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Jerome Buie Sr.
Milwaukee, WI · 5 days ago
HOT

The lady who invited her friends should pay 🤔

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Dwight Justice
Clayton, NC · 5 days ago
HOT

I would have left without ordering telling her I came on the date for you not your team goodnight

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John Glosson
Bastrop, LA · 4 days ago

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Shanda Person
Henderson, KY · 5 days ago

I wanna know why she kept saying "black woman".

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Janice Newton
St. Petersburg, FL · 5 days ago

He didn't invite them she did. He did right paid for his salad and left.

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Grateful Child
Colorado Springs, CO · a day ago

Oh, hell now! These women don't even have the decency to forewarn the man! She was hoping for a fool!

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lydia
5 days ago

He shouldn’t have sat down. He should have asked her to step aside, spoke to her privately and said listen. I thought this was for us two and called off the date.

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Linda Branich
Mayo, FL · 5 days ago

Absolutely not!. He asked one woman on a date, not her tribe of friends. Because she tried to take advantage of him, he was completely justified in paying only for her meal

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Faith Gilchrist
Raleigh, NC · 6 days ago

he did right

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Olgie
Miami, FL · 5 days ago

He should’ve left the minute he saw 6 HO’s wanting to mooch on him. Some women are beyond fresh!!! No, gentlemen are not idiots!!!!!💕💕💕

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J Green
Southfield, MI · 3 days ago

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Octavia Kinchloe
Schaumburg, IL · 5 days ago

He is correct.. Make the woman pay.

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Arthur Taylor
Brooklyn, NY · 5 days ago

hell no thats on them

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old Skool
Detroit, MI · 4 days ago

I would’ve never set down!!! I would’ve turned around and left!! Problem solved!!!

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Clay Davis
East Orange, NJ · 10 hours ago

Are we all Fuuucking!?

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Mark Pupello
Bethlehem, PA · 5 days ago

who would think it's ok to bring friends to a first date at a high end restaurant? or anywhere else on a first date? he was 100% right for what he did.

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Salvatore Daidone
Las Vegas, NV · 5 days ago

😆😆😆😆😆😆😆No he should not. Being trapped by scheming wily females is not the way to get a gentleman to pay for dinner for ladies. Problem was, they were not ladies, and tried to trick the gentleman for a free meal. The man did the right thing. That's no way to have a date. 🤔👍🙄🙄🙄

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Doreen Smith
Altoona, PA · 5 days ago

I’m glad he only paid for the salad he ordered. Who brings friends to a dinner date? Gold Digger

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Tony Trusty
Randallstown, MD · 5 days ago

Hell yeah he did the thing. I would have turned around the minute I saw more the just the person I was looking for.

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Susan Miller
5 days ago

Who would even do that? I would have just left.

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Carrie Lynn
Albia, IA · 10 hours ago

lf I Was That Man,l Would Diffinitely let Her Know,That l Was Not Paying For All Her Friends.l Did Not Invite Them,So l Am Not Paying For Them.

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Timothy Manning
Orlando, FL · 2 hours ago

on a first date? no way he should have paid. He should have left before sitting down.

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Margaret Phillips
New Albany, IN · 11 hours ago

he dodge a bullet with her. She was a snake to pull such a low down stunt like that.

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Arnold Bonds
Hockley, TX · 13 hours ago

I would have turned around and walked out if I seen her with five other women

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Daniel Hornak
Toms River, NJ · 2 hours ago

hell no she invited her friends she needs to pay for her friends

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Samuel Bradley
Burt, NY · 2 hours ago

she invited them so she should be responsible for paying

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Teresa Davis
Columbus, OH · 12 hours ago

no he should not.

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Rachel Ortiz
Los Angeles, CA · 12 hours ago

Hell no

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Donna Dees
Miami, FL · 13 hours ago

no

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William Gilkey
Tulsa, OK · 12 hours ago

she was a real rat he did the right thing

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Laura Gillis
Detroit, MI · 13 hours ago

he was justified

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James Keeten
Moss Point, MS · 10 hours ago

he did right lol

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Robert Lavelle
Ellabell, GA · 13 hours ago

hell no

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Shay Mack
Dade City, FL · 11 hours ago

Hell no

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Solomon Smith
Snellville, GA · 4 days ago

Pay for his food and his date. not other people food t

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Charlie T i b b e t t s
Ontario, CA · 2 days ago

no he should only pay his bill for the salad

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Guy Razzino
Queens Village, NY · a day ago

No, absolutely he only responsible for his own food order!!!! The women look very attractive, but asking a little too much, especially on their first dates!!!! As A Matter of fact they all could have treated him on their first date together, after All they have Equality 2025 !!!!

