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Marie
5 months ago

What is wrong with her? He seems very loving, intelligent and he is hot to boot.

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Charles Hicks
Jonesboro, GA · 6 months ago

At least she was honest a Black woman would of told u the kid was urs and have u raise it for years before u found out!

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Anthony Jones
Cheektowaga, NY · 3 months ago

now comes the time for you to get a lawyer and sign the papers and let her go she gave away everything that you and her ever had when she opened her legs to another man just let her go quietly because this can be messy hold on to what little sanity and peace within you and know that God is watching

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Brenda Stevenson
Kissimmee, FL · 3 months ago

Prayers 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏 God Bless You

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Guest Fox
Jupiter, FL · 3 months ago

I know this feeling, except it was the other way around. I found out about year 20 of marriage my husband had a long term relationship started way before we got married and didn’t end until 15 years prior to him telling me. It produced a child and they chose to abort. Living with the guilt of the abortion is what drove him to blurt everything out one night during an argument. I cried a lot and prayed even more. I extended grace and eventually forgiveness. We love each other and are still together. People do what they are taught and he doesn’t think he did anything wrong. I learned people cannot love / give more than they are capable and putting your expectations on someone is unfair. So, I don’t expect anything from anyone which protects me from getting hurt.

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Kathleen DiLascio
Toms River, NJ · 3 months ago

That’s how both men and women feel when a partner cheats. It breaks you. Cheaters are heartless. If you want someone else, just leave first. 😔

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Savannah
Potterville, MI · 5 months ago

listening to him in that short time, you feel the sadness and his kindness, he will get a new life , she sure lost in life losing this one. he even loved the inlaws.

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SMC75
San Jose, CA · 3 months ago

🥰🥰🥰🥰😭😭😭😭😭😭🥺🥺🥺🥺

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Hayley M Young
Jacksonville, FL · 3 months ago

This is so sad 🙏🏼. Most of the time it's from the woman's perspective and this man is devastated, so very sad 😢

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Frankie Person
Chicago, IL · 5 months ago

😭Don’t be sad about what she did, She was not the wife that the lord intended for you, Please pray and ask God for peace with in your heart and soul, Almighty God will bless you with a beautiful soul mate who will love you and respect your feelings you are so handsome and sweet you deserve happiness and peace in your life

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KC Nguyenhuynh
Federal Way, WA · 3 months ago

im sorry. that is very hard

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Marilyn Warden Tanner
Boerne, TX · 3 months ago

So sad.

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Michael Lacroix
Westview, FL · 5 months ago

hold court why this man said the dog you see people that's what am talking about he is talking about something so traumatic and then mentions the dog really sir

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Temeka Bolton
Little Rock, AR · 3 months ago

Did you ask her to stay or leave.

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Monique
El Paso, TX · 5 months ago

I know this feeling. Total devastation. Hard to breathe. Prayers 🙏🏼

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Julie in Texas
Vidor, TX · 3 months ago

When there is a good man...most times the woman cheats. When there is a good woman...the man cheats. Crazy

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Dotti Hamann
Battle Creek, MI · 3 months ago

I’m so very sorry for your pain. I pray you have healed and forgiven her. 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼

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Just Simply Sandy
Toccoa, GA · 3 months ago

My son is going through the same thing and I am here to tell y’all it’s heartbreaking. 🌸

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Melly B
Jeannette, PA · 3 months ago

I'm so sorry, honey! I hope you heal quickly.🙏 I just dont understand these kinds of women. They've got it all & dont appreciate or cherish any of it. They just pass on it & throw it away! You are a good, amazing, brilliant, and handsome man, deserving of a good woman's love & loyalty. 🥰

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LLwhite
Stockton, CA · 3 months ago

I'm so sorry for him. Forget her......you'll recover over time.

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NeS
Long Beach, CA · 3 months ago

Poor guy, I would’ve never done that to this good and handsome man 🥺😢

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Stephen Mckernan
Shirley, NY · 6 months ago

I’ve been there! I feel that I could never share all of me ever again!

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lepray50
Rocklin, CA · 3 months ago

Poor guy

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Thelma Aldarondo
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

keep your head up, God has someone one for you.

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Janis Eury
China Grove, NC · 3 months ago

How sad.

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Jerry Johnson
Nashville, TN · 5 months ago

I really know your pain and all you can do is push forward

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Elle
Bullhead City, AZ · 3 months ago

Quick somebody play a country record backwards! If u get the joke send laughs.

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ilovenyc
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

Who cheat on handsome men like that , I think they no sex , how she knows she was pregnant with other men !

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Valorie Ford
Ringgold, GA · 3 months ago

he seems like a nice enough guy but... men sometimes quit trying after the ring goes on. no more flowers. no more dates. no more talking. And it can be translated as no more caring. like really caring.

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DumpsterFireOnADailyBasis
3 months ago

Who is he? It feels exactly like a house of crumbling cards.

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Karlee Knutson
Dixon, CA · 5 months ago

There is no coming back from that ever

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Spankie SantoDomingo
Amsterdam, NY · 5 months ago

if you have never been truly heartbroken, it's impossible for you to understand what this does to your soul.

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Terri Mac
Charlottesville, VA · 3 months ago

I'm sorry 😔 This also happened to me except at least she told you the truth instead of finding out in bits and pieces. I completely know how you felt though. I wish you healing.

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Peggy Keep
Lansing, MI · 3 months ago

Yep..I know the feeling when you do not get a vote!🤔🤔🤔🤔

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Brittany Bruce Owings
Duncan, SC · 3 months ago

I hope I never have to deal with this

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SLyMeBaG38
New York City, NY · 5 months ago

i couldn't..... bros got all my respect 💯

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mimi guinn
Columbia, PA · 5 months ago

What u lost was a cheating wife who didn't deserve u! A good man will prosper and trust me that will come full circle to her.

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Happy hour
4 months ago

a little context please what brought this on give us more of a backstory how long have you been married?

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David Martin
Raleigh, NC · 3 months ago

Been there.

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Prayer warrior
Bakersfield, CA · 5 months ago

We love to tell story on here

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Marvin Jones
Salinas, CA · 3 months ago

America's biggest form of disrespect and no honor.. it's shameful that people have no respecting themselves or others easy for them to dishonor

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Christine Elizabeth
Bend, OR · 3 months ago

How would she know it's the side pieces baby?? If you guys aren't doing it,, there is usually a very big problem. If it can't be yours it means you obviously weren't sleeping with your own wife, maybe she wants a man that sleeps with her

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candi
Gadsden, AL · 3 months ago

Poor guy. Feel sorry for him.

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Richard Martinosky
Lorain, OH · 4 months ago

Happened to me too

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Bukenwald
Waterbury, CT · 4 months ago

ok

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Jose Rivera
Bronx, NY · 5 months ago

God bless you my brother!!!💪💯🙏

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Gina Partridge
West Charleston, VT · 5 months ago

Damn! I will take him..

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warbirdsindinroa
Ocala, FL · 5 months ago

This is a blessing in disguise.You didn't lose when you said you lost your wife. Remember the man you are, pull yourself together and start a new path for your future. You seem like a good man and that's a lot to start over with. You have a great, exciting life ahead of you, one step at a time. God bless you. Prayers and blessings sent to you. Go on get started.

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