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Momma A
3 months ago

my ex husband and I did the deed at least 5 times a week.... it was always a running joke that he was told by one of his dads close friends that you don't get a bj anymore after your married.... boo I proved him wrong!! but I do know A LOT of marriages where if the man get lucky a few times a year, he's lucky.... and that's sad to me🥰

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Precious Godschild
Monroe, LA · a day ago

You have to keep each other intrigued. A lot of people get comfortable once they get married and feel as if they don't need to still date their spouse. Got to keep it spicy.

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Damone Woods
Inkster, MI · 2 months ago

hell yea they act like you gust met and they scared to make a move 😭 and they blame you but when you ask ,now you gotta ask for something you never had to ask for .crazy work I fu_k more when I was single 😁

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Stanley Hopf
Phoenix, AZ · 3 months ago

tough once kids are around

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Mitchell
Waterford, CT · 4 months ago

not true been married 30 years still get it 1 or 2 times a day .

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Z_A_C_K___ R_Y_A_N
Asheboro, NC · 5 days ago

100% true

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Lawrence Guillot
Ozark, AR · 2 days ago

Everything was fine with my marriage for a very long time Kids keep you from spontaneously doing it and my work kept me exhausted. My wife told me I needed to work harder to get her excited She cheated on me and I cut her off. I divorced her and she wanted me to keep paying for her upkeep.

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Ricky Bonner q
New York City, NY · 6 days ago

HELL YEAH!! IT'S BAIT AND SWITCH

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Donald Green
New Orleans, LA · a day ago

Yes!! Once you put that ring on it it's over!! And they get mad when you cheat!! Your next question should be why men cheat!! 👿🌹💛😎😎😎

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Turtle Arguinzoni
Indianapolis, IN · a day ago

TRUE. Sooo true. That is why people cheat…

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Magnum 48
Versailles, KY · a day ago

unfortunately, it's true

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Tony Verser
North Little Rock, AR · a day ago

dam right G

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Anthony Herrera
Sealy, TX · 2 days ago

I have been married for 15 years and still get it when I want! we have 6 year old twins and a 12 year old son....for the people not getting it on daily or when desired? You're doing something wrong! Find something that makes your woman feel special and still appreciate everything about you! That lies within your grasp, you just need to be able to reach it 💯

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Crazy-F-Bomb
2 days ago

At first no it's not true but as the years go through it is

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Tony Rodriguez
Manchester, NH · 18 days ago

don't even have to be married if your with a person for 4 to 5 years it be the same shit... fact.

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Shannon Shelton
Greeneville, TN · 2 days ago

sad,but true

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LaTania Holbdy
New York City, NY · 12 hours ago

not

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timothy lewis
Conway, NC · 2 days ago

true

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Bundy
Charlotte, NC · 2 days ago

yes

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Cathleen Quigley Viator
Houston, TX · a day ago

I was married in love & my husband would let me go to bed consistently while up all night on computer playing games, or not wanting any sex for months. Apologized for having a low libido got checked out fine but said he was sorry. Last years of our 23 yr marriage we only had sex 2 x and 1 x the final yr. We fought yrs about it snd he gave me a hall pass or whatever. I took it & ran. He was sorry for that. I’m so well matched now & love how affectionate my husband of 8 yrs is & we are 68 & 64.

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Ronnie Mcdonald
Mt Holly, NC · a day ago

Yep!!

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Ebell Turner
Pennington, AL · a day ago

facts

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JAYSEN ROTH
Youngstown, OH · 18 hours ago

yes

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Robert Martin
Los Angeles, CA · a day ago

YES.

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Antonio Jones
Memphis, TN · 3 days ago

Nah, it depends on the type of man you are.

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MaKeisha Casteel
Washington, DC · 2 months ago

It waxes and wanes like the moon. Especially with kids. But this is untrue unless you are in a loveless marriage. 12 years and just had our 1st child. Our love and intimacy is stronger than it has ever been. True love is unchanging (groes deeper over time), patient, and kind. Never conditional.

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Mario Brown
Atlanta, GA · 2 days ago

Yes it true

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steven williams
Austin, TX · 3 days ago

it's called hunny potting

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Brandy Lee
Charlotte, NC · 4 days ago

🚨🚨🚨 It is true The sex does decline in quantity, and unfortunately sometimes in quality due to routine. But let's be honest, those dinner dates where your took out a couple of times a week, those flowers you may get, those text messages and special attention and looks, also tend to go away after marriage. suddenly You cooking dinner every night and dinner out is pizza, he's no longer sending flowers, The point is it happens on both sides but it is fixable if you're honest about it talk about it and work on it. No it's never going to be like in the beginning when it's lust and not love and all of those chemicals in your body do what they do scientifically that's just proven but you can both agree to put in more effort

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Deezy
Dallas, TX · 2 months ago

getting it is not the problem..... shhhid usually they be done got on your nerves so bad you dont even want it. I swear it is hard af to stay married without a good side bish. Thank you to all the good side bishes from us married dudes. We appreciate yall.

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stash
Charlotte, NC · 6 days ago

not true. I'm married and still don't get it once a mnth

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Mickeal Landan
Monroe, NC · 3 days ago

absolutely got married it was done deal all she wanted was me to hold her till she fell asleep said she only wanted that cause she couldn't sleep if she didn't feel safe what now I'm guard dog and paying bills treating her like a queen what

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Patricia Rubinstein
Huntington Beach, CA · 6 days ago

It goes both ways" some can't even get it up😂😂

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123
San Diego, CA · 4 days ago

Only idiots get married

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Demetrius Nelson
Queens, NY · 4 days ago

facts

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Jose Castillo
Royal Oak, MI · 2 days ago

Yes women forget about sex after marriage ,unless its with a stranger

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koka papalema
Sacramento, CA · 2 days ago

This is crazy to me. I cant even imagine how that go.🤔

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Michael Legg
Portsmouth, OH · 5 days ago

yes

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100
Mountville, PA · 9 days ago

😂 Definitely not true

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Redline Racer
Detroit, MI · 6 days ago

💯 %true.

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Nathan L. Howard
Birmingham, AL · 10 days ago

100%

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Veto Hall
Columbia, SC · 10 days ago

yes

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Vaughn Lee
Memphis, TN · 10 days ago

Yep

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Raymond BROWN
Cleveland, TN · 7 days ago

no

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Tammy Tippens
Chattanooga, TN · 2 days ago

unfortunately yes

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William Cox
Stow, OH · 2 days ago

yes if that much

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John
Forest Lake, MN · 2 days ago

true

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LiL-dingo
New York, NY · 9 hours ago

eventually you get tired of each other

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Troy London
Union City, GA · 2 days ago

yes it's true that is why married people cheat

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