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Cause I said so
Atlanta, GA · 4 months ago
HOT

I respect her decision because everyone is not cut out to be a parent..period

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Charles Childress
Nashville, TN · 3 months ago
HOT

that's her right but when her ass gets old and needs help she'll think about what she said! realize children are God's gift they ground us there is no greater gift than 2 give life

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Humble216🌹😘
3 months ago

In todays 🌎 I wouldn't want to birth a child !!!

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Gremlin
3 months ago

People tell me the same thing, but the only reasons they can give for having kids 1)take care of you when your older. 2)Carry on your legacy. 3) Continue your bloodline(which to me is just #2) If those are your main reasons then you shouldn't have had them either🤷🏾‍♀️🙅🏾‍♀️

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Lauren Whiting
Oxon Hill, MD · 3 months ago

Im 40 and I never wanted to have kids very early in life, I said I did not want any. I raised my nephews and nieces. I like to get up and go and travel when I want to .

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kimmarie koehler
Dallas, TX · 3 months ago

having kids is selfish! what is he talking about...better to not have a kid that u don't want!

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decapitation Queen
San Antonio, TX · 3 months ago

With a world full of unwanted, forgotten and suddenly orphaned children, why are you pushing for more? There are plenty of children who need a father to help them grow into respectful and loving adult. Unless you are selfish and don't think those children deserve such consideration because they did not come from your loins.

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Eric Macc
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

Never if you really wanna be honest, never take seriously at times what is said by women. My wife told me the same thing when we went to dinner when we were in our early 20’s we have three kids now 33years years later women are on mental delay when it comes to knowing what they really want, take it from me I’m the master I know them very, very well

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TTRB
Phoenix, IL · 3 months ago

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Bukenwald
Waterbury, CT · 3 months ago

Its her prerogative and she knows what she wants

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SlinkyStar Firelight
Pittsburgh, PA · 3 months ago

Much Respect to this Woman for being forthright about her decision not to Procreate!....Very responsible, considering the world's already overpopulated! Not only that, but people have children they never wanted, and we all know how that story ends!

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Chelle Rounds
Matthews, NC · 3 months ago

That doesn't make her selfish at all Sir, it's simply a personal life choice. You don't have to agree with her, but to say that shows your bias more than anything. That's truly unfortunate...😏

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Douglas Winston
Memphis, TN · 4 months ago

The sole purpose of life on earth is to create new life, period. No one lives forever, but your gene pool can, leave her and move on.

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Mary Kimble
Opelousas, LA · 2 days ago

I applaud her for her honesty

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love4_R
Shreveport, LA · 16 hours ago

how yall gonna judge her for not having kids do yall understand what comes with having kids from being pregnant to child birth which she could literally lose her own life in and if she doesn’t want kids it’s not selfish.

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fmw
Clinton, MD · 2 days ago

I see nothing wrong with her making this decision for herself!

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Saintsupafli
Houston, TX · 16 days ago

he said thats what she was born to do, just have kids. WRONG!!!

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Besaying Realshyt
Cleveland, OH · 3 months ago

These dudes be mad AF when they can't trap you. She's smarter than MOST!

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Alice Garcia
Oakland, CA · 3 months ago

HER CHOICE. MYOB!!

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Stephana Williams
Harrisburg, PA · 3 months ago

I don’t think she’s being selfish. We all pray that someone will be there for us but even all seen situations where you take care of someone and then they’re too busy as they become older. A person can have kids and be the best mother and the kid could grow up, get married and not have time to attend to an elderly parent. We all should know by know that just because you’re nice to someone or take care of them doesn’t mean their obligated to return the favor.

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D ALCHEMIST
3 months ago

Everyone isn't meant to be parents and stupid ones go right ahead and do it. The smart ones don't.

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Allen Christian Sr
Akron, OH · 3 months ago

We are all on the marathon of life. Never question someone who says that they are not having kids. They know themselves way better than anyone else. Let them be them. Maybe one day they’ll change their minds on this subject. Maybe they won’t. At any rate, it’s their decision and their business. With women, it’s also their body. If kids are that important to someone looking in, then go and have a dozen kids of your own and stop badgering women over their choices.

