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Rachel Solomon
Raleigh, NC · 9 months ago
HOT

her problem isn't being 40 or looking younger her problem is she's asking for advice from a child I'm 56 I'm not going to ask none of these young ones for advice????

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Rasheeda Raheem
9 months ago
HOT

A Real Man don’t care about her age or rather she has a kid he’s going to take care of the home that’s just what real men do.

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Jacqueline Canton
Aldie, VA · 9 months ago

He is an absolute idiot. When you put everyone in a box, you assume that all the same. All men do not operate and function the same as all women do not. Little fake Kevin Hart needs to just focus on himself and his hopes of one day being in a relationship.

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Missy Warren
Wylie, TX · 9 months ago

Sir that’s how you yourself think you can’t speak for all men! I have 5 kids, 2 kids fathers , and I’m 40’and my man pay all my bills. Yes I do work !

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Candy
Trenton, NJ · 9 months ago

Never take advice from a guy that's not even handsome

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Trina Young
Riverside, CA · 9 months ago

he sounds stupid

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tracy trahan
San Leandro, CA · 8 months ago

Why do women always think they know what a man wants?

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I don't care about your feelings
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 7 months ago

90 % of these girls have been in the system collecting FREE Housing, FREE Foodstamps and FREE medical for the past 27 to 33 years. So how you say a man is gonna pay your bills, especially a bbw 🤷 .The only man that payed majority of ya'll bills, was the HOUSING AUTHORITY DIRECTOR. Most of you started trying to convince a man to take of you because you had to downgrade from a 4 bedroom to a one bedroom. All because your kid's are adults now , that voucher say kid's, not adult children that can work.

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Silver Shadow
3 months ago

😂😂🤣 she got schooled too bad she didn’t learn anything

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Chris Stuntgz Francis
Chester, PA · 9 months ago

yes he is right in the aspect of a younger woman that has not been through as much trauma and securities yes a guy is going to go for her. now before you attack me understand I'm going for the woman that actually loves you may not understand that so read it again the woman that actually loves the one with a soft heart still not so I can cheat but a woman that is going to genuinely unconditionally Love me if you do not understand what unconditional love is you should not be in a relationship at all but if you are married and do not understand what unconditional love is I pray for you

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Fallen4none
Chicago, IL · 9 months ago

He sound super stupid,a man still living with his mom is a dependent .A mother with one child is independent and will probably end up taking care of the man too.

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goldfinger anderson
Oak Park, MI · 9 months ago

if you listen to men you will do better

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Cassandra Sanders
Macon, GA · 5 months ago

bruh

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hazelnutflav1
Philadelphia, PA · 9 months ago

Wow, she's forty and still don't don't know how to put on a bra.😳

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Guest
9 months ago

Brotha is absolutely correct!!!

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2MUCHHUNEE
Toledo, OH · 8 months ago

He's lying, and I say that from experience.

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Divine Counsel
Glendale, AZ · 7 months ago

The 40 yr old busteds with kids and low incomes are in here maaaaad 🤣

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Marcia Saahir
Newark, NJ · 9 months ago

when you have a child or more please don't look for a man to pay your bills, pay your own bills and take care of your kids .you had them, your responsibility..

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Tika Bibbs
Henderson, NV · 9 months ago

Go have several seats “SHEIN Kevin Hart”🤭😏

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K D
Scottsdale, AZ · 9 months ago

What does having a child have to do with anything? Maybe she is divorced or the father passed away. He is not a prize .

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Carol Baltzell
Oklahoma City, OK · 9 months ago

First she needs to get breast reduction. Hers is hanging down to her stomach. Thats not good for her.

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Ricky Speight
Washington, DC · 9 months ago

Let him cook

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Khadijah Sams
Philadelphia, PA · 3 months ago

Don't listen to him because I've been to quite a few of 40 weddings and yes the pay bills and take care of their families. Stop taking advice from these weirdos btw he could never.

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Kimberly Mooneyham
Sparta, TN · 9 months ago

please invest in a push up bra

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Fuk Usa
Greensboro, NC · a month ago

I’m fucking 30,40,50,60,70, maybe 80 depends tho!!

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JEVON PATTERSON
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

They both are trash!

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Mallory Lawrence
Vancouver, WA · 9 months ago

your speaking for your self

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CRAIG Mckindley
Houston, TX · 4 months ago

he is stupid

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Sheena Hernandez
Franklin, KY · 2 months ago

That's a lie I'm 43 with 4 kids and I get my bills paid. Plus money sent weekly for my needs.

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cwisdom1221
Loganville, GA · 2 months ago

my dawg told her the truth and all though its sad and it hurts its still the truth.

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Gail Anderson
Charlottesville, VA · 9 months ago

am so glad I dont want no man to do no paying bills I love paying my owns and taking care of my 1 child dad help when can its to much about money in relationships wow

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Randall Timmons
Huntsville, AL · 2 months ago

No no no we all go by the same thing

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TONY BNEWPEE
Clinton, MD · 2 months ago

it's not that she's 40 with a kid... she's 40 and obese and thinks a man of stature is gonna choose her over a woman whose 30 no kids and actually appealing to the eye🤷🏽‍♂️ delusion ISWIS

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Brown recluse
New York City, NY · 2 months ago

You ain’t. Coming to pay her bills😆 how you know what other men want😆

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Andrea Williams
Modesto, CA · 2 months ago

OMG Why in the hell is her Breast out looking like 2 flap jacks😆

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Andrew Larrimore
Cambridge, MD · 2 months ago

Damnnnn he’s straight up preaching

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FBIBRAINHACKER
Hopkinsville, KY · 2 months ago

Lies 😆

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Christina Perry
Princeton, WV · 2 months ago

HE'S RIGHT A LOT OF WOMEN ARE REALLY DELUSIONAL

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Davante Flemng
West Lafayette, IN · 2 months ago

I never understood that does 40 have a look???

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SweetPea504
New Orleans, LA · 2 months ago

She needs to put a bra on.

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Jordan Cruz
Gilbert, AZ · 2 months ago

She look 40

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Josh Mcq
Monroe, LA · 2 months ago

she delusional thinking she doesn't look her age and her body count probably higher than 40 so to expect a man to just come in and pay all her bills and her not contribute anything other than some hand me down tuna cat is absurd her value has deminished and she in denial

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Jeannine P.
Buffalo, NY · 2 months ago

Damn! He sounds like my husband. However, most of my friends, including myself, do not have children, and we are high earners. But they're still single.

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Kenneth King
2 months ago

40 and she wide in fact wider then you. He’s right

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knox
2 months ago

u look 43

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L Cole
Hutto, TX · 2 months ago

she's not accepting reality

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