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I'm so realistic
Southaven, MS · 5 months ago
HOT

all these men in here mad bc their afraid of their women loving a dead man more than them 😆

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CommonSense
Newark, DE · a month ago

It's all cool until they start doing pottery together...

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Dadamned
San Diego, CA · a month ago

I would of had her ex bring her home. Stop loving someone that loves some one else. She just showed you you will never be the priority.

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fISH
Carrollton, GA · a month ago

..PICK HER UP,TAKE HER HOME..AND BE SUPPORTIVE AND UNDERSTANDING AS SHE NAVIGATES THE GRIEVING PROCESS

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Jennifer Johnson
Kill Devil Hills, NC · 18 days ago

As a woman- I can understand going to visit him, however, if here grief is still in this stage- she should work through that before getting into another relationship

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Fresh513
Cincinnati, OH · a month ago

Would have left her right there with his ass. She obviously not healed yet and who bout to compete with a dead person

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LayLay Russell
Wilkinsburg, PA · a month ago

I don't think that makes any sense for you to date someone else if you're that hung up on your dead love 🤔

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TiffanyMariee
Manchester, NH · 23 days ago

What song is this

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ANNETTE MASON
Emporia, KS · a month ago

😭😭😭😭😭

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Marie 🌸
Bridgeport, CT · a month ago

I would’ve left her

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Moni J
Hanford, CA · a month ago

Hopefully have compassion and empathy for her loss, one day it may be your grave she sleeps on. To loose a SO or spouse is one of the hardest things to endure, can't explain the pain, and wish it on no one. 🙏🙏🙏

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Tory Capps
Modesto, CA · a month ago

linguistic ambiguity at its best! My girl can mean my daughter/niece/granddaughter/ best friend as much as it can mean MY GF. All these people making assumptions......

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James Jameson
Sacramento, CA · 8 days ago

FYI you're not the priority, and besides that she is clearly no prize

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Rubi C
Antioch, CA · 9 days ago

this my fellow humans is called real support and love 💯🫶❣️✨👌

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R. Lewis
Cincinnati, OH · 19 days ago

I would respect her more because she’s obviously a loyalist even when death did them part 🥰

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RimTinTin
Madawaska, ME · 5 days ago

she isn't ready to move on

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Shanna Allen
New Orleans, LA · 17 days ago

I miss my ex so much I go at night or when I feel everything or people are doing me wrong.

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Sandra Darrell
Peachtree Corners, GA · a month ago

If this makes her feel better,leave her there!

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Nicole Summerville
New York City, NY · 10 days ago

I with a man for 4 years his wife passed 5 years ago n he still has pics of her in the house n him n her on his FB page. I don't sweat it cause she bought the house I'm shacking in

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ElijahM
Jacksonville, FL · 10 days ago

I get it. In truth, without him, she probably wouldn’t have believed in love so much that she learned to pass it on to you. I love it

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Samantha Cottrill
Wallace, WV · 19 days ago

Seems like he just passed the ground doesn’t even have grass on it yet. It might be too soon for another relationship. I’m hoping it’s talking about a friendship in this instance.

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Sandra
a month ago

I bet she laid outside the prison waiting for him to come back too

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Linda Harbaugh
Bowie, MD · a month ago

She is in no way ready for a new relationship. She is also not normal. She is looking for attention. Needs counseling.

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Keith Hall
McKeesport, PA · 10 days ago

❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

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Katrina Lattimore
Chattanooga, TN · a month ago

I understand her pain. she's lucky to find someone who understand her and let's her work thru her pain. I think that's why I have not even tried to date since my husband was murdered. People get jealous cuz they can't compete with a dead person.

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Mary Baker
New York, NY · a month ago

This is why I want to be cremated I don't want my love ones to think I'm in one place. My spirit will be with them no matter where they go.

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Patricia LImon
San Antonio, TX · 13 days ago

dumb her

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ghost
Lansing, MI · 6 days ago

maybe don't get a new man before you're ready.....you need to heal and not use men to fill the hole that has been left.......love yourself

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Namaste
7 hours ago

ide let her mourne ... the dude has nothing on me 😭😭😭

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NoTyaBiiich
Hasbrouck Heights, NJ · 9 days ago

🤔🤔I think my girl can also mean she’s a friend bc I say my girl when talking about my female friends. Fits the description better smh stop jumping to the worst case scenarios.

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TaNora Williamson
Concord, NC · a month ago

I would support my girl during this time. You can’t be upset about someone having a heart.

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Mickey Boehmer
Ocean Shores, WA · a month ago

As a three time widow…..a person must heal before they get into another relationship. That’s very important. No one can compete with the dead.

