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Darlene Alston
Baltimore, MD · a year ago
HOT

HIV has come a long way. And you can live a good life. My youngest sister has it, at least 30 years. The most important thing is that she told you, she gave you a choice

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sigsaye90
a year ago
HOT

Do you, homie! Magic HAD IT TOO! The best thing you can do is just KEEP EDUCATING YOURSELF!!! Take your meds, though. Be ready "for that life," especially if yall are talking about kids!!! Be happy, man!!! AGAIN MAGIC is alive!! HIV is no longer a death sentence!!!!

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YungNardy504
New Orleans, LA · a year ago
HOT

You not wrong bro if you like her do yo thang yal just be safe and never worry bout what people have to say your a King That’s a Queen regardless stay strong 💪

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Humbled Hayes
Memphis, TN · a year ago

My husband told me prior to us getting married, but he lied about how he got it. My husband is a down low. The problem……5 yrs into our marriage, I find a bag indicating him cheating WITH MEN. Thank God for protection. I don’t have it.

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Eddie Davis
Philadelphia, PA · a year ago

u=u undetectable means un transmittable. if someone's hiv is controlled with HIV medications they become unable to transmit hiv.

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Greta Williams
Laurens, South Carolina · a year ago

why u have to express oh yeah she light skin what that mean all light skin is not pretty I've seen a lot of dark skin queens

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Mike Jones
Naugatuck, CT · a year ago

This new Generation lost trying to make wrong right

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haskell turner
Raleigh, NC · a year ago

The most important part is UNDETECTABLE, which means it's not contagious.

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Letitia Henderson
Manson, NC · a year ago

I have to give you RESPECT for speaking about it & STAYING with her. HIV has come a long way from back when it first started. Some people have contacted it through birth, transfusion,etc. She was honest with you & you seem to Care. I wish you the best 💕💕💕.. You can't judge anyone's illness unless you have been through it.

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Marylynn Catess
Johnson City, TN · a year ago

I would be more afraid to be in a relationship with someone with Covid! Science has made great strides to stop HIV transmission. And this beautiful lady didn't ask for it and shouldn't be punished for it. Ignorance is the worst form of discrimination!

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5280Logicaldiffuser
Mableton, GA · a year ago

Sad, when your born with it she didn’t contract it and looks that she’s not being irresponsible or selfish about it I can see why he has compassion

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Willie Harris
Detroit, MI · a year ago

that's why they say you might like it but I sure don't I'm sorry I know a lot about AIDS I read about it I had friends that died from it and I wouldn't want to date any lady with any type of illness that's just me💯

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Gwendolyn Johnson Dancer
Costa Mesa, CA · a year ago

It’s not a death sentence and it’s treatable and you live a beautiful and sexual life Great for you

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Jayson Percy
The Bronx, NY · a year ago

I respect you so much for this. Why? Most people and I do mean most, would of approached this so ignorantly without properly educating themselves. So it pleases me to know that not everyone lacks common sense and understanding. At the end of the day, I don’t think what everyone else would of done even matters. What matters is that you went for what you believed in and understand what HIV really is and is not. And regardless, you wouldn’t turn ur back on a possible love/relationship.

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Marshall Dixson
Highland Park, MI · a year ago

she said she was born with, yeah ok, it took her a whole week to reveal rather than let you know off the top, yeah ok, you were mesmerized by her beauty now trying to defend your decision, yeah ok

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Rick
Roanoke, VA · a year ago

you should keep her on your arm because she was honest with you and. that also means she's not selfish and it's hard to find a woman or any person for that matter. stay true to her and you.

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Diana Rivera
Philadelphia, PA · a year ago

to be clear with you people talking crap this child was born with it so it's not her fault she's lucky to be still alive.🪽👁️👁️🪽🕊️🤍🤨

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John holston
Palmdale, CA · a year ago

that's a real person that supposed to be respect yourself and respect you ain't nothing but love and respect God is blessing you man and God's going to bless her

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Fate Unstoppable
a year ago

undetectable doesn't mean yo ass still can't catch it .. why do you silly rabbit ass dudes an broads insist on killing yourself softly an slowly? this is just sick even though she may have been born with it still be with someone who has it as well .. he clearly is a clown for who really doesn't care about his life health or none of that . buddy a real crash dummy..

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L C
Spring, TX · a year ago

I appreciate the young lady being honest with this young man and let him make his on decision. Most men or women will not advise a person their with. I went through that with my oldest daughters father. He hid it and lied about it, I found out about it when I stumbled up on some medical paperwork. I then left him alone because he lied to me about it. Had he been up front and truthful, I would have stayed, but let me make my own decision not you. I Thank God all the time that he showed me favor and spared me. To this day I've never been diagnosed of contracting HIV.our daughter is now 39 years old. l left him a lone years ago and he's been blessed to have a new handsome son whom just made 1 years old with his beautiful wife. Through all of that I've never held a grudge against him and yes I was hurt because he didn't tell me.. Today we are still cool and still friends. it's important that you let a person know your status up front. God bless you young man..

