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Connie Leal
Edinburg, TX · a day ago

I don’t comprehend how a mother would choose a boyfriend over the children she carried in her womb.

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SAWIT
Simi Valley, CA · 2 days ago

You only get one birth mother. life is short people make mistakes everyone does God knew 🙏 it was going to be a flip down the road. and your decision. its easy to say no I'm holding on to a grudge! or certainly mom you made a huge mistake. but I adapted overcame and adjusted because of the type of person I am. Thank your mother for what you have become. if it wasn't for her you probably would have ended up in a dark alley with a needle sticking out of your arm. called Tuff Love Thank your mother and give her a room she going to be making your life whole again 👍🙏

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VA Baby
Winston-Salem, NC · 2 days ago

She didn't make a mistake she made a decision to abandon her child stop making excuses for these trifling people

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Alicia Sosa
La Mesa, CA · 2 days ago

I was married for almost 20yrs to the father of my 4 children, heeft us in 2010 for his mistress our divorce became final in 2013 and I chose to take care and protect our children and that meant even from myself, by not doing or displaying my lack of caring for them or how they feel about the divorce, I would never choose anyone over my beautiful children they are the reason, I keep pushing and fighting even though I am struggling I would rather go with out, than to have someone tell me what they do for me hanging over my head and that I need to grateful and bow down becuase they are my savior bs I am my own savior and god has done nothing for me I have done it all my self

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Giavonni Tridone
Benton, KY · 3 days ago

My mom used to drop me off at the fire station. Joke was on her. I was a teenager and it was only a block away. I always found my way home. Sometimes the guys at the station would even give me a ride.

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Mary k. Derian
Sparks, NV · 2 days ago

still, I wouldn't touch it. no way its illegal to kick out a kid under 18 when my youngest son was in high school I had a set of twin boys, his friends living with me almost a year. parents were in town, doing well for themselves. I truly hated those people they were broken kids now their adults doing really well in life im glad I could give them a safe place

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Sharon Krzys
Meridian charter Township, MI · an hour ago

I would thank her for the lovely message, forgive her but ans this is just me, I wouldn't let her live in my house! I would help her find another place but not with me...

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jill
Nashville, TN · 2 days ago

Don’t let her in. She could destroy the best thing you have ever had a loving husband and stable life.

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Vanessa Weber Naglak
Chalfont, PA · 2 days ago

DO NOT FEEL GUILTY! A mother never chooses anyone or anything over her children. Shame on her. This is Karma. If she had done the right thing from the beginning she’d be living a good life.

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Pw
Pueblo, CO · an hour ago

I would be hard pressed to trust the mother and would not let her move in. The daughter can forgive her mother but that doesn’t mean she will ever be able to trust her. Some people are too toxic to have in your life.

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Antonio Ramos
New York, NY · an hour ago

That bridge is burned don't try to rebuild it she's just a parasite and trying to instill false guilt and how did she know where you live?

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Rebecca Ansman
Altoona, PA · a day ago

Tell her no

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Dangit
Springfield, IL · 2 days ago

It's ok to disown the people you shared your name with. Live your life and remember others who have been abused

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Deborah James-Johnson
2 days ago

That's her Karma. Forgive and move on. You don't owe her anything. 🙏🙏🙏

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Sue Nelson
Clarkson, KY · 3 days ago

Write her off. She comes to you when she needs something. Give her nothing . Let her find a boyfriend or go live in the Jesus house. Don’t feel sorry for her. She bought it all on herself

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Harry D
Tampa, FL · a day ago

Sad, she made her bed, she lives in it.

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Deloris Bentley
Portland, OR · 2 days ago

forgiveness is a virtue forgive her, you can never forget try baby steps, and see where her heart is now. no one deserves to be homeless. God made a way for you and, we are not supposed to sit in negative judgement it's time for some healing, before it's too late, permanently 🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏✌️💋

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Amy Lynn
2 days ago

Any woman that would trade in her kids for a man-deserves anything & everything she gets, or doesn’t! Was he worth it???

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Dixonables
Wylie, TX · 2 days ago

Don’t let her, what if you had died?

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Carolyn Richardson
Harper Woods, MI · 2 days ago

If you can't forgive others, God won't forgive you 😲🤔👍🙏

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venecia dacus
Montgomery, AL · 2 days ago

that's what the mother gets for treating her that way her mother should have been locked up for abandonment of a child👍

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Deborah Vega
Tacoma, Washington · 2 days ago

NO...

