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Soblessed Johnson
Columbus, OH · 14 days ago

She is a fool to even say his name I don’t want your man

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Arlene Patterson
Strasburg, CO · 2 months ago
HOT

I been calling everyone babe, honey, sweetie, sweetheart. Just outta ❤️ for ppl. Glad I ain't been shot down 👍

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Greg
Long Creek, SC · 3 months ago
HOT

it's a southern thing

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Gloria Espejo
Snellville, GA · 3 months ago
HOT

it's a southern thing and a lot of people don't understand that it's just a term of endearment you're going to get baby, darling ,sweetie,honey& hun all day long

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Karen Thomas
Norfolk, VA · 2 months ago

Hun-nayyyy,I don't care what part of the south you from, it is still disrespectful!!So I turn the mf tables,I tell my husband no your gonna correct her very tastefully and if he refuses then I'll probably have lunch with his co-worker and share some of his most intimate secrets!!! So men stop letting these woman disrespect yo women cause if your girl anything like me ,trust you gon have some sleepless nights !!!😆

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Tina Hatley
Saint Clair, MO · 2 months ago

She's a little insecure to think about waitress is trying to steal her man lil

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Alesia Marie
Rockford, IL · 2 months ago

Customer is right. Southern or not, sir is most appropriate.

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Tami Hawksley Gorman
Birmingham, AL · 3 months ago

Wow, she’s extremely insecure. Everybody knows that in the south you call everybody baby. She was not hitting on him and if she’s that worried then maybe she’s too insecure to be in a relationship.

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Terri Schumacher
Quaker City, OH · 14 days ago

Looks like “he” was raised right. Very polite but definitely embarrassed. If not already married ………………………… - been married 47 years - I would be wary of her insecurity.

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William Peterson
Alice, TX · 2 months ago

The Hispanics call all women and little girls mama what’s the difference

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Robert Oneal
Murfreesboro, TN · a month ago

Get over it girl , it a southern thing , babe , hun , sugar , sweety , if you didn’t hear it You’d think you pissed your waitress off

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Walker Marquis
Minneapolis, MN · 7 days ago

She ain’t playing about her man activities😂😂😂😂😂

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KelseyAnn
Brighton, IL · a month ago

How insecure lol

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Rob Patterson
Summerville, SC · 25 days ago

what if she calls your man, Poppy?

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Patricia
Colorado Springs, CO · 12 days ago

TikTok is outdated love it here I’m a new fan on this app I’m friendly trust me 🥰

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nunyabusiness
21 days ago

yeah no one wants yo man 🤣 calm down 🤣

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Monkay 444
Pittsburgh, PA · a month ago

Gng yall it’s js a skit they even did a skit where the Latina girl was the waitress as a joke

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Larissa Geletkanycz
Charlton, MA · a month ago

You know what I work in the restaurant industry and I call everybody honey baby sweetheart, hon and to be honest yes I have had people correct me and say this is my name not babe or so-and-so so I tried to watch what I say now

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Yvonne Lusk
Clarksville, TN · 25 days ago

I think waitresses direct it to the men for a better tip. It feels manipulative to me. Baby or honey or sweetheart means she’s fishing for a big tip😆

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Rena Cooper
Louisville, KY · 3 months ago

when I worked with the public I always called everybody hun or babe and I had some lady tell me not to call her husband hun because I was not his wife so I just look better and said okay hun you have a good day

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Jeremy.carson
a month ago

I don’t see anything wrong in calling him baby 😂

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David Graber
Oklahoma City, OK · 16 days ago

Yeah, it started with the flirtation thing back in the 40s for tips and it’s gotten worse and worse and worse and now it’s considered every day is socially acceptable what you’re calling him, honey baby sweetheart these are not socially acceptable terms! These are disrespectful and only introduced for the ploy of tips and it’s been that way for close to 100 years minus a decade and a half!

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Lady-Wolf
Attalla, AL · 14 days ago

Girl u that insecure?? And telling a southern lady not to call someone baby is like telling a Trump supporter not to support their daddy Trump. They ain't gonna stop.

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TJG60
Pahrump, NV · 15 days ago

I take it she has jealousy issues.... if you don't want to fit into the southern hospitality way of life, don't live in the south and don't stop for food in the south, because it's going to happen at every place you stop at.... just saying.... I've been called: "baby, honey, sweety, darling", every time I've gone into a business with women waiting on their customers.... It's the southern way.... just saying....

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Meg Geeter
Memphis, TN · a month ago

The question should have been: Do Y'all need anything else? Leave the "Baby" for men you know. Women have a way of being cunning with remarks.

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JuiiCy
Knoxville, TN · a month ago

Out of spite I would’ve said “Oh I’m sorry…Max baby you need anything else?”

