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Michelle McCoy
Baltimore, MD · 7 months ago
HOT

She needs some help. You need to listen to her before something happens to your children. Give her a break. She's crying out for help. You better hear her

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KATCH807
Detroit, MI · 6 months ago
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she's probably been post partum since the first baby😥

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Lanice Lawrence
Detroit, MI · 7 months ago
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This is the 1st sign of a person who is emotionally unstable and may need professional help she is asking for help and that’s what she needs b4 she hurts herself or those kids. My prayers go out for her and her children

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mike g
Jacksonville, FL · 5 months ago

She going to hurt her self or the kids she’s yelling, loud enough for the kids to hear that so now the kids feel like they’re not wanted

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Tina Lawson
Conroe, TX · 6 months ago
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cruel and punishment. he is NOT helping her. she knows she is alone. he laughing and videoing her break down. this is REAL.

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Rick Melkonian
Williams, AZ · 6 months ago

step up and be a man. take those kids and let her relax for a day or two. be a man not the problem.

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Kelly White
Cleveland, OH · 7 months ago

Obviously you’re not helping with the two you have and she’s overwhelmed. Try helping her out mentally. It does get hard.

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Mario 1,000
Washington, DC · 6 months ago

people need to listen when they tell you about themselves and not brush them off like they don't really mean what they say. Then puzzle when they break down or crash out. They dun told you. LISTEN PEOPLE

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Matthew Thomas
Dayton, OH · 7 months ago
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if I was her brother, I would definitely come and get those kids, she needs a break and a lot of support and love. he's a whole clown for even recording her while she's having a breakdown. I hope she's doing well

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Evelyn Beason
West Memphis, AR · 6 months ago

This lady is crying out for help and all he care about is him not being stuck with them? Wonder if they ever heard of birth control

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Ed
Caledonia, OH · 7 months ago
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She is having a hormonal breakdown..she needs hugs, love, and help. Get her someone to help with the house or with the kids. She needs a spa day and a weekend away pampered.

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Jubilee45
Jacksonville, NC · 6 months ago

How did women survive in the old days when they had 7 to 15 kids? I'm not bashing her. I'm just wondering how she is mentally broken with three kids?

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Kathy Rodgers
Virginia Beach, VA · 6 months ago

that's red flags please pay attention. she may end up killing them.

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CYPRIUS SKY
6 months ago

Get her help! She really needs it before she comes out character. We all have a limit and a breaking point

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T.Z. Cox
Memphis, TN · 6 months ago

She’s suffering from PPD. she needs a therapist a support group and her husbands love and support 🌸 Praying for this mama 🌸

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Mrs. Neferetti Williams
Columbus, GA · 6 months ago

He needs to listen before she does something to those kids. She's overwhelmed and clearly not getting any help from him

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Dawana Palmer
Pleasantville, NJ · 6 months ago

Nope never felt like that. I have seven sons by two men and I was with my husband 24 years before he died. Hell, no I never felt like this and never will.

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hello
7 months ago

And you the supporting husband records her. I wouldn’t want to b a mom with a dude like you neither

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FrenchKoch
Columbus, GA · 6 months ago

he is inconsiderate and downplaying how she feels. probably postpartum. she looks n sounds really young

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Jasmine Johnson
Nashville, TN · 6 months ago

See, Looking at all these comments she’s not alone . We have all been there. I had twins at the age of 21… I literally packed up there bags, dressed them up, made bottles, put them in a car seat, and put them in front of my grandparents room door.(my mom had got a job in a new state, and I was still in Atlanta at the time) I was about to just leave and go away for a few days but I couldn’t. Even my boyfriend says till this day “you should have brought them to my house, called me” . In that state though, you just want to get away. I wasn’t going to hurt my babies at all, but it was tooooo much! I had no sleep. I wish I knew her or could find her, she needs help and a friend! A real friend!!!

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O G
7 months ago

She need to stop having kids then point blank

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Frances Gardner
Salisbury, MD · 5 months ago

Recording is not helping her.. she’s overwhelmed.. HELP HER!! does anyone know this lady?? I will help!!

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Susie M.
Brookfield, WI · 5 months ago

she said I'm not strong enough😭 this is sad he is filming her when he need to be holding her😡 what a man NOT

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My Own Opinion!!
6 months ago

someone needs to take her children before they come up dead. 🙏🙏🙏 goes out to this woman. depression and mental health is real.

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Rochelle Dauria
Vero Beach, FL · 7 months ago

and he's recording not hearing what she really needs😳

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Brandon Davis
Boca Raton, FL · 4 months ago

Leave it in I wanna have yo babies u can’t reverse dat women crazy

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Sandra Maresca
Fresno, CA · 5 months ago

I feel she's telling the truth. get her help

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Unapologetically Natural Curls
Upper Marlboro, MD · 6 months ago

she has PPD. Instead of video taping, getting her help, and SUPPORT, she clearly needs.

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nett
6 months ago

She crying out for help its so sad that as a man her man and the father of the kids he not taking her seriously she could flip out and hurt all of them thats the problem he need to hear her out and figure out how to help her

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BROOKLYN BAABE
Covington, GA · 6 months ago

SHE DEPRESSED..GET FREE HELP

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Valerie Hines
North Mankato, MN · 5 months ago

Please hear her cry this is very common she’s mentally exhausted. Get her some help

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Vanessa Mcneil
Racine, WI · 6 months ago

She knew she didn't want no more kids she should have got on some birth.control.

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PrincessSquattapiss🏹
6 months ago

Atleast she’s being honest at this point. But someone should take them before something bad happens

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Nicole Perry1
Pittsburgh, PA · 6 months ago

She’s begging for help and he’s being condescending

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Sharonda Williams
Baltimore, MD · 5 months ago

He said that she's doing the most, but he's not doing anything to help the situation. He's very insensitive to her. I bet he does'nt help her with the kids at all.

