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heavyD
2 months ago
HOT

Doesn’t bother me at all when men flirt with my wife. I trust her to make what ever decision she needs to at the time. Depending on her mood.

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Jennifer
Muncie, IN · 2 months ago
HOT

That is wonderful 👍 He truly trusts you! My bf gets jealous if the wind blows too hard🤔

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Kuda Kwashe
Historic Anacostia, DC · 3 hours ago

that is exactly how that's done

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TAC MOFIVATION
Hopkins, MN · a month ago

he doesn't care to play another emotional mental game with you

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Ravion Cooper
Jackson, MS · 2 months ago

He wasn't worried.

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Krista Friedmann
Paw Paw, IL · 2 months ago

lol I was visiting my sister we went to the beach ! I decided to go to tiki bar for a drink sat at the bar waiting for it and I heard this guy say hey pretty girl can I buy you a drink ? I didn’t look at him I said no thanks I’m happily married ! I live in Illinois…. He then put his arm around me I turned to take a swing at him lol It was my husband who decided to surprise me 😂😂😂 he hugged me and said wow you really love me you weren’t having it …. I hugged him and said don’t ever doubt me again that’s hurtful time to get rid of that old baggage first wife cheated as did my first husband cheated he’s on 5th wife she was on her 4th marriage! We are celebrating 38 yrs

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Mookie None
Winston-salem, NC · a day ago

Funny! Get your husband to protect you from your husband! Thats like asking a criminal to walk with you and to protect you from criminals! LOOOOL

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Lorna Casteleiro
Pikeville, TN · 2 months ago

ive been out with both. I sat down at cocoa beach and I was getting a drink from coconuts when this college guy started following me and sat down right next to me and hubby, he said hi, I love your eyes, I said thanks, he said you must hear that alot and I said yea. Then he said how about going out with me. I said yea probably not, he said why, I said because my hubby wouldn't like it. he said so what, what he doesn't know won't hurt him. then he saw the big guy next to me, he said who's the guy next to you. I said hes the guy that "what he doesnt know wont hurt him" my hubby said hi im the hubby, he said sorry man I didn't know she was with you, he said now you know. Goodby!!!

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Leroy Tate
Kankakee, IL · 2 months ago

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Robert Guggisberg
Glenwood, NJ · 2 months ago

Cause he knows his wife is true to him

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Jeremiah Darnell
Columbus, MS · a month ago

it's not that he doesn't care he trusts his wife I would act the same way, because if I got watch her I don't need her

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asumbry
Carrollton, TX · 4 days ago

I've seen this before, and I don't know who did it first, but I am so sick of people not being able to come up with original material. Everybody feels they have to copy another.

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Wendy Pebesma Rothenberg
Cooper City, FL · a month ago

Mine would say, he can’t afford you 😆😆

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Charlie Genereaux
Reed City, MI · 13 days ago

Reply: "Get you some drinks, Bish!!!" 🤣🤣🤣

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Crystal Shaw
Rantoul, IL · 13 hours ago

He knows she is lying, trying to make him jealous.

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Melissa Fair
Seaside Heights, NJ · 13 days ago

My husband was at a football game caught on camera staring at the "hot cheerleaders". My friends - Are you ok with that? My reaction- I don't know what he would do with the 3 kids he brought to the game with him. Its called trust and being vested.

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Cassandra shovalski
Atlanta, GA · 7 days ago

He just wants to enjoy his vacation let him be ma'am 😭🙏

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Chris Goodloe
Banning, CA · 5 days ago

Is it his turn?🤔

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FactsOverFeelings
7 days ago

It’s up to her to reject it, if she ain’t strong enough to do that, she ain’t the one!

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Adonis Gordon
Murfreesboro, TN · 7 days ago

id do the same thing

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OFFICER AJ FLORES
Hialeah, FL · 12 days ago

Your not. Period

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Kevin king
Jersey City, New Jersey · 25 days ago

A man paying a compliment is not a threat.

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Nathans201005
22 days ago

Yeah cus why is that his problem?

