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Johnnie Pirkel
Summerville, SC · a year ago

I get her completely. My parents left to go out to dinner and left me home with the brother I just told them had been molesting me for almost 2 years. Now I take care of my parents and they want perfection and for me to cater to them. I've been so angry that I feel like I can't do it anymore. Maybe they should ask my brother who they apparently believe over me to take care of them.

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ITS NOT What you think
2 years ago

I 10000% get where this young lady is coming from. it makes every day harder and harder to even exist. that anger consumes you from the inside out

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True Dat
Detroit, MI · a year ago

Maybe if she stops yelling her mother could hear what she's trying to say. I refuse to try to have a conversation with someone who's yelling. When someone is yelling at you if you don't walk away you will start yelling too. Now you have two people yelling and no one is listening.

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Chandra Brady
Houston, TX · a year ago

The young woman said I’ve been raped and all types of things. The mother didn’t know because her daughter never told her. She needs to seek therapy for her anger issues. If she’s always screaming no one is ever going to listen to her.

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Rozz MsFaith Scott
Miami, FL · a year ago

That energy is stemming from somewhere she said she’s been raped more than once, maybe since she was a kid? Something isn’t right it’s a reason this is happening…This is so very sad 😢

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Ruby Smitham
Oak Harbor, WA · 2 years ago

She loves you dear please give her a big hug I don't know what I do with out my daughter's 🤗

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miss means
Brooklyn, NY · 2 years ago

This is why I keep an open door policy in my house, and not for my kids... its for MY door! I need my kids to always know they can come talk to me. I grew up having a mother I couldn't talk to and it takes a toll on you for a long time, but you don't always have to be a product of your environment, its up to you as the parent to break that cycle.

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Claudia Thompson
Woodmere, NY · 2 years ago

Sometimes parents, other family members or friends got other things going on. And at times they might hear, but, feel fear that they have trusted the wrong person, but they are unable to deal with the issues (financial, in an abusive relationship and so on). Especially when they're (parents, other family members or friends) unwilling to listen to the reports given about someone they think they knew. They (parents/friends/other family members) might be in denial, using alcohol or drugs, physical abuse, to distract from reality or helplessness - maybe it could've been a family member, a stranger, a friend, or trusted family friend then the victims tend to take the lack of reactive responses, as though he or she are neglected, and yes, even for years.

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Christine Perry
New Bern, NC · a year ago

He needs to ask her why she is yelling. He needs to back up and tell her to stop yelling. Who wants to hear that noise. I don't think his advice is right all the time. He sits there and let's her be disrespectful to her mom. That girl needs therapy.

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Gloria Swaggard
Buffalo, NY · a year ago

She’s exploding with anger inside.. she needs to get it out and this stage is where she feels safe… because she knows how her mother shuts her down in her home.. mom is frontin

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eatshit.
The Bronx, NY · a year ago

I can relate to the daughter, I feel bad for her she has so much anger , her mom seem like she is disconnected from her daughter smh .

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Ali J Ervin
Iowa City, IA · a year ago

Well this is a trauma response, I feel he did well in allowing her to get it out and off her chest- this just shows how little her mom truly wants to be involved/loving her.

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Frances Shelton
McDonough, GA · 2 years ago

Why is she yelling, who can hear you when you are yelling your emotions.🧐🤔

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Pamela Frierson
Jacksonville, FL · 2 years ago

this is me and my mom, and I am now 53. I have never been able to talk to my mom about anything. I had a real Carrie moment in school and was violated by her bf brother and she still chose him over me and allowed that man around me afterwards. She only broke up whim because he beat my sister.

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Keith Forbes
Fayetteville, NC · a year ago

I understand you are mad, young lady, but your delivery technique will cause ANYONE to tone you out. That’s basic human nature. You can’t blame your mother for someone else’s actions. The person to blame is the person who violated you.

