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Valli Mcdonald
Silver Spring, MD · 9 months ago
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Yes the woman and the man have different functions, but this man has a low intelligence. But the woman stay home while he goes to work. If she is working and the man is working. They share the the work at home. Why she has to work and clean the house to be a wife. That is so selfish on his part.

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boyfloud
Hattiesburg, MS · 9 months ago
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How about if you mess up a dish wash it? If you dirty clothes wash, dry, fold and put up is that just too impossible! All household chores are not just a woman’s! Stay single

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Doug
Winter Haven, FL · 9 months ago
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In the 50 years my wife and I have been married, I have made it my job to make her life as easy and full of joy that I possibly could. She has done the same. The result is that we are happier, closer, and more in love than we have ever been. She is my best friend and I would do anything in this world for her.

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Milla
Palm Beach Gardens, FL · 9 months ago

hmm, I can do and have done "wife duties," but I also do what men are "supposed " to do??? This right here is why men are lonely and women have decided to be and stay single. Marriage is a benefit to man, but shortened woman's life expand.

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Leslie Richey
Taylor Mill, KY · 9 months ago

My Husband and I share all the household work. We raise our children together. Our home is made up of teamwork. We both work full time. Assigning duties on gender is ridiculous.

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Pinx
Elizabeth, NJ · 9 months ago

I do it everyday and I don't have a man . it's about scheduling yourself like a job . however men go to work everyday but don't have everyday chores like fixing a tire or mowing the lawn. Help your woman out cuz not only our job is physical but it's mental as well and if you don't show appreciation you can't have that ... your woman is not your maid she is a partner and not a silent one.

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Valli Mcdonald
Silver Spring, MD · 9 months ago

That is so wrong, she is so right. So you say woman could only be a woman if she could be a wife to go to work and come home and clean the house. So when does she get to rest, when he goes to work and tired and come home he get to rest. You men don't get to constantly to change tire, put gas in the car or wash the car.. Women are doing more than the man. So she has to clean the house and wash his clothes, cook his food every single bloody day. The men get to work, and come home and rest while she slave in the house. This man is having it all wrong.

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Lebron
Youngstown, OH · 9 months ago

How is telling a woman how to be a woman🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣That doesn’t mean she’s not fit to be a wife‼️That’s a very old school way of thinking. A yelling isn’t a sign of ONLY low intelligence it’s also a sign of high emotion as well! I hate when ppl say that!! It shows low intelligence repeating what you hear and not knowing what you’re saying🤣🤣🤣🤣

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Sassyjo Hamilton
Ithaca, NY · 9 months ago

so if a woman has to do all that then the man should be the one that works or it should be 50/50 a woman Works a man works and they come home and take care of their family

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SOUTHERNBELLE57
High Point, NC · 9 months ago

Ok, so give me money for all the work I have to do to for you and to make you satisfied, and I'll gladly stay at home. NOT ! You can still help too. It's not your duty to just be the bread winner . I can take care of my own car.

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Moon Knightwolf
Phoenix, AZ · 7 months ago

Good lord, I feel sorry for the man that's her husband. She's the poster child of the nagging wife. I'd rather chew on aluminum foil or tattoo my eyeballs than listen to her. 🤦🏾🫏🤡🙎🏽

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Darlene Hill
New York City, NY · 8 months ago

WE NOT GOING TO WORK 3 JOBS THATS WHY! It takes Our lives from us and shortens it. THE Expectation is Unrealistic I will do for Him, the kids, the house IF IM NOT WORKING OUTSIDE THE HOUSE .... We be FCKN Tired too, and expected to still clean, cook, kids needs, husband's needs, tf, and as far as him paying the bills, does he do This through auto pay, ? does he go online and order and pay for groceries and have them delivered and put away? these ARE JOBS TOO, So u give Me the bank card to Go online put in passwords, type in numbers get a confirmation, for mortgage, lights, phones, water, and gas, ect .Then go......to grocery store walk up and down aisles load basket get in line ,then pack into car ,get home unload car , put away food, then prep and cook dinner ,serve it, clean it up, ect. ijs all this is a job.

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Joshua Smith
Findlay, OH · 9 months ago

that's your choice you want to work then work but don't expect a man to go work and clean up your mess when you won't even do it

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Derk
Paducah, KY · 9 months ago

Some poor fella has to listen to that loudmouth every day, while she complains and feels for herself

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Zulu 2020
Fort Wayne, IN · 8 months ago

My wife and I have never had this argument. 7 years. She asked me to do something,it's done. She needs me to help with something. I help. She doesn't have to ask me to HELP clean, or cook or fold laundry. I do it. I wanted steaks last night I grilled the steaks. It's not hard to have a partnership with someone you love, respect and want to make happy as much as you can. The first thing is stop focusing so much on who is SUPPOSED to be doing what and more on HOW CAN I make this ALL easier and better for us both.

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guest6978
Desert Hot Springs, CA · 8 months ago

When this is the mentality of today’s men, it’s no surprise that unmarried women are the happiest self-reporting group! Nobody loves working all day and coming home to clean, cook and cater to another person. Marriage is a dying function in society because of women finding their voice and their happiness. Men are the only ones suffering.

