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FAFO!
Bradenton, FL · 2 months ago

Ummm…. Keep your son home safe. Not wrong 🙏🏼

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jackie
2 months ago

Keep him with you at all times!!! Do not let him near that abuse! Bring it to court, He will hurt that child. He should only have visitation with you don’t allow him to be alone with them

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matt_shadow
Greeneville, TN · 2 months ago

the reason why she has not gone and got 50/50 is because of her boyfriend Jordan she lets him dictate her life and run her life how he wants it that is why she has not gone and got 50/50 cuz he had absolutely no reason to message you cuz he was irrelevant in that conversation about her picking me up. no one brought him up in that at all. you were messaging her not him. she lets him run her life the way he wants it it is so ridiculous and pettiness.

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Michelle Lataille
Woonsocket, RI · 2 months ago

You need to protect your son and keep him safe! If she can’t see the issue is her damn boyfriend and she puts him first then she doesn’t deserve to see your son!!!!

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Lou Ann Ledbetter
2 months ago

Supervised visit and restraining order against ex wife boyfriend for reckless endangerment

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Helen Dolinger
Millers Creek, NC · 2 months ago

You need to lay down the law you have custody and you need to converse with her about this

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Judy Ball
Harrisville, NY · 2 months ago

Do whatever you need to do to protect your Child 🙏

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Sarah Zughayar
Oak Forest, IL · 2 months ago

Protect your kid any woman that puts a man before their child is dense. You’re completely in the right. I can pretty much guarantee it’ll get worse if he keeps going to visit them….

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Kathy
Arlington, KY · 2 months ago

hell no u arent wrong! there's obviously a good reason that u have full custody of your child. if something bad happens at her house, your poor baby could be traumatized for life. doesnt even have to be physical abuse, words can break your soul too. the mother definitely chooses her boyfriend over her kid. please don't let him go back. Wishing u the best 💔

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Betzaida Lopez
Auburndale, FL · 2 months ago

God bless you. you doing the right thing. Exodus 14:14 the Lord will fight for you; you need only to be still.🙏

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Wendy Barnette
Bonneau, SC · 2 months ago

That's a hard decision but you need to let the mother know you do not approve of your son being around her boyfriend.Tell her she can see her son but not at her home.If you have sole custody the courts should help you.Get some advice from your lawyer.

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Mary Kelly
Lavonia, GA · 2 months ago

Protect your child don’t let them go over there to his mother.

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Pamela Cohen
Canyon Country, CA · 2 months ago

Let her come to your house or have a neutral party do monitored visits

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Lorraine Leon Suggs
Seffner, FL · 2 months ago

Do what keeps your son safe. Just pay attention to how he responds in case he needs to see someone

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Kimberley Gibson
2 months ago

🤔 How old is your son? if he is old enough to understand negative conflict, ask his opinion. Next, explain to him that you are his protector. Bi-polar persons, unmedicated, are like a piece of dynamite. The destruction they can cause can be deadly. If it were me, my son would trust my opinion to keep him away from a possible harmful situation. My son and I would make that decision together. I would file a restraining order against the Bi-polar person and enable the help of the police. The child's mother has already displayed many forms of child abuse by allowing her child to be around and unmedicated Bi-polar individual. By your statements, there is no way her boyfriend is medicated properly. Self-medicating which many BP persons do. BP people need to be medicated and seeing a therapist on a regular basis. That is when it is safe to be around a BP person. You can't risk your boy being hurt physically. It will eventually happen. God bless you! You are a wonderful dad!

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Tracy Kasterke
Sanford, ME · 2 months ago

Have that hard conversation with her and give her an ultimatum. That way it’s out in the open and she won’t be able to say she didn’t know you felt this way. When people are in controlling situations sometimes they don’t see the obvious that’s right in front of them. I’d just tell her what you’re feeling regarding your son and then tell her it’s up to her but you’ve got to do what you feel is best for your son if she isn’t able to

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Ann Cardwell
Elizabethton, TN · 2 months ago

Do it the right way. If its court ordered then take her back to court and show proof.