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Sonia Lewis
Pittsburgh, PA · a year ago

Deep rooted bitterness. It’s a terrible thing when you can’t talk to your own Mother. This is sad. Lord God please heal this family. This girl has been crying out for years and it’s all built up inside. Amen 🙏

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J B Oneil
Bessemer, AL · 2 years ago

Find a time. Sit her down both whenever there’s a feel there’s something wrong. It’s hard to listen though in the yelling. The anger is from hurt but the yelling even though loud is hard to hear

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Tony Currie
Brownsville, TN · a year ago

First of all she needs to learn how to speak to her mother calmly because I would be done talking to her when she start screaming. How would her mother know she was raped if she never told her, stop being angry at her mother for being raped and talk!! Use your words instead of anger we learn that as kids!!!

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LARGO
Columbia, SC · a year ago

Who in the hell can listen to all of that chaos and screaming.

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Cynthia Lewis
Jacksonville, Florida · a year ago

First of all,she's not showing her respect screaming don't help she need to tune it down I would have left 😤 😒

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Jim Cannon
Starkville, MS · a year ago

she's grown open your front door lock your back door lock your windows and close your front door and let her have a good life

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Barbara HANN
East Brunswick, NJ · a year ago

She is suffering a lot , that’s why she’s screaming. 🙏🏾🙏🏾🙏🏾She gets the help she needs.

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Veronica Harrison
Ellenwood, GA · a year ago

My, my, my....... Yelling is not effective communication.Oooh!♒🧚😇😲✝️🙏🌼🌺😢😥♒💙

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LoveLeza
Bear, DE · a year ago

I know how this young woman feels…Her mother will not start now to listen……momma set in her ways.

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Jeanette Wills
Chicago, IL · a year ago

She's hurting for sure. please try to listen to see what bothers her like this, did you allow someone to violate her?

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Deni
Kansas City, MO · a year ago

First, you have to learn to communicate, it works both ways. You can't tell and expect someone to listen to you

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Rosie Brandt
Hayward, CA · a year ago

why her daughter is screaming instead of talking to her now

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Maryam Al Fayed
Reidsville, NC · a year ago

it's one thing for sure can't nobody talk to this young woman cuz you can't get a word in it wise! .... I don't know what went on but I will save this so many young women run their mouths to the point that you can't get a word at Edgewater they don't even hear or see enough to pay attention to whether or not you're available to be spoken with! ... nothing gets resolved in anger that she needs to turn it down quite a bit and talk like a grown woman in a calm manner! 🤔💥🤔

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Fatima Bovan
Brooklyn, NY · a year ago

you. should. not. yell. at. your. mom. like. that. first. of. all. me. and. my daughter's never. yell. at. me. we. calm. down. and. sit. down. find. out. what. you. and. your. mom to. make. this. a. better. understanding. between. you. and. mom. she. seems. like. a. good. mom. shoe. some. respect. got. your. mom. things. will. get. better. God. will. bring. you. both. closer. God bless. you. both. much. love. for. you. both. this. is. so sad. this. made. me. cry

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Wendy Schafer-Bozard
Sharpsville, IN · a year ago

you learn how to handle your anger in the ways that you see people handle anger when you grow up. so she probably saw her mom act like this when she was angry. and then the fact that nobody listens to her she doesn't have anybody to talk to return to she's angry because she's hurt and feels unloved and unheard. personally I feel like they probably both need therapy.

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Sherry Gore
Dothan, AL · a year ago

I have been in the young lady shoes but I have a question for the young man that's sitting there jumps on the bandwagon of the daughter true enough she been through something I've been through that same situation and I've been mad too but you do you think that is okay the way she talk to her mom reason why her mom is not listening to her have you addressed her with that but we quick to think that it's okay for us to grow up and we can talk to our parents any kind of way and expect them to become the kid and listen to us just asking

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Lee68
a year ago

I don't care about the screaming and all that but it occurs to me that she's old enough now to where she needs to seek psychological help. she's using a mother or how she feels about what happened as a crutch to keep the anger going

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Breezy
Detroit, MI · a year ago

this was me and my mom. I've been mad for years. I've never told her I was raped before ... however my boyfriend told her without my permission. I lied and denied it. well my mother is no longer here anymore I took care of her until the day she died. rip Mom. wish I can talk to you now.

