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Kenneth
Rockford, IL · a month ago

70 years old and that is not old school you're talking about clothes yes but you're talking food and children no you buy for everybody you buy for all the kids that's what a decent man does doesn't matter if they're yours or not you don't punish the other two kids just because they're not your blood that is not old school that is selfish I bought for my kids and I bought for my wife's other kids even at Christmas I brought my kids a big present I still brought something for the other children so don't come out here saying you're old school because you're not old school do not hold the children responsible

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Liz Smith
Hempstead, NY · a month ago

She should be arguing with the other baby daddy's

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M Amraphel
North Charleston, SC · 2 months ago

Bebe Kids 😆

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Georgina Coffman
Middle River, MD · 2 months ago

he's responsible for his child and I think he's doing okay job. you're in a car you're right there go get the other two food

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Love
Macon, GA · a month ago

A real man would have given the other kids food too.Your'e not Old School.

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richard white
New York, NY · a month ago

I agree with Dude.

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Tina Case
Lansing, MI · 2 months ago

u buy for one u buy for all the kids cause you know they're there. you in the wrong bring one. when my kids had their friends over they didn't get left out the same if my kids went to their house that's how we rolled and a lot of dad's roll that way that don't leave the others out even if they not his

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Gregory Windom
Corinth, MS · 2 months ago

Personally, I would have brought all the kids some food.

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Timothy
Houston, TX · a month ago

he's right, they aren't his responsibility, but this is a "moral" issue, kids shouldn't be held accountable.. for what the parents does, and.. it's know way in hell he didn't know this to start with, and yet you still chose her, and when you not providing your kid with food.. who is, it certainly isn't just the mom, I guarantee you

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Crystal Fitzgerald
West Homestead, PA · a month ago

I approve his message

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Pamela Hill
Baltimore, MD · 2 months ago

What make you think he is suppose to pay for somebody kids. Don’t be dense 🤮🤮

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William Gilkey
Tulsa, OK · a month ago

you really don't know the backstory she might have been trying to work him having him take care of them kids and then using the money for something else

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Yellow Rose
Chicago, IL · a month ago

he's right

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Richard Green
Hyattsville, MD · a month ago

for the same of humanity he should feed them all and if he feels that way then he should take his child out, where there's no beef about what he does for his child. because doing it this way hurts the other children feeling and causing them to fight among themselves. they have feelings too

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Annie Smiley ☺️
Indianapolis, IN · a month ago

Good for you, young man! It's too bad that YOU have to be the one who teaches her how a man should take care of his child, when they're separated!

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Kyler Fisher
Lancaster, OH · a month ago

if i was a dad and separated im only paying/getting shit for my own if my baby mama have 4 kids 1 is mine im not buying nothing for the other 3 i was raised to take care of my own and my blood if they aren’t mine they will not see my money or anything now if im w someone i have a kid and they have kids i will step up and be a dad for them but if we separated im buying for my blood not a randoms kids

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Tracey Renee
Houston, TX · a month ago

That's not old school. Not only did my Dad feed us 3, bbq'd and our neighborhood friends ate, took them for ice cream etc. so no that's not old school.

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Shatona Williams
Minneapolis, MN · a month ago

the food he bought her she needs to give to her other kids

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wanda brown
Dunbar, WV · a month ago

never ever just feed 1 child that's just crazy I don't care who's kids they are you feed all children

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Jerry Parks
Lawndale, NC · a month ago

agreed unless u are married then we As man mist pick up the hard work of taken care of those in are household because if we married A lady wht Kid's from another. we're taken on the res responsibility of everything she has that whatever we must provide and do the right thing. Yes, sucks when they don't let you correct or be the dad that you wanna be most dadd true men. God feared man look at all kids as theirs if they're in his house.Nor did we show favoritism in any kind of way.If I buy from one I buy for all if I can't afford Nike for all the kids.Then they all get Dollar General.I don't that way.They know.I love them all equally as God loves us

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Michael Crandall
Phoenix, AZ · a month ago

I hear what he's saying that's just like paying child support you don't pay child support for all those kids just one

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Sean Dendinger
Portsmouth, OH · 7 days ago

Unfortunately, he just put a target on his kids back

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Dorothy Grays
Gainesville, FL · a month ago