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Kim berly Trembley
Clemmons, NC · 11 days ago

I think it's beautifu

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Romanita Rios
Orlando, FL · a month ago

Not healed ;she needs still grieve and process his death 🥴🥴🥴😰😭

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fuck shit
Los Angeles, CA · a month ago

This comment section is literally why so many of you men will never find a good relationship. And I’m saying that so genuinely.

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Jose Villela
Greeley, CO · a month ago

If she's still not over that old guy who died then she shouldn't be getting into a commitment or committed relationship with anyone else . It's a sacred vow you take with anyone that you date and should place all of yourself in that very moment and time . Once you are done grieving then you can move on . I would find that very disrespectful having done everything I could and giving my entire life and even soul to be with a girl and then find out she's still fucked up over some other dude hell no .

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white rabbit
Southgate, MI · a month ago

If you pick her up,your a keeper, You don’t,then you don’t,but as of Being jealous,that shit is for little boys If your ok upstairs,jealousy,shouldn’t be your 1st thought,if that’s your friend,then you lend a hand,common sense

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Little Bo peep65
Kenton, TN · a month ago

as a widow of 2.5 yrs I wouldn't think of starting another relationship until the grieving process was over. in my case I will stay single.

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janet brunson
Richmond, VA · a month ago

If she's STILL THAT AFFECTED by his passing, perhaps she should NOT be pursuing a relationship with ANYONE YET. Sounds like there's a HUGE AMOUNT OF HEALING that needs to take place. I recommend GRIEF COUNSELING and taking time to HEAL HERSELF. SHE'S NOT READY TO MOVE FORWARD YET.

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cherry
a month ago

me personally I think she should of had more time to grieve before she got into a relationship 👍👍

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Key Moe
Anderson, IN · 11 days ago

lay there with her...she called u be there

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Leroy Tate
Kankakee, IL · a month ago

she needs to grieve first before trying to be in a whole other relationship bc the new relationship is being disrespected while remembering the last one but be supportive and God willing it will be better 🙏✝️💯🙏✝️💯

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da shinobi
Wind Gap, PA · 19 days ago

imma believer in love in the after life. so why would I want to be with someone for the rest of my life knowing that when we pass, her soul will be with another. while my soul is left lonely.

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Cathy Cheatham
Frederick, MD · a month ago

She haven’t even got over her ex in another relationship who was someone like this that’s why you shouldn’t rush to get in a relationship when you’re not over that person it’s not going to work you got a let go to go on with your life are you still living for him he’s gone and did you pick up someone else and mess up their life make sure you’re over that person for you get into another relationship people get hurt all the time because how people do

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Payton Watson
Knoxville, TN · a month ago

since she loves him so much she can go meet him😁

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Amber Boeosen
Paragould, AR · a month ago

Okay as a woman I gotta say this as lovingly as I can but she should have finished the grieving process first before hopping into a new relationship, because if she's doing things like falling asleep on his grave that's some very deep emotional pain that she absolutely HAS to get through to have a healthy relationship. It's completely different to be sad every now again and cry about it every blue moon, but this is honestly a little much.

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Maryellen K
Worcester, MA · a month ago

what you and her got together pretty fast after his passing. I have an ex fiance that passed away and I'd sleep at his grave if his family had gotten him one. it's been 4 years now and I still feel that way. My new boyfriend understands that about me and still loves me. He knows I still love him dearly but he's gone and my new man knows I love him for his patience, understanding, and total respect for me and my feelings. He's not threatened by my love for someone that no longer walks this earth. Just loves and understands me and the pain I carry and doesn't let that sway him. which in my opinion makes him a true real man.

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J G
Warren, OH · a month ago

Question is she already got a new dude and there’s not even grass on that grave😆

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Diana Baldwin
Mesa, AZ · a month ago

I saw this as a girl friend saying “my girl” not her new man 🤔 why does everyone assume it’s her new man thats picking her up

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Simone Smith
Dallas, TX · 9 days ago

I understand she’s grieving but why move on if you’re not done yet.

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Milly Newson
Lawrenceville, GA · 9 days ago

My son passed 6/12/25. I mourn his loss every day. I feel really bad for his girlfriend of 3 years. They planned a life together. I hope she eventually moves on. I just know God broke the mold when he made my Jaylin💕.

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Shironne Jones
Colorado Springs, CO · 9 days ago

Time to look for another girl

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Chino
Houston, TX · 11 days ago

ngl she gonna go with him up their

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Augustus Williams
Galveston, TX · 12 days ago

That's a dope person missing her smoking 🚬 partner not love 💔 addiction run

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Bradley Palacios
Miami, FL · 13 days ago

lol, I’m good

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idk
Tampa, FL · 13 days ago

cheating