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Pretty Nikki
Houston, TX · 2 months ago
HOT

Well Said Young Lady!!!

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TexasRed
Richardson, TX · a month ago

I was with a man for 12 years...we broke up while planning our wedding after we announced it to our families....he later met someone and married her after knowing her only 3 months

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Guest
Temecula, CA · 2 months ago

The 10 year woman was the place holder until he found the woman he wanted to spend his life with.

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Ruth Reavis
Richmond, VA · a month ago

She asked of him, only taught on how to treat the next woman. Fact 🤔 she only made him a better man for another woman. Don’t give a man that many years without a commitment.

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Samiyah
Queens, NY · a month ago

This is why do not live with any Man until marriage lmao you can absolutely be my boyfriend outside my house foh 😭🤦🏻‍♀️🤷🏻‍♀️ also women stop moving these men in your homes

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Tunisia Morse
Indianapolis, IN · a month ago

yup, I was with a man for 6 years, I thought we were going to get married. We broke up and he immediately married another woman less than 6 months later. True talk sis. I should have known better.

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destiney bowens
Jackson, OH · 2 months ago

when I started dating my husband I really didnt think it would go far. he had a reputation. we had been friends for a couple years so I knew who he was. a player, a cheater, a partier/drunk. but when we started dating he completely changed. got his first job. stopped drinking. it was just about me and us and what we were going to build and be. we celebrate 14 years in january. many women do not like me because I got a good man when they got the player.

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Ms T
Fishers, IN · a month ago

I say this all the time. Just like ppl make time for the things that they want.

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Glenda Layne
a month ago

And oftentimes these men-leopards will change for a new thing until he snags her and then he will repeat the pattern—he goes back to his “true self.”

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Shelisa Nichols
Birmingham, AL · 2 months ago

First of all, I wouldn’t waste 10 years of my damn life waiting on no man to marry me!

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Razie Risque
Raleigh, NC · a month ago

This happened to me with my BD for 10 yrs and he marries the other woman after about 7 months. I blamed my self for allowing him to use me and take advantage of my love. That was 10 yrs ago happy to say that I worked on myself and poured into my kids and found my person.

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Andre Baker
Atlanta, GA · a month ago

What man is out here just doing for women? A man wants a woman that’s gonna do for him. Man is king. Kings don’t serve queens. Queens serve kings.

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Thresa White
White Lake charter Township, MI · 9 days ago

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Gwennell
Detroit, MI · a month ago

A man knows in a short period of time whether he wants to marry a woman or not. Giving yourself to a man (playing house), thinking that's going to keep him, you're fooling yourself. The saying you have to test drive the product and so on, that's crap. If he wants to leave, well. Concentrate ladies on yourselves. Build up your self-worth and self-esteem.What are your intentions? What is the end goal? Getting to know you doesn't have to involve sex. Save that for your husband. And this game they play about being engaged, for years.That's wasting time. Set the date ( if it ever gets to that point). If he's not ready for marriage, then why are you dating?Date with the intentions of getting married. Don't play.That's giving them time to find someone else. A man treats you how you allow them to treat you. Enough of the games.🙄

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Janicegalloway63
Memphis, TN · 2 months ago

You are definitely Correct…

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Santiago Castillo
Allentown, PA · a month ago

I hear that hot ish, what you gonna do for me!!😂😂😂😂

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Ashley Brown
New Kensington, PA · 6 days ago

Do women change for who they wanna change for as well? Or does that only apply to men?

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Jimmy Leroy
Inkster, MI · a month ago

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Nope
Des Moines, IA · a month ago

that's me rn. I love him so much but I'm tired of begging. I don't have much left in me to keep fighting for him.... I feel my heart leaving him.

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THERESA FAVOR
New York City, NY · a month ago

I feel the same way Stop wasting your good years with these men. Don t Beg Move on just like they do...

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Barbara Brown Henry
Clarksburg, MD · a month ago

If you date a man for more than two years and he doesn’t put a engagement ring on… most likely he’s not going to marry you. Women you got to realize you expires, they know who they really wants to marry, it doesn’t even take a year‼️

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Brenda Johnson
Pasadena, MD · 7 days ago

Well, at least you know the why and want stay in a similar situation.