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Sonia Lewis
Pittsburgh, PA · a year ago

This daughter is on the edge of destruction. Perhaps her mother doesn’t feel like her daughter has an opinion or a voice. This Mother is acting like it’s all the daughter’ when actually it’s the Mother who has a problem and it’s affected her daughter emotionally,mentally, and spiritually . This Mother is too calm about all this, that’s how I know it’s the Mothers fault. The Mother will not own up to the damage she has caused to her daughter.

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Diane Hampton
New Orleans, LA · a year ago

I see trauma. That's what y'all hear from her now..

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Pam White
Phoenix, AZ · 2 years ago

mental therapist is needed now for that girl.

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Teresa Velasco
Irving, TX · a year ago

You reap what you sow, but it's ok, her daughter will be three times more disrespectful to her

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Erica Tomas
2 years ago

yea all that yelling ain't necessary 🙄

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Tamika Johnson
San Leandro, CA · 2 years ago

She hurting🥲

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Jacqueline Barrett
Greenville, NC · a year ago

that girl has mental issues clearly she needs help immediately...

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constance roderick
Port Orchard, WA · a year ago

Maybe if you spoke like an intelligent person instead of a crazy loud psycho people could listen! Delivery matters

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Joanne Shea
Kensington, MD · 2 years ago

Screaming doesn’t help.

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Cathy with a C
2 years ago

Yeah my family is horrible - I get the daughter

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Angela Cater
Donalsonville, GA · a year ago

Anger management for that young lady is needed immediately.

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Cisco
Portland, OR · 2 years ago

Dummies used to irritate me like this… now I don’t take people seriously & now I’m the “bad guy “ 😂

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Patricia Shippy
New Iberia, LA · a year ago

I know how her daughter feels 😢

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Lonnie Mulkey
Calhoun, GA · a year ago

your not talking your screaming for the next town over to hear

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Butterfly
Abilene, TX · a year ago

So much pain there

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Christine Leroux
Aventura, FL · a year ago

What’s happening in America? I moved from my country and l have to move again after 25yearsSo sad for a lot of people like me but it’s necessary….

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Scott Gilreath
Township of Taylorsville, NC · a year ago

try talking instead of screaming, ya moron! Nobody gonna listen to you if you screaming like a raging idiot!!

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Tremelda Williamson
Grand Rapids, MI · a year ago

what kind of TV show is this all they do is scream and holla

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Mr S.
Morrow, GA · a year ago

she's way to old to be acting like that

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Dustavion's Dusty Culture For the Culture!
Clinton, MD · a year ago

DON'T HAVE KIDS IF YOUR ASS ISN'T GOING TO PROTECT THEM WITH EVERYTHING YOU HAVE.

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Dustavion's Dusty Culture For the Culture!
Clinton, MD · a year ago

WTF??!! That Mom already knew her daughter was violated. She didn't even sound surprised. The way I would be in prison behind my child being molested.🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬🤬

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Karen Chastain
Savoy, IL · a year ago

The way she’s yelling Who would listen to her

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Joyce Mason
Bladenboro, NC · a year ago

stop screaming girl

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Ron Grimball
Charleston, SC · a year ago

BOTH ARE CRAZY...ONE PRETENDING ONE SHOWING IT

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Regina Autman Brooks
Joliet, IL · a year ago

she is hollering at her mom and she still got her teeth wow

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Keith Forbes
Fayetteville, NC · a year ago

And your demeanor is & will cause anyone to go into the defense (put their guard up)because you make them feel as though you’re attacking them

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King Day
Washington, DC · a year ago

it's the daughter fault you got SA 5 times and didn't say shit about it blame yourself

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King Day
Washington, DC · a year ago

who wanna listen when your yelling I wouldn't wanna listen to your emotional ass either

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BatDance_$$$
Temple Hills, MD · a year ago

All the yelling has to stop. The mom is coming across as an angel compared to the crazy-sounding daughter.

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Carrey Williams
Baton Rouge, LA · a year ago

why you mad?🤔🤨

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Come Again
Houston, TX · a year ago

I think she's very disrespectful, regardless of how she feels, that's no way to talk to your mom.

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Anthony Wiseman
Minneapolis, MN · a year ago

because she's see her daughter as competition and younger a better looking.

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Pam Madrid
Fort Dodge, IA · a year ago

shut the F up...who can communicate with a screaming brat.