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guest
a month ago

My husbands never stops saying that in a good Fk 😂 after 24yrs of marriage definitely a compliment 👍🏼

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Hound
Chicago, IL · 5 days ago

it does not bother me I've saying to myself they just don't know

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Free Thinker
2 months ago

lol my husband would tell me to make sure I get a free drink before telling him I’m married 😆

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Denise Aldelia Ward
Santa Cruz, CA · 13 days ago

I think he knows you won’t go for it! Trust me

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Paula Hemphill
Columbus, OH · 7 days ago

ok

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Judy Brandi
Grass Valley, CA · 13 days ago

Can anyone please explain why at the end there's someone swinging a butcher knife 🔪?

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January Klein
Green Bay, WI · a month ago

I'm sure he trust her n is secure in their relationship, he's proud n knows she's his, plus she must no his reaction otherwise she wouldn't have told him

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Samantha Cox
Indianapolis, IN · a month ago

My late husband was so, jealous if a man stared too long, said "Hello" or smiled at me. I told him not to worry I was with him. (He was in a wheelchair and a double amputee) It still didn't matter to me. He passed after almost 5 years of marriage.

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Dweezy
Nicholasville, KY · 2 months ago

Id tell her "ask him to buy you drink,,,, im ready for one."

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John Ray
Annandale, VA · 2 months ago

"Tell him yes. Let's see where this goes." 😆

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Rocky
Hillsdale, MI · 9 days ago

so

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Twone Wilkins
Winston Salem, NC · 9 days ago

Straight like that.💯😎💪🏾

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TheMcChicken
Montague, MI · 2 months ago

This is what happens once you get up into your 40s and you have been with a woman you trust and you’re not insecure lol it is so much better not being stuck in your 20s and jealous

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E Ferris
a month ago

He knows she belongs to him, she just wants his attention now. 🤣

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Barbara Wright
Warner Robins, GA · 8 days ago

👀” He trusts you can handle yourself when he’s not around okay. He doesn’t look worried about you baby girl.😊

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George Papazian
Fishkill, NY · a month ago

That's good he's not a jealous jerk. And he trusts her, I hope it's warranted.

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PeteBuddy
Saint Petersburg, FL · a month ago

My girlfriend was the most oblivious, innocent, and clueless when it came to men introducing themselves. We’d go out to the bar and just talk to different people and then meet up and every 30 or 40 minutes and swap stories. We got home one night and she told me that we were gonna go on a boat ride the next morning … OK? 3 AM the phone rings … it was the guy who owned the boat! She saw his number and said that she was tired and asked me if I would handle it so I picked up and was very friendly… He asked if she was there, and I mentioned she fell asleep. I said that she was excited about going boating tomorrow. I mentioned that we were appreciative for the invitation…. The invitation was rescinded and she and I had to have a little chat the next morning. I had plenty of friends tell me that she was acting inappropriately and I totally understood where they were coming from. In 99% of these situations, I would probably agree. She just needed a little coaching….😆

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Brenda Brooks
Massena, NY · 13 days ago

Mine wouldn't care

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Chico Mendez
Bay Pines, FL · 14 days ago

YEAH...HES GOT THAT BAIL MONEY...

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westbound
Lompoc, CA · 2 months ago

I told my wife whenever she’s in a situation like this, to make her voice deep and tell them she’s a man. It never fails 💪🏼

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Sherri Martin
Newland, NC · 2 months ago

🤣 he ain't worried 😆

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Nathan Tyler
Orrtanna, PA · 2 months ago

I was just about to text you and ask if you can come and help with the 4 women asking me out I'm at pool also.

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Brenda Rains
Loxley, AL · 2 months ago

girls always flirted with my sweet husband, but I knew who he was going home with. 🥰👍

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Julia Barr
Vicksburg, MS · a month ago

Trust is a beautiful thing.

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Miceturd
Calumet City, IL · 2 months ago

You're a big girl...take care of it yourself!! You shouldn't need your husband to come to your rescue...don't act like a victim!!

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Vickie Tapley
9 days ago

Lol😆

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Elmo Sesame
Las Cruces, NM · 12 days ago

women can never let a man have peace 🕊️

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Lori Hovey
West Springfield, MA · 13 hours ago

This happened to me once. When I asked my husband why his reaction wasn’t “more?” He said I’ve seen you fight, that guy wouldn’t have stood a chance. I heard you yell at him across the bar. Your girls were posseing up. One of us was goi g to have to come up with bail. No sense in us both going to jail.

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Lorenzo Vega
Keokuk, IA · 13 days ago

he sleeps with you so of course he doesn't think your that great looking. being 450 pounds and still married is wild

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