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Kayla Braxton
Albuquerque, NM · 7 months ago
HOT

This breaks my heart because she’s possibly damaged him for the woman who he’s meant for…

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Treedom Witlove
Windsor, WI · 5 months ago

they spoil the disloyal but treat the loyal like trash

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For the haters
6 months ago

These types of gifts are for a wife. Not a friend, girlfriend, etc. When you do this you are only wasting money and feelings. Pray and look for a good lady who understands her Creator and trust.

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INDIGO SOULCHILD
Los Altos, CA · 6 months ago

I knew the ending before I watched the ending.🙄

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Jade Dontneedone
Smyrna, DE · 7 months ago

Honestly, I feel like the last of a dying breed with this... I care less about your wallet. All that matters is time and presence! let's make memories, laugh at each other, and just LIVE💯

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Markita Love
Arlington, TX · 4 months ago

dang. stuff like this makes it harder for the hurt to be true to someone else and show this kind of love to someone. even though it's material things it still hurts to go all out and be disappointed in the end

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Jamyra Lewis
Houston, TX · 4 months ago

that’s so wrong I feel bad sorry bro😭

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Michelle Simpkins
Columbia, SC · 6 months ago

Don’t give 10 anniversary gifts for 1st birthdays

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Devonne Marrs
Fort Worth, TX · 6 months ago

When you invest time, money, and love to someone not deserving of you is heart breaking. 💔

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You Me
Bakersfield, CA · 5 months ago

awww that's jacked up of your friend and girl, stay strong young handsome God has some one special for you that's better than you can imagine

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Misses Kisses
Chester, PA · 5 months ago

So sad!

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Lillith Mara
5 months ago

you found out that bish wasn't for you fam. neither is that homeboy. you got blessed. let the trash take itself out! 💯

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Harriett Webster
White Plains, NY · 6 months ago

Need from beginning to end of Story. Sometimes people sau and do things that's not true. Jelloocee.

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marcus walker
Rochester, NY · 5 months ago

😳😳😳..good guy, just not too smart..She knew he was a vic.The other guy just smashing, you spending the money, he getting the real benefits.The way people are these days, they probably set this guy up .smh..

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WonderWoman
5 months ago

Stand up young king and hold your head high 🫡 Somebody is out there that will give you same in return 🙏🏼 #YoungBlackKing

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Tyisha Williams
Stockton, CA · 5 months ago

wow

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La'Tasha Atkins
Kenner, LA · 5 months ago

smh

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Raheem Irons
Atlanta, GA · 5 months ago

Bet it was buddy in the back seat, probably texting her

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TreSeur Felton
Milledgeville, GA · 5 months ago

Hhhhhhmmm Chile I feel Bad and Sad for him if this Is True 🙏🙏🙏Still could be Jealous involved you never No I hope this Gul didn't fuck up a Good ting and Good Man WTF

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D'bor Jackson
Natchez, MS · 5 months ago

dont spend money. cause if you do she only want the bag not you.

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truthbtold!
5 months ago

damn

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Renise Kearney
Bethlehem, PA · 8 months ago

they are disgusting and they will get their karma for this so don't you worry it wasn't meant for you to be with her or hang out with him God say he knows that's why he removed both of them keep your head up

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HARLEYQUINNY MRS JOKER (SHATTERGLASS)
Allentown, PA · 5 months ago

sad now he is not going to trust no one 😔 not even if he find his soul mate 😕

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Bridget Jones
Alton, IL · 5 months ago

You'll find someone worth ur heart, she'll get hers

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Chrissy K Grigsby
Springfield, MO · 5 months ago

better pick em better

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Pamela Woods
New Orleans, LA · 5 months ago

Who is Multi Jay 🤔????

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Sam Sam
St. Louis, MO · 5 months ago

ouuuuch🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾🤦🏾..... however where u at boo..I know what to do wit chu 😘😘😘😘....

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Mariea r.
Boston, MA · 5 months ago

she should wear a chastity belt for the rest of her life

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Pia Briscoep
New Haven, CT · 6 months ago

Young man, this is NOT your wife!! 1st birthday??? It is sad that these guys feel like they have to do this for someone. If she is nit encouraging you to invest in financial opportunities that will continue to build your wealth while YALL build an empire, WALK AWAY!! That is someone that’s not for you. You are too young to be doing all of this. This is one situation when they BOTH get cut OFF!!

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Evelyn Wiggins
Bloomfield, CT · 5 months ago

Young man, you will find the right one when the time is right and when you least expect it. She was just a season! Hope you learned from that life lesson. Stay true to yourself!

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Tammy Garland
Tallahassee, FL · 5 months ago

🙏🙏🙏🙏

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“ShayMa”
Los Angeles, CA · 6 months ago

Damn!!!! I hope he doesn’t end up being damaged goods! That’s some foul ass 💩! Too young to throw the towel in,wasn’t him it was her. This will have you questioning yourself,DO NOT EVER QUESTION YOURSELF!!!!!!!!

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Breanne Mccathern
Pageland, SC · 6 months ago

Money come and go and so do friends and ppl . Keep it pushing hun your best women is coming !!! 🥰give it time

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pumpkinpie
Boston, MA · 6 months ago

I pray that he will love again

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secunda wells
Miami, FL · 6 months ago

f her nasty person

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Clark _Elite
Cyril, OK · 8 months ago

you picked a money hungry woman that's your problem right there

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AMYLEE Mclean
Philadelphia, PA · 6 months ago

those are expensive gifts I hope this man and woman stay together forever on after because it will hurt to see him later on down the line gift another like that

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Trumplicana
Cleveland, OH · 6 months ago

the oppressed buy very expensive things

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Lilly
Highland, NY · 6 months ago

😲😵‍💫🫣

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Mr Keep It A Buck
Merrillville, IN · 6 months ago

🤦🏿‍♂️

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JustHereForTheWeed
Detroit, MI · 8 months ago

The next girl you get don't spend any money and see if she sticks around!

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Amy Acevedo
Houston, TX · 6 months ago

its females like that that fuck it up for the good women out here being single and having to face this world alone is crucial so to have someone do sum for u out their heart should hold more value to it im sorry I've been there before and that shit is a painful hurt

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**
Wichita, KS · 6 months ago

Better use 20k for a down payment on a house instead with me.. why would you buy a bag with that

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Linda Sharp
Chicago, IL · 6 months ago

terrible

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Shaun Dav
Charleston, SC · 6 months ago

DAMN😒😒

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Erica Wesley
7 months ago

That is so disgusting. Be very mindful of who you give your heart and your time to. Be mindful of who you let in your space. Some people are very demonic with no morals

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Diane Sprinkles
7 months ago

That’s a damn shame 🤨

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Christina Reyes
Riverview, FL · 6 months ago

No, bro, that's not the way you do it. Looking in from the outside, being casi 50 anos, no papi. Unfortunately, your generation sucks. Women have zero value and do not appreciate a thing that's done. I dont wish bad for you. However, she's going to ROCK with all the gifts you showered her with. That's not what love, loyalty, or respect is about. Married almost 26 years. I can tell you, I've seen the generations change. Women today, unfortunately, are not worthy of your money. It's obvious that you already knew that, though. You felt you had to step it up before the next one moved on in. Nope, if she loved you, you would not have felt the reason to go above and beyond to secure her with your bank.

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Ira C Willingham
Wichita, KS · 6 months ago

it's better for him to know now than for him to find out later when he been got married to her

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