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Norma
Columbia, SC · 2 days ago
HOT

If u are still in love with ur ex-living or dead, stay by ur self. Don't ruin someone else's life until u are over the loss of them.

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Lareesha Randall
Kansas City, MO · 2 days ago
HOT

He is Petty Peter, he gets mad at her over a deceased man in the ground, bless you little Mama.

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RIchard Maldonado
San Antonio, TX · 3 hours ago

it seems as if most of the female commentors don't understand about respect seen thru a man's eyes. Women love emotionally. Men love thru respect. This woman clearly is still not over emotionally ( a bottle of wine and roses). Really? Then lies about where she is.

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Tiffany Warren
Detroit, MI · a day ago

go ahead girl and leave he's very Petty very insecure over a deceased man get you a good man a secure man a real man

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Kenneth Wright
Hephzibah, GA · 19 hours ago

I'm seeing a lot of women saying he jealous for no reason..The Man is dead but if the roles were reversed..OMG y'all would really have a lot to say.."oh I'm not good enough for you.. you still worried about a dead B".. js

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Jason Voorhees
El Dorado, AR · 37 minutes ago

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Charmayne Phillips
Denver, CO · 18 hours ago

that's like stop saying don't mourn your loved ones because they're dead like that's stupid it's not like he's a threat or anything and we don't know the circumstances in behind it and just because someone has passed on and you're still in love does not mean that you cannot move on we really need to grow up this type of stuff makes us look terrible as people

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kyp1482
a day ago

To all the people saying this man buggin. She spent money on a dead man, she lied about a dead man, and she chose the dead man over the alive man in that situation. If a woman chooses a dead man over you you gotta feel like your down bad😆

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Lisa
Missouri City, TX · 2 days ago

why didn't she just be honest with him about the situation and he probably would have understood and wouldn't have acted that way. You heard him say oh you said that you were at your mom's house."" That's why he went to find her in the first place. she wasn't we're she said she was. why lie if it's nothing. Lying will always surface in the end. The moral to the story is don't lie. You tell one lie you have to tell another to cover it as well and so on and so forth. I hate a liar, but on the other hand, He really didn't have to go to that extreme. He's deceased.

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LaToya James
Boston, MA · a day ago

why lie about a deceased man!! I'm confused!

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quanetta guinyard
Columbia, South Carolina · a day ago

Jealous of a dead man my kids dad was jealous of my ex because I use to go to his grave r.i.p clutch

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Maven
Fairfax, VA · 14 hours ago

Dawg if you whimpering over the dead, what else more can be said…. EMOTIONAL MEN🙄. She obviously don’t trust you with her emotions, you could have gotten a lot further by just sitting down by her and comforting her. You even said it’s not that serious.

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Diane Kelley-rubo
Chicago, IL · a day ago

he's insecure of a Deadman

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Annette Grinner
New Orleans, LA · a day ago

JEALOUS OF A DEAD MAN? BRO U SAD AS HELL!!!, 💚🩷💚🩷💚🩷

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MIGZ BOSTON
Boston, MA · 20 hours ago

Why did she have to lie? Tell her man she's at her mom's house?? ... There is no type of real communication between the couple. He made the right choice... If she can lie about visiting her dead X's grave... Imagine what she would lie about so she can go chill with a living and breathing one!!!! Check please!!!! ✌🏽 Deuces Boo Boo!!!

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Robert
Seaford, DE · a day ago

It isn't the grieving , it's the lying ! Also , neither man , or woman should enter a new relationship until they have gone through the grieving process . Grief is real and can be devastating . Some people never get over the death of a loved one . My son passed away and it was sudden . It's almost as if he dies every day to me !

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Mike the philosopher
15 hours ago

I’m literally on the fence!! This is a misdemeanor not a felon or breakup worthy. If you passed she may come visit you!! 🤷🏾‍♂️

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Terri Quinn
McComb, MS · 16 hours ago

What in the it’s so hard to say goodbye to my dead bf and would rather be with him than you is going on here?

