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Teirra Chenault
Coral Springs, FL · a day ago

What do you as a woman lack that you think a man is supposed to provide all of your spiritual, financial, emotional, intimate, physical needs. Now I don’t believe in 50-50 unless it’s absolutely necessary but how do women want the full package but only come bringing 10%. That’s crazy. I could never expect my man to give 100 and I barely have 10% to give. I know he got me but I’m always gonna have something to bring to the table. Y’all women weird I wonder why y’all keep ended up with all these DL men. 😂😂😂

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Bkdemo
Nassau, NY · a day ago

That's stupid he asked what do you bring to the table not to provide! when women don't have a answer that's when they get mad and defiant!

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Andre Robinson
Houston, TX · a day ago

Cool cool cool. That's why men are walking away. Because you are not providing ANYTHING in the relationship. Just TAKE TAKE TAKE.

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Sir Duke
Bellmore, NY · an hour ago

The only female I would provide a 100% for is my children, because obviously they can't bring much to the table while growing up a grown woman who's constantly saying I don't need a man and yet can't do without a man and expect that man to provide a 100%. Why would I put out a hundred percent of everything I have for somebody who can't even provide five percen

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S Thomas
Philadelphia, PA · 2 hours ago

Facts n they wonder y they husbands die so fast becuz of the 1 percent they put out n he working n working n u home doin nothing with ur hand out Never was the type pay my own way becuz I won’t disappoint myself

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William Smash
Ashburn, VA · 2 hours ago

he wasn't looking for you to provide he was looking for you to be an equal which women have been looking for all their lives to be considered as equal now once you have the opportunity to do equal things

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Lynn Stevens
Jonesboro, GA · a day ago

I don't ask that question, because my table is full. Now if she ask me that, I tell her again my table is full I don't need your table.

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SEA3
21 hours ago

Black women always want a baller. He has to make 500K or higher. Let this stat sink in. 6% of Black women earned over $100,000 annually. You want more than what you bring to the table.

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CaTauvis Campbell
Fayetteville, NC · 9 hours ago

if we (Men) ask women what do you bring to the table, it's not because we lack anything. it's because we want an asset, not a liability.

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Paul Feasal
Glendale, AZ · a day ago

I guess this woman is full of herself. All men and women have things they lack or have weaknesses. It's your job as a team to build on those weaknesses. Some women complement men very well in the areas that they need help on. Sone men help women with things that they lack. If a man is giving a woman 100 percent and she is giving nothing back she ain't worth his time and is jist a vampire ducking the energy out of him. Both partners should be given 100 percent in the relationship to help one another. Marriage is a partnership.

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Raheem Yahala
Brentwood, PA · 5 hours ago

girl bye men don't lack nothing period y'all the ones begging men for money df 💯 n ur single AF 💯

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Shonte
Lancaster, CA · 4 hours ago

write it down then what

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James
Bessemer City, NC · 6 hours ago

ussy every where and its free but if you going sit at sane table with me best be bringing something beside ussy

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Eddie Williams
Kill Devil Hills, NC · 7 hours ago

I guarantee you she's single.

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Randy Howard
Apison, TN · a day ago

should be 50 50

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Marcia Saahir
Newark, NJ · 8 hours ago

great come back

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silkdoe
Dayton, OH · a day ago

The real answer was nothing stop playin😂😂😂

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Delarry Garner
Titusville, FL · a day ago

Everything that I provide for you.

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Bodycleansing
Tallahassee, FL · a day ago

You need to dig deeper on her responce "Queen".

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Thomas
Palatka, FL · a day ago

provide some help !! when you get married you become one in the flesh

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vance parker
New York City, NY · a day ago

She needs him more then he needs her.

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Thomas
Palatka, FL · a day ago

help

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Cleophus Bailey
Hampton, VA · a day ago

😂😂😂 when you don't know what you know, you will never understand what you should know🥺

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Cj shepard
Andersonville, GA · a day ago

A woman says that to me tells me to run not walk away 🤙🏾💯

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Clifford Riddick
Peachtree Corners, GA · a day ago

How do you answer a question with a question…. No, answer the question 1st, wright that down!!!

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John Adams
Stockton, CA · a day ago

He's asking what do you bring to the TABLE because He's already PROVIDING the TABLE!!!

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Gerald Sciales
Stockton, CA · a day ago

I know I know

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Christopher Price
Chicago, IL · a day ago

well said sister 💯🖐️👆✡️🔱B.O.S

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Frederick Ware Jr.
Cleveland, OH · a day ago

if men were complete we wouldn't be dating period. just figure out what you can offer before applying for the job.b😁

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foshezy1
Virginia Beach, VA · a day ago

Bye!

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Jerry Longino
Kansas City, MO · 15 hours ago

I'm not going to say anything I'll just walk away because if we are just getting to know each other we don't have needs you should be able to do everything you're self if someone is talking about need on the first date you need to call a cab and have a good night love you 😍

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Gerren Gray
Las Vegas, NV · 13 hours ago

its not about lacking anything its a partnership you have to be able to offer something that he either wants or needs

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Jesus Christ
New York, NY · 21 hours ago

Why should any Man provide for a grown ass, adult Woman? Let her provide for herself!

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Jerry Longino
Kansas City, MO · 15 hours ago

and the only thing that is broken down is her life is that all dateing is about what can I get now that why we have something wrong with the way we look at life no one wants to just be happy no more unless you paying for it so we can keep up with the Johnson it's sad😭😭 have a good night

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Willie Whattley
Vero Beach, FL · a day ago

you know how you said baby frfr think about what you saying frfr you played but when you ready a black man will tell ?

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Etta Evans
Chicago, IL · a day ago

Hello

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R K
Antioch, CA · 19 hours ago

the hell with that statement for as I'm concerned I don't already paid child support I ain't paying no adult support from no grown ass woman only thing they could bring to a table is some ass and a wink from the eye that's about it now if they want to help a brother grow together we could do whatever now write that s*** down 😁

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