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iggy pina
Houston, TX · 9 months ago

function 🤣🤣🤣 he lame.

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Stacey Shook
Putnam Valley, NY · 8 months ago

also. a huge percentage of men have a job with physical labor involved.... I as a woman was raised in a family that dad worked his ass off doing physical labor , he came home and relaxed, mom did cook clean and take care of the kids. and she was not demanded to do this, she was taught this as was I. to me how I was taught a REAL woman WANTS to take care of her man, feed him, clean house and clothes and make him feel loved and special. we were raised to even do these things for our brothers... they hungry.. we cook for them, need laundry done, we do it. and to me I LOVE doing this and taking care of the men I love !!!! and again none of this was demanded or chauvinistically expected. now being grown, my brother's are there ANY time I need them. like he said flat tire, car troubles, so much.

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Donyelle Helmstetter
Augusta, GA · 8 months ago

Hell is he talking bout? If he feels like that then that means her duty ain’t to get a damn job and he gotta play his role and pay them bills while she gotta cook and clean and raise kids. Part of his function is to make sure she ain’t gotta work. He assed backwards. So that means that if he can’t handle that then she needs to find a man who’s fit to be a husband cuz he ain’t it. She gotta play her role and help him play his too? FOH

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Flower
Niagara Falls, NY · 8 months ago

I got to stay home for 2yrs with my 1st & I'm just about to go back to work after staying home 10yrs with my second. I cook, clean, rub him down EVERY night, and am ready & willing whenever he's in the mood! He's thirsty, I fill his cup. He needs a bandaid because his hands are torn up from work, im there with the neosporin & bandaids. I love being a woman! I'm still gonna do all of that when I go back to work! I never let him leave the house with an empty stomach or full balls! That's why we've been together since I was a teenager, 20yrs!

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Amanda Robinson
Carlisle, PA · 7 months ago

so compare tasks that need done EVERYDAY, to tasks that need done every couple months? and here I thought men were logical 😂

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Shay Ortiz
Valdosta, GA · 7 months ago

he sound goofy as hell this 2025 not 1925 thats not how relationships work anymore smfh

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Jennifer Reinhardt Sapolsky
Fallsburg, NY · 7 months ago

why dont you want to do that.....are you crazy, man you are crazy

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Zeppelin Fanatic
Danbury, CT · 9 months ago

Can you say HIGH MAINTENANCE?

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CAPE FEAR
Pinetop-Lakeside, AZ · 9 months ago

men have more physical jobs then women.

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Joey "Joe-Cool" Burrow
9 months ago

i wash way more dishes than my woman

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Peggy Balas
Harrisonburg, VA · 8 months ago

How often does a man have to change a tire? once a yr at the very most . How often does a woman have to cook food? 2 to 3 times a day He is not fit to be a husband if he can't bring home enough money to support the family. If she has to bring home half the money, then he needs to do half the housework

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That MF
9 months ago

guy's, if your wife works too and you don't split the house work with her. you're lame AF

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Michael Mokshefsky
Philadelphia, PA · 7 months ago

First of all 98.9% of woman will never work like a man sitting behind a desk and digging trenches or laying cement or holding sheet rock above your head is way different. If you’re both working in the office that’s a different story but only about 5% of men work in a office

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Juanita
Philadelphia, PA · 7 months ago

the truth for Jen

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PEACE
Richmond, VA · 9 months ago

gtfoh I'm with her it's both of our responsibilities I'm not a maid

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Bob Hartland
New York City, NY · 8 months ago

When both work, it is a scared partnership.. You pick up, after eachother... you both, keep laundry and dishes,clean.. You both, manage the pets or children.. Required no discussion, once it is understood.. SIMPLE...

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Melissa Hallmark
Temple, GA · 8 months ago

he is so full of shit. I bet he is alone

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Todd Ryan
Silver City, NM · 9 months ago

growing up my mom worked my dad was in the military she did all the cleaning and everything I'm 57 now. she did it all until they taught us how to do chores. So This Woman's saying my mom could do it but she can't if you're no the thing is she doesn't want to. now I honestly believe if both are working they both should help chores a marriage is a partnership it's in the Bible. if the woman's not working outside of the home I do believe most of the stuff at home should be her responsibility

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Denice Mason
Geuda Springs, KS · 8 months ago

it's equal if both parents work. when they both get home the chores should be decided. 42 years experience.

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cadan inch
Fulton, NY · 8 months ago

no that idea only works if the mother is a stay at home mother. if you both have jobs both come home dog tired you make sacrifices and bite the bullet, help your damn partner out and vise versa taking the slack the other can't keep up with.

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scott
9 months ago

jstfu.......men do all of that tooo....get over yourself

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Christopher Englehart
Worcester, MA · 8 months ago

help each other out with everything my girl cooks I do the dishes I cook she does the dishes I carry down the laundry she does the laundry and we both help clean up around the house and we both work it's not hard people your supposed to be a team smfh 😂

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Beverly Smith
Anderson, IN · 9 months ago

Nope! Sorry! This is bs! No one wants to go to work and come home and work some more! A family is a partnership.