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Diane Edwards
Emmaus, PA · a day ago

No No She should be ashamed of herself

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Patrick Paine
Conway, MO · 2 days ago

run a way don't look back.

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Maria Stevens
Milwaukee, WI · 4 days ago

no she was just trying to use him as a sucker. If he had to pay for anybody, it should only be hers🤔

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Trigga man
Seattle, WA · 5 days ago

Real women would of never done that 🤨🤨🤨

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Renita Abraham
Mobile, AL · 2 hours ago

no this not the true story I saw this video a few years ago the guy was having a surprise birthday party for his wife and invited one of her friends and the friend invited 3 more friends that the husband wasn't expecting so when the bill came it was astronomical beyond what he budgeted for and the women expected for him to pay but he said no that he wasn't paying for them that he was only paying for his wife and the friend he invited they got upset with him saying that he was the guy and should pay for them saying that he was being cheap and ghetto so they asked the wife thinking she was going to agree with them but she said her husband doesn't have to pay for them he didn't invite them and that they should pay for their own food oh they were highly upset cursing and talking loud and tried to leave without paying but the restaurant made them stay

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Maria Rodriguez
The Bronx, NY · 13 hours ago

No . I'm glad he left.

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Kizzie Thomas
Albany, GA · 12 hours ago

no hell no

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Veronica Mercadal
Baton Rouge, LA · 11 hours ago

Hell No

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Patricia Hernandez
Riverside, CA · 11 hours ago

no way

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Lori Lee
Galt, CA · a day ago

Not NO But H..L NO!! She and her friends 🤨😡has NO manners!

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Tag boh
Saint Paul, MN · a day ago

He's right3

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Steven Profit
Santee, SC · 5 days ago

will he didn't play the game right ,he should have had her meet him at the house frist, then he would have knew about the girls ,

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just me
5 days ago

This is just Race Baiting. Plain and simple. When he showed up for his “date” and found that she was Not Alone, they could have made arrangements as to who should pay and how much, or he could have just Left before ordering.

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Olivia Harrison Distefano
Washington, DC · 26 minutes ago

Hell naw

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James Quinn
Elk Grove, CA · 34 minutes ago

He did it nice he was nice

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James Quinn
Elk Grove, CA · 36 minutes ago

She needs to get off that syrup n those bars, she truly showed she n friends were out their jack rabbit ass minds , he was niece

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Shenita Weathersby
St. Louis, MO · 39 minutes ago

Hell No

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Kimberly Wilson
Baltimore, MD · an hour ago

Why do people put false narratives up this is NOT what happened

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mike massey
Richmond, VA · an hour ago

😁watch who you meet😁

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Charise
Miami, FL · an hour ago

she a thot🥰😂😁

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Theresa Walker
Savannah, GA · an hour ago

😳😳😳😳 hell noooooo he did right get up and leave

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Theresa Walker
Savannah, GA · an hour ago

😳😳😳😳 leave their butts at the table

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Sean Murray
New York, NY · an hour ago

Hell no, it would only be acceptable if she brought her kids. If he paid he would just be setting himself up for more of this

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Theo
Bronx, NY · an hour ago

I would've done the exact same thing

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Kimeu Scott
Little Rock, AR · an hour ago

Video doesn't match the audio. In the video the man, his wife and her friends are at a birthday dinner for one of her friends. He agreed to pay for his wife and the birthday girl. The rest of the women expected him to pay for them. He declined. His wife let them know that he was obligated to pay for their dinner.

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Florence Brooks
Shelby, NC · 2 hours ago

She was trash, he did right.

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Savannah Thomas
Little Rock, AR · 2 hours ago

no

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Donna Voyles
Mountain View, MO · 2 hours ago

No he should not have to pay for all of them

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Ron Santee
Charlotte, NC · 2 hours ago

Nope 👎 he paid for what he was supposed to pay” it’s a date between the two of them not her friends. Lady stop some of you guys do the most…

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Willie Sheppard
Columbus, GA · 2 hours ago

no

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