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I will make it simple. Men are expected to provide, protect, pay for everything while getting nothing in return. Women these days have forgotten how to be women. Most women have become selfish, aggressive, and hateful. If I work 80 hours a week I don't spend enough time with you. If I work 40 hours a week I don't make enough money. If I help around the house I don't do it right, if I don't help around the house I'm worthless. If I parent my children I'm too tough and am an a-hole. If I don't parent my children I'm a deadbeat. Men can't win. And if you divorce me you get everything I worked for. It's a lose -lose for men. Just easier to stay single and keep my peace, my sanity, and my house.
because of the lies..disrespect, and it's just not worth the heartbreaks
Because statistically speaking according to today's society it is proven that by having a female partner you have an � chance to get cheated on, and that's still not counting the phycological or physical abuse that they can give me or my/our child when I'm not home, Im sorry but they don't make them like they used to no more, we're not going to bust our asses all our lives and invest on something that's going to bring us pain and suffering, Peace is all we want.
It’s simple women have no relationship skills they don’t value or respect men they only value what they receive from men
it's because I'm too tired of being used , abused , manipulated, and being LIED to
It’s better not to answer cuz we know it would get used against us, in my eyes it’s to keep integrity and to protect ourselves
we don't need the drama.
you can't trust anything that bleeds for a week and doesn't die.😅😂🤣
because there is never satisfying women, she said her self😂😂she hear the reasons why all the time but still don't understand and wants more comments 😂😂 because what ever we say will be never be enough!
most of you women are the problem and you don't even know why, we shouldn't have to mansplain it for you
No emotions No expectations = No disappointment
Sanity is worth more than a relationship nowadays loyalty used to exist now it's as respected as running a red light and the saddest part would be how we use the word love just to be exclusive but don't understand its meaning why not say to one you want to be with please don't entertain other guy's don't laugh at there dumb jokes or flit with them or even be friends like that it's not healthy than if u marry you have to give a percentage when that person didn't help you build anything just put you down and dismantle your thoughts and dreams. Let's just be friends have a nice time and that's it u go home I go home...
Because she will leave and take everything and then prevent us from seeing our kids. Guys are not going to risk losing everything for someone who doesn't really bring anything to the relationship except a used kitty with a high number count. I'm not saying it's all women and all men, but it is the majority.
today's women are more likely to be a liability than a asset in a relationship
cuz social media has taught girls/women that men are optional and that we r to provide everything for them while they give nothing in return. and when we decide we want you to help you cheat and make it our fault. why should we do so when we r the only ones putting in effort. we r done with the 1 sided bs
women stopped appreciating their men they stopped showing them and appreciation and they stopped supporting their men that's a big issue for men because that means a lot to a man
Really , do you really want to know , your not going to like the answer, but I'll give you a hint, it's all over social media, just look how women portrai themselves, and then ask yourself would you want to be with them.
i don't want to be a stepdad and continue someone else's saved game
because some women want control rather than a relationship, automatically wanting the mand to do whatever she wants and not realizing that when you want someone, it's supposed to be for the companionship and not for personal gain. being a woman is not all about you and just what you want a man wanthe can work with.
what we need as men, are what some people may call the traditional woman, and these days those are extremely few and far between. everyone wants peace and tranquility but it's just not in this generations standards.
Because men want a partner also. We don't want to be slaves
men need to be give a little gratitude instead of being brow beat for every little thing. men don't keep score. when women bring up every little thing any time thete isxa disagreement it gets old quick
Well not much I can add to it. All these comments have spoken. Bottom line 95% of the women nowadays are takers not givers.
to demanding, delusional, crazy expectations, kids, no compassion, empathy, refusing to be held accountable, vengeful narcissistic traits, will keep your kids from you and lie to them about it, scheme filled, full of crazy accusations, always has a complaint about everything, likes nothing I enjoy.......could go on for literal hours but you get the point. Not woman hating but I'd rather be single and enjoy my space, freedom, and my peace of mind. peace.
Men hear the horror stories from the older generation everyday at work. Guys that work 35yrs and when they want to retire the ex they left 20yrs ago because she cheated, still gets half their pension. That and all the child support they had to pay that never really went to the kids. Until they change the laws and stop this nonsense men are not likely to settle down. The new trend is to have a long term girlfriend and stay in a separate home so they can't claim common law marriage, never have kids, and live your life.
we're not only not benefitting from the arrangement, we're actually being hurt by the system. We see over and over women in their late 20s into their 30s cheat. divorce rates are high enough and hurtful enough that it never is an equal split and many men lose their kids. it's a complex problem. X Gen parents lost their kids to social media and celebrity influencers. No accountability. outrageous behavior, zero sense of loyalty.
Short Answer: Because of social media.
don't want to catch kids.
It's because men have been screwed over by women tooo many times !!!
Women are not worth the BS, the fake nails lip enlargement etcetc are expensive, and their entitled attitudes, when they divorce they get half of everyrhing
It is to much work to gain the interest of a woman... and when you have their attention they will not commit to a relationship. Then there are the carreer women who want to concentrate on there job and don't have the time for a relationship. Why continue searching when they don't have the time to be together.
If I was a man I wouldn’t have any contact with females. It’s a one way street with a brick wall all the dead end. No thanks!!
getting yelled at daily, working 12 hours to come home to no food, and being told everyone ate 4 or 5 hours ago. getting told I'm worthless and a deadbeat no-show father. all of this while I'm picking up extra shifts and doing gig work to make sure they have a comfortable safe place to sleep and food to eat.