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Sharon Garvin
2 months ago

I don’t see how the woman was with this man for 10 whole years waited that long for him to marry her, that would never be my story. I would have been long gone. Your brother played this gullible woman,but he will reap what he sowed!!!

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Footz
The Bronx, NY · 3 months ago

And he will be divorced with in the same year! And guess what? She’s going to try to take everything from you and put you in a shelter! This is why women want to get married all the time! So they can take away everything that a man had worked hard for his entire life! The man will lose everything! And the woman will get everything! This is why women always want to be married and men do not! Because men don’t get anything but a bunch of bills to pay! While women get everything they want! And then you have to beg your wife for sex? These women don’t understand equal! It’s all about them only! The man is nothing to them! Just an atm!

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Addison 55
Zachary, LA · 2 months ago

She's on target! Im so happy to see these young ladies starting to respect themselves and seeing the truth. 💕💕

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Mr.Gee
Bethlehem, GA · 2 months ago

maybe she was not the woman you think she is. maybe you should get with her. he gave it ten years before he tapped out. be happy for him.

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E.Josef
Leonia, NJ · a month ago

so true. i wish your brother well but i think he had the right woman for 10 years. he's with a stranger now.

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Kim E Cooper Jackson
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

That is a true statement. A man will meet a woman today and marry them within months and will be with you for 10 or 20 years. If you allow it, you have to stand for something or you will fall for nothing and they will just continue to walk all over you until they find the one that they want to be with. I am sorry that young lady wasted 10 years of her life with him for him to move on with another woman and marry her, it’s just a lesson learned. Don’t let it bother you. You will find the right one for you.

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Truthbetold
Buckeye, IA · a month ago

Well said. You'll mold them to be that perfect man for you an he'll leave to go use those teaching on someone else. Absolutely.....

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Lincoln
a month ago

100%! A man will move mountains if he wants to be with you.

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H-Bezy
Indianapolis, IN · 4 days ago

THAT PART! Chile, don’t let them waste your time… It’s not their fault if you let them treat you any ol’ kinda way. Give them 2-3 years to get to know you. If they don’t wanna commit at that point, they don’t like you enough and you’re not their type! It’s hard and it hurts but there is somebody out there who they will quickly commit to and you just aren’t them… Move on and look for your person!

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Cori Robinson
Adamsville, AL · 6 days ago

Yup been there

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Margaret Baugh
Fernandina Beach, FL · 7 days ago

Hurting is a part of growth. The one thing I learned and stayed with me was to love myself more than I love anyone else. Once I understood that, it was easy to walk away from anyone that didn't treat me right. It doesn't take years to figure out a toxic relationship is not for me. Always love yourself more.

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Marlo Custus
Atlanta, GA · a month ago

She was supposed to have her another one waiting like he did.Then everyone would be happy.

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Lindz
Destin, FL · 8 days ago

They say men marry when they are ready so they marry who they are typically with when they become ready. So men marry who is around and not necessarily for love.

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Eddie Elliott
Burr Ridge, IL · 10 days ago

I would love to hear your brother side of the story maybe she kept on disrespecting him, maybe she tried to keep him in debt, or maybe she was just using him and didn't bring nothing to the table.

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acruz2635
Downers Grove, IL · a month ago

As a man, I agree with this. I was in an 8 year relationship with a woman I loved but took way too long to realize I wasn’t IN love with her. I was neglectful. Not in my duties as a man per se. I was neglectful in matters of the heart. The woman I’m in love with now gets everything I never gave to my ex because the woman I’m with is the woman I’ve always wanted. She fills every void, gives me strength where I’m weak and accepts love as well as she shows it. And so I try my best to be the man she wants and needs. It is a 2 way street and if you’re not getting what you want from a man, sometimes you’re the reason. Some women have this expectation that a man is responsible for their happiness and but shouldn’t have to do anything in return for his. Yes I’m a man and my happiness is my own responsibility but if I have to take from it to add to yours, it’s not asking too much to want that same energy in return from a partner

