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it's just my opinion but as a step dad you should feel really uncomfortable about putting your hands on someone else's kids.
If you able to go over there, why weren't you with your kids in the first place? Hmmmmmm
That whole part 😂
Six boyfriends in 3 months??? So, mom’s the village well - every thirsty man gets a drink from her.
You did the right thing, report her! Do your best to get your kids, cuz these so called boyfriends have NO right to touch them.!!
why you call in the calvery? You should have just been a man and went over there and did it yourself
Real talk!
Is there ever going to be a day that we won't hear my baby mama? God forbid we don't have married people have children. Before you fools come after me I got the moral of the story. To bad people don't have morals before they have children
This is why the bible and the word of God tells us, marriage and children are between one and one woman. the way we live complicates things, always drama and kids are affected the most! These women are having kids with multiple men and then want other men to raise them. its insane!
When I got divorced and I had my daughter with me, I didn't date anymore. I didn't want anything to happen to her, so I just didn't bring men around.
Kids will try folks... As a father separated from my children, I would have to know all the details about what happened because I wouldn't want to harm someone doing the exact same thing I would have done. If I'm not able to discipline my children when they need it then I have to pray that a responsible father figure would. But if I don't agree with what happened, trust and believe, my children won't be the only ones being beaten!
okay I understood this very well it's like a comedy,I don't think it's personal the baby mama said whenever the kids don't listen her boyfriend is allowed to to discipline the kids so when he told the boyfriend to feed them in 5 minutes and he called the key is in 6 minutes to see if they ate and they have not eaten yet so they went over there and discipline the boyfriend because he didn't listen, that was him proven a point to the baby mom and what she said was stupid especially if she had six different boyfriends within 3 months and you allow all these different men to discipline the kids if they don't listen (damn) that's a lot of discipline going on
The charm on the necklace says it all… Why aren’t you fathering your kids is the real question…. Destined to live the stereotype because of ignorance that was passed on to you
Nope no man touches my kid hell I don't even spank him there's other forms of discipline although my son is a pretty good kid who follows rules is polite doesn't cause trouble and is all around good but he is only 7 so 🤣
That’s why you need to be careful who you have kids with period listen how they talk, treat , other people kids their logic how they treat their Moma, and you , sorry but you seem huge so I understand going touching dude up and not going alone but what’s with the jumping ? 5 min isn’t reasonable your beef was with her for real where are you why don’t u watch them or yours ? I don’t agree.
Your baby mommy is no good. She need to learn to be by herself instead of jumping from man to man. Bringing them around her kids. She’s teaching her kids that’s type of life is normal.And no man should be anyone kids if they are not his own.
You feel comfortable coming on social media and telling the world that you called other dudes to help solve your problem with that one dude.
Young man- your children are Gods gift. They should be with a woman who is responsible as well as you should be responsible. Your children are alive - not toys. Shame on you that you would leave your children to be abused, mentally, physically and spiritually. I pray that they are not sexually assaulted or worse…
Mom's boyfriend shouldn't put hands on children without mother and fathers consent, but this guy was wrong to go jump him. He called and told the boyfriend that his kids needed to eat in the next 5 minutes and when he called the kids and asked if they ate yet the kid said "naw he STILL COOKING". To me sounds like dude was cooking some food for the kids. Jerome got jumped for the wrong reasons lol
no no my first baby mama I had two kids girls they was demons I just got out of prison for double murder she just started dating him like two years he try to tell them to clean and other stuff I went grap him I beat him to the point of almost killing him and he never ever ever ever ever stood with them alone is been 31 years later he is so scare of me that he made sure he never saw me again since that day now I am old so now I let my friends do the fighting mr.45 Mr.AK 47 Mr.ARP and MISS.9 and they all have family members so yea smart man
after watching all the horrible things that happened to children and babies on you-tube, just beware. You need to go get your kids and know all the signs of c.a. Not saying everyone is this way, but watch your own.
he was cooking. So he was listening. cooking not serving raw food takes time. I guess you prefer him to feed them raw food. Now if Jerome wasn't cooking and sitting on the couch that's different.
Oh no no no!!! None of this boyfriend’s whoopin those kids. In this situation I think this dude did the right thing. I don’t have a solution but mom needs to find it soon
i agree however the best thing he could've done was take her to court nd show how abusive mom is and how she allows 6 different men to abuse her kids and chances are ull get custody.
