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AJ Gregory Murphy
Muncie, IN · a year ago
HOT

I don't give a fuck how much is owed on child support if your child wants to see the other parent, and that parent hasn't physically or sexually abused your child, then you should not interfere and if you do you shouldn't be the parent and control of the decision making

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Callie Duval
Las Vegas, NV · a year ago
HOT

girl let that baby go with his daddy even if he ain't paid a thing he is still his daddy and our boys need their fathers period. as long as he is not in any harm let that boy hanfmg with his daddy this means the world to him

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Black Woman
Los Angeles, CA · a year ago

It’s not her responsibility to be financially responsible, she has a point he needs to pay child support. However., until arrangements are made the child needs his father.

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Jennifer Davis
Los Angeles, CA · a year ago

He’s not Helping,But all everyone hear is a v black woman yelling in the background.

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Rhondell Avery
Philadelphia, PA · a year ago

Ladies stop using these babies as a pawn if the father wants to be in their children’s life allow it. Children need their fathers as much as they need their mothers. This is so unhealthy for a child to have to witness. This child wants to go with his father but crying about his mother going to jail. A child should not have to choose what parent they spend time with. This makes me so angry.

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KATCH807
Detroit, MI · a year ago

so he just come and snatch him up and has not seen/had him in a year, I understand the convo about the CS but he not only jeopardizing his freedom but he's also traumatizing his son, I'll say just like I told my brothers take them to court that way no matter what if you have issues the mom gotta deal with authorities

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Rob Mills
Columbus, OH · a year ago

feel this in my soul bro!!!

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Procoloco26
New York City, NY · a year ago

Well the new law is if he’s paying child support for the year then he gets to fill the child on his taxes not you. 😂🤣🤣😂🤣🤣🤣😅😂poor kids have to see this ignorance. TF

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Bill Ham
Sea Isle City, NJ · a year ago

Poor baby

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Debbie Lewis
Asheboro, NC · a year ago

Just love that child

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Joe Rene
San Antonio, TX · a year ago

Don’t blame her in the end some of these guys will work under the table so they don’t have to pay anything are won’t have an address to go to court. If u really care about your child u gonna give the mother something for the child if not goAnd buy stuff for the child

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Katt
Benson, AZ · a year ago

I didn't get child support for years but, anytime my ex wanted my son I let him have him. Don't punish your son.

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LVtPCE
a year ago

Child support shouldn’t exist, whichever parent wants to be a fucking parent and genuinely loves and cares about that child should have custody and that’s that. You people think that child sees $ symbols when thinking of mom or dad ? Hell the fuck no they just want to be with their parents and loved by them unconditionally it’s about time you women step the fuck up and wake the fuck up, you aren’t 15 anymore get a job like every other normal human being has to. Stop dragging the life out of these good men and fathers. They want nothing to do with you but love their child why take that from your child ? Too many selfish women raised by selfish women. Stand up for all the real good fathers out there fuck these disgraces of human beings don’t even hold the right to call themselves a woman !

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Pamela Hill
Windsor Mill, MD · a year ago

Girly, you are going to regret this?

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sheila norman
Indianapolis, IN · a year ago

and that's why men don't want to deal with these women

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Sonia Cruz
Monterey Park, CA · a year ago

HOW U GONNA TAKE A KID U DONT EVEN FEED BRO

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Rodale Douglas
Brooklyn, NY · a year ago

he said "come on dad " he said f what mom say we out

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Jah'Mek Manifest
Danville, VA · 10 months ago

Don’t worry, HE Will Not Be LITTLE FOREVER… 😡 💔

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bosslady1
San Antonio, TX · a year ago

lol she said a whole year n now he wants to step up lol boy bye

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lexiloo to you
Cleveland, OH · 10 months ago

Girl!! you hurting your son. Now he immediately thinks the police gonna take his dad away. She a trash bag 🤡

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Jason Zajaczkowski
Hazlet, NJ · a year ago

We have to start monitoring how many and which ones can have offspring

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Dwayne Bolin
Grand Saline, TX · a year ago

Stay STRONG This little boy needs his Daddy. Let NOTHING Come between you and that little Fella.❤️

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PrettyinPink
Portland, OR · a year ago

My ex has never paid child support. He’s been on support for almost years and doesn’t pay a cent. But he also come to my house 3 days a week to be with her while I work so I don’t say shit to him. Why would I

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guest6978
Desert Hot Springs, CA · a year ago

Yes a boy needs his father. But a father is a provider and a caregiver. This man was a sperm donor who showed up to cause emotional distress in mother and child.

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Alexis
Hampstead, NC · 8 months ago

🗣️PACK YO BIKE UP …YO DADDY HERE !!!

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Young
Houston, TX · 10 months ago

I'm guessing people only heard her say pay child support and missed the part where she said he ain't been to see his son in almost a year. I mean technically if he's only going to be a father that pops up once a year He should be paying child support. He got to make up for being an absentee father some kind of way shape form or fashion 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Nikki Clouser
Springfield, OR · 10 months ago

He hasn't seen him in a year but wants to be present now???

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Melanin Kamille
Minneapolis, MN · 10 months ago

So dads can choose not to take care of their kids , pop in and pop out the kids lives and then all the blame is on the mama

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Rick
Indianapolis, IN · 10 months ago

why y'all do that to that boy

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Shay
Philadelphia, PA · 10 months ago

Child l wish my kids father came and got his kids l would be like see you in a week or two time for mommy to have some alone time

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Diabotica
Maysville, NC · 10 months ago

Yeah she is definitely the problem, i commend the father for staying calm and remaining level headed. His son will remember that and the courts will see it, i bet that woman dogs his daddy in front of him ALL the time.

