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Sunshine 72
Halifax, NC · 4 months ago

There's no such thing as a mistake getting another woman pregnant and you have a wife.

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MIZZUNDERSTOOD BY MANY
Atlanta, GA · 4 months ago

I would just by mistake find myself at the nearest divorce attorney. And then just by mistake sign those documents and move on unbothered bcuz that’s going to be a situation for them. I wasn’t there when they made the mistake so there’s no need to be there now!

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Donna James
New York, NY · 4 months ago

Frist of all it wasn't a mistake. Good bye

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I PRAYED FOR YOU
Omaha, NE · 4 months ago

Getting someone pregnant is never a mistake

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Hazelene Young
Pikesville, MD · 4 months ago

The most important aspect of this is; he got someone pregnant because he wasn’t using protection himself, he wasn’t protecting his wife 😳and their are worse things than a baby, HIV is still a very serious disease in which their is No Cure, for someone to be so careless is dangerous and unforgivable !

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Pinckney Mount
Jacksonville, FL · 4 months ago

Doesn't sound like a mistake.🤔

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miss means
Brooklyn, NY · 4 months ago

What is your wife accidentally got pregnant by another man, as a good husband, what would you do?

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Kenyatta Woodard
Gary, IN · 4 months ago

Stay and help take care of the baby. I took a vow til death do us part

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Angel Johnson
Live Oak, FL · 4 months ago

Pack his bags n let him go with her once you cheat you done with me! Thats that!

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Cheryl Orr
St. Albans, NY · 4 months ago

divorce him

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Golden Girl
Laurel, MD · 4 months ago

I obtained divorce papers by mistake, I contacted a lawyer by mistake, I signed divorce papers by mistake.

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darlene hodges
Boston, MA · 4 months ago

There’s never a mistake sleeping with others especially getting another woman pregnant are you insane. I’ll go to the court house to file for a divorce such as I did without him it was easy and a divorce was granted . God is good all the time !

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Kaye Q. Da Boss
New Orleans, LA · 4 months ago

Good bye Freddy 👍🏼that’s not a mistake. 😲🙆🏽🤦🏽‍♀️

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Teresa Mcgee
Stamford, CT · 4 months ago

what kinda mistake is that ? so he fell and accidentally got his peanut butter stuck in the jelly without trying to make a sandwich

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soughout
Gary, IN · 4 months ago

No mistake 🤔🤔

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Sister Monique Mock
Winston-Salem, NC · 3 months ago

First of all, a sincere husband will not cheat on his wife. It is a choice, not a mistake. A man committed to Jesus, will honor that commitment first. Second, the consequences of a wrong decision by a man does not define whether his wife is good or not. Whether she decides to stay or go is her choice. What makes a good wife is how she obeys the Lord and loves, prays for and respects her husband. If the husband, through foolishness breaks the marriage contract then he has to reap the harvest he's sown.

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Lige Ellis
Phoenix, AZ · 19 days ago

how you get your side piece pregnant by accident???

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Jesuslive
Jacksonville, FL · 4 months ago

As the Wife you’re gonna stay with your husband & make sure that he does right by his baby that he went out & made it’s not the baby’s fault . Now if his plans are to continue tipping out with baby mama send his clothes with him & lock your doors behind him

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Tonya Sympson
Hopkinsville, KY · 2 months ago

there is no mistake he's cheating on you. Divorce time

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Angela Williams
Milwaukee, WI · 2 months ago

we are done

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Betty Tatro
Rutland, VT · 3 months ago

What do you mean, "by mistake"? He doesn't know how babies are made?

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jill
Nashville, TN · 3 months ago

Kick him out.His new family needs him

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Deborah N Hayes
Miami, FL · 4 months ago

We don’t accept any outside children! You can have the whole man!