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Sonja Williams
Newton, MA · a year ago

If you choose to continue dating her then you both should go see a doctor so you both can be given the same information you never trust no body information you both need to be told the same thing then you make up your own time from there

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Nichelle Stewart
Fairmount Heights, MD · a year ago

I was in a similar situation involving HIV, My boyfriend were dating for three years we separated for eight months and apparently had contracted this virus and my heart. I felt so betrayed. We are still together and I don’t have HIV if I didn’t invest time into our relationship I probably would’ve left him

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Kween Star
Detroit, MI · a year ago

You have to FIRST determine if you think there could be chance for a real romance between the two of you. Most people with a chronic disease have delicate systems, meaning they may bruise easily, or experience morning sickness for no reason. Some individuals are sensitive to light. Some people are moody and fearful, because of anxiety. You have a Lady that needs you to pay attention. And in a strange way this will be a way for you to get to know her FIRST!!!!!...It's obviously not her fault she's sick if she was born with it. Your love and compassion could make a wonderful difference in her life!....BUT DO NOT PURSUE THIS YOUNG LADY IF YOU NOT GON TAKE TIME TO BE FRIENDS!!! AND LET THE RELATIONSHIP GROW!!!!!.....THEN ..."IF," your feelings and her feelings, elevate to more personal, then you could be a couple of course to continue to help her and be honest too!!!

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carmen anderson
Wichita, KS · a year ago

He worried about what that girl look like if she was ugly he wouldn't rock it to the wheels fall off he a run before the wheels even started turning....

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Paulette Smith
Houston, TX · a year ago

Feel blessed she eas honest on the beginning. It's left up to u to make ur own decision. At least she told u and that's the main thing.

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Faie Yeager
Akron, OH · a year ago

Sorry, but I couldn't risk it..🫤 And Damn sure not for somebody I only knew for 2 weeks!😩🤯He must not value his life too much!🤷‍♀️😒

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Sharon Gray
Davie, FL · a year ago

Young m an you have your own mind at least she came to you if you care for her and she let you know dude go by what your heart says

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Brittany Portugues
Niagara Falls, NY · a year ago

You aren’t wrong. She told you from the gate and most ppl would walk away so be that Man for her if u think it will be something

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Tabitha Davis
Rocky Mount, NC · a year ago

just use them swimming suits 👌 just being safe. She was 💯 with you about her health conditions. wish you to the best.God bless

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To Knight
Knightdale, NC · a year ago

If you can appreciate her as a person, that's all that matters. At least you were informed and can make your choice. Blessings 🙏

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GABOI
a year ago

Man do you, you seem very mature and educated. You don’t need nobody opinions especially not on social media. You grown, do you

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Pamela Cross
Wilmington, DE · a year ago

I would till see her 🙄 she was honest and she told you straight up I work with children that was born with AIDS and she's good

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STEPHANIE WALLACE
Miami, FL · a year ago

stay with her she give you a choice.

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Latonia Mardis
Chicago, IL · a year ago

Stay with her

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Diane Hampton
New Orleans, LA · a year ago

Sounds like you said she was born with it. None of that is because of her. Magic is proving you can live with it. I wish her the best life.

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Stacy Vonk
Glen St Mary, FL · a year ago

Undetectable does not eliminate the HIV transmission risk. It lessens it but it is still a risk. So use lots of protection or do not have sex! Unless you don’t care and think you are indestructible. A person born with HIV has a better chance of surviving the infection than a new person just getting it. So research should be key and how your immune system works and if you are compromised. If you have a lowered immunity you have an easier chance of transmission.

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Oralee Jackson
Brooklyn, NY · a year ago

Only thing I can say on that is, I respect the fact that she was open and honest about what she have, I would not cut her off, but I also would leave it in a friend status. Yeah, I can still go out. Enjoy life talk on the phone.

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Tricia McAfee
Riverdale, GA · a year ago

Why would you chance your life friends yes lovers hell no I love my life

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Mia Howard
Pittsburgh, PA · a year ago

I know that means she can't spread it. She's respectful enough to tell you, and she was born with it and something she can't control. Therefore, it's not caused by being promiscuous or drug abuse. nothing wrong here

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Ronald Sanders
Pascagoula, MS · a year ago

long as she takes her meds and stay undetected rock with it. Magic Johnson still here take your meds and you get checked out and live.

