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Bobbie
7 months ago
HOT

She has a concept , but this isn't valid. Telling men to have affairs because their wife or fiancee says no makes a problem worse. Fixing the relationship is a better option vs finding another woman. A man will end up with too many kids and too many baby moms with this approach. Not to mention the love triangles going around. Love triangles are dangerous. Don't start one keep your family together and your peace. Do something romantic to get her in the mood 🤔👍

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bedroom bully
East Hartford, CT · 7 months ago

well if he can't get it up I guess he shouldn't ask me where I'm going either smh, that's the problem. Maybe they should get counseling or try and talk about it first or leave WTF that's always an option.

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wo me
Lake Worth, FL · 7 months ago

yeah,... in a way... but relationships isn't all about sex..

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straighttalk
Vandiver, AL · 3 months ago

In the baby boomer generation there was no such thing as marital rape. in the Gen x generation women could say no. the millennials have been taught that even persistent asking is a form of rape. I know because I have millennial kids. People have gone from one extreme to the other.

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Renesha Griffin
Los Angeles, CA · 7 months ago

"How to Destroy Your Marriage" starring "How to Destroy Your Marriage" starring a simple thot🍿😭🤣🤣🤣

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Shontel Corley
Detroit, MI · 4 months ago

What’s the point of being together then?

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Deborah Moses
Greensboro, NC · 7 months ago

stop cause you can give it up anytime he wants and they.still cheat FACT

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Jack Luck
Dayton, TN · 4 months ago

I can understand this piont and as a man I'd love to agree but morally speaking I can't if she refuses constantly then she is not the one there are many important parts to a relationship and sex and desires are one just my opinion if the relationship isn't working then resolve it or desolve it

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Tremain Williams Snr
Youngstown, OH · 3 months ago

She has a very good concept but cheating is cheating and it's wrong.. ain't no other way around it. Just let that person know you want out the relationship period

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Kiri Savage
Dallas, TX · 3 months ago

Nah just leave the relationship. Tf

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Autumn BBDelson
4 months ago

Then he should of been with them 5 other chicks foh

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Eto James
Detroit, MI · 4 months ago

I agree with her 100%. Women have 99 reasons why they cheat on men & they back each other up right or wrong.

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Kathryn Pool
Arlington, TX · 4 months ago

Y'all can listen to her if you want to. The other 5 chicks is why she's not giving it up!

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Demetrius Jenkins
Los Angeles, CA · 5 months ago

On Crip

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Cara A
Cincinnati, OH · 5 months ago

facts!!!

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Jonathan Cody
Fresno, CA · 5 months ago

facts

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David Colucci
Buckeye, AZ · 5 months ago

💥👏

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Derrick Flowers
Durham, NC · 5 months ago

INDEED AND AGREED 😳

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magadude
6 months ago

once heard it said ,"Women are devious," and their choice of weapon is poison given in small doses at first .. words can be poisonous, actions can be poisonous.. then they play victim after starting a battle they KNOW they're in the wrong through

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David Verdin
Houma, LA · 6 months ago

YA you right I'm tired of hanging on

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good servant
New York, NY · 6 months ago

You’re goddamn right

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Karlee Knutson
Dixon, CA · 6 months ago

If you are in a relationship and there is no sex then something is way wrong

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Robert Witherspoon jr
Charlotte, NC · 6 months ago

Facts baby so true amen yes queen tell

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@Life_Iz_ Pearlz6869
Houston, TX · 7 months ago

This hurts a lot of Women. Some people hate the truth.

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Jerrell M Easterling 242
Brackney, PA · 4 months ago

she on point

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Tarleton Goodwin
Gaffney, SC · 5 months ago

I definitely agree facts 💯

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Eric Chatman
Davenport, FL · 5 months ago

Facts 💯! EXACTLY

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Matt James
Orlando, FL · 5 months ago

that's real now

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Julio Da Don
San Antonio, TX · 5 months ago

Preach sista...

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Kevin Bean
Kansas City, MO · 5 months ago

I promise 🥰🥰

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Reba White
Jacksonville, FL · 5 months ago

That's not how marriage is supposed to work. COMMUNICATION IS VERY IMPORTANT.

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Denise Redmond
Los Angeles, CA · 2 months ago

girl you tripping. I see brainwashing is a real thing.

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George Blake
Wilmington, DE · 3 months ago

She makes a good point

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Bruce Harper
Fullerton, CA · 6 months ago

Thank you!!!

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Daniel Neal
Lawton, OK · 3 months ago

I really want to meet you I really want to meet you I really want to meet you are you single if so hit me up ASAP ASAP

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Valerie Noir
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

as a woman I had men do this. they get lazy as soon as you're committed

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Carol Alvarado
Worcester, MA · 3 months ago

I don't believe everyone agrees with that it would be 1 big orgie

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Jamice Nelson
Philadelphia, PA · 3 months ago

Vice versa🤷🏽‍♀️

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lorddaniels22
Dallas, TX · 3 months ago

yes ma'am 😍

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Tracey Renee
Spring, TX · 3 months ago

That's why std's are at an all time high! Not one time did this young lady mention a conversation. If you're not giving what I want...on to the next one 👀🧐. I call that community penis 🤮

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alix
Barryton, MI · 3 months ago

so because I don't want to have sex he has the right to go and cheat? that makes absolutely no sense. if I don't feel like giving him sex that does not give him the right to go and cheat. imagine if that was flipped around if the girl wants to do that, the man would be serious calling her a whore and all these names because she's out sleeping with other men but it's okay if a man does it because he's a man no that's not okay

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Dot Com
Upper Darby, PA · 3 months ago

PREACH💪🏾🙌🏿

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Grey Wolfe
Tucson, AZ · 3 months ago

I don't agree. Sure, I have needs or desires that we ought to meet sometimes, and so does she. But if there hasn't been some communication and attempt to fix that issue, going somewhere else to fix it is just cheating. She has a point, but she's presenting the wrong argument with it.

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VIRGINIA
Newark, NJ · 3 months ago

it goes both ways sweetie if I'm not getting what I want I'm getting somewhere else there you go if he can do it I can do it too

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Qdog Matthews
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

nothing else to say but BIG FACTS IM MARRIED BUT SHE GOT TO ACTIN PLENTY OF FISH IN THE POND

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Franklin Hodge
Charlotte, NC · 3 months ago

All day. Its a constant temptation not to step out.

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Leon Prater
Mentor, OH · 3 months ago

Let me put a crinkle in this. what if partner, girlfriend or wife is giving u some weak as head? or the 😾 ain't good cuz she can't take the 🥒 ? hands always on ur stomach, always running, can't take consistent bk shots...im just sick of it 😭. Is it cheating if I were to get serviced somewhere else? Note: Im a teacher n pleaser. anyone's thought please. I have BDProblems...

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Steven Boswell
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

I was lucky to find the love of my life for 40yrs, but it wasn't from trial and error.

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