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Erica Wesley
2 years ago

Ummm, no, your mother owes you nothing after she's done raising you. My grandmother was 55 when my mother had me. You young girls are teen moms or early moms and expect your mama to raise your children. Grow up and raise your own children.

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Cassandra Duff
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 2 years ago

When I decided to become a mother I wasn't trying to hit up the clubs and party. Maybe it's because I was a wife and not a baby mama. I didn't pawn my kids off to my parents to party.

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just listen
2 years ago

our children are wonderful parents! they work very hard and they take great care of their own children... however Grandpa and I are in a position to watch our grandchildren when we are needed! and we both love doing it! I love my grandchildren more than life itself and I will do anything in my power to help them

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Sharon Garrett
Houston, TX · 2 years ago

People fail to understand that it’s not our JOB to raise our grandchildren or our responsibility but you do it because you want to cause you love them. We have things we want to do as well with our lives after raising our children. I love my grandchildren and will do whatever I can when I can for them and I do but I also love my personal time, quiet time, me time as well.❤️

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RaggedyMan74
2 years ago

This LITTLE GIRL has got it twisted. She thinks she gets to have a child, that is her responsibility, and then have someone else watch her kids so that she can do what she wants to do? Then, to top it all off, get on social media and complain because someone said no and she has to take care of her own responsibilities. Go sit your entitled dumb butt down somewhere!

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RC1045
Columbus, OH · 2 years ago

Y’all don’t know how to come back.Y’all be gone for weeks.No clothes no food no money for the kids.Ask y’all for something and I can’t do it.

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Sandra Fischer
Milwaukee, WI · 2 years ago

I never went out. My mother wouldn’t watch my kids. I chose to have my kids not her so they were my responsibility. We paid our dews. It’s our time now.

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stephanie chavarria
Waco, TX · 2 years ago

it's sad to me that they think we owe them. it's also sad that they are under the impression that they should be able to go out and party after they decided to breed.

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shuntonya Scruggs
Memphis, TN · 2 years ago

Stop depending on ya mama to relive parenthood all over again and find your MISSING BABY DADDIES!!! Then gave the audacity to go procreate and bring more babies !!! Stop bitching and woman up like the fuck we did !!!

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Comanche_Daughter
Jefferson, TX · 2 years ago

Grandparents have the CHOICE to watch your babies. You also made the choice to make those babies. HOWEVER, we chose when to have you, and you chose when to have your babies. If you can't put your big girl panties on after the fact and be a responsible mom, that's on you.

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Collette Smith
Largo, FL · 2 years ago

We raised our children. Things have changed. It is our choice to do it. There are too many of y'all taking grandparents for granted.

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Dave Smith
Saint Petersburg, FL · 2 years ago

nope not at all that is your decision and your problem you handle it

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Sally Kirk
Milwaukee, WI · 2 years ago

I had a rule for children that I would watch their children only if they are working and or going to school. No partying that’s probably how you got them anyway. Don’t get me wrong, they’ve tried me. One year they decided I and dad did not need to party for News Years Eve. They snuck up drive way and rang the door bell and ran jumped in their cars and took off. Well, I knew where they were partying. I took those kids to them at the club. The doorman looked at me and I said shut up. Gave him my kids names and he should get them to the door pronto. The doorman told the DJ there was an emergency for these people. They came and saw us, they like aw mom, you’re told old to be out tonight. I just turned and walked away. Today all but two of grannies are adults and they never forgot that night. I’m the last person they call to babysit. I get the rug rats when I want them.

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LEROY IMME
Philadelphia, PA · 2 years ago

You want to party take your children with you. Or better yet be a responsible parent!! That’s what’s wrong with you young parents it YOUR SOUL responsibility to take care of the child you had.