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Sheron Stevenson
Charlotte, NC · a year ago

it takes a real man and a strong man to accept what she told you so you know what you're getting yourself into one love more life

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deb davis
Jackson, MS · a year ago

Respect her for being up front before getting serious. Most people don’t tell nobody nothing. HIV medication has come along way.

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Parisha Parker
Coatesville, PA · a year ago

UNDETECTABLE MEANS it's not CONTAGIOUS meaning she has it undercontroll and that is he's choice to still deal with her and that's their business to 🤷🏽‍♀️

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Tara Hairsoslick Wright
Maple Heights, OH · a year ago

Being born with it is more acceptable than getting it from drug abuse or unprotected excessive sex. But it's still HIV regardless how you got it.

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Jukebox
Waldorf, MD · a year ago

Bro, I’m a 60 year old black male born and raised in Washington DC, ran the streets til 25 then joined the Army Infantry and Retired after 21 years. I been around. She was honest young brutha. Thats a Positive. I’d keep her. Follow your heart ❤️👊🏾

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Latasha Wana Sneed
Lexington, SC · a year ago

For all of you with the negative comments. If you are unsure about anyone you meet, always use protection. But both of you can go and get checked together for all STDs and STIs. Remember, you, him or her, have slept with someone before and so on.

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Asherah 70
a year ago

use the idiot you said because she's light skin and 411 she's almost a midget that's the only thing that came out your mouth because she looked good damn you need to learn your verbs and take hooked on phonics because you saying educated and you can barely speak bro not because you know I really care about her we have a lot of common she's very nurturing she's a good listener or my family likes her she's an honest person she's reliable she's respectful she have a good job she's educated nothing of that or she's spiritual or she lives you know the good family life she don't go partying and smoking weed she's a real good decent respectful young lady you said nothing of this you going to get what you looking for you looking for looks you better find out what that package got inside because everything that look good and smell good it tastes like Shi

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Kaliandro Scott
Orlando, FL · a year ago

I probably would have stayed.. but no sex... not all about that.. if the love is real.. n u say non detectable... brah she has it . it's there... they just can't detect it.... stay prayed up .. u gone need it

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Kisha Morrison
Charlotte, NC · a year ago

Glad she told you cause some people don’t tell you and respect the fact that it’s the choice of the other person to deal with it or not. So be careful and do you bruh

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Sonya Burns
Brooksville, FL · a year ago

Em pass Ty for the honesty and I’m glad you undetectable but all they have too do is miss they meds and that load is back up. They can start praying smoking too much and drinking and that can throw them off. Naw we can’t be doing nothing that involves the Nasty

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Shirley Edmonds
Richmond, VA · a year ago

it's all about choices.Why put yourself at risk.For me A big nope.

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Pamella Duplessis
New Orleans, LA · a year ago

how ignorant this young man is, he should Never be allowed to speak Ever!

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Gls1969
The Bronx, NY · a year ago

For BM if she's light all is forgiven

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Latara Markham
Indianapolis, IN · a year ago

let it go

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IsaacLakesha LeachCooper
Savannah, GA · a year ago

She should have started off with that before any encounters. Not after the fact. This is wrong on her part. I don't care how non detectable she is.

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Cee Ya
Atlantic City, NJ · a year ago

at least she did let you know what was going on some people don't even tell you

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Gerald Gipson
Chicago, IL · a year ago

love her

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Felicia Zinnerman
Boynton Beach, FL · a year ago

Not I said little red riding hood, you can have. Who in their right mind fall for some shit like this.

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Helen Darby
Orangeburg, SC · a year ago

you a damn fool.

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understand me
Wyoming, MI · a year ago

I can’t be nothing but your friend

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Ruth Hemingway
South Bend, IN · a year ago

I think if you and her agree to be together, you should stay there.

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Nelson Ramirez
Homestead, FL · a year ago

the opposite of what you doing

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BeBeKids
Orlando, FL · a year ago

Respect to her for telling the truth, but imma pass.

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DC's finest
Washington, DC · a year ago

Bro u was messin with her for 2 weeks thats NOT your significant other 😂

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shrekle deeznutz
a year ago

Bro said woo de whoop

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☠️
Chicago, IL · a year ago

Talk to your doctor make sure you do it to Safeway bro

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Shanika Thompson
Baltimore, MD · a year ago

Thank you for staying with her. Everybody needs love. At least she told you no matter how long it took. She was born with it. Remember that she did not ask for it. May God bless keep loving her.

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Beakey . Ongoing
a year ago

Don't let lust be your downfall. if you like someone you would like them regardless. Be careful because of some things you can't return . Remember a person representative show up before the real person. A week is not long enough to make a like changing decision.