BetterRelationships
Welcome to BetterRelationships—the Circle devoted to honest, real talk about building, fixing, and navigating relationships of all kinds. From romance and friendships to family drama and workplace tension, this is your judgment-free space to seek advice, share lessons learned, and help others grow. No shame, no perfect answers—just real people helping each other deal with the mess and magic of human connection.
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I get what he saying but it sounds like you don’t let your girl have girls night at all , it’s like you gotta be around her whenever she goes out
I was not a clubbing chick when I met him. I am now married....just saying
nah. let her have some time away. it's good for the soul. I'm not worried
Girls night out can be sooooo many other things outside of the nightclub!!! Once a woman is in a committed relationship, she gotta move differently. Don’t put yourself in situations that’ll invite other men…period
Then don’t be in a relationship if you want girls night and going out 💯
but what's out there looking for you? you may not be searching for problem but, problems be in the club stalking and praying in young ladies trying to have fun.
This man is crazy it's called time with friends every woman and man needs time with friends period it's called trust if you don't trust the person you with leave
I get it but you just controlling with extra steps if you can’t trust your grown ass wife to do her safely why you wit her you just wanna be a baby sitter at that point
yes
one word,trust never be insecure
So... does going "out" automatically equate with promiscuity? If a couple is a couple, which in my opinion, means there has been a level of trust built, then a partner going "out" shouldn't mean that person is looking for a replacement or something they aren't "getting at home", just means they want to do some of the things they did prior to the relationship that they enjoyed.
he said she likes to go out and shake her azz, shake her azz for who, see that's the problem right there and that's exactly what he's talking about
My girl don't go nowhere I'm not comfortable with her going . No questions asked 🥰. And she dress appropriately
go ahead go out cus i like to go hang out with my homeboys n i be damn if she comes with me n the guy's 😂
Curious why r you twerking I the corner like wtf 😂
my goodness what a pathetic looser culture
This man is insecure😳
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dip
Why do you want to go to a party scene that is explicitly created for coupling people if you are in a relationship? At the very least your attention seeking and need for external validation is an undesirable trait. Go to a womens gym, they have classes all the time where you can dance. There are so many other options than going to a club, and if you fight for it, you cant tell me its not just because you want to be around other men who will at least assume you are single. If its about drinking and dancing you dont have to go to a club, but women's areas arent fun for you because there will not be men there. Women will come up with a million excuses and shaming tactics and they simply arent believable to me at all.
probably before you were born we men were tasked with having a personality and being in charge of the having a fun date all planned out being totally confident romantic assertive funny actually taking our special woman out and actually doing something she would consider special
i understand what he saying but thats why in a relationship there’s reassurance if shes your woman when u txt she will answer
There’s no such thing as a red flag in a person, it’s pronounced bad intentions correct yourself 🙄🤦♂️
We both go out together and or separate, then we go home. what's the problem?
it's not a red flag , it's not a serious relationship is what that is
I agree with the man you can’t have a relationship without trust
Sometimes some girls forgot they’re on the internet ??? 😆😆😆😆😆
I get it so she not supposed to go anywhere?
show some confidence..bro. be secure...
sneakahoes
Fact is women like to flirt and play games with men! Get free drinks from men! Get money from men! And they never think about what the man is getting? The man is after sex! And women know it and use it to their advantage! That’s fun to women! Go out playing games with men! Flirting with men! That’s fun to women! But it’s not fun for men! They are all there after sex! And men know it! That’s why men don’t want their wives or girlfriends to go out with her girls! Because women get drunk and get taken advantage of by men at clubs! Knowing that why would a man let his girlfriend go out? It’s like letting your girlfriend walk thru fire and hope that she doesn’t get burned!
I disagree with him 💯 percent and I'm a guy. but if a woman "likes" to go out then yea she not for me. Going out and liking to go out are 2 different things. One suggest she has the desire while the other is just something to do meaning she is open to replace it with something else. A guy who has no problem with his woman going out that's on him but a guy who is ok with it should not complain when he gets the results
A man shows CONFIDENSE to a women..when she goes out..and at the end of the night she comes home to him...dudes like this is in secure fools!
from woman point of view....no need to go out with girls at nite...girls day out🌟
I dont understand the going out.. like dinner w our girls yes. a club? nah
I don't go out you can have fun at home. with my man
Until you’re married you are single
he kinda reaching but I feel em doe
thousand percent redflag
You are lost until you are ready to commit to a relationship with a good man finish getting the partying done then you'll be ready. Because she wants her cake and eat it too
i might have the weakest so called man alive. he hates the fact that I want to stay home and I don't like spending money frivolously. idon't go out since he's broke and useless, I have to make sure I always have money. going out depletes that money.
if a man can go out and hang with the boys, then a woman can go out and hang with the girls. men want a woman to stay at home so that she can't catch him with other women when he goes out.
Dude get a grip. You mean to tell me that you don't think she's smart enough to watch her drink. You're looking for a puppet.
I knew someone just like that every night she had to go out 7 days a week 51 every night
This man is a huge red flag himself. Very controlling and very manipulative.
Thot behaviour
So true