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CaTauvis Campbell
Fayetteville, NC · 4 months ago
HOT

if we (Men) ask women what do you bring to the table, it's not because we lack anything. it's because we want an asset, not a liability.

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Kilby Baker
Cave Spring, VA · 4 months ago

sounds like she don't bring anything but a smart ass mouth

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aiwordup2day@gmail
Seaford, DE · 4 months ago

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Sonia Depina
Fall River, MA · 4 months ago

Yikes all the butthurt men in these comments. All those negative comments show how men with NOTHING get mad lmaooo Before you come for me, unless you know me personally don't say a word. I not only have any and everything I would expect in a man but I accumulated all of it alone. Not because I can't get a man, it's because I don't want a man child. GTFU!

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kimberly Jones
2 months ago

I’ll bring myself to the table

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Andrew Jones
New Orleans, LA · 4 months ago

🤔

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big T*
Gary, IN · 4 months ago

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Jordan Kelly
Bolingbrook, IL · 2 months ago

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Paul Feasal
Glendale, AZ · 4 months ago

I guess this woman is full of herself. All men and women have things they lack or have weaknesses. It's your job as a team to build on those weaknesses. Some women complement men very well in the areas that they need help on. Sone men help women with things that they lack. If a man is giving a woman 100 percent and she is giving nothing back she ain't worth his time and is jist a vampire ducking the energy out of him. Both partners should be given 100 percent in the relationship to help one another. Marriage is a partnership.

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Duke Norris
Stockbridge, GA · 4 months ago

Someone needs to read the Bible please. The Bible will tell you about a woman's responsibility. 🥺

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Kuntry dubb
Charlotte, NC · 4 months ago

If a man doesn't want to get married or have kids why does he need a woman?

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Marcia Saahir
Newark, NJ · 4 months ago

great come back

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G. SOLO
Riviera Beach, FL · 4 months ago

you can't answer a question with a question!😑😐🤨

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Andre Robinson
Houston, TX · 4 months ago

Cool cool cool. That's why men are walking away. Because you are not providing ANYTHING in the relationship. Just TAKE TAKE TAKE.

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Nick Higginbottom
Tunica Resorts, MS · 4 months ago

that's why men perfer to date outside their Race or over seas..

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unknown1108
Douglasville, GA · 4 months ago

I wouldn't date a woman who wouldn't do nothing for me but wants me to do everything for her a woman that has a mind frame like that needs to be single wooh

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reginald parker
Miami, FL · 4 months ago

the table is s metaphor

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Norman Winkfield
Frankfort, IL · 4 months ago

I bet she thought that come back remark, was tough! weird ass

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Raheem Yahala
Brentwood, PA · 4 months ago

girl bye men don't lack nothing period y'all the ones begging men for money df 💯 n ur single AF 💯

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Keith Huckleby
Orland Park, IL · 4 months ago

loyalty

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Thomas
Hattiesburg, MS · 4 months ago

that's why you single now

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Eric Reason
Hamilton, AL · 4 months ago

So when a guy asks that, it’s an interview question. We know what we bring, we are just trying to weed out the drama, jezebel’s, and gold diggers.

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Delton Glover
Baton Rouge, LA · 2 months ago

He should have left the table. And if you think that’s cool, somebody would leave you too.

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Bone
Los Angeles, CA · 2 months ago

A lot of things lil girl

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N.P.C.
Groveland, FL · 4 months ago

the real reason that women hate this question from Men is because they cannot give you a truthful answer without making themselves look horrible. majority of women come to the table with a used body an inflated sense of ego another Man's children and crippling debt. with the nerve to have their hand out expecting you to feel privileged to fix all of their financial/emotional problems.

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Big Slim
Kansas City, MO · 4 months ago

what u thought that was whitty? nope... deflection tactic

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mc ink
New York City, NY · 4 months ago

😂 is this your answer to avoid the man question? 😂 if a men ask is because he is ready to commit a serious relationship.

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Jesus Christ
New York, NY · 4 months ago

Why should any Man provide for a grown ass, adult Woman? Let her provide for herself!

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Edward Varnock
Winston Salem, NC · 3 months ago

oh yeah she's looking for whatever she can get out of a man with as little contribution as possible on her part

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Christopher Wilson
Irving, TX · 3 months ago

it's amazing how when a woman is asked that question it just goes over some of they heads.

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Ted Banks
Franklin, NC · 4 months ago

that means she brings nothing keep it stepping fellas

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Etta Evans
Chicago, IL · 4 months ago

Hello

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Vic Tayback
Sacramento, CA · 4 months ago

She's single.

