AmITheAsshole
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Dawg if you whimpering over the dead, what else more can be said…. EMOTIONAL MEN🙄. She obviously don’t trust you with her emotions, you could have gotten a lot further by just sitting down by her and comforting her. You even said it’s not that serious.
If u are still in love with ur ex-living or dead, stay by ur self. Don't ruin someone else's life until u are over the loss of them.
If you're not over an ex lover or spouse you shouldn't be in a relationship, the living shouldn't have to compete with the dead for your love and affection.
Her ex-boyfriend in the afterlife😭😭😭
my guy... hes dead. what do you have to worry about? she was just siting there separating his birthday. what if they were still together when he died? now you over hear yelling at her over her felling sad? oh hell no. insecure af.
she could have told him the truth tho
Nah if you ain’t done grieving don’t get into a relationship that simple
He is Petty Peter, he gets mad at her over a deceased man in the ground, bless you little Mama.
Thats exactly why she didn’t tell you. Petty daddy
well she wasn't cheating even though he's dead, her emotions for what they shared still lives, she should've not had to lie to him. he should've been more understanding, show compassion love and understanding this was his opportunity to express that he failed her and the opportunity 🤷🏾♀️
I’m literally on the fence!! This is a misdemeanor not a felon or breakup worthy. If you passed she may come visit you!! 🤷🏾♂️
imagine being insecure about a dead guy
Allow the woman to grieve jealous of a dead man. She is healing . He isn’t the one for your heart.
I had to put some thought in this one. She should've told him that she was going to the grave site before leaving home versus lying and saying she was going to her mom's house. How did he know that she was there, did he follow her, or did a family member tell him. I miss my daughters mother more than anyone knows, but I'm not going to her grave site to have a picnic. If he followed her it was some trust issues before this issue transpired agree🤔
I think People missing the whole point .It should have been a convo first and maybe things would've been different. But no she hid it,lied about it saying she was at her moms...Talk to me and we can work shit out...
it's not that serious maybe she still was friends with him and only friends and decided let me go see him for his birthday and plus he's dead sooo like bro
ok so he mad bc she sitting at a grave site having a picnic wit someone who is deceased I don't understand his anger here at all
Really , a Real man would Never act like this!!!😡
go ahead girl and leave he's very Petty very insecure over a deceased man get you a good man a secure man a real man
If a person just paying respect to the dead that’s one thing.but if the person don’t have Closure from past Relationship that’s not Honorable.
As a man I am not bothered by a dead man. She is coming home to me…….😆
My ex was murdered in 2008 I visit his grave every birthday, and men today always trying to date me and I tell them NO I’m still in love with my ex and they think I’m crazy because I’m still in love with a man that’s no longer living oh well it’s not a man alive that can take his place 💕💕💕💕💕
I could never be jealous over a dead person
The fact she had to lie about were she goin😆😆😆😆
dropping some rose off cool a whole picnic 🧺? beezy what the feezy
I’m confused about everyone saying that he’s wrong. Are we forgetting that she lied about where she was? I also think that she’s still in love with the man that passed and this was an on going issue
She’s dead wrong n should’ve heal before getting in a relationship
Yea cuz if he was living she be at his crib instead graveyard
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I understand what he coming from. But people shouldn't get in relationships that they know. They still have unresolved grief with their ex. They just shouldn't get in a relationship if you know, you're gonna have unresolved grief and you're gonna keep grieving Uber that x while you was somebody new. Yes, it can be stressful. It could be very stressful. I'm not mad at him. But I'm a little upset that she didn't tell him cause he whoever he was.He meant a lot to her before he departed this Earth and he still do.She has unresolved grief🤔
She could have went to the grave site and tell the dead guy how she found a wonderful man that's loving her and taking care of her. She is moving on to her new living man
The man is dead. What you think he's going to do? Come up and talk to here
he is not a threat dead..now she did lie and say she was at her mammas house i get that but her x is not a threat dead 😒
my bf passed away a couple days ago and I can tell u I will be doing this evrey birthday.
I mean I wouldn’t say that but.. like she just wanna celebrate his birthday man ion mean no harm to no one bruh
nope she gone
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why couldn't she just be honest with her intentions from the beginning? Now I'm thinking what else she has lied about or will lie about. Don't give a person a reason to doubt you. Be mindful of the seeds you drop in your garden.
both wrong she should have talked to him. and he should understand
What can she do with a dead man?
They both wrong 🤔
I have mixed feelings. Why get married to a man that you can’t communicate and confide in. You’re not letting go of the past. 🤨 U don’t love him like you should
Seems like this is EXACTLY why she didn't tell that truth. Wouldn't be me, I'd been honest, but to each it's own.
like dude you're really insecure yeah the man is deceased but you're not going to stop your love for them this is crazy that mean is deceased let it be you're with her he can never be with her again flesh to flesh get it together bro go seek therapy or maybe he just want a reason to break up with her cuz that's diabolical the man is deceased bro RIP brother
bro really tripping
first of all it's not that serious he should have just sat down and let her paid her ex the respect she wanted to then they should have went home and discussed this not all aired out on social media that's crazy the man is dead and gone it ain't the dead that you need to worry about it is the living
That’s his fiancé and she never mentioned her ex boyfriend died maybe she’s not ready for marriage, it’s something he could keep over, but she lied hope they work things out
“#Cheating” is if he’s not dead..
Is best she know he a jerk now and get away from me because he’s a jerk you move on ain’t nothing like your ex move on
Hes wrong
Lying is cheating whether it’s physical or emotional doesn’t matter I see where he got hurt but the man is dead, he’s really no competition…. Maybe you could talk that through.
it's not that serious for him to react like that.
i would have comfort her an plus its not like she could do anything weird the mans is ded tf
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He's literally getting mad over someone who has passed away who she's still grieving. Just plainly said this guy is a damn fool.
She wrong
ngl I can see both sides she didn’t have to lie but she still mourning him she could’ve just told em n now he’s in “competition” with a deceased man and knows he’ll never have her full heart
Pathetic
hes gone smfh oh he competing in the after life 🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️🤦🏾♀️
he is right cause it wasn't nothing to hide you should have told him the truth but you lied an git caught so you made something that was so simple turn into something bad he scenes so yes he reacted the way he was supposed toto really care about you and you lied to him