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Airrie M
North Charleston, SC · 8 months ago

so we suppose to work cook clean take care of kids ECT. a man work that's it cause we not tired... y'all miss what she saying..she not saying she don't but everyday no she be tired too

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Kelsie Haptonstall
Dixon, IL · 9 months ago

At the end of the day, idk who took care of the household with my grandparents, but when my grandma was dying, my grandpa did everything at 75. It's all about how much love yall share. Nun else matters.

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Christopher Davis
Seaford, DE · 8 months ago

What Man Would Want Her As A Wife? I'll wait..

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mama cita
Bridgeport, CT · 9 months ago

Let her know… #REALWOMAN

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Mgotcha
Lewisville, TX · 9 months ago

She's too loud.

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Mr Chico
8 months ago

You don’t change tires every night sometimes 2-3 times or change the oil every single night. ! It’s not the same bro

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strange behavior
Crestline Heights, AL · 8 months ago

I can’t take care of a man like that.. That’s why I divorced my spouse. It’s too tiresome. I want a wife too🤭

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Goddess Goddess
Lexington, SC · 8 months ago

No, it doesn’t mean that she’s not intelligent. That means that she has been hurt before and she’s trying to express herself. Who the hell is you?

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Michael Nickle
St. George, UT · 8 months ago

facts. no man wants a be woman who is lazy and doesn't clean or cook. if your stay at home Mom then your job is the cooking cleaning and caring for the children UNTILL Dad gets home to help out and relieve mom so she can cook or put away the laundry. a good family home is where both parties are putting in the effort. it cannot be one sided.

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Vickie Epps
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

I love how he shut that down !!!!! Some women don’t deserve a man nor do they deserve kids

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Kyle Johnson
Atlanta, GA · 3 months ago

Her point is valid…….

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TRAPP TRAPPA
Jackson, TN · 3 months ago

Men do the same thing what makes y’all different

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Ron Rob
Buffalo, NY · 3 months ago

He screaming shows how Absolutly miserable she is with herself. Men stay away

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Christin
San Francisco, CA · 3 months ago

the best marriages share responsibilities. no matter how their divided, as long as it fits the couple in question, fifty fifty generally works.

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John Mullett
Apache Junction, AZ · 3 months ago

hay lady you ever moved 70000 lbs by hand day i after day after day 2 guys so that means 35000 a day 5 days a week I see 175000 a week 6 weeks that's over a million men do work you just don't understand spoiled ladies

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DMWM
Dunkirk, NY · 3 months ago

I’m not siding but like they both doing their jobs when the woman at home working the man is also working trying to get the money for the bills n stuff. They both got an important roll in a relationship

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Kimmy Turner
Castleberry, AL · 3 months ago

if I got to do everything I rather be alone

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kcmo209
Knob Noster, MO · 3 months ago

the guy knows

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RaidersStyles44
Pickerington, OH · 4 months ago

She is single, every video I see her in she’s yelling and combative, don’t no dude wanna deal with that every day🤷🏾‍♂️

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Mr.G
4 months ago

This is only an issue in amerika where GOD is NOT respected, although it is said that 'in GOD THEY trust',😳...Amerika ( DEMOCRATS ) mainly, 'encourage' women to the King instead of a queen,😳. There will ALWAYS be problems in a relationship ( household ) when the words and will of GOD are ignored, 😳.

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Mr.G
4 months ago

Amerika and the DEMOCRATS are responsible for DESTROYING the 'traditional' roles of men and women...MILLIONS of 'immigrant' men must REGRET 'bringing' their women to amerika where the women is 'in charge',😳...

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KiyomiUchiha
Dallas, TX · 4 months ago

What's wrong with cleaning your home you want to live in filth?

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Tricia Hendricks
Hartford, CT · 4 months ago

I've done it evet day when my kids were little without man....Kids from school -home- homework bath dinner in bed by 7p whatever season, summertime naps between 11a-2p still in bed by 7p

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Badr
Knoxville, TN · 4 months ago

a woman provides for indoor like houses in stuff but when it comes to the outside world it is men responsibility to keep you safe.

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tyler gotto
Apex, NC · 4 months ago

Yeah idk what yall talking about i do heavy escavation i work 10-12 hours a day get home cook dinner clean the house do laundry and help with the kid so it reslky aint all that hard yall women just lazy and want to be glorified for something that is very easy and is very much something that everyone is cabable of doing dont be tryna feel special shorty

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Bianka Theus
Ashburnham, MA · 4 months ago

oh that's bad. leave him😭🤨🤨🤨😤😡

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steve Hebert
Queensbury, NY · 4 months ago

men take out garbage we mow the lawn we fix things around the house we work on cars we do all that and much more and I cook too I do dishes too women nowadays are domestically weaker than they used to be 20 or so years ago. Social media is teaching them that they are to be pampered and just don't work and spend a mans money and she wants him to buy her stuff as well and pay all the bills !!! It's because they are LAAAAAZZZZZZYYYYY!!!!!!

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Will
Barnegat, NJ · 4 months ago

Loud mouths are always WRONG !!!

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