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Carmen Abdullah
Upper Marlboro, MD · 2 months ago

The other woman wasn't his person! This happens all the time. I blame the woman.🌸

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Black Beauty313
Detroit, MI · a month ago

once a cheater always a cheater.. he just learns how not to get caught😲

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Sharon George
Fresno, TX · a month ago

So true

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Sharon Turner
Shippensburg, PA · 2 months ago

crazy I just experienced the same situation there was somebody for almost 11 years and they do the unthinkable get with somebody else and turn around and do the same so I understand but the only thing you could do is pray for them because if their heart isn't there that person will see that that person will run and I mean run and they going to have their worst nightmare amen

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Michelle Horak
Springfield, FL · a month ago

Oh young lady you said a mouthful! You can’t change them. They r who they r and if that’s not what you want to accept move along cause there’s a Man that’s gonna love you like you wanna be loved

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Daisey Johnson
Baton Rouge, LA · a month ago

Exactly 💯

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Boss Lady
Rosharon, TX · 2 months ago

You will never be or do enough for the wrong person, no matter how hard you try

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Stephanie Wallace
Riviera Beach, FL · a month ago

facts. the lesson hurts but its the truth

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Sonja Carr
Detroit, MI · a month ago

Yes! It took me a long time to learn that. I know better now at 57 and it has made me a much stronger and smarter woman. If something is meant to be, God will send it my way!!💕💕💕

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Masterbaiter
a month ago

Finally someone gets it, women be thinking they cooch is special, face it women need to realize sometimes a man is around cause he ain’t found the woman he really vibes with. You’re just a season.

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D Hennric
Hodgkins, IL · a month ago

honestly I think this video is misleading because we don't even know what happened between him and that woman that he was with for 10 years You don't understand what they went through and what they probably went through which he did not experience in a new relationship which was a breath of fresh air. Y'all women have to be clear about these situations you put online because when you put it online you make it look one-sided and the way we can't really judge because we don't know the whole story

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Tazonyoazzz
Hemet, CA · a month ago

A very wise decision and well said young lady I hope your brother hears this nd see this

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Black Beauty313
Detroit, MI · a month ago

can't nobody change nobody😲

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Jc Moe
Memphis, TN · 2 days ago

And making this video about your brother means you will not get the man you need in your life.You will get played too

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S M
Austin, TX · 3 days ago

I think people get tired and when they finally meet the person they want, they don't want to waste anymore time. especially if everything inside of the relationship isn't going right. it's like a sigh of relief. sad but true.

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Drake, Marie
Hammond, IN · 4 days ago

that young lady told no lies!!!!

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rochelle Gilliam
Baltimore, MD · 4 days ago

Amen

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Ksf
Killeen, TX · 4 days ago

🙏🏾🙏🏾

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Evette Green
Bradenton, FL · 4 days ago

so true 👍

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Eboni Jones
Carlsbad, NM · 5 days ago

Thank you

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Candy
Philadelphia, PA · 6 days ago

Amen!🙏🏼

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Handy Andy
Valdosta, GA · 7 days ago

Why is she on the internet talking about her brother’s personal business?

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Barbara Carter
Killeen, TX · 7 days ago

Okrrrr

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Dawn Mefford
Terre Haute, IN · 7 days ago

I find it's usually to get back at the woman for leaving him. She was done begging and left, he's hurt and on the rebound. It doesn't stay in the "honeymoon stage" for long.....

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Dennis Parent
7 days ago

marriage is a 2 way street and the girl for 10 year's probably didn't deserve it or atleast he didn't think so. maybe this new girl brings him peace along with the expectations instead of just expectations

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Valerie T.
Sandy Springs, GA · 7 days ago

TRUTH 👍🏾 on 1 Life 💯

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OG649
Winterville, NC · 7 days ago

Where is your man exactly and your giving advice??

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Lee
Bethlehem, PA · 7 days ago

7 month relationship is a succubus