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Amanda Hansen
Crystal River, FL · 2 years ago

I have an 8 year old daughter and I don't expect my mom or my dad to watch my kids I do it myself whatever I go my daughter goes my mom and dad didn't have my child I did it's my responsibility to raise her not my parents

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Kisha Gordon
Indianapolis, IN · 2 years ago

I only allowed my children to see who ask to see them. idk whyyyyyyyyy people think they can have a thousand children for someone else to raise

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Larry Adams
Saginaw, MI · 2 years ago

It's your job to raise your kid's,you chose to lay on your back, that's the problem, y'all want Gen X to raise your kids,it ain't our job it's yours,so take responsibility for your actions,that part

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Betty H.
2 years ago

"Grandma daycare" ain’t part of the retirement package!

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MountainKush777 HellCat
2 years ago

Instead of abortion clinics let's put up sterilization clinics...Gen X approved ❤

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Michelle Kenney
Munhall, PA · 2 years ago

Thank you GenX grandma for saying exactly what we are all thinking!

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Natasha
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 2 years ago

Girllllllllll, if you don't go raise your kids and LEAVE your grandmother ALONE! What could be so important at the club? 🤦🏽‍♀️ smh

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Michele Dalton
Birmingham, AL · 2 years ago

U chose to have kids to early. I’m older my grandkids r older. And well said grandma

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Valerie Hamilton
Ellenwood, GA · 2 years ago

But we want to live our life to. I watch my grandbaby, but I want to have a life as well.

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ray
Huntingdon Valley, PA · 2 years ago

Simple babe! You have them, you watch them!

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Elizabeth Pedersen
Manchester, NH · 2 years ago

Gen X here… yeah that first check entitled thinking that like you know I need to go out what you won’t help me Generation X you won’t watch my baby for me. What makes you so special? Why should anybody help you? We’ve busted our asses we didn’t have a fraction of the easy life, assisting mechanisms, you know and technology that you have today, we earned our money we aren’t are bruises are blood are sweat are tears for every single thing we ever had to take because nobody ever gave it to us. Fuck you for your little fucking sense of entitlement here I mean give it another 10 years 12 year sweetheart then you can start at least then bitching until you hit 50 years old. I don’t want to hear what you need and you want you chose to have that baby now you take care of it right mom are you a mom start acting like one? I don’t expect shit from people that don’t like need to give you anything. The world i doesn’t owe you a goddamn thing you owe the world

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Txslim74
Houston, TX · 2 years ago

Helloooo a mawmaw when I wanna be. I raised mine very well👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽👏🏽

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Steven Profit
Santee, SC · 2 years ago

go out for a weekend when you start having kids you going to watch I had 4 girl myself and 2 of them got kids so hell no we did that and more kids came I got 7 grands and I dont want to see the unless i ask to see them so granma you are right

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Carolyn Campbell
New York City, NY · 2 years ago

Im blessed to be a grandmother/greatgrandmother. Many of my friends passed away without seeing their first grandchild. For me,I love it because I get to raise them with old school rules,and help them not to be conformed to this world.. I love sleep overs with all 7 of them and having fun showing them old school games. I'm grateful to be a grandmother to guide them and I'll do it until God calls me home. It's God's will for me to give them unconditional love, without judgement. What happened to FAMILY? P. S CHILDREN LIVE WHAT THEY LEARN!

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Daija !
Cleveland, OH · 2 years ago

I understand the First Lady I don’t ask nobody to watch my kids but when I ask once every 6 months or a year is a that even when I need a couple of hours when I’m stressed out

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shuntonya Scruggs
Memphis, TN · 2 years ago

I’m not a grandmother yet but lady please!!! Find them MEN that abandoned y’all and stop pushing your children off on the grandmas!!! Baby this 2023 …NO FUCKS GiVEN !! Half of y’all don’t want help with your children you want a PAPPY!!

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JeanSoMean
New Orleans, LA · 2 years ago

I'ma say this so whoever need ta hear it so listen for ya Mama voice, here goes: "I'ma need you to get yo fukN priorities in order. You need to be looking out for you and your damn kids because that's what we did. We DID look out for you, You were raised right but ya got caught up in this fuckery going on today so deal with it find ya a fukN babysitter ya gotta pay cause I'm not doing it, nah get off my phone, or from in front my Door and figure it the fuk out" Mama luh ya doh!