He was still cooking meaning he was feeding your kids! Some people are too stupid to understand how bad it could really be. If you can find someone to treat your kids as good as you do it’s special. Ignorant,
yeah cuz some people have shared custody you can't always be with your kids but somebody put your hands on your kid you sure got every right to discipline them I think mama needs to have a little talking to also you should not even have that many men in and out of your kids lives hopefully that's the only physical abuse happening from them men
Oh my God...hell no! she shouldn't be letting her kids see her being intimate with a revolving door of men OR letting men she bately knows play papa bear with your babies! Take action before its too late.
I'm sure this is just rage baiting. Anyway, marry the mother of your children. That way, you'll never worry about some random dude filling your shoes. Y'all stay hydrated out there!
I’m with this father on her boyfriend whipping his children cause no man besides the daddy should whip there child if they deserve it otherwise nah! My husband never whipped my sons including his own son cause I was the one that discipline them not nobody else and I raised good men
mane listen , if you are a father who takes care of your kids then by all means no one can tell you a thing sir. AT ALL. because you doing what you have to and on top of that your physically there. but if that man is providing and taking care of them kids with her and they still acting out then shut up if you are an absent father you have no right idc ! step fathers mentally go thru so much and no one talks about that fr .. if im a step father and im taking care of your kids and i know you not doing nothing a thing at all to help provide , im gone discipline them kids kiss my ass !
I like that kind of reasoning he's right after all she said they don't listen they got to be disciplined I hear nobody put an age limit on that that's a good dad
So, the man takes the time to cook for some children THAT AREN'T EVEN HIS, And for his troubles, HE GETS BEAT UP FOR IT!? Got it. Just one more example men are advised NOT to get with women who already have children. Nobody deserves this kind of drama.💯
but a person is supposed to accept the fact that it's a packaged deal is expected to do for protect provide tech and step up and treat the kids as if they are there's but ain't allowed to correct and or discipline is crazy and you weak because you had to get other people to handle something that you had a problem with then when they grow up and the streets or the law teaches them that their are rules and consequences for their actions blame your self
I have mixed opinions about this, but I’m going to say he’s he’s right when I got married I believe in this in my children not someone else but me don’t put your hands on my child. Have a conversation with me first and we’ll take it from there.
Thats dangerous you or suppose to get on her and him and she shouldn't tell no man to hit her children 🥺 that can lead to the children being scared to tell they ma or da if they are being sexual assaulted not saying that happen but stuff like that sometimes lead to that .🥺 but dont fight and go the jail its worth it but its not give him that warning and do a police report that way if you have to protect them again it will be on record 🥺
NOW, That was a fantastic lesson and filled with room for educational growth. In addition, I think she isn't very wise in her decision to allow her partners to discipline her children. it can cause, depending on the man, jealousy, entitlement and retribution. People need to THINK ABOUT THE DECISIONS AND CHOICES THAT THEY MAKE. DON'T JUST ACT WITHOUT DEEP THOUGHTS.🥰🥰🥰🥰🥰
he was still cooking so he was trying apparently and if ur not there to discipline ur kids somebody needs to the correct way and not backhands into their face
first all....she was wrong...second why he wasn't there taking care of his kids....he's not there to discipline them...and finally if the kids are disrespectful to me it's time to bounce...that's drama you don't need bro.
I was I'm kinda understanding you bruh,bruh but when you said y'all went over there and jumped my dude ,crazy work,you couldn't deal with him one on one 😳
go get your kids and people won't be responsible for them. simple as that clean up after your own. take your little bundles with you as men. the woman can make another but take yours so another man won't have to do anything.
as long as it's for discipline and not put of anger.i think in my own opinion that if they are doing wrong it should be handled in the proper with a step parent.o am a stepmom of 2 and they are good to me,but I do discipline if nessary.i feel of I didn't,that they would be getting away with whatever it is they did wrong and they would be disrespectful to me if I didn't let them know that they are wrong.correction is nessary in the write way.spmetimes just talking to them doesn't get through to them till you mean business.not a beating but a whipping .there is a difference
Nope, my stepdad tried once to spank me once. I told him you're not my dad and my dad will beat your ass if you do. He never laid a hand on me.
You should be showing proof of all this to the court system bro. That’s the only way to win NOT on social media like this. It makes u sound like u don’t know chit and you seem smarter bro. Jumping them ain’t smart at all no lie. Poor kids will be mentally destroyed thinking like this
😂😂😂😂 Nope they ain't no man gonna touch my kids if so it want be but once unless he is the Daddy or the man who raised them and supported them
🤣🤣🤣good one
I see you bro /G\ for life
That’s rite
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Lesson learned 😂😂
Too bad it doesn’t resonate with the black culture when you don’t listen you need to be disciplined
THAT WAY
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😁😁 good daddy