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Doggie Mom42
10 days ago
HOT

Keep him out of your finances, if he insists, replace him, it's YOUR MONEY. ITS YOUR BUSINESS. Next he will want you to loan him money, it will never be paid back. He wants control over you. .

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Audrey Ellis Haire
Michie, TN · 9 days ago
HOT

YOUR bank account belongs to you ONLY unless you get married then he can have access if you permit it. But it’s none of his business while you are dating. It’s your confidential info.

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Phyllis Lawson
Augusta, GA · 9 days ago

Not only keep him out your finances, it’s time to walk away🥰

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Robert Fisher
Terril, IA · 10 days ago

No you are not wrong your banking is your business

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Judy Flake
Pilot Mountain, NC · 10 days ago

If you pay your part of the bills, he has no right to question your decisions on how you spend money. He’s trying to figure out how to get you to pay more than him.

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Mr Kenneth
Texarkana, TX · 10 days ago

so why is how your spending your own money his concern. it's YOUR money.

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Cynthia Bell
Pontiac, MI · 20 hours ago

No don’t do it

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Angela Fuller
Randle, WA · 10 days ago

no your paying your share and until you have a joint account access to your money is a control issue. And as this has come up one might consider why he feels the need to control or accuse you of secrets and hiding things. Good luck.

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Joyce Blackshire
Hayward, CA · 9 days ago

Nope!

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Thomas Anderson
Maple Grove, MN · 10 days ago

NO. Do not give him anything. you might want to look for a different boyfriend

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Jason Jacobs
Casper, WY · 9 days ago

if you split the bills evenly that shouldn't be an issue

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Beverly Petty
Apple Springs, TX · 8 days ago

Take this as a sign of control send him packing

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Private Confidential
Arlington, VA · 10 days ago

No, he is not your husband, yet! After the ring & the legal wedding, you can have that discussion with him.Before you do that, have a very candid talk with your attorney. Take careful note of how your boyfriend spends his money. A man with intentions of marrying you will offer his financial status to you automatically. He will not demand yours for any reason. You can not repair him. Don't try. Don't keep him around because you are lonely. That will make & keep you lonely every day of your time together.

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Nursern1974
Grand Prairie, TX · 4 days ago

He needs to be an ex

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Pat Walsh
Port Charlotte, FL · 10 days ago

No. It’s none of his business as long as you’re half of the bills get paid. Why should he care how you spend your money?

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Stel Sue
11 days ago

Bolt,now.

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Ralph Templeton
Ponchatoula, LA · 11 days ago

nope. keep your banking info private, even from your partner.

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Wendy Fioravanti
Bristol, CT · a day ago

Answer - No - no explanation needed. He asked and you said no - end of story

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GC
a day ago

Girl, if you’re asking the question, you know you’re not wrong. In fact, it’s best for you to move out. Leave him right there.

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Maribel Ivory
New York, NY · 10 days ago

No you’re not WRONG 😅

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Diane Carver
Walla Walla, WA · 18 hours ago

No. you're not wrong at all. I've been in the same situation. Never give your bank information to anyone. That's what scammers do. They make believe that you can trust him say that they love you. once It's the lovers scam.Never give your bank information to anyone. no matter how trustworthy they seem. I've met a couple different guys saying they love you. When you don't send money sometimes they get mea and demanding. one of them actually said if I didn't do this they would cause me torture and. pay and eventually death. another one told me to watch my back. sometimes after you tell them no they will get mad and keep pushing for the money you really have to be careful. there are a lot of snakes out there

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Catherine Price
Hamilton, NJ · 11 days ago

No. Your bank account is yours and he has no right to see it or even have access to it.

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Shelly Fleming
Big Lake, AK · 9 days ago

No keep doing it

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timab
South Lake Tahoe, CA · 5 days ago

Get a new boyfriend that can afford you.A man should take care of his woman. never give him your bank info. That would be silly. Split everything right down the middle.And as for his bank info and see how he likes it or better yet, find a real man

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Juanita Mauras
Pottstown, PA · 10 days ago

not your husband

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Lori Ann Henselin
Rochester, MN · 8 days ago

No you’re Not Wrong!!! You are Not Married to Him! And I Don’t think you should be. He sounds kind of shady to me!!!!

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Margaret Taylor
Anchorage, AK · 10 days ago

Nope, you are absolutely not wrong.

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cleastine newsome
Flint, MI · 8 days ago

Nope, no right to know until he puts a ring on. Even then he doesn’t have to know everything you have

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Psr58
Fort Worth, TX · 9 days ago

No you’re not wrong at all remember he’s your boyfriend and not your husband

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Bill Bitner
Palm Springs, CA · 10 days ago

No. Your money your business.