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Dawn Sneed
Evart, MI · a month ago

I feel you girl. His name is Max

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Frank Howard
Monroe, NC · a month ago

Well sugar, he's the man that's probably paying for the meal. So sugar my wife when she was living worked as a waitress, she's only being polite if y'all are down South. Besides she made good money and she came home to me. So don't get your panties in a wad sugar 😎

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Debra Smith
Trenton, FL · 2 months ago

And then the waitress said" bless your heart." Southern thing complete. 😆

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Regina Patton
Jackson, MS · 3 months ago

I better stop saying it cause I always call ppl baby

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PATTI
Pennsylvania Furnace, PA · 3 months ago

She said I do not want your man!!👏🏽😂

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Gooflaw
Saint Paul, MN · a month ago

1. she interrupted them to say that. 2. she was not treating the girlfriend the same at all

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Rene Murray Sewell
Kyle, TX · 13 days ago

Must be from up north and she’s jealous LOL

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Shirley Moffitt
Forney, TX · 21 days ago

she was way nicer than I would have been!!!

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TellMeaGoodStory
Centennial, CO · a month ago

Its a genuine hospitality and respectful thing. it means "I got your back nice person"

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Tiffany McCray
Pueblo, CO · 2 months ago

That’s just a young insecure woman

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MARIA HOLUB
Houston, TX · 2 months ago

That is not a Latina thing, its a possessive rude woman thing. The waitress sounded 60… he is yours today, but he wont be if you keep acting like this!! Psycho!!

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DM
Peyton, CO · 14 days ago

It’s a wonder you could even understand her cause some waitresses on the south you can’t

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deshazo
Tacoma, WA · 2 months ago

I'm from the south and hon , is not acceptable anymore. 💕

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class act
Springfield, MO · 3 months ago

Insecue????? No she's territorial !!! Latinas gaurd what's theirs ! 🥰

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Gretchen
Westover, MD · 2 months ago

I love the waitress...saying I don't want your man...get over yourself and your man...lol

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Greg Dustin
Victorville, CA · a month ago

I dont care for that either. not mad about it but certain terms should be kept for certain situations. I've actually asked , am I your baby ? lol 😆. throws them off every time lol

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Renee Burdette
Hiawassee, GA · a month ago

I say sweetie honey darling hun sugar. some time baby it a southern thing get over we dont change because how u feel we speak the way we were taught. polite respect if yr true southern girl. I told her I didnt ask fur his name didnt care to know it now can I help u

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lol
Bunnell, FL · 2 months ago

It looks like your girlfriend’s got some major issues trust issues

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Sylvia Andrews
Williamston, NC · 2 months ago

It makes me feel special. I love the attention, especially if you're dealing with my food. Just a southern thing.

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I love my kids
Spokane, WA · 3 months ago

I love how the waitress told her " sorry I don't want your man" 😂.

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LayLay Russell
Wilkinsburg, PA · 2 months ago

I have never called anyone honey, sweetheart, or baby unless they were really my honey, sweetheart, or my baby. I don't like people that much to give them terms of endearment. Sir, Ma'am, and Miss are the proper ways to address people. 👍

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Becki Ward
Whiteville, NC · 2 months ago

She totally embarrassed her man, Matt

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Zozo
Baytown, TX · 2 months ago

I love when a old southern women be talking to me like that it makes my day

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peterodz67 ruiz
Oklahoma City, OK · a day ago

That was cute

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Darin Rodriguez
Wesley Chapel, FL · a day ago

bless her latino heart

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Kylie Gammon
Mount Juliet, TN · a day ago

It is a southern hospitality thing. I’m southern and I call everyone darlin and baby doll

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Hehe get cooked
Dayton, OH · a day ago

“If I call someone baby…. I do not want ur man”😂😂😂

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Vince Gill
Nashville, TN · a day ago

Oh sorry baby 😁

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Miguel Carrion
West Valley City, UT · a day ago

She sounds like a grandma bro 😭

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Katrine Westfield
a day ago

She too forward 🥰😭😭

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Shana Smith
Cottage Grove, MN · a day ago

I lived in va an honey it is a common thing for people to call u honey baby sweetheart it's just a thing they do no need to get ur panties in a bunch 😂😂

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LeaLea
Joelton, TN · a day ago

I bet you a million dollars that woman's in her 50s or 60s. Southern hospitality rules

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Abby Enroth
Knoxville, TN · a day ago

Insecure much (I love southern hospitality)

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PAW-80
Hazel Crest, IL · a day ago

Somebody's a little overprotective ..

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dixie4life69
Greenwood, SC · a day ago

He will find out the hard way that she has set him up like a bowling pin. Just wanting someone to take care of her and keep her up and will be jealous of anyone she thinks is a threat.

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JW
Kernersville, NC · a day ago

Goody!

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D
New York, NY · a day ago

She should know better. In Spanish most of us say cariño to everyone which means love

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brandon lloyd
Angier, NC · a day ago

Sir and ma’am

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BigXthaCHUG
Chattanooga, TN · a day ago

Insecure.

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FRED CANFIELD
Syracuse, NY · a day ago

yea,baby you are in the south

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FRED CANFIELD
Syracuse, NY · a day ago

yelp

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Shantina Marcus
Mobile, AL · 2 days ago

When your insecurities hit hard😂😂😂

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Ruby Warner
Houston, TX · 2 days ago

Girl, nobody wants him but you.

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