👍🏼

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Kitchen Queen 45
Wiggins, MS · a month ago

blah blah blah idgaf what nobody says he doesn't have to buy for everyone especially if he only has that 1 child foh their father or sorry ass mother should've bought her other kid's food especially when he only has 1 child with her hell it's no different than him buying clothes or shoes for his son ,I'm pretty sure he doesn't take care of her other kid's financially when it comes to material items so this shouldn't be any different,if I had 4 children but only 1 by him I would not expect him to provide for my other children that's my job and the other kid's father and I would've brought my other children who aren't his their food and that's just my own opinion

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Cynthia Hutchins
Irvington, NJ · a month ago

Its not his responsibility to take care another man children .But she can share the food with the other children

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Jerome Williams
Chicago, IL · a month ago

When children are involved, adjust your money to get ALL of them some food, if you are able too. 😠😠😠

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S. Ingram
a month ago

he is right. I would have done the same thing

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Candyann Horton
Riverdale, GA · a month ago

damn right wtf is going on

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rachel stenton
Chadwick, MO · a month ago

finally a man with some class it's totally pathetic to do that in front of the kids disrespectful n causing harm to them emotionally damaging! absolutely wrong way to make his point at they're exsoence

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MzScorpio
Monroe, MI · a month ago

He is absolutely right he does not have to take care of her other kids but me personally if I was a dude and I had a child with someone and she had other kids. I would definitely take them some food. I wouldn’t want them being hungry, but I sure damn will be looking up the other childrens daddy‘s and having a chat with them.

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EarlyRiser313
Detroit, MI · a month ago

yep 💯💯💯💯🤔🤨🧐

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Lisa Carter
New Orleans, LA · 5 days ago

That's not right lil brother u buy food for all the kids u find u get your blessings believe me

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Denice Skidmore
Middletown, OH · 19 days ago

I see it's point but it's not that mother kids' fault

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Shawnee Floyd
Wilmington, DE · 3 days ago

exactly it's her responsibility to feed them kids

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Rosemarie Will
Wilkes-Barre, PA · 19 days ago

Old School ... lol He would Had Fed them...

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Ti Brooks
West Allis, WI · 22 days ago

He not wrong. I'm sick of women acting like this. That's why I talk about their trifling self now.

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Dingos
Milton, MA · a month ago

Stop laying down with dudes and you won’t have these issues

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William Russell
Dadeville, AL · 20 days ago

I mean I would feed them but he doesn't have to

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Debbie Minnick
a month ago

I think he should of bought for all the kids. I was with a guy who had 2 daughters and I had 1 daughter but when we bought food we bought it for all 3 not just his 2

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Chequera Smith
Charleston, SC · a month ago

who is this lil young dude on the bottom talking 👎

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Sandra Rosas
a month ago

Why would you even waste your time with this man

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Nilsa Holland
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

HE AIN'T WRONG

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Gerry LittLe
New York City, NY · a month ago

that's ignorant what he just did they're just kids shouldn't treat them any different I know those aren't your kids but they only children you should treat them the same as you do your kid you have to do the right thing feed them too that's not old school you don't know what old school is show kindness

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Jon Hart
West Chester, PA · a month ago

old school? old school means I would feed anybody even if there my worst enemy. your talking about kids bro. come on. grow up and put big boy pants on. that was childish to say be careful who you have kids by. yup talking about yourself bro.

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Jennii Jenn
a month ago

exactly those not your kids so you don't need to do a damn thing for them period she worried about it guess she better go buy those other kids some food

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George Diggs
Hampton, VA · a month ago

It’s not his responsibility

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Lady Diana
Perry Hall, MD · a month ago

HE IS RIGHT BUT IF HE COULD PROVIDE FOR THE OTHER CHILDREN THEN DO SO.

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Amy Harrison
Yadkinville, NC · a day ago

my husband would bring everyone food.

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Angela
St. Louis, MO · a month ago

kids dont ask to be here thou my first son not my husbands been in his life since 1 and half my son respect him calls him dad its a blessing takes care all 5 in total no diffrence his family makes no diffrence either

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Darlene Lucia Cavazos
Hemet, CA · a month ago

Then u get ur son n take him with u 4 lunch or u buy 4 all the children its food may b I’m wrong but I couldn’t do that, children r beautiful, precious, pure sugar Angels it not their fault ❤️

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