BetterRelationships
Welcome to BetterRelationships—the Circle devoted to honest, real talk about building, fixing, and navigating relationships of all kinds. From romance and friendships to family drama and workplace tension, this is your judgment-free space to seek advice, share lessons learned, and help others grow. No shame, no perfect answers—just real people helping each other deal with the mess and magic of human connection.
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I'm a financial advisor and paying it off in full before it cycles won't impact her credit at all. there isn't even interest before it cycles. if anything it will help her credit score. this is misinformation
She's right he's wrong it's called stealing and it is fraud. And worse he took it from her credit card. That's the worst thing you can do. Actions have consequences.
Treated or threatened
You don’t spend $10,000 on anything without discussing it with your partner. Your mother‘s financial problems are not her responsibility.
Deal breaker!!!!!
If my Husband took money off of my Credit Card to pay his mom's rent I wouldn't care.I would care that he didn't feel as if he could come to me with this problem.He is my husband and I know he would do the same for my mom🌸
NO HES THE RED FLAG PEOPLE!? I 🤦♀️HE TOOK money out of HER ACCOUNT TO USE FOR HIS MOM...Why is she wrong dork being mad?
she's the red flag sorry.. you guys are married there's no such thing my money your money.. He paid his mom's rent now I can see if he went shopping or bought something else. He said he will put it back. So it's ok for you to go shopping freely and spend his money for nails etc but you have a problem with him helping his mom wtf..
just have that theory she wouldn't be mad at all if she was using his card to pay something for her mother
Doesn’t this bozo chick understand that her credit will go up even the score temp drops, it will go up in a months time. He should have told her his intentions but she’s showing that her score means more than his mother!!
What do you mean they did not take cash!?!? If he had the money, he should have gotten a certified check to pay the rent!! BS!!
If he's so concerned about his Mom..why was she five months behind in rent? If he had to put the money on the card first..why was her funds touched? And when he said "She was not supposed to find out!" Why didn't he tell her what he needed to do before doing it? HE'S GOT TO GO LIVE WITH HIS MAMA AND THIS WAY HE CAN KEEP UP WITH THE RENT!!!
Marital money
if they are married. she is the red flag. it's ok for a woman to spend a man's money. but all he'll is gonna break if we spend your money. even if we pay it back. yeah. your the RED FLAG LADY
welcome to married life pepole...Snr modt women out there expect some woman to buy either on his card for her so I don't see anything wrong..like he said our money!
they're married. literally what's hers is his and vice versa. if it's not that way then perhaps you shouldn't be married.
If you had the money. Why did you not just pay for it?
Mama should have been paying her rent like everyone else
fake news u can't pay rent or mortgage with credit
phone the police ,and contact a lawyer
prosecute 💯, he could have discussed it with her first, he would have been pissed, I'm sure if she did that to him for any reason.
if he has it why use her card
did she call him crackhead or did i hear her wrong but either way she's selfish as hell and she would be gone if she was my lady friend, if I can't help my mom out then there's a problem with our relationship and it's unless trying to stay together, Mom got me into this world 🌍 and im going to do whatever is needed to help her out and make sure her life is nice and easy until she leaves this world 🌍 or i leave this world 🌍 which ever comes first period end of discussion.
That would be the end of the relationship. If he has the money to pay it off , yeah, it's over! He should've asked her for sure, but just think that she's willing to let his mother get evicted, and she's willing to call the fraud department!
paying off the card does not hurt your credit
women do this everyday to husbands,so stop playing. if we r together, have been together I know my girl, and she knows her man. he has the money,she never said he didn't after he said he would go put in her account. either we r One (team), r we not
My mother taught me about a rainy day fund. My credit is a part of that fund. My husband has no business with access to that. We spend differently. He’s the provider, I’m the savior. When things are going right, I provide vacations, co-pays, parties, fancy dinners and all the extras. When things aren’t great, I provide where he falls short. He would never be able to take….money from my credit card.
She can’t report him for fraud anyways they’re MARRIED!
divorce her
Run back to moms house nowwww
Before my momma get evicted we’ll get divorced
He should pay it off and kick her to the curb and find someone who will support and respect him
regardless if be single ...if it were reverse she would want him to understand it was her momma .....always want equal but only when it benefits ....y'all a team and yes he should've asked or talked bout it but at the end they a team
⁰ I think it is a misunderstanding but only on her part because of the simple fact that yes it was her card and he should have asked but he's only paying his mom's rent yo like he's being there for his mother and as his wife she should roll with him like I don't understand some women these days if you don't trust your man then you shouldn't be in a relationship with him
Boys this is the type you don’t won’t run how u mad at him we are 1 especially if he put the money right back the next day she don’t got your back we always can do for them n this what the think of u 🤨😰
Why didn’t she just wait for him to put it back the next day? If his word is good then you good! If not, report him! 🤷🏾♂️ Simple.
That's crazy the minute my husband said it was for his mom and he was putting it back I would've dropped it the only reason I would have asked was the lack of communication that's her husband not someone off the street
she is just being difficult he is putting it back immediately what a great son any son who takes care of his mom will treat this lady like a queen
you go girl, no one has that right to take what’s yours . charge him with fraud cause he will let you pay this on your own! and yes his mommy , his problem !
definitely divorce her
His bills are their bills. Her money is their money. His mother is their responsibility. One marriage, one life.
well, use your money. if her name was the only one on it, they should have alert her. So that don't make any sense 🤔? fake
He didn't pay for his mother's rent🤔🤔that was another woman's rent
I’d report it too! I bet his mom treats her like crap too
I'd he had the money to reimburse her, then he could have used it to pay his momma rent.
She ain’t got it back let her go
sounds like he needs a new woman!
He’s right and should help her mother in law if she can it’s the right thing to do
I GUARANTEE she has USED his money before otherwise he wouldn’t have SAID what he said. Couples will allow selfish REASONS to RUIN their relationship.
bro leave!
ask / discuss first. Not just up & do. $10 gs , c'mon now,
ladies stop giving men access to yaul income
he was wrong
Even if it's your husband, he should have told his wife what's going on before taking her card and using it. He said she wasn't supposed to find out. That is a major red flag. It's a thief and being deceitful. Any large purchases should be discussed...not hidden.
hope his story stands up! and not on some fuzzy!
We have to go deep man? First of all, how did his mother let her rent accumulate that high before she decided to ask for help? Now that her rent is paid, what steps will his mother take, to assure herself that she can pay her rent on time for the future? He needs to Resolve that with His mother, or else he's going to find himself in this same situation again! Secondly, he and his wife are partners! That was a conversation that should have been had between the both of them! I understand that they are married, but technically, he stole from his own wife, even if he did put it back or she wasn't supposed to know about it. Lastly, If I was her, I would forgive him, but if he ever stole from me again, I'd have to separate myself.
Bro you dont do that. 🤔
She is DEFINITELY NOT WRONG!
if he was Going to pay it in the morning, he would have called and talked about it first
he's bogas cause that's not cool and it wasn't the wife problem. h wanted to help his momma he should've used his own money. I would've been pissed off too
he should have just told her from the beginning
should have asked.
there is no way I would pay $10k for my momma rent. that's a lot. my momma would have to find somewhere else to stay. what's the situation to get her that far behind in the first place. sorry my household comes first
He should have asked however he was fixing the issue quickly. He mom should have never waited until 5 months to reach out for help.
how she treated though?
Why didn't he use his own money if he could pay it back first thing in the morning 🤔
this is why my grandpa taught me to not share your account with anyone you have your money and they have their money