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Karen Singleton
Beaufort, SC · 6 days ago

He's ignorant assuming every woman wants to be a mother.

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Bryan Reddick
Baltimore, MD · 25 days ago

Everyone doesn’t want kids. It’s not a crime.

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lovecat26
Denver, CO · a month ago

No she's not selfish for that. She's smart Many men are selfish dropping off a bunch of babies with women who are going to have to do all the responsibilities.

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Kevin
Charlotte, NC · 2 months ago

she is 💯 right if woman doesn't want kids she doesn't want kids ya men got to understand that because that is a real Job

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Starla Dixon
Dayton, OH · 2 months ago

well....at least she's not having one and then decides she's not cut out for the job.

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Dgreene
Sicklerville, NJ · 3 months ago

I don’t have any and I am good. He calls her selfish . Selfish is to have something you don’t want. Men do it all the time. He has no business to judge her nor is it his business.

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Huntley
Winston-Salem, NC · a month ago

her life,Her choice.

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Lava L
Honolulu, HI · 2 months ago

A SMART LADY

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Anna Carter
Baltimore, MD · 3 months ago

she has that choice and it's her body no man own her.

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Cecelia Williams
Ybor City, FL · a month ago

She’s honest and no lies were told. Her body her choice.

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Xena59
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

She's honest!

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E C
Las Vegas, NV · 2 months ago

Mad resoect for her ..he shouldnt try to put her down for that ( she is not any less of a woman for not wanting yi have children) atleast she not out there mistakenly getting pregnant then getting abortions.Shes choosing not to have a child and theres nothing wrong with that.She knows and admits that she wants to think about her self and that if a kid is born it has to be about the kid therfor she wont have one , theres selfish ppl who have kids that didnt want any then go on to abuse them or even to the point they murder them. She admits kids need time and attention and to have a unselfish parent she knows and admits she wouldnt be that so wont have a child. i respect that. Why would she bring a child to this world cuz of other ppls thoughts and opinions. specially other ppl who not gone be there at the birth / buy provide for diapers neccesities etc a child requires LITERALLY SO MUCH... bro you know what though t came to mind ?

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Musketeer AB
Medford, NY · 3 months ago

He considers this lady to be selfish: What does he think of the numerous men who procreate and walk away from their financial/parentling responsibility without ever looking back?"

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Shana Johnson
Baltimore, MD · 3 months ago

That man don’t understand how painful it is to have a Baby. how having a baby can tear a woman’s body up. Some women just don’t wanna do that. I’m glad that she understand that she don’t want to have a baby to make a man happy🫶🏾

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Lisa Walker
Buffalo, NY · 3 months ago

I don't think it makes her selfish, it makes her smart, why have kids if you don't want them, more people need to think this way. instead of having them and dumping them off in this horrible world. to each his own. Respectfully of course.

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Terrie Henderson
Little Rock, AR · 3 months ago

I respect her for the decision she’s making it’s so many children out here that have parents taking life after giving life to them she’s not selfish

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Sharolette Hopkins
Stockton, CA · 3 months ago

She KNOWS What she wants in Life. I CONGRATULATE. 🥰

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Johnette Wilson Tchelidze
Cincinnati, OH · 3 months ago

She's right, you talking about, bring a kid in the world.But you have to be responsible.You get that girl, baby, then you turn around and leave and go somewhere else.And then now she stuck with a baby , if she don't want it , don't have it.🤔

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Jackie Farley
Brooklyn, NY · 3 months ago

respect that she's being real and truthful, her choice respect that. Also she was not born to procreate

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Andre Jaime
St. Louis, MO · 3 months ago

he's into mind control.

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Bold Child
3 months ago

I salute her wholeheartedly…one of the many reasons I didnt. The men dont raise them, they just make them. Call me selfish… but you’ll never call me an unfit mother.