I think it started when we became handbags that were traded in for the next better handbag when the sense of compassion is left when we are only valued for what we could provide I on the other hand and blessed I have found a good woman with a compassionate heart and a good soul and lets me play the role of a man
most American females are evil and controlling, you think you own your man and tell them what to do and you might give them some.but you seam to don't understand you are not the only female that has one. and you think you can cut them off. but they plenty of other females will give it up easy until they get married. best to stay single and you get all you want.
because there's no such thing as a partnership anymore it's due for me. do for me do for me and then when we ask for something to be done it's like pulling teeth or I do something every time you ask. and in reality, that's not how it works. women are selfish and self-centered these days
Because why be with somebody that's not gonna be loyal to them or help them out fifty-fifty morning meeting this and that instead of working together
it's not that I don't want a partner for life cause I do, actually I was married for almost 6yrs but I divorced her because while I was out breaking my back to provide for our family she was sleeping around behind my back,I was just a paycheck to her pretty much,women nowadays have changed they aren't looking for a boyfriend or something serious they just want to hookup that's it& that's not what I'm looking for I want a girlfriend that hopefully leads to something serious, permanent & those type of woman heck I have no clue where they are hopefully ill come across one some day
they are bossy, selfish, non negotiable, nonsensical, not willing to listen very argumentative they usually want to change you and take everything you have earned and tell you who to hang out with and when...it's just easier to go to work come home to a quiet house and cook and clean up after myself and enjoy the peace and space...it's just easier to get a piece and send it home and have peace and do as I please!! because they want to be in charge and not be a wife...
You give everything you got to a woman and ninety percent of the time she's going to be unfaithful We already deal with enough mental struggles as it is
Wow she knows exactly what’s going on..This is a reality check ladies!! The answer is so simple!!
Because women don’t respect us they don’t appreciate us we can never make them happy why should we keep going the extra mile
I give a rib to woman made her my soulmate and you listen to a walking talking serpent 🤔🤔🤔
men marry women hoping they won't change. women marry men hoping they will change.
Too much drama today with women. Too many high standards to meet. No woman, no partner equals peaceful living
most men want to keep what they work for, not just the crappy half.🤯😉😁
Lowk I wanna girl bro😂 but it ain’t that simple, I ain’t boutta experiment and humiliate myself, I wanna girl that I can cuddle with, watch tv, cook with, clean with, and raise a family with, she just has yet to pop up, and you don’t have to actively look to find the one you’re destined for, if you have one.
I'm not done trying to find a woman who will fall in love with me it's because every woman i want to be with rejects me and every woman i want to be with doesn't share my interest and hobbies that's why I haven't found a woman who will want to be with me
I had a girlfriend I've dated her for three years then she told me cheating on me and I ask her why. she told me because I was good for her like she went through my phone to see if I was cheating she told me she never had a good relationship and I was like ok cool then she broke up with me. now she feel stupid for cheating and leaving me plus her moma told me one time she is not happy and she want me back I laughed and walked away I do see her sometimes while I'm walking with my new girlfriend
Because 9 out of 10 times no matter how much we do, it is never enough. The more you do, the more is expected. And um, up me personally, i'm just tired
most women are very devious and use men for what they can get from them and when they want something that that man is unable to give them they find someone else to try to use the new man for what he's willing to give them .
because most of the wemon these days are only gonna hurt us that's the last thing we want so we prefer to stay of that light out of view a real man nowadays caint chare his emotions to a women because we are called weak or insecure about surten subjects I'm 16 years old and have experienced more then enough life especially in relationships kwim
too many women looking for a free ride and the laws are geared toward allowing the woman to take all what the man works for. Risk vs Reward isn't worth it. Alot of men grew up seeing woman do this to men they knew and they are saying he'll no not me.
When I finally found someone, we were together. Almost 10 years and had a beautiful child together and she decided that she wanted to be with someone else and cheated on me and abandoned us. So I've been raising our daughter on my own for the past 11 years. Unfortunately I've been single ever since I really have no desire to be crushed. Anymore.
Cuz y’all women do to much we can do the one thing and y’all get pissed and y’all blame everything on us and y’all make it like we are never good enough and y’all use us, cheat on us in conclusion problem is WEMEN
Proverbs 21:19
33% is a third. Not a little more, a third. I mean, it's actually less than a third by. 333333.
women have characteristics like a man. That's not what we are looking for. A person can have to much freedom, as a individual when no else matters accept the person themselves. You can't have a healthy relationship with no one if you think the whole world involves around you.We as men we need women who are proud to be a woman .not someone who competing with us. We need a loving and caring mate.
well let's start by you already ask and men saying they are done....yet you still need more men to tell you they are done...it the "more" mentality I guess
were done
Because many women think that we should give them the ocean and that we should be satisfied with a grain of sand. Life has its challenges for everyone, men and women, but the challenges for me is to uphold the societal expectations like being a provider, not be sensitive, be quiet, suck it up, dont live for yourself but for the woman...etc. we dont receive reward for the things we do and have to put up with. Not even a freaking pat on the back. We dont do what we for a reward, but a show of appreciation goes a long damn way. We dont bit h and moan because in the end, nobody gives a care. So it doesnt matter. We're torn down and questioned as being men.
I feel like men and women kind of live and different realities, and in a way I guess yeah that's obviously true, but in a way I feel I can only feel the way a woman could under some kind of drug... to thoroughly taken the information there shooting my way
The fighting, no matter how much we put in its never enough. Men today are underappreciated we are expected to take all the financial burden Men dont rest.
Entitlement!!!!!!