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Ami Ndreka
Lapeer, MI · 3 months ago

You have the right to cut him loose at 17 I don't care what the cops say. Pack your stuff and move and don't let him know where you're going. Let the landlord know you moved out and let them deal with him. The police are telling you you can't kick him out because he is already living with you but if leave him they can't say anything I promise.

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F Camp
Salida, CO · 3 months ago

I can fix the problem but you will not like how I do it.

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Nikko Sanders
Pompano Beach, FL · a month ago

raise the kid better from the start?

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Joy Smith
Neptune City, NJ · 3 months ago

go to court and give his dad full custody of him.

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Betty French Singletary
Fayetteville, NC · 3 months ago

Restraining order

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Dierdre Precise
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

Send him to dad. You’re not looking in the right places. When things are fine you don’t follow through. I would give them the 100 million things that if your serious.

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Raaw Jethwani MD
3 months ago

Her pain is beyond real 💔

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Adrienne Jenkins
Long Beach, CA · 20 hours ago

You need some brothers or uncles. It wouldn’t be mine. Get your homeboys.

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Darlene Nobles
Alpharetta, GA · 3 months ago

Dear mom... find you another home..and if possible change jobs..hell if possible move out of state!!! get away from him or he's gonna do something real bad to you!!!

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Julia
Lincoln, NE · 3 months ago

I've been there honey....I know what you mean. and no one helped

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Samantha Lewis
Greensboro, NC · 3 months ago

Go to court and get the process started and have him removed on his 18th birthday. like literally I have the sheriff come and move him out. take him to court

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Dierdre Precise
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

You could have gotten him help earlier. He’s 17 put him out !

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JetSet36/37
Warren, MI · a month ago

When he hurts her then what

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She2much
Toledo, OH · 3 months ago

change your locks when he leaves

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Sofia
Yuma, AZ · 2 months ago

You know you could Trust pass him and And he couldn't get arrested and not come back to your house

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Robert
Provo, UT · 3 months ago

tell them he has gun or a knife and has threatened you with it

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Luis Casas sr
Albuquerque, NM · 2 months ago

that's a you problem not a people's problem

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Sharon Coyne Schwoegler
Madison, WI · 2 months ago

So so sorry

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Erica Harding
Durham, NC · 11 days ago

baby go downtown to the majestic office,tell them he's a danger to you and himself,sign the paperwork to commit him and the sheriff will pick his ass up IMMEDIATELY !!!!

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Carrie Taylor
Chicago, IL · 11 days ago

Give up your parental right give him to the state stop screaming take control of your life

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Jacqueline Johnson-Boswell
Mattoon, IL · 20 days ago

Is he Autistic?

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Dawana Palmer
Pleasantville, NJ · 3 months ago

Well, he’s 17 years old and I don’t know what else to tell your girl I’m praying for you because I have seven sons by two men, and they were never that crazy to go crazy like that because your father stayed in their lives

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David Spires
Port Arthur, TX · a month ago

If you have to move and don’t let him know where you are at. Call the police again!!!. He may snap I hate to say it but he has to go. Periods

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Evelyn Eastwood
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 2 months ago

In Florida we can file what's called unlawful detainer. Something like an eviction

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praise howard
Beaumont, TX · 2 months ago

go downtown and get him removed with some paperwork

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just me
Ontario, CA · 3 months ago

you raised him !

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A.E. Mitchell
Gary, IN · 3 months ago

move out when he leave

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Glenda Torres
Salt Lake City, Utah · 3 months ago

💕🌸🙏👍😲🥰🥰your in the wrong state in Mississippi he would have been gone they don't play and he wouldn't treat me that why I would go off so hard and bad he would leave. he would get dropped off at his dad house with his clothes. pray those are demons in him to annoy you and he would have never got his phone back sorry but I would lay him out he would wake up asking what happen

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gunslinger gunslinger/ marco
2 months ago

Ma’am please 🙏 remember that child he once was it’s hard now but best believe that god has this under control now that don’t mean u don’t do what’s right and safe for you at 17 u can have him put in a program I didn’t even get that far I thought I knew life I got strung out heroin 15 gangs homies ya then state prison 22 years running getting nowhere everything changed in life out here in 22 years believe prison though not a place of anything good I did learn respect towards other people I sadly don’t have mom dad three siblings gone rip but I have found my true meaning in life gods good I pray 🙏 u see things for what they really are young man

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Kinney Bass
3 months ago

Call me

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carolyn buchanan
Pearland, TX · 3 months ago

just because that's where he resides. so they can't make him leave if you would do like I said in my other comment move out get you another place take his ass to court and having to stay up completely away. when you move to your new place see he hasn't lived there with you at the new place so the cops cannot make you let him come in.

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Angelica Diaz
The Bronx, NY · 3 months ago

he Grown move don't let him know u moving start fresh I'm sorry u going thru this

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Teresa Toungett
Pekin, IL · 4 days ago

🥺

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carolyn buchanan
Pearland, TX · 3 months ago

you can move out and get another place and you're not welcome him into your new place so he can't stay there. I don't know honey if you have the money to do it but that's what needs to be done. and you need to take his ass to court and have him to stay away from you

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James Huonker
Bellaire, OH · 3 months ago

Spoiled little basterd

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Jacke jay Hargrove
Chesapeake, VA · 3 months ago

u need to let him go to f he's doing that he's old enough to destroy the house. he's old enough to live by himself

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Maranda Renee
Tampa, FL · 3 months ago

girl that belt or switch will fix that. karate or boxing classes gotcha back

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Slugs_N_nugs
Albuquerque, NM · 3 months ago

adoption or boot camp/boarding school instructors will pick his ass up

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Glenda Torres
Salt Lake City, Utah · 3 months ago

💕🌸🙏👍🤔😲🥰what he sow he will reap he is sowing and when he have kids one will act just like him to him then he will see and realize how he did you . demons are in him controlling him they should have arrested for throwing the tv and choking you if you did it they would lock you up and him if he did it to them

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David Spires
Port Arthur, TX · a month ago

When he leave lock him out and have your locks changed. You said he choked you it can and will get worse GET HIM OUT Sweetie

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Rosalind Daughety
Bowie, MD · 3 months ago

Move out and leave him there

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Carolyn Ward
3 months ago

Go to court and let them put him out.

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kathi harmon
Decatur, TX · 3 months ago

can you not get a restraining order?

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Alyssa Trevino
Sacramento, CA · 3 months ago

leave his ass there and move out see wtf he's gonna do alone

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Alyssa Trevino
Sacramento, CA · 3 months ago

leave him move out and he will regret disrespecting u

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