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Derk Dollar
Atlanta, GA · 2 years ago

Granny said watt she said.... and she's RIGHT....💯%...HELL WRONG WIT THESE GIRLS ARE WOMEN.... TALKING BOUT WATCH YO BABY...WHERE THE DAD😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨😮‍💨

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beverly griffin
Miami Gardens, FL · 2 years ago

Your children! You raise them!Help some and they take advantage.Don’t have children until you have mature.

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Dang it
2 years ago

Pay for a babysitter.

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Michele Dalton
Birmingham, AL · 2 years ago

And it’s sad when some of y’all kids almost the same age as y’all moms kids and u want her to watch um

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Be4Real!!
Stockton, CA · 2 years ago

She don't owe your entitled azz a damn thing. Stop having babies for other people to take of.

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Alma Taylor
Mobile, AL · 2 years ago

Baby I've raised my kids. If I wanted to lay on the sofa and do nothing that's my choice.

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Brotherman 5th floor
Waldorf, MD · 2 years ago

Watch your own kids!

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Alex Bolar
Memphis, TN · 2 years ago

keep that hot box closed and you will not have that problem. Baby Mama

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Walter Davis
Fort Lauderdale, FL · 2 years ago

Thank you sister that's their problem when we say they trun around and get nasty with us.!!!!!!!

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Johnathan McFarland
Jennings, MO · 2 years ago

I want my children all the time. not a second goes by that I don't think of what I'd be teaching them rn. I miss my babies and the courts are bastard!

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Rose turner
Putnam Valley, NY · 2 years ago

I am a live-in grandmother, and both parents work very hard. I did what I wanted for 13 years. now I live with them. my grandsons have never been cared for by stangers.

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TNYL2H
Philadelphia, PA · 2 years ago

They don’t understand that we don’t owe them shit at all plus aren’t they the independent group always talking about how much of a boss they are

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Desiree Thomas-Adams
Bronx, NY · 2 years ago

THEY DON'T HAVE TO WATCH YOUR KIDS

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Necoli Toyzz
Tacoma, WA · 2 years ago

Hell, yes I did not tell you to go have them babies you know what I went through with y’all and y’all want to push out babies with these no good nothing any fucked up but life families that’s on you ain’t got to watch Nana grandchild I ain’t got to give up no money I don’t have to do nothing fuck that you damn right we don’t have to watch them children I keep telling you we not the big mamas of the old-school generation Selena’s that ain’t us we ain’t with that shit Now you a little upset go buy you a babysitter that’s what you do you get one of the little kids and they will do some trust and you pay them to watch your child that’s what white folks do they don’t rent a grandma all the time they pay babysitters a little babysitting club somewhere in your neighborhood that’s what you do get you a sitter I watch the shit and I made it no Gen X grandmama grandpappy who don’t want to watch nobody else’s children, weed and raised hours, and we ain’t got to y’all have a day

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Sharonda Williams
Baltimore, MD · 2 years ago

Those children have 2 parents, where he at?

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devildog4life
Lancaster, CA · 2 years ago

this comes from a generation of single mothers and absent fathers....its an epidemic 🤦‍♂️

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Barbara Ann Jefferson
2 years ago

Amen

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Dragon Killer 5566
Pensacola, FL · 2 years ago

😶

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Elen Ross
Fordyce, AR · 2 years ago

Grandma didn't make them baby's

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No.1 Gram
Spartanburg, SC · 2 years ago

Exactly! I tell my daughter that I didn't ask for grandkids, you wanted children.

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Tess Shaw
Greeleyville, SC · 2 years ago

U sound extremely crazy ! Lol

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Guest
2 years ago

ask the daddies mother or grandmother 👵🏾