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Jessy Taylor
Lenoir City, TN · a year ago

that poor baby

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Tina Ashton
Essex, MD · a year ago

the fact that baby is scared his daddy is gonna go to jail proves he seen this before... it's just sad ... females need to do better especially for their kids

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Jason Clay
Anderson, IN · 8 months ago

Mother ruin their kids especially the boys

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Walter Kevin
Colton, CA · a year ago

this is why I want child support to be done away with.evil bitches destroying children's lifes

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Austin’s outdoor Adventures and activities
Lakewood, CA · a year ago

She keeps saying her child her child but wants his child support? Make it make sense

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Justin nnels
Dyersburg, TN · a year ago

this is truly terrible. single dad two boys full custody.. trust me never give up

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Rochelle Fagan
Alton, IL · a year ago

🤦🏾‍♀️ Ratchet azz hell 🤬 hope he takes her to court and gets half custody 💯

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Pookie Threats
Providence, RI · a year ago

that boy crying over his dad broke me not even gonna lie

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Ryan Andrews
Tinley Park, IL · a year ago

Ahaaaa she told his ass to pay child support Ahaha 🤣 🙄

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Jason Tate
Hohenwald, TN · a year ago

and that girl cares nothing of that child's feelings

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Natelie James
Alba, TX · a year ago

good dad hope he gets his baby from this greedy hoe!

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William
Centerville, TN · a year ago

happens all the time child support is a business

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Devon
Bradenton, FL · a year ago

people wonder y men snap

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Bubba Smilz
Racine, WI · a year ago

that poor baby...

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Joanna Simmons
Ladson, SC · a year ago

NOT THE TIME OR PLACE, SAD

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Nicole Slagle Proctor
Jacksonville, FL · a year ago

just so sad. This is about that little boy being happy. Yelling these things in front of that little boy is so wrong. It makes me wonder how many nasty things she has said about the father.

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anthony berrios
Pontiac, MI · a year ago

Man this type of evil shit breaks my heart boys need their father quit being selfish and keeping him away from him for personal reasons he didn’t ask to be here

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Sandra Anderson
New York City, NY · 10 months ago

If he owes child support, he should pay, but that doesn't mean he shouldn't be allowed to see/hangout with his child. It's obvious the child wants to be with his Dad, and how does this little one know abt his dad going to jail?? She's probably been talking abt this in front of the child.

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Alshaquan Diggs
Somers Point, NJ · 10 months ago

thatz fucked up... fuck what he owe.... hiz son wanna go wit him...& if she call tha cops, lil man gon fuck around hate hiz mom for that....

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jok3r 67
Copperas Cove, TX · 3 months ago

Boi he bout started crying after his son did that's a good man

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Suzanne Johnson
St Louis, MO · 5 months ago

aw poor kid come on you all stop doing this to your kids this is sad 😅

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Gerald Boursiquot
Selden, NY · 5 months ago

People aren’t aware how many mothers keep fathers from being DADS

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Andrew Lopez
Sacramento, CA · 5 months ago

😂

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Miss tell the truth
Philadelphia, PA · 5 months ago

Let that baby see his daddy

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Brian Cook
Indianapolis, IN · 5 months ago

damn, the little boy said, " But you gone to jail tho" " you gon go to jail forever. "... That's sad, i think he feels he's the cause of it all

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Shi Simpson
Reading, PA · 5 months ago

She weak asf for that

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MiMi Beautiful
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

I’m not even having that type of conversation or energy around my kid that’s grownup talk she out of her mind

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Vickie Housley
Baytown, TX · 5 months ago

he wants to go with his dad to visit but not leave his mama. poor kid saying I dont want her to go to jail. sad.

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sweetNsassy
Rossville, GA · 5 months ago

That's messed up. My childs father NEVER paid. when it was all over, he owed 32K. Know what I didnt do? Talk bad about him in front of our son or prevent him from seeing his son. in the end, my son made the decision not to care if he saw him.my son is 26, been married for 3 years. his father still hasn't met his daughter in law. hasn't seen our daughter in law. not seen his so son

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Wes
Henderson, NC · 5 months ago

This is what women do. Destroy their children because they're mad at their ex.

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Kal Al
5 months ago

System don’t give a shit about the kids. Stay tall dads.

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Timothy Iott
Virginia Beach, VA · 5 months ago

devil woman

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Nee21
Tracy City, TN · 5 months ago

These women are low down.

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KING CANNON
Media, PA · 5 months ago

smh 💔

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DarkWanderer
5 months ago

happened to me. first time I went to jail was cause I owed 500 bucks. not even a month behind yet. after that day went to court 48 times and owe less then 4k in 19 years. missed 9 years of her life cause her mom wouldn't let me see her and I hated the court system and wouldn't fight fire with fire...... no point now. is my only kid 🥺

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Antwan Williams
Waynesboro, VA · 5 months ago

These lazy women need to get a job straight up free loaders 😡

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Brett Owings
Olathe, KS · 5 months ago

children are a blessing from God, not your possession never was. Treat them as such

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Shona W
Peachtree Corners, GA · 6 months ago

my ex never paid child support, never missed a day with his child. Stop ruining the kids lives because you want to live comfortably.

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Gee Mo
Ellenwood, GA · 6 months ago

That mom is acting stupid if it’s about money unless he has given her no reason to trust him

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