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jack
Edgewater, NJ · 2 days ago

blood is not thicker than water.. family is overrated and means nothing until they prove it.... I don't forgive or forget... grudges exist for a reason

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Bobbie Lumetta
10 hours ago

It happens too often. For some people children are disposable

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pauline king
Bloomfield, CT · 2 days ago

The Word of God says "You shall reap what you sow." Your mother abandoned you for a man at a early age and years later she returns but you are an adult. If you can forgive her and continue living your life as you should.

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BlueOceanEyes
Boaz, AL · 2 days ago

🙏No, all the years you were young and Homeless. Hell no. You owe her nothing.

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Rosetta Harris
Memphis, TN · 2 days ago

I would tell her “ I did” and I hope you found the life you wanted with out me in it. It took her 18 years to come back and expect what? Not to touch bases but to move on and disrupt your life again, to pick up where you left off? Sometimes you need to love people from a distance. And she was a prime example of how it’s done. Thank her for the photo and keep it pushing.

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Mary Rose Doten
Canton, MA · 2 days ago

What goes around comes around.

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primalBeef
13 hours ago

bs your mom isn't that chill

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SeaBreeze Rae
Trenton, NJ · 2 days ago

The biggest betrayal of all is when a parent chooses someone else over her child. It's something the child NEVER gets over. She abandoned you. Now it's time for you to abandon her. No regrets. No remorse. No forgiveness.

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Debbie Delauro
Indianapolis, IN · 2 days ago

The Bible says you reap what you sow.

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Lord Krishna Stole My Heart
Gainesville, FL · a day ago

Remember people, you can divorce a significant other but you NEVER leave your kids.

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Yes indeed
2 days ago

Tough life. Rough decisions. Good luck.

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brother dodger
Hot Springs, AR · a day ago

No. you always take your mother in.

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BT1215
Thomasville, NC · a day ago

Keep doing your best Son as a Mom with 3 sons I stop dating when my sons hit college,High School and Jr High they are 4 years apart I needed to focus on them and them only 🥰🥰🥰

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BillTiger
Albuquerque, NM · a day ago

Tell her she's welcome to come back in 18 years for a re-evaluation

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James Payne
Gallatin, TN · 2 days ago

You reap what you sow. I have 3 kids and I have NEVER kicked one out of my house. All three tried college and failed. Two went to work and the third is still trying to find work. The first two worked, went back to school on their own dime and are living in a home the first one bought. Damn proud of all my kids!

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OG Philly Girl
Fredericksburg, VA · 2 days ago

At least she knows it was her fault. Your kids come first always. 💕

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Sally Gregory
Joplin, MO · a day ago

Tough ... she threw you like garbage ... guess she can figure it out like you did at 16yrs ... sorry not sorry

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Deb Willi
New York City, NY · a day ago

Some relationships are for a season because it wore out its use. It doesn't matter if the person gives birth to you. If it doesn't bring you peace and happiness, you have to leave it behind. She made a choice and it wasn't you. That should tell you where her priorities lays . Most moms will go through the flames for their children. Let that sink in

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Lorraine Webster
Cincinnati, OH · 2 days ago

I still would not take her in, she failed you as a mother for a man. She may try and move a man of hers into your home. You made your life for yourself.

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Paul McCraw
Boyce, LA · 2 days ago

She should have thought of that then if she had changed then for give her it may be hard but you could do it

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Bobby
Oakland, CA · a day ago

At least she realized what a dumb choice she made, like kicking out a ruby for a piece of dirt. If you want to associate with her, that's up to you, but you are under no obligation to house her. I wouldn't let a boyfriend move in if I was her. If she wouldn't want you sleeping with someone outside of marriage, she shouldn't set that kind of example for you.

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Dennis McBride
Bristol Township, PA · a day ago

if you can't forgive, don't expect the LORD to forgive, and we all need forgiveness.

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Falling Stars
Italy, TX · a day ago

😭

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carol pollard
Dawsonville, GA · a day ago

So sad back then , women made half of what men made and we had alot of issues that no one cared about, beaters, rapist, control freaks Im glad I got the tail end of it and was a strong woman without said what I thought now at 67 Im mean as a snake and will call you out in a second, I worked tending bar managing bars restaurant and groceries stores Ive been grab harassed and almost raped but I was to strong. Thats What I want all women to be Mean as a snake and strong

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Sweeper
South Mills, NC · a day ago

Real Moms never forsake their children!!! Especially over a man!!

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JustRick
Huntsville, AL · 2 days ago

Still wouldn't take her in.

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cinderellie
3 days ago

At 16 you could have went straight to the police and she’d have been jailed for abandonment!! I wouldn’t let her in either.

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Angela McGregor
Irmo, SC · a day ago

It sounds like you found the life she failed to give you. Try to forgive her, and then carry on without her in your life.

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Della
a day ago

Well too late MOTHER! 🙏🏼