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Floyd Wheeler
Saugatuck, MI · 8 days ago

If he is only a boyfriend he has no business in you banking!

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Kathy Mccarroll
Silver Spring, MD · 9 days ago

No! You aren't wrong! It's not his business!

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Lyndia Mims
Virginia Beach, Virginia · 7 days ago

Let bf be upset all he wants,most are definitely big pouting babies ...Your bank account is not his business, knowing that govern yourself accordingly....💯♥️

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Sheila Parker
Huntsville, AL · 9 days ago

Absolutely not, he is wrong for asking.

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Carrie Grimes
Las Vegas, NV · 8 days ago

First of all, he’s only your boyfriend. He has no right to your account or anything else of yours. He puts a ring on your finger that’s a different story but until then your life is your own and you owe nobody nothing remember that.

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Teresa Mcgee
Stamford, CT · 8 days ago

not at all baby girl as long as your paying your share of bills he should be happy about it, maybe he wants to know how much money yiu have so he can make you pay more than half if you have more money saved than he dose, AND BESIDES HES NOT YOUR HUSBAND SO YOU DONT REALLY HAVE TO SHOW HIM NOTHING

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Marci Rommal
Katy, TX · 10 days ago

My husband of 40 years does not have my banking info. We talk about most purchases, but if he wanted to SEE how I spend my money, he can go happy whistling. There is a reason we have separate bank accounts.

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Kim Brown
Brockton, MA · 10 days ago

😆no you have right to privacy

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EW
10 days ago

Nope, let him get his own account he should have nothing to do with yours

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B Hoak (Jay)
Gresham, OR · 7 days ago

No unit wrong

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Healz Dimples
8 days ago

Thats a huge red flag. Any man who wants to control your money wants to control you.

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Gwen Lion
Las Vegas, NV · 8 days ago

Boundaries are everything in a relationship.

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kame shima
White City, OR · 15 hours ago

no....

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wizardess
Baileyton, AL · 10 days ago

none of his business

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Tammy Harrell
Wilmington, NC · a day ago

No for the main reason is no legal documents binding y’all together. Then it’s still a controlling behavior

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Eyecare
Canton, CT · a day ago

Break up NOW ‼️

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Pauline Abernathy
Stone Mountain, Georgia · 18 hours ago

NO!

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Barbara HANN
Blackwood, NJ · 6 days ago

He counting your money not his. Thats right say no 🤔Weird he wants to even look ya’ll not even married. 🚩🚩🏃‍♀️Leave quickly.,

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Dianne Kern
Sterling Heights, MI · 9 days ago

Nope... you're good... I'd think twice about him though...🤔

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Harry Campbell
Aurora, CO · 2 hours ago

Are you all serious, he should respect you enough to not ask. How about imagining life without him.

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Who me?
Mesa, AZ · 2 hours ago

Ask him what he is hiding because he is trying to shift the blame to you.

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Sue Nelson
Leitchfield, KY · 4 hours ago

Don’t let him into your bank account

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Carl Powers
Athens, OH · 6 hours ago

NO

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Saundra Magerowski
Milwaukee, WI · 13 hours ago

dump him

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Billie Woods
O'Fallon, IL · 14 hours ago

no allway lift lessm 82 take from me keep it. like. that

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Janie Baker
Monroe, NC · 15 hours ago

no

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Mamie Brunson
Goldsboro, NC · 16 hours ago

never do that

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Doris Neequaye
San Antonio, TX · 16 hours ago

Don’t give it to him

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Gail Kilbane
Cleveland, OH · 16 hours ago

nope ditch him

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Sweeper
South Mills, NC · 16 hours ago

Nope... you make more than him, and you are not married. He has no reason to look at your finances

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Mudcat
Saint Francisville, LA · 18 hours ago

If you can't trust the person you marry 100%, don't marry them. Until that day, although you may share household expenses, finances should be kept separate.

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Betsy Robinson
Salisbury, NC · 18 hours ago

NO NOT EVEN IF HE IS WILLING TO SHARE HIS

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Diane Carver
Walla Walla, WA · 18 hours ago

Get away from him as soon as you can. Don't trust him.

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Obey Gravity
Evansville, IN · 18 hours ago

Welcome to the breadwinners circle!

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Angela Burton
Yorktown, VA · 19 hours ago

no way

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Sandra Amerson
Lumberton, NC · 19 hours ago

None of his damn business.