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Noname
Park Forest, IL · a month ago

he probably shouldn't have been dating if he broke

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suzanne nelson
Buckeye, AZ · 19 hours ago

I think he’s saying know your man! Know his every day life! Know HIM. Quit PLAYIN. Be REAL.

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Catherine Chambers
Hillcrest Heights, MD · 5 days ago

I agree with you Sir because she has been with him for four years and he never gave her nothing you should have been gone a long time ago 🤨🤨🤨

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Vanessta Puryear
Jersey City, NJ · 18 hours ago

facts 💯

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Mimi
New York City, NY · 10 days ago

😂😂😂😂😂😂

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Chris Turner-Clark
Brooklyn, NY · 4 days ago

yes 🥰

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meyaka williams
Milton, FL · 12 days ago

That’s taking advantage of the situation!!! She should’ve given him $50 just to show she cares and she’s thinking about him 🥺

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Quill$
25 days ago

my issue is I can't ask anyone for money. I'd go without before I asked a man for money

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Tawny Millard
Queens, NY · a month ago

no lies told. and I'm not giving no man 4 years and dont know nothing about his situation. she needs to stay single. She's a bird!

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Adrean Mims
Toledo, OH · 21 days ago

women kill me with games I will give u 50 but I will never let u kn what I really have u can't trust chicks these days

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Ty Penny
Peyton, CO · a day ago

If you ain’t got $50, you shouldn’t have a boyfriend/girlfriend focus on yourself and stack your paper do better kings and queens

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rico max
Lake Zurich, IL · 17 days ago

bra had to stand up & look ya in the face playing wit that half of 100 😭

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Charles Randolph
Haverhill, MA · 10 days ago

because this is what women really do they play these psychological games

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Blackgoddess💎10/02
New Orleans, LA · 11 days ago

4 years and she just asked him for $50 dollars

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MisterMartinez2099
Katy, TX · 10 days ago

Amen brother

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Jacke jones
24 days ago

Preach brother🥰

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Mz.LaVee
Phoenixville, PA · 21 days ago

FACTS..as a woman never knock someone financially ..

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Alejandro Reyes
Manhattan, NY · 3 days ago

I don’t think the issue is the $50 itself there’s two different angles here one him say not to get used to it is kind of a abrupt unnecessary request if you’ve been dating somebody for a little bit her asking for the 50 can make him uncomfortable because we would like to think as grown-ups That there’s independent financial stability

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A A-MI-NA
Jacksonville, FL · 16 days ago

after 4yrs why test him, within that time frame he should have already shown you who he was,

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Desmond Broom
Roseville, MI · 11 days ago

I'm glad im single, She probably did need it though....But if thats the situation, Say so!! Stop playing.

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DTA 4321
13 days ago

ASKED. LOL

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Wilfredo Ponce
Las Vegas, NV · 8 days ago

she is for the street

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Shameon Montgomery
Marlin, TX · 11 days ago

IDC the gentleman spoke facts. That's for men n women.

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Richard Taylor
Chattanooga, TN · 13 days ago

She should have just stayed her but at the crib because after this gets out to him he really ain’t gonna mess with you period

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romeo keyes
Gulfport, MS · 13 days ago

datpart

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Tony Loco
Dallas, TX · a month ago

#1 sounds like this someone she just met at the gas station. It's not a problem for someone you actually know. If a woman wants money from a man, all she needs to do is cook for him and hang out.

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Angel Mccondichie
Horn Lake, MS · 21 days ago

went clean off after saying ion wanna go off😂😂😂

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just real
Phenix City, AL · 17 days ago

Basically, another woman proving that money is over everything in love don’t mean shit no matter how much he tries to say love is everything in the relationship relationship money over everything in her mind

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rico max
Lake Zurich, IL · 17 days ago

How can u not determined a person's character & role in life after 4 yrs of entanglement 🙄 you testing him after 4 yrs 👀 or are u testing your judgment in man 👀 now she probably been around a new friend and her dude lets her waste money like a park water fountain 🤷 so she decides to go home and ask the man she choose who's struggling to collect enough ducks to complete a blunt 😫 drinking open beer cans from last night & you don't know who been drinking it 🥴 It's to type of ppl in the world it's those that eat & those that don't 🙄

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Chica 411
Encinitas, CA · 17 days ago

damn my husband has never let me go with out! hes always provided everything I never have to work he wants me home waiting for him. he said he wouldn't feel like a man if I had to work.

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Steven Abasta
Kansas City, MO · 16 days ago

The best I’ve ever been has a man was two years ago when I fell in love with my ex. All I wanted was to give her the world. Now that me and her are together you’re lucky if I show up for work 40 hours a week.

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Katrina
Quitman, MS · a month ago

come on you guys four years this man ain't never gave her a dime she did not say she is never helped him. on top of that I've never met a man that if he care about you he don't even just say here baby go get you some dinner or your baby this on me today it may not be much but they going to do something in four years because that is how most men function they want you to know that you're important that you exist and it don't be about their money. I make my own money I have my own money but 4 years and she had to even test him she need to run cuz that man is not invested. she shouldn't have played but you guys know that man ain't spend that woman if she had to ask for $50 I thought four years.

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Bruce Nichols
Reading, PA · 23 days ago

THANK YOU SIR

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Michael Williams
Walkersville, MD · 19 days ago

listen up beautiful blk goddesses the truth will set us free

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Justin Deibel
Bowling Green, OH · 22 days ago

to much of that shihh these days off rip son

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Tommy Thornsberry
Wayland, KY · 11 hours ago

This is all females trust or count on none of them they will all lie cheat and stomp all over you

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Kevin Mathis
Beaufort, NC · 23 days ago

if you've been with him 4 years. it shouldn't be a problem to get money from each other. not just borrow it. to have. if you care about them at all

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J wall
Michigan City, IN · 17 days ago

if you real and both stable as can be then that's why you can date if you can't hold each other down thru it there's no partnership 💯

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Tonya Dunigan
Locust Grove, GA · 18 days ago

SMH!! so sad 😰

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Reba White
Jacksonville, FL · a month ago

That's DEEP.

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Steven Hill
Dudley, NC · 2 days ago

The way he stood up tho and the look on his face said aiight im on yo a**

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Samuel Natal
New York, NY · a month ago

If you would’ve axed me I would’ve said that same thing. I like being asked.

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Johnny Anderson
Blytheville, AR · a month ago

maybe she really needed $50 to buy herself a new hat 👒 😅

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Brian Quarles
Avon, IN · 25 days ago

Quit the games

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Francesca Burrell
San Diego, CA · a month ago

😂😂

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Cecilia Turner
Berry Creek, CA · 25 days ago

😳😳

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Foe8cheez
Oakland, CA · a month ago

the dumbest thing I ever heard in life is happy wife happy life the realest thing I've ever heard is somebody asks multiple women you married they say yes is your husband happy then their face go blank in their soul leave

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J Free
Philadelphia, PA · a month ago

4 years and don't know his situation? you owe that brother 4 years of life back you wasted his time.

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Joannie Haslett
Los Angeles, CA · a month ago

4yrs and now you playing and that’s why the relationship is off and on…

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Kimmy
Rochester, NY · a month ago

this new school corny

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Tracey Miller
Texarkana, AR · 13 hours ago

well said

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Pam Elmore
Alpine, AL · 4 days ago

yes u right ✅️ 👏

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