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Alfonzo McKnight
Fort Worth, TX · 3 months ago

Move on, take some time to heal.Then get out a pen and paper and write down the type of husband you want You need then put it in your Bible. Pray over it watch and see if God Gives it to you because he will

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Laverne Tuener
Chester, PA · 4 months ago

how about him no protection

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Bert Stokes
Woodbridge, VA · 4 months ago

how do you get someone pregnant by a mistake?

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Jackie McCarrell
Chicago, IL · 4 months ago

Show Good Will and CUT IT OFF😆

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Ellen Mcnair
Albany, GA · 4 months ago

A good wife would leave his ass and never look back because it’s not a mistake . He could have used a condom. And if she’s a good wife he shouldn’t have cheated in the first place

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Shirley Walls
Chicago, IL · 4 months ago

let him go be with his side piece and his new baby....that was no mistake

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M. Carter
East Stroudsburg, PA · 4 months ago

Get myself pregnant by someone else now he got 2 to support 😂😂😂

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Gwendolyn Bradley
Washington, DC · 4 months ago

Not a mistake first they both knew that he was married and then he not using a condom and her no birth control so they can both be happy together 👎🏾🤗✋🏽Bye dude because I don’t want her in my life with her baby Moma drama ✋🏽bye hubby you mad that bed whether you meant to or not you destroyed the family we had I don’t want nothing to do with either of you ✋🏽😡👎🏾

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Grandma Nelda
McAllen, TX · 3 months ago

How can you get a woman pregnant by mistake. He is a cheater period. Get out of that relationship

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Tracy Peoples
Oakland, CA · 3 months ago

a good wife would wait until you go to work or your baby gouse and and be gone with a quickness

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Victoria Owen
3 months ago

Good Bye! Plain and simple.

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Sylvia Perez
Brooklyn, NY · 3 months ago

no such thing by mistake

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Judy
Bangor, ME · 4 months ago

Divorce his ass

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angel wing on earth
3 months ago

Get a divorce

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Peggi Clark
Citrus Springs, FL · 4 months ago

by mistake?

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Teirra Chenault
Coral Springs, FL · 3 months ago

Leave

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Patricia Waugh
Greensboro, NC · 4 months ago

Leave

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Tribeless Native
Garland, TX · 4 months ago

I will let him go be a family man with that other woman and be happy that Im free of that drama. Asè 🙏

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Sage James
4 months ago

How can anyone husband get someone pregnant by mistake is no mistake in it

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Yolanda Singleton
Des Moines, IA · 4 months ago

Be a good wife and don’t cause no drama just politely leave his ass!

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Donna Jordan
New York, NY · 4 months ago

U don’t get pregnant my a mistake what happen to protection

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Cilda Kris
Gainesville, FL · 4 months ago

by mistake?👍 he will cheat again leave you deserve better💕

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Yvette Wheeler
Chicago, IL · 4 months ago

kids make mistake. grown folk do it on purpose

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Linda Harrison
Evansville, IN · 4 months ago

leave him as fast as I could

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Shelia Marquis
Albuquerque, NM · 4 months ago

Wish him well

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Yollie
Boardman, OR · 4 months ago

Well, with me to each his own, there wouldn’t be no mistakes for me. I could guarantee that he could go where he started his mess up. He could stay over there. I’ll be done.

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Sir Fleming
2 months ago

leave

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Tira Howard-Holland
Canton, OH · 3 months ago

DIVORCE... PERIOD.👋

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Evelyn Mitchell
Clinton Township, MI · 3 months ago

I would be out ..... ✌️

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Teresa McCurry
Marshall, TX · 3 months ago

let him have her independent single and celibate unto God and my divine service dogs healing and loving myself 🙏🥰

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Coffina Hye
Fort Worth, TX · 3 months ago

make sure i get childsupport.

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Common Sense101
Moreauville, LA · 3 months ago

If your wife got pregnant for another man, what would you do as a good husband?

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Leticia
Chicago, IL · 3 months ago

Never a mistake, always a choice!

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