AmITheAsshole
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Dawg if you whimpering over the dead, what else more can be said…. EMOTIONAL MEN🙄. She obviously don’t trust you with her emotions, you could have gotten a lot further by just sitting down by her and comforting her. You even said it’s not that serious.
If you're not over an ex lover or spouse you shouldn't be in a relationship, the living shouldn't have to compete with the dead for your love and affection.
If u are still in love with ur ex-living or dead, stay by ur self. Don't ruin someone else's life until u are over the loss of them.
I’m literally on the fence!! This is a misdemeanor not a felon or breakup worthy. If you passed she may come visit you!! 🤷🏾♂️
well she wasn't cheating even though he's dead, her emotions for what they shared still lives, she should've not had to lie to him. he should've been more understanding, show compassion love and understanding this was his opportunity to express that he failed her and the opportunity 🤷🏾♀️
my bf passed away a couple days ago and I can tell u I will be doing this evrey birthday.
They both wrong 🤔
why couldn't she just be honest with her intentions from the beginning? Now I'm thinking what else she has lied about or will lie about. Don't give a person a reason to doubt you. Be mindful of the seeds you drop in your garden.
She’s dead wrong n should’ve heal before getting in a relationship
I mean I wouldn’t say that but.. like she just wanna celebrate his birthday man ion mean no harm to no one bruh
Just reading these dudes responses on both sides of the story let's me know some of ya'll are into ya feelings a lil deeper than you need to be because I'm PERSONALLY into my own security and knowing my next move without expressing foolishness and feelings to be seen online!
some you guys are blaming the guy. but why didn't she tell him where she was goin? she's wrong
I think People missing the whole point .It should have been a convo first and maybe things would've been different. But no she hid it,lied about it saying she was at her moms...Talk to me and we can work shit out...
I had to put some thought in this one. She should've told him that she was going to the grave site before leaving home versus lying and saying she was going to her mom's house. How did he know that she was there, did he follow her, or did a family member tell him. I miss my daughters mother more than anyone knows, but I'm not going to her grave site to have a picnic. If he followed her it was some trust issues before this issue transpired agree🤔
As a man I am not bothered by a dead man. She is coming home to me…….😆
imagine being insecure about a dead guy
She could have went to the grave site and tell the dead guy how she found a wonderful man that's loving her and taking care of her. She is moving on to her new living man
If a person just paying respect to the dead that’s one thing.but if the person don’t have Closure from past Relationship that’s not Honorable.
My ex was murdered in 2008 I visit his grave every birthday, and men today always trying to date me and I tell them NO I’m still in love with my ex and they think I’m crazy because I’m still in love with a man that’s no longer living oh well it’s not a man alive that can take his place 💕💕💕💕💕
I understand what he coming from. But people shouldn't get in relationships that they know. They still have unresolved grief with their ex. They just shouldn't get in a relationship if you know, you're gonna have unresolved grief and you're gonna keep grieving Uber that x while you was somebody new. Yes, it can be stressful. It could be very stressful. I'm not mad at him. But I'm a little upset that she didn't tell him cause he whoever he was.He meant a lot to her before he departed this Earth and he still do.She has unresolved grief🤔
Thats exactly why she didn’t tell you. Petty daddy
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I’m confused about everyone saying that he’s wrong. Are we forgetting that she lied about where she was? I also think that she’s still in love with the man that passed and this was an on going issue
ok so he mad bc she sitting at a grave site having a picnic wit someone who is deceased I don't understand his anger here at all
The fact she had to lie about were she goin😆😆😆😆
but he's deceased, he's not coming back,it ain't like after the picnic,he's taking her back to his house to tap that... maybe he was special to her,and that's part of her healing process....if u jealous over a deceased ex... something wrong with u🤔
go ahead girl and leave he's very Petty very insecure over a deceased man get you a good man a secure man a real man
both wrong she should have talked to him. and he should understand
he is not a threat dead..now she did lie and say she was at her mammas house i get that but her x is not a threat dead 😒
Really , a Real man would Never act like this!!!😡
Allow the woman to grieve jealous of a dead man. She is healing . He isn’t the one for your heart.
The man is dead. What you think he's going to do? Come up and talk to here
IDK.... a person should NEVER lead a person on. Male or Female.... she is in the wrong for leading that man on. he gave his whole in order to be with her. That's What made her his Fiancee... He forgot about ALL the Other Females just for Her. She could have been More Respectful of him. Never should have gotten into a Lifestyle with him. This is Beyond a Relationship with that Man. Edge of Marriage Vowels and you are Crying Over Another Man. Dead or Alive... Respectfully Respect " Your " significant other. there is NO Way..... this Behavior is Okay or Alright. Learn How to Check Your Feelings before Submitting to Another Relationship with Someone Else. Some People go to the Extreme over their Feelings. Because This.... Basically saying that it's okay to be Married or with Someone and that it's okay to go and Cheat. HELL NO....... This Argument is 2-sided. it can go for Men or Woman. but it's even Sadder that Majority Women.... feels like this is Okay....
I truly understand grieving over an ex 🤔 but she took it to a whole different level a picnic , flowers laying by his grave site crying that's too much she's not ready for a new relationship😲
I could never be jealous over a dead person
dropping some rose off cool a whole picnic 🧺? beezy what the feezy
What can she do with a dead man?
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Yea cuz if he was living she be at his crib instead graveyard
He stated to her you forgot I had your location so that lets me know that they are both aware that she can be located as well as him possibly being located it because he said he had her location doesn’t mean that there is no trust that could be a safety and a security issue where they both give their locations for safety reasons… it’s not always a trust issue
she should have just told him.
He is Petty Peter, he gets mad at her over a deceased man in the ground, bless you little Mama.
Over a dead man?💁🏽♀️IS HE OKAY????💀
That’s a little bit too much. It’s not that she went to his grave it’s the whole picnic she got wine and they favorite foods SMH
It’s over
It’s unfair to be with someone and you haven’t moved on from losing someone you loved. Her fiancé should not have to compete with a ghost especially if he doesn’t know about it. She can’t be too pressed about the deceased and living with another man
He dead tho bro, it ain't like she going to the mo no with him😳😂
Smh what can he do from the grave?
She Bogus As Hell
Facts
he died mann dam insecure frfr
He's wrong.
like he said its not serious but she made it serious when she lied. if u can lie to me about this u'll lie to me about anything. she broke trust, and if I can't trust u, how can I lay my head down next to u? I see people saying he insecure but she not making him feel secured. anything u do behind your partner back and can't/don't enlighten them is cheating, idc wht it is. communication is key and everything should be on the table. nothin swept under the rug💯
I’m Brandon 😭
Love is love you never forget weather you move on or not
He wrong
he dead fool! b still
he's jade
Ngl I feel like the boy in the wrong cause u never know if that might still be her friend I mean she can only do so much he’s passed away , ngl boy over doing it
her 10000%
should of been honest
Na she not in the wrong Losin a love one hurts even if it was an ex rls..like wtf
her heart belongs to another 😳😳
I would’ve made her move in to the cemetery to be with her ex forever!
He is DEAD sir!!!!
I had something similar happen I’m not jealous over a dead person but why did she involve me in the situation if she wasn’t ready