BetterRelationships
Welcome to BetterRelationships—the Circle devoted to honest, real talk about building, fixing, and navigating relationships of all kinds. From romance and friendships to family drama and workplace tension, this is your judgment-free space to seek advice, share lessons learned, and help others grow. No shame, no perfect answers—just real people helping each other deal with the mess and magic of human connection.
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so doesn't that also work the other way around. and shouldn't a man also pleasure his woman in the same way.
not used as a weapon or reward, just stopped because he doesn't get that part of me if MY needs are not being met so I'm not turned on. simple
The power you feel turning him on that way is erotic. IMO😁
Mans got a point 💯
we are all different ppl speak of their recent and or not recent past they are giving off their experience not ours my lady ain't big on it but I love munchin it's kinda weird but it's fun to me 🙏🙌
Okay. So none of what he is saying is true, because before I married my husband or I should say, my husband married me. He knew I did not like oral sex me. Giving it or receiving it, and we're still married after 32 years. He he has no clue
This guy is actually gay.
Its gross, not doing it,idc what he says
I guess my wife hasn’t been attracted to me since 1996.…..😂😂😂😂😂
disagree totally!!! I've never enjoyed giving or receiving oral pleasure. Always thought that that's disgusting so marriage made no difference in that opinion or actions! I love my husband 20 yrs later as much as the day i met him!!!💘 💕 if SEX COMPLETELY GOES THAT'S WHEN IT'S OVER!!!
I think I messed up🤔
I wanted to get mad at first at what he was saying because I'm a feminist but I think he might be on to something here. I'm thinking about my past relationships and my marriage and he is definitely on to something here. I definitely use this as a negotiation tool in my marriage.😂😂😂
none of that is true 😂😂😂 me and my man happy as hell and the reason is that our relationship isnt based off sexual attraction but our common interests, our senses of humor and our basic EMOTIONAL connection . yeah we have sex but just because i dont get on my knees everyday doesnt mean we arent happy
My last boyfriend really tried to get me to do it after I already told him I don’t like doing it and now he’s gone because he wouldn’t stop bothering me about it
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Women are selfish and this is unfortunately not true guys. Even if she loves you, after a while, she will stop because it doesn't benefit her.
This guy so wrong. Obviously coming from a guy who hates women.Has nothing to do with attraction or respect.
as a woman that's been with my husband 14 years.its just how we like to pleasure each other.he does me to get things started.but yes I will ask him to do something just to give him a surprise.if it doesn't work for you and yours why judge.f
I use it as leverage to get what I want lmao. and we've been together 10 years.
Sounds like he’s looking at it from a gay man’s perspective and not a woman’s.
I literally got 3 out of 17 years lol
it may be a chore for my wife but every night for 20 years so far seems to be a good damn chore for her😂
I guess we can agree that we disagree.
Blowjobs aren't for everyone. He's just giving his side of his story for his female
Yeah, my ex for sure.
I don't know what women he deals with but I enjoy doing it for my husband and have for 25 yrs. infact he got 3 this weekend alone. get better women guys.
man, guess my wife never loved me then🥺
Not as simple as that, but def a consideration
agree with the man in the video
lmaooo facts
When one door closes another door opens 🤷🏻♂️
hands Free maintenance
Nope. Some women just like it. I was with someone and she blew me all the time. While also servicing a few others before we split. But I do believe he is right. Most women now are no where near as submissive as women once where. Go women. And to be so for someone they do not respect or love is not done. We men are the same.
Yeah my wife is daf but she never liked doing it since day one and I kind of like that besides she was with women before me so u know!
That's such a disgusting ordeal. I can't even respect a woman that does that.
damn SMH
what if she never did it?