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Beverly Brown
Atlanta, GA · 3 months ago

a woman was put here to have kids, he says. However, men seem to think they were put here to turn their backs on their kids. 😲😲😲😲

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Gianni
Denver, CO · 3 months ago

Her life; her choice. Bravo for saying your truth.

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Karen Deavers
New York City, NY · 3 months ago

it's more selfish to have kids that you didn't want . I think she's very self aware & UNSELFISH to NOT bring kids into the world that she can't be completely devoted to.

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TAZPINK
Newport News, VA · 3 months ago

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Karlee
Leland, NC · 3 months ago

We are not brought on this earth to have kids bc some women are born not being able to have any and I don’t want to have a kid either bc I look at my childhood in 2007 then I look at the things that are happening now I just don’t trust this world with a life I would give this world has gotten so bad that teens and toddlers and baby’s die between school shootings and them killing their selfs and babysitters are hurting them I don’t trust this world with a new life

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King Kelly
Lake Worth, FL · 2 days ago

I feel her

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veronica bruce
Gwynn Oak, MD · 4 months ago

her choice

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mel nash
Bloomington, IN · a day ago

I agree with her. If she doesn’t want kids, that’s her perogative. And then end of the day, he said you selfish, and she said that’s ok. Tell me, does anybody really want to see a woman who admitted she is selfish raising children? It’s enough of that already.

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Am Pollard
Cleveland, OH · a day ago

I dont see an issue with either of their viewpoints. Two thingd can be true at the samw time. She does not want kids... so she should not have any. He feels as tho motherhood is the essence of womanhood... so he should get a woman who feels the same (as long as he is going to be the protector & provider that men were created to be). These 2 are not compatible. There's no issue here, just truths being expressed. And the truth shall set us free

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OG Philly Girl
Bealeton, VA · 2 days ago

Nobody should be forced to have kids. It's a personal choice. As long as they are upfront and honest with their partners that's all that matters. Don't dupe someone. Don't wait until you have them on lock to tell then. That's unfair and selfish. Not wanting kids is not selfish. It's knowing what you don't want. Its not mandatory to have children.

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Harriett Webster
White Plains, NY · 2 days ago

Do You Boo. Your Life

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gj
Florence, SC · 3 days ago

why should she have to live out his picket fence dream. it's not hers

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Alicia Hentz
East Orange, NJ · 3 days ago

deep and true

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MARLENE BOOTHE
Stockton, CA · 3 days ago

To each is own. Some people should not have children lol at our current statistics. I support her. Why have children and mistreat them? Let her be.

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Barbara West
Knoxville, TN · 3 days ago

My 💗daughter is the same way. She didn’t want any kids to begin with, but she has four nephews that she help raise and that did it for her. So she’s an auntie mom. She was there to the whole thing.

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AnjinSan
Druid Hills, GA · 3 days ago

She’s being honest! Nobody HAS to have children, because someone else thinks she should! Ridiculous !!

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Nancy Griffin
Henderson, NC · 4 days ago

That’s her choice

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Zae
Gatineau, QC · 4 days ago

at least you know

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Private
Muskegon, MI · 4 days ago

My daughter was around eight and told her father and I that she was never going to have kids. I asked her why and she flat out said "I'm not interested in spending my money on anyone but me. I may seem selfish but I don't care". She is now 35, married 10 years and still not interested in having children. Says she's "happy being the fun aunt". Neither of our sons are planning on having children either. So the two grandchildren we have will be the only ones we have. I tell my grandson he's "my favorite grandson", he just shakes his head and says "grandma I'm your only grandson". We laugh about it.

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Jacqueline Abdur-Razzaq
Sicklerville, NJ · 4 days ago

I definitely respect her decision.

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Rosalyn Asare
Bronx, NY · 5 days ago

exactly 💯

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Jessie Hornbeak
Port Orchard, WA · 5 days ago

Her life, her decision.

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Christopher Neal
St. Louis, MO · 5 days ago

her right not to bare kids, but i bet she'll be alone in relationships too with that selfish mindset