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Chris Jackson
Montgomery, AL · 6 months ago

she don't want them kids let her give them kids to somebody else before she hurt them

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ManRanda
Waycross, GA · 6 months ago

she begging for help someone pls help this young woman.

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Diana Glover
Summerville, SC · 7 months ago

instead of filming her, why don't you just let her vent and comfort her. she seems overwhelmed. she could be suffering from postpartum depression. after listening to him, I can see why she feels this way.

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Quan Moore
Magnolia, AR · 6 months ago

She is crying out for help. I don’t believe he is helping her when he is home. She is extremely overwhelmed and experiencing burnout. JESUSSSSSS, please help this family. Protect and covered all of them. In the precious name of JESUS, we pray! Amen. 🙏🏽

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Kimisha Brooks
Oklahoma City, OK · 6 months ago

please 🙏 for this young woman. It's ok baby you laid down to get them you got them so take care of them. It won't be 4ever. You made the bed so lay in it. Put ya big girl panties on & do what needs to be done & remember there is prevention for getting pregnant

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Dee Jones
Parkside, PA · 6 months ago

Baby dads are the WORST help a postpartum mom can have. Listen how he talks to her

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Courtney De Los Rios
Kent, WA · 7 months ago

depending on the ages of her children and her pregnancy, this could be signs of postpartum. give her love and support ❤️ pregnancy is an emotional roller-coaster 😢. my heart goes out. get some medical attention and speak to a professional. 🙏

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Brianna Hungate
Minneapolis, MN · 6 months ago

bro she needs help and it doesn't seem like he has any interest in the mother of children's well being, all she needs is a break and for dude to step up

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Clara McClure
Lake Saint Louis, MO · 5 months ago

She’s crying out for help…listen

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Jason Snyder
Medford, OR · 6 months ago

what a loser

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Jennifer Parnell
East St. Louis, IL · 6 months ago

postpartum depression is real and he needs to stop making joke out of how she's feeling because she's feeling the way that she is and it's real and she's telling him that she needs help with the kids would you rather for her to tell you or for something to happen to your kids if she's stressing help her don't sit there and make a joke about it not cool

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Ali Walker
7 months ago

she just need some help shes overwhelmed husband fond her some counseling and a community of help . we can’t down play any thing that’s happening right now!

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Lisa Duvall
Louisville, KY · 5 months ago

Maybe you need to put the kids in daycare so you can get a break it will be ok the kids will not stay little for long they grow up fast just hang on in there kids are a blessing may god bless you

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Money Teez
Antioch, CA · 3 days ago

You better believe her when she says she doesn't want them. Get them gets and go before you never see them again

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Roblox Gamer
South Haven, MI · 6 days ago

as she's looking in the mirror crying 😂😂

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Barry M Jones
Philadelphia, PA · 9 days ago

use safety - ijs

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Latricia Robinson
Louisville, KY · 12 days ago

Get on birth control. You laid up & enjoyed the pleasure. Once you had one you should have put started using protection. Girl get over it deal with it.

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Billy Mcgriff
Minneapolis, MN · 20 days ago

well u shouldn't have them if u don't want them

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Charles Melley
New York City, NY · 20 days ago

woman obviously are more involved takes her 40 weeks usually related to 10 minutes of the mans part and we don't give birth 😳😅

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Brenda King
Huntsville, AL · 22 days ago

That's like seeing a person on fire and instead of putting the fire out to help you're just letting your ole lady burn 🥺🥺🥺. HELP HER BRUH!!! I'm praying for you and your family.

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Teresa Turner
Peabody, KS · a month ago

There are people that want to be a mom! Adoption can be a blessing for all!

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Tawana Brown
Dyersburg, TN · a month ago

SMH. Stop having sex then.

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Felicia Scaife
Atlanta, GA · a month ago

Awwww,She is tired Dad!😢😢😢😢

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Etta Taylor
Monongahela, PA · a month ago

Heed the warning

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just another opinion...
Middletown, DE · a month ago

some women just don't want to be a mother I'm going to be 41 I have no kids never wanted one and I know that I don't like kids I mean you just know it so but I did not pick that choice to have any and that was my choice I've never been married either because I didn't want that as well so I'm going to be alone very lonely when I'm old I'm already old now and I'm very lonely but you know what that was my damn choice and I'm okay with it

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Elizabeth Dean
Decatur, IL · a month ago

tuba ligation 😁

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Thugmoney Keezy
Jacksonville, FL · a month ago

she should of decided that 2 bbys ago😳 shit don't blame him

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FELICIA RANSOM
Boston, MA · 2 months ago

if she don't want kids stop getting pregnant

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Katelyn Careno
New Orleans, LA · 2 months ago

Don’t lay down and have sex if you don’t want to be a parent in general you know the consequences after sex

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Melissa Snyder
Utica, NY · 3 months ago

i feel her man. fr

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QUEEN B THE GREATEST
Detroit, MI · 3 months ago

She's just overwhelmed & she probably got pregnant before she healed from a postpartum spell .....she needs some help & a doctor...I'm praying for her ❤️🙏

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Jim Hart
Huntington, WV · 3 months ago

Man you better step up and help your woman. If you can't see her crying out for help you have no emotions. I pray for you all especially the babies.

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Jim Hart
Huntington, WV · 3 months ago

That's a warning sign to watch that woman with them kids. Especially when the new baby comes. That's crazy to me though bc I'm a 42 year old man and I still want to have at least a child. I have 2 beautiful daughters but due to their mother's and some of my fault they wouldn't let me see my girls. I raised everyone else's kids. I adopted my twin niece and nephew. The woman doesn't even have to stay if she doesn't want to but your not taking my baby

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