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MrMikebeben
Mansfield Center, CT · 5 months ago

Everybody talking about her well what about him and a whole damn stand for his phone smh. Social media has ruined people

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Jonae Brooks
Austin, TX · 5 months ago

cheesecake factory is good as hell with her ungrateful ass I wish my man could take me to the damn cheesecake factory

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Nikki
New York City, NY · 2 months ago

This chick is crazy. I’ll admit Cheesecake Factory isn’t a “fancy restaurant” in the way she was asking him but CF is very pretty, has a nice menu and isn’t cheap in any way. She’s a snot and probably doesn’t have the $$$ to pay for her dinner!!!

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Nick Zuniga
Apple Valley, CA · 3 months ago

Good man slip the bill 👌🏼

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Asher Mclendon
Lucedale, MS · 5 months ago

Jus like a woman won’t pay for her food and get mad when you tell her to cook

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Vernell Smith
5 months ago

Good for him, pay heffa

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Sy Hopp
Dallas, TX · 5 months ago

CF is nice...

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Kevin Artis
Brooklyn, NY · 5 months ago

you lower your standards when you asked him to take you to a fancy restaurant as if you were so privileged and deserving of him doing so if you wanted to go to a fancy restaurant then why didn't you take him, you see I'm not afraid to say that's what's wrong with black women black women have these high expectations and they based on a stupid ridiculous movies and television shows that they watch all right they don't think that they have to put no work in but they deserve it of all of this glitz and glory they they deserve and of all this luxury just because they are Grayson this man with their presence. please!

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Claudette
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

If you wearing false eyelashes, fake hair , fake nails then you didn't lower your standards for that date, you lower your standards by choice

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michael Dawson
The Villages, FL · 5 months ago

hey she wants an expensive place to eat take it to the gas station filling up a diesel

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j smoove
College Park, GA · 5 months ago

he on a date with a phone stand watching yt.. damn the cheesecake factory homie fried

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Eriberto “Darkside11232” Moya
New York, NY · 5 months ago

this what happens when your hungry for a piece of garbage

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Amanda French
Cincinnati, OH · 5 months ago

I must be poor cause I wish I could go there more 🥰

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Robert Correa
Philadelphia, PA · 5 months ago

That's what happens.When you mess with broke women

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Dorothy Grays
Gainesville, FL · 5 months ago

I love Cheesecake Factory. She ungrateful 😳😳

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Gerard Couture
Kill Devil Hills, NC · 5 months ago

at least he learned what she was about

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Karen Salvin
Hoquiam, WA · 5 months ago

love cheese cake factory. Bye girl

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Brian Hohnwald
Zanesville, OH · 5 months ago

Tell that Crab to kick rocks

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Jean Meyer
Orlando, FL · 5 months ago

She has standards? 🤔

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Hank Coulter
Oklahoma City, OK · 5 months ago

take her to 7-11😂

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Jeff D.
Lexington, KY · 5 months ago

she ignorant pos

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Aaron Werts
Clovis, NM · 5 months ago

he souldnt have said anything and just got up and left!

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Buckle_my_shoe34
Baton Rouge, LA · 5 months ago

I wouldn’t even be mad lol

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mvp99
McKeesport, PA · 5 months ago

I see she didn't want to pay

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póg mo thóin
Spartanburg, SC · 5 months ago

I don't understand using your phone while on a date. but he should run quickly...she just wants the money.

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Gbar1882
The Bronx, NY · 5 months ago

so ungrateful

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Santiago Chavera
Queens, NY · 5 months ago

ifwthatwallet

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Tx brat
League City, TX · 5 months ago

If you're going on a date with a person, you need to be on the date with that person not your cell phone. The Cheesecake Factory is okay for a date. It's about quality time my first date with my husband we were eating tacos in the driveway talking for over 3 hours. We've been together for almost 15 years now.

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Brownsugah Smith
Fridley, MN · 5 months ago

Take your ass on, gurl! That's why you all by yourself and will forever will be!

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Patricia Ann
5 months ago

rude lady you should be happy he took you out to dinner. I be happy to go out no matter where the man takes me

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Jorge Ruiz
Phoenix, AZ · 5 months ago

ngl being on the phone while on a date is crazy 😂 but yeah she trippen shit be mad expensive at cheese cake factory plus its bomb af

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My Crazy Life
Mesa, AZ · 5 months ago

Cheese Cake Factory is expensive as fuck.

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Minnie Rosario
Norwalk, CT · 5 months ago

sir RUN RUN FAST

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Michael McFrezza
Hermitage, TN · 5 months ago

she is expecting something from him. Thays not how it's works. There is no way I'm taking you to a real nice dinner on the first date, not happening. If a lady wants a fancy first date then she can plan it amd foot the bill

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bingo
Shreveport, LA · 5 months ago

she believes the Olive garden is more prestigious 😂

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Brian Quinn
Dover, FL · 5 months ago

let's be honest she has no standards

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Kiwe
Waldorf, MD · 5 months ago

Dump her

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Jermel Reeves
New York, NY · 5 months ago

Why would I spend 200.oo on a meal and U might not like me.

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Angela Simmons
Dundalk, MD · 5 months ago

he lowered his standards!!

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Stephanie Coffia
Bakersfield, CA · 5 months ago

I'd love to go eat there🥰🥰

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Mitca
Colorado Springs, CO · 5 months ago

She needs to go out with the trash 🗑️

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speak the truth
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

sounds like a McDonald's attitude. you can't take those.people somewhere nice

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Mr. Rouse
Shaker Heights, OH · 5 months ago

Should've let her ungrateful azz leave ✌🏼

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Randy
Bruce, MS · 5 months ago

food looks good

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Tracey Valentine
Wesley Chapel, FL · 5 months ago

Sounds like HE lowered his standards! I hope he finds the Queen he deserves!

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Skyreezy
Compton, CA · 5 months ago

Good thing you found out early. Dodged the bullet

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Karen Starnes
Lowell, IN · 5 months ago

Gold digger

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