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tammy roach
Tupper Lake, NY · 2 months ago

Your thoughts are right on!

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Cindy L Poster
Venice, FL · 2 months ago

keep strong and keep him safe

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Shirley R
West Sacramento, CA · 2 months ago

You definitely need to abide by your court order. Now, that said, if your son is supposed to have visitation with him mom, and if it’s dangerous, then you need to go back to court and request her boyfriend not be around, and definitely is not to drive him anywhere. You need to go to a Mediator and will probably be required to. Don’t back down. You don’t want your son exposed to his mom’s BF bad behavior. Wishing you the best!!

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Catherine Dishion
Coquille, OR · 2 months ago

Make sure you record on a calendar everything. Keep your child safe.

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Mary Luckeydoo
Colon, MI · 2 months ago

Protect your child from this person, my cousin had her grandson killed by the mother’s boyfriend

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Monica
Addis, LA · 2 months ago

The welfare of your son is of the utmost importance. If you don’t feel safe, letting him go with his mother, and obviously the bipolar boyfriend then don’t let him go.! You have stepped up as a father and have taken 100% control of your son . I realize that your son wants and maybe needs his mother and his life, but I’ve heard you talk about the boyfriend, but I haven’t really heard you say much about the mother., besides the fact that she could’ve went for her 50-50 and she hasn’t. What type of person is she? Does she ask to see your son? Does she call you and ask how he’s doing etc. that would be my question to you.! God bless you and your son and I wish you the best🙏

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Connie Sifuent
Las Cruces, NM · 2 months ago

Keep your son safe

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Veronica G. Leibowitz
Tucson, AZ · 2 months ago

Protect your child first then seek legal advice release your concern. This way the court has documentation which is crucial to your case. God forbid anything happens. She has a visitation day. I’m sorry that you’re in this predicament.

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Joyce Klein
Brick, NJ · 2 months ago

Go to court and have it set that he can’t be there when your son is with him mom. Or stop her visiting rights because she doesn’t stop her boyfriend from putting him in danger.

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Loyce West
Pelzer, SC · 2 months ago

protect your son, go to court and fix it to where he can't be around when your ex has him.

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Manda O Hall
Twentynine Palms, CA · 2 months ago

Get a family law attorney and document dates and times keep all your correspondence via text email social media ECT. Best of luck to you and yours.

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CONNIE MARSHALL
Carmichael, CA · 2 months ago

he needs medication and you need full custody of your child to keep your child safe im bi/polar its no joke im on medication and won't get off . god bless you 💕🙏

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Sandie Sheire
Kenosha, WI · 2 months ago

Restraining order to prevent boyfriend bein around ur son

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Ann Cardwell
Elizabethton, TN · 2 months ago

Supervised until she gets it together. Let son speak at court if old enuf

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Katherine Moore
Jersey Shore, PA · 2 months ago

No! You’re not wrong! By not allowing him to be alone with them, you are most likely saving his life!

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Rayma Ford
Mineral Wells, TX · 2 months ago

Good job, Dad! Keep your son safe.

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Sheryl Bentley
Gainesville, FL · 2 months ago

if your son was in a crash at 102 miles per hour and lived through it, what questions would you ask yourself ?

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Sarai Clemons
Milton, WV · 2 months ago

go to the courts let them knw the problem ur having and file for modification of the parental agreement! but u can't stop the visits unless it's ordered by the courts! unless it is so dangerous it effects the child immediately

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Amanda Mechelle
Magee, MS · 2 months ago

Please do not let him return to his mother. Her boyfriend clearly dislikes and disrespects you, which suggests he might feel negatively towards your son as well, seeing you reflected in him. The mom's boyfriend needs to mature or get TF out & date a woman who has no kids. Based on numerous true crime cases I watch daily, it’s almost always the mom’s boyfriend who causes the most harm—both physically and MENTALLY. Protect your baby. If her boyfriend speaks to you that way, imagine how he treats/ speaks to your son when you're not around.. 👀🚨 He views that little boy as a mini you and resents both of you. 😡 Please don't put your baby’s well-being and, most importantly, his mental health at risk. 🚫He’ll thank you later, I promise. 💙

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Regina Holcomb
San Francisco, CA · 2 months ago

PRAY over your son before you drop him off.

