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Cynthia Cottrell
Cincinnati, OH · 2 months ago
HOT

He's wrong a woman will listen to her black man if he has something to say that makes sense.

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Someone
a month ago

She won’t listen to your ignorant behind.💯

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Blackfoot
Lansing, MI · 2 months ago

You can't speak for all black women, I been with my husband for 51 years. I never disrespect him and he never disrespects me point blank PERIOD

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Warrior of YAH
2 months ago

Let’s break this down. A good woman — a wise woman — one who’s healed, grounded, and walking in her own purpose will always respect, love, and pour into a man who leads with integrity, peace, and purpose. When a man — black, white, red, blue, or purple — walks with the Most High, his strength comes with humility and his leadership flows from love, not control. That kind of man protects his woman, listens to her, values her heart, and gives her a sense of safety she can rest in. When a man carries himself with consistency and character, a woman naturally wants to follow his lead and match his energy. Her respect and loyalty flow freely when she knows she’s covered, not used or manipulated. But let’s be honest… a man like that is rare these days — like finding a needle in a haystack. And the same goes for women. It’s just as hard to find a woman who’s healed, accountable, and truly ready to build instead of compete; one who knows how to love with patience, respect, and faith. The world has too many broken souls trying to play roles, but not enough men and women who walk with the Most High and know how to love with strength, righteousness, and grace.

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Sanmetric Drake
Thomson, GA · 10 days ago

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AO PR
Washington, DC · 2 months ago

I hate to say it, but he has a point. in my observation, social media has done what 400 years of oppression failed to do. Break the spiritual, unspoken love that a Blackman & blackwoman should automatically share. Most women don't walk under their man's protection today, and their mouthes show up before their body does. There's weak men who can't lead, provide, or protect as well. Project 2025 is coming for us ALL in the worst way black people 🙏

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John Smith
Mobile, AL · 25 days ago

a woman is not obligated to listen to a man regardless of race unless that man is listening to the Most High God! if he is not following God then why should she follow him?

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fclar78
Los Angeles, CA · 2 months ago

thats the reason we date other races.....

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James Little
Brooklyn, NY · 2 months ago

It kills me how just because all the women they have or had that it applies to all women ..they are not very bright.

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Pamela Storey
Raleigh, NC · 2 months ago

Charleston White brain is cooked.. he needs to go somewhere and sit down. smh

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Jan Smiff
New York City, NY · a month ago

He’s extending his experiences. That’s what happened to him. He doesn’t know any better🤔🤔🤔

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Wilhelmina James
Birmingham, AL · 21 days ago

Welfare, food stamps nor section 8 took the black men out of the home. Nor did that give the women a reason to not have a man. He made his own choice. Welfare, for stamps and section 8 wad there if you needed it. Black women with and without children remains the most educated. As well making proving for those around her. We listen. 🤔

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Patricia
Columbus, GA · 2 months ago

child please!! you gotta give us something to respect and follow. we, the BLACK women need leaders not fools with no real direction

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DBL 7
2 months ago

He’s absolutely right get a white women

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Sonia Taylor
Warren, MI · 2 months ago

I won’t listen to no man unless he right

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Binks Mcbroom
New York, NY · 2 days ago

I cannot wit this guy

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ccd2005
Richmond, VA · a day ago

Truth to the message!

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Darrell Brantley
Atlanta, GA · a day ago

well I am a full black man and my daughter and my wife listen and obey me with respect

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Joel
Greenwood, MS · 2 days ago

starting not to respect them

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Ironwilz
Lawrenceville, NJ · 15 hours ago

yall need Islam.... period

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Veeno Lewis
Youngstown, OH · 19 hours ago

100

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mo hardwood
Fort Worth, TX · 3 days ago

I think at the end of the day comes down to opposites attract. You see white girls with black men and white men with black women. I'm white and my last three women have been black. To me if to people can find happiness that's all that matters.

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DJ
2 days ago

I'm white and honest. she doesn't listen to white man . it's not the color of the man . gems been dropped

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Carl Napier
Woodbridge, VA · 3 days ago

10000 percent right

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Star
4 days ago

lie's

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GeeMaan
Chicago, IL · a month ago

To some degree I agree !

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Martha Mitchell
Syracuse, NY · 9 days ago

Most black men have never been in the daughter's life for her to learn how to listen to the black man .

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Atia Zafr
Cincinnati, OH · 6 days ago

My husband is Back and I listen to him! Das why he got his ass beat!!!

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Chico Hayslett sr
Kansas City, MO · 9 days ago

Sharazahd Ali spoke on this in her book

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Hiram Johnsonjr
Buffalo, NY · 5 days ago

Thank you ,

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Mob vs Mob
Milwaukee, WI · 6 days ago

🧢

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kenneth hall
Miami, FL · 19 days ago

That's why she can't break it!

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kenneth hall
Miami, FL · 19 days ago

Speak Charlie the truth hurt!

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Kenneth Frierson
Florence, SC · 20 days ago

facts

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truth hurts !
Riverside, CA · a month ago

Cant stand each other .they never shut up and the men are cheaters ... !!

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Box70
Jessup, MD · 8 days ago

Dude give it a REST...... 🥺

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avonski
19 days ago

I listen to my husband because he respects me and I respect him, his woman doesn't listen to him because of his lack of respect, he proved that he has no respect by the words that came out of his mouth

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Digit
21 days ago

negative I don't listen to no man black white purple green or brown

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truth hurts
Nashville, TN · 2 months ago

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Michael Robinson
Jonesboro, GA · 2 months ago

You wrong Bruh

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Gregory Andrews
Olean, NY · a month ago

I'm GLAD my daughters RESPECT ME

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Jackie Claxton
Humble, TX · a month ago

I call bull-con

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Optimistic Falcon
Oklahoma City, OK · a month ago

That part !!

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Freddy Valdez
Rochester, NY · 25 days ago

right 👍▶️

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Denise Porter
Chicago, IL · a month ago

🤔🤔🤔🤔

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Polly Ann Reyes
Salt Lake City, UT · a month ago

HE WRONG NOT ALL WOMEN ARE THE SAME

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QJnSD22
San Diego, CA · 2 months ago

Everyone’s experience is different. I admire a woman who has her stuff together, and if what you saying ain’t lifting her up, she’s supposed to listen just because? You got men wanting women to because he’s a man and she’s a woman? That makes no sense. If a man brings it, and is about business she’ll listen or miss the train.

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Jason Bunch
Martinsburg, WV · 10 days ago

I'm a white man and been with a black woman for over 20 years and no I'm fact she won't listen to white men either the relationship is dying as I write this because she didn't listen and won't reason

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Bleu daye
Lawrenceville, GA · 10 days ago

We should look inward in the mirror cousin's. Our culture, our culture from music. To anything else in between has caused these modern day?Black women to feel with how they feel at how they act a show for ten years cause half wise and most of the women ain't even married.And they all look like sex.Dolls, we our culture created this.Image

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Barbara Anderson
Washington, DC · 13 days ago

That’s a lie, say some black women NOT ALL BLACK WOMEN….. I had the best father any girl would have wanted!

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