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Antonio Johnson
Nashville, TN · 3 months ago

eventually she got nothing to bring because she answered a question with a question.

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Marquise Dawkins
Jackson, TN · 3 months ago

That wasn't you question. See that right there is why your single.

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Wesley Hodge
Martinsville, VA · 4 months ago

you lost also?Real Talk.

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goatman
Statesboro, GA · 4 months ago

Waiting for her to answer his question.🤔

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Victor Dawkins
Watervliet, NY · 4 months ago

Lost generation/ as dumb as they come

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Kennedy Jones
Richmond, TX · 4 months ago

Break nothing down.Yes, what do women bring to the table?Do you know what we have to bring to the table?That's a fair freaking question

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Harold Coleman
Sugar Land, TX · 4 months ago

She looking for somebody to provide for you.

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John Day
Desert Hot Springs, CA · 4 months ago

That was a dumb response.

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Steven Dixon
Burlington, NC · 4 months ago

That's stupid as hell

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Eddie Drummond
Greenville, SC · 4 months ago

She sound like a fool. She hasn't scored any points, so what does she want to write down?

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Dallas
DeSoto, TX · 4 months ago

She don't have anything other than her body

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silkdoe
Dayton, OH · 4 months ago

The real answer was nothing stop playin😂😂😂

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vance parker
New York City, NY · 4 months ago

She needs him more then he needs her.

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Eddie Williams
Kill Devil Hills, NC · 4 months ago

I guarantee you she's single.

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Michael Butler
Dearborn, MI · 3 months ago

he said what do she bring to the table so he not lacking anything he's the table

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Eazy-T 91
Tampa, FL · a day ago

It's so many slow & delusional females it's crazy... This y alot of us single... Some females can't even think straight without a man...

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Renee Walker
Charlotte, NC · 2 days ago

that's right witch she should😍

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Dwight Justice
Clayton, NC · 3 days ago

I darn show don't need a free lander trying to drain me of all my treasure

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Malcolm Dupas
Lake Providence, LA · 3 days ago

and she really think that woman ate with that remark delusional 😂

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TuSupaFly
Chicago, IL · 3 days ago

yes

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Milton Guss
New Orleans, LA · 5 days ago

😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😂😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭

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beautiful-spirit-05
Tampa, FL · 6 days ago

facts

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Kevin H.
Camden, NJ · 7 days ago

most bring nothing but what u can pay for to leave and keep the rest of ur $$

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Kendric
8 days ago

What is she lacking that makes her want a man with money that she can control and spend, but doesnt have anything herself to contribute to the relationship but presence, entitlement,ass and attitude 🤔

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Schaun “trickdaddy” Wilmer
Charleston, WV · 8 days ago

he's not lacking because he asked that question men are not slaves to women

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Doo Da Twin
Fort Worth, TX · 8 days ago

bringing something to the table has nothing to do 1ith support...what he's trying to establish is whether or not u want me to take care of u, or do you enough to take care of yourself without my help...come on young lady don't be a simp.

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Bobbie Goins
Celina, OH · 9 days ago

why does he your work to get your face done ?

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Sontos Haynes
O'Fallon, MO · 11 days ago

Don't understand. We are the natural provider offer more than 🍑🍎👄 that wasn't a comeback children advising children.

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vonantio Fullmore
Pontiac, MI · 11 days ago

I am a man at all types of ways and everything when she asked that question she was being a butthole about the situation because she got butt hurt about it it's called self reflection so that's why the man asked that question we ask that question to certain women because certain women wants to actually sit there use us for our money that's a problem if you don't have nothing to bring to the table then don't try to outdo someone else you know that was a legitimate question but she was actually being a really actual controverted or try to put conflict with the situation that was an educated question cuz most women out here don't have anything to bring to the table and that actually obviously she don't she's lacking not the man we're actually asked because obviously the only thing that we lack is the woman that actually want us for us that's what we have liking to answer that question

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The Son Of Zion
Brooklyn, NY · 11 days ago

Absolutely nothing easy question💯👑💪🏿

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Sharon Foyil
Newcastle, OK · 11 days ago

So he doesn't wanna be with an empty shell, a L O S E R

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Jermi yaj
New York, NY · 12 days ago

What I’m lacking, you’re not bringing

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Leontist Williams
Houston, TX · 15 days ago

Stability

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BiggDaddy00Nigro
20 days ago

A man doesn't lack anything but is always looking to add to his portfolio repertoire with profitable assets and partnership

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Lemuel Myrick jr
Brooklyn, NY · 23 days ago

it's so funny anytime somebody asks a valid question instead of answering the question the flexion is all you have and then you think it's so profound

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