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Helen Dolinger
Millers Creek, NC · 2 months ago

Not as long as he is there

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Tee Tee Q
Mililani, HI · 2 months ago

Mmmmm change your words… don’t say I am not allowing you to go…. We are waiting for a while OR maybe soon… something easier on his ears. How old is he???

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Carolyn Meals
Evansville, IN · 2 months ago

If you have full custody, you don’t have to allow her to see him unless she makes sure the child is not in any danger and it sounds like he is. If she is allowed certain weeks of visitations then talk to your attorney about the situation. The child should never be in any danger.

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Lisa Human
Portsmouth, OH · 2 months ago

Do not make him go back because the boyfriend could become a danger to him..

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Nancy Cory
Shasta Lake, CA · 2 months ago

I would tell her she can spend time with your son but the BF has to stay out of the picture while they're together.

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Teofilo Salinas
Las Vegas, NV · 2 months ago

Don't Worry Be Happy 😊😊😊😊

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Susan Sparkman
Joanna, SC · 2 months ago

no you not wrong you are looking out for yr child judge will go with you on it if u go to court

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Jeanett Lawrence
Mesa, AZ · 2 months ago

Oh, hell no, you are not in the wrong here. Keep your child safe.

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Angela Gascon
Raeford, NC · 2 months ago

Get an attorney and try to get supervised visitation for her.

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Jan Lancaster
Tupelo, MS · 2 months ago

No go!

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Stephanie
Duffield, VA · 2 months ago

don't ask permission it's your kid...you always do what's best for that kid.. no matter who likes it..they're not dad

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Rita Masters
Baltimore, MD · 2 months ago

no your not wrong you keep raising your son cause suppose his mothers boyfriend would have had an accident and your son got hurt or even worst would have gotten killed what mother would let her child in a car with a man going a 102 miles an hour he could have killed her son if he would have wrecked his car shame on mother and her boyfriend they deserve to be parents of this child or any child for that matter the father should keep his son away from them

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Elizabeth Howell
Paisley, FL · 2 months ago

yea so there are no negative feelings just say nicely it's best not to go over there for awhile, if he asks why just tell him the truth

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Amanda
Ashland, OH · 2 months ago

Sounds like you’re a good father, follow your instincts!

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Angela Gascon
Raeford, NC · 2 months ago

Not wrong at all.

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Paulette Cornwell
Killen, AL · 2 months ago

keep Drama out of your life and your Sons life. They are dangerous People, stay away from those people 🙄!!!

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Elvira Quintana0
Denton, TX · 2 months ago

please keep him with you🙏

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Carmaleta Mushlock
Sterling Heights, MI · 2 months ago

that's a really tough decision to make

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Gkidzz
Willow Grove, PA · 2 months ago

ask your son after you explain it to him. 🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Emary Smith
Aberdeen, WA · 2 months ago

Don't let him go!! What will you do if he kills your son going 100+ mi per hour?

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Karen Emberlin
Oklahoma City, OK · 2 months ago

You should consult your lawyer

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Sheliy Bennett
Buckhannon, West Virginia · 2 months ago

what a terrible position for you and your son to be in. If it was me, the mom would have to choose. The boyfriend OR her son. I wouldn't even allow any contact at all due to that type of mental instability. This can lead to the boyfriend eliminating the "threat" (your son) from her life; therefore, there would be no more competition for her attention. That's scary. It happens all the time. Since she has been with him for 3 years, she is probably going to choose him. Which is sad, but obviously something your son isn't foreign too nor is he missing out on much because he has a really great Dad going by this video!

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Firefly Davis-Journey
Philadelphia, PA · 2 months ago

Well the age of your son matters. It’s never a good idea to not have access to a mother or father. Is your son physically, mentally, emotionally in danger? I would definitely get the law involved. Now I don’t condone violence but My Daddy ( and I’m an adult +adult age) would’ve had old boy around the corner talking man to man. Good luck sir🙏🏼