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ONLYFIGHTS
Buffalo, NY · 3 hours ago

look at this it's only women defending ts

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George Price
Warren, MI · 2 hours ago

Maybe she knew he would react in this manner 🙏🏼

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AndreaOG
Schenectady, NY · a day ago

How dare that man come up and complain over another man's grave? If she wanted to sit there and bring his birthday she should have doesn't mean she loves number 2 any less. It just means that she love them differently.

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Martin Tay
Boston, MA · a day ago

Girl just communicates the truth and honestly things will be fine

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Thickgirllove❤️
Savannah, GA · 15 hours ago

He is gone and you’re upset because she’s at a graveyard visiting a grave. That is so insecure so you caught you in competition of a to a dead person. Let her have her moment. She probably still grieving. I mean she with you just get over it boy

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Alfonso
Fort Collins, CO · 8 hours ago

Did they get together after he passed and why did he pass this lady obviously loved the man in the ground this guy is wrong we all mourn the people we lost he seems selfish and controlling

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Tamp Bivins
Opelika, AL · 9 hours ago

It's TWO men that I DON'T worry about that a woman still have feelings for. 1. A DEAD MAN. 2. A MAN THAT GOT LIFE IN PRISON. C. I would be her BIGGEST supporter 👍👍

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Rasheedah Sutton
Auburn, NY · 6 hours ago

he petty af

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Angela Bosley
Columbus, OH · a day ago

just cuz she was here don't mean that the love she had for the person's grave she at and maybe that's why she lied and said she was somewhere over her mom but wasn't she was where she was at that's insecure for real for real if he couldn't understand that then you need to leave him he's wrong

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Mo Man
Chicago, IL · a day ago

dude a whole goofy the man dead what can he do 🤨

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Carolyn Richardson
Harper Woods, MI · 10 hours ago

He's wrong. He didn't have to desigrate her ex's grave by creating a scene. He could've waited and addressed how he felt at a different site.🙏

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Sade Walker
Shallotte, NC · 6 hours ago

This is stupid and he really doesn't have a good heart to cherish.

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Neon1Greenz2
Chicago, IL · 2 hours ago

how can u tell an unreasonable Narcissistic, stalker anything? he's like Why didn't you tell me....😳this is clearly why...💯

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Levator Thomas
Kermit, TX · 21 hours ago

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Terribia Misters
Chicago, IL · 20 hours ago

no matter what nobody say whether they in another relationship or not if a person that they was with for a very long time ups and dies they always going to still think about that person regardless it's part of life it ain't like she's cheating he's a dead man what could she do yes she could have kept it real with him to let her know that I had an ex that I was deeply in love with and yes I still miss them at times so I decided to want to go see him at the gravesite it's not hard just keep it real with your partner

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Alstone
Dayton, OH · 10 hours ago

leave her where you found her move on and let her continue to grieve

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Shawn Banks
Newark, NJ · 5 hours ago

You're wrong as hell for this? People grieve on their own time and in their own way. Who are you to stay and stop how she grieves?

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Enid Salvo
Rockaway Park, NY · 3 hours ago

Leave her Alone ‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️

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Mary Leslie
Chicago, IL · 10 hours ago

He jealous of a dead man

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Sharon Stewart
Pittsburgh, PA · 10 hours ago

Lord have Mercy 🥺

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Charlene Bonilla
Las Vegas, NV · 6 hours ago

wtf smh he childish

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Gabrielle Gaines
Rochester, MN · 16 hours ago

In love with someone that have pass away is deeper than we know🥺

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Now Forever
18 hours ago

Dude he ain’t really here 🤔😆😆😆😆🤔🤔🤔😆😆😆😆 she strange for bringing a bottle at the picnic

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Pamela Eady
South Fulton, GA · 17 hours ago

Why be jealous of a man thats gone on??💕🙏🏼 Girl he’s stupid let hm go…😲

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Ramillia Jackson
Memphis, TN · 3 hours ago

my bd had died in 2021 from a heart attack my son and I celebrate his bday and my dude knows about it he comes with because his bday is the same as him the celebration it's not for me to forgive i have done that already it's for my son to keep him alive in his heart

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Deborah Bryant
Hartford, CT · 2 hours ago

he crying over her crying about a man that's dead. he has got to be petty. she tru l y loved that man. if he treats her right, she can love him the same way. but he's gonna be an jackass about it. talk to her and soothe her but instead he's acting like a fool. be kind and sympathetic about it. not stupid!!!!!

