everyone who cheats only cares about themselves
Say it.....Never too tired to be the BOSS.😂😂😂. Being a woman it's inherited privilege.😂😂😂
I don't think you ever cheated nobody!
...and that's why he's still single!
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facts
facts
there's no such thing as being forced to cheat you can get out of the relationship you're in if it's not satisfying you and get into one that is you're choosing to cheat instead of finding a better relationship for yourself not forced
no one is forced to cheat. have respect for self if not for the other and just break it off. this is dumb.
shaq is kinda right, but at the same time it's very immature that you could talk business but can't talk it out with your wife 🤷🏼♀️
well don't matter what you think either Shaquille O'Neal woman's got the right to speak even if it don't matter the opinion of others
definitely not the person I'd look to for marriage advice.
Yall run the world you just don’t know it my oh my
Same For a Woman Shaq... : (
He speaking facts
women will always use the excuse of how much they do while putting sex on the back burner because they're emotions are tied to everything. ask any average man, they usually just want 2 or 3 things. A meal, sex and peace. But oh no, men are required an entire book of things they have to do and god forbid some men don't do 2 out of those 100 things. sex is important for us. if we had a bad day, sex is welcomed no matter how bad the day was. if she has the bad day, the man's physical needs take a back burner. Just like now, a woman's emotions are going to cause her to attack me lol. They just can't separate emotions from sex. not to be confused with making love
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amen
happy wife if u make her happy u will hv happy life
yea I've always said the same, men rule the world but women rule the men
He is the sweetest most humble man on Earth
men need to put more effort into making love which includes mental arousal and other things to make her feel good and want to engage. however, women need to put more effort into casual sex more often for their man. we need it. scientifically and literally, we need it. both sides should be making bigger efforts. But women need to learn how to separate what's going on in their world and engage the man for his physical need. a good man, if staying fed and giving him sex often, will do anything for you. deprive him of casual sex, is playing with primal urges. laugh if you want. 99% of guys will agree with me and the other 1% are wrong lol
i agree you see too many times that if he’s happy at home he’s not gonna risk it over some 🐱 but if he feels neglected he almost always goes looking for the attention he craves elsewhere 🤷🏻♀️
it's a different kind of pain when you think the other person is being as loyal as you are... Last relationship literally almost killed me. 15 years, and she just couldn't be honest about her actions. that's all I asked, but if someone won't admit to their wrong doings, chances are that they plan on continuing what they're doing... I walked away from that relationship. it was one of the hardest things I've ever done... I'm still paranoid to this day, and that ended more than 6 years ago. it took my trust in people away, and I'm still learning how to trust again. my wife now is an amazing person and she has been through similar situations. we are sensitive to each other's feelings and respect each other's feelings and it's going 5 years strong. my daughter LOVES her and my ex has actually not tried to ruin this one. I'm blessed to say the least. Please don't cheat on your partner. if you've not been cheated on, you don't understand the damage it really does to someone.
True🇺🇸💯😏