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Kevin Toppin
Atlanta, GA · 10 hours ago

This generation has people so damn shallow that they are missing life true value, Life is not about envy, jealousy or the like, There are so much to Love about living there is to much love to worry about someone removing themselves to choose another Is u crazy!

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Shirley Horton
Monticello, AR · 19 hours ago

She isn’t ready for a relationship with anyone because the dead man still has her heart.Young man leave her alone and let her grieve for him.

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tttttttttt kkkkkkk
Gastonia, NC · 6 hours ago

No one can put a time limit on how long you grieve a deceased person. Just because she's with someone else it doesn't instantly take away the loss she experienced, and it definitely doesn't take anything away from the new person she has in her life. Moving on after that kind of loss is hard mature adults should know the difference and respect that for what it is. Nothing more nothing less. Personal Insecurities can cloud things unfortunately. ijs🙏

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FranktheTankk
Martinsville, VA · a day ago

It doesn’t have to be a physical person there to be emotionally attached. I wouldn’t have an issue with her visiting him. I visit my ex-wife but the blanket, wine and etc is very disrespectful and insulting to her new dude! Now we live in a crazy world, so society will anything fly 😂.

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Leroy Abbott
Las Vegas, NV · a day ago

first of all she should have told the truth and second of all he is overreacting!

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giddy gidhet
Knoxville, TN · a day ago

He gonna piss on dude grave

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RUDE BOI
Tampa, FL · 8 minutes ago

Don't blame dude thats mad disrespectful

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Qing Qarl Qopy
Brooklyn, NY · 21 minutes ago

That's why marriages are for virgins, only.

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phylise webb
Texarkana, AR · 36 minutes ago

he's wrong, you jealous of a dead man

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Natasha Pharris
Lebanon, TN · 40 minutes ago

How you gonna be jealous of someone dead??? That's crazy

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Stella Dixon Draper
Roselle, NJ · 43 minutes ago

He acts like this because you're at a grave site, then 👍🏼there's no reason to show up at the church for the wedding.

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Valorie Baxter
Indianapolis, IN · an hour ago

reply

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~ s.jxn ~ga
Louisville, KY · an hour ago

If you TRULY LOVE someone, you support them regardless, simply because you are confident in that relationship. Although, bottom line, no one needs to even involve the deceased. Leave them rest. Allow living some time to cope, but must discuss to move on or fail relations. Work that together, then enable future issues to conquer. And never compare situations. Yours are always unique.

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Michael Camel
Detroit, MI · an hour ago

boy you crazy as hell go sit yo ass down somewhere

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viva mexico
Homestead, FL · an hour ago

his in the wrong

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Aretha Riyals
Philadelphia, PA · an hour ago

y u mad🤔

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cynthia tolliver
Salisbury, MD · an hour ago

can't compete with a dead man

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Lashawn Plushette
Champaign, IL · an hour ago

he wrong. how can a dead man get you in your feelings that hard. grow up young man he can't hurt nor harm you.

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Shirley Hawkins
Little Rock, AR · an hour ago

there is no need for him to be this rorn up over a deceased man he could have met her and offered they go to counseling

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The whole truth
Philadelphia, PA · an hour ago

If you can’t be truthful in the beginning of a relationship, you won’t be truthful during that relationship that’s just my opinion, and I stand on it.

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Matthew Banks
North Attleborough, MA · an hour ago

what a joke leave his ass. didn't he leave ypu at the alter? or yall making fake videos

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Gaming Princess
Brooklyn, NY · an hour ago

I wouldn't want anyone that has a spirit attached like glue to them, that would be creepy

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Evelyn Rodriguez
Bronx, NY · 2 hours ago

Wow 😳 That's BIG !!!! Caught Red Handed, You Cannot Explain That !!!! Why Would She Do That To Your Fiance, Over An Ex That's Deased?!!!? Girlfriend Take OFF His Ring !!!!! Stay With The Dead Dude !!!!

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James Hogan
Hampton, VA · 2 hours ago

She for dem skreets 😲

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jon lino
Brooklyn, NY · 2 hours ago

throw her out

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