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RS McCann80th
Fairmont, WV · a month ago

You couldn't leave a message then ?

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Puppyluv
Houston, TX · a month ago

He was contacted at least 25 times. It's on him for not checking that everything was ok. My phone started blowing up while I was in a work meeting. That was highly unusual. I excused myself. Called back. My cousin had been talking to my mom thought something was wrong. Turns out mom had a stroke. Luckily, it was minor and she recovered. If I hadn't responded it would have been much worse.

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Deborah Fry
Fremont, CA · a month ago

you tried#, you absolutely have NO reason to feel bad.

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wizard
Baileyton, AL · a month ago

well played, he has a toxic partner. Grieve for mom and remember her love, don't be distracted by the toxicity 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏

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Carolyn Carrico Roach Bachan
Grand Rapids, MI · a month ago

did you called and left a message did your text did your other family text did you go to his house if they lived nearby

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Sherry Harman
Madison Heights, VA · a month ago

I think the brother needs to lose Anne! What a witch!

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Patrick Crimmins
Ypsilanti, MI · a month ago

there are written forms of communication. send a letter. it's a piece of paper with words written on it . you send it by USMail. they will deliver it to your brother's house.

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Sharon Turner
Millstone, WV · a month ago

nope! they are the problem. it is hard, but you get together boundaries to keep your peace.

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Kelli Peterson
North Fort Myers, FL · a month ago

The brother is a wuss for putting up with that shrew.

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Sherry Borders
Laughlin, NV · a month ago

You tried, so you're not the AH.

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Bubble
Spartanburg, SC · a month ago

The only part I would've changed is the funeral date. Wait until everyone is contacted.

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Avery
Baltimore, MD · a month ago

not at all

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Diane
Ellicott City, MD · a month ago

YES.

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Barbara Sanchez
Las Vegas, NV · a month ago

no if he got mad cause you told him about your mother passing he would of been more upset if you didn't let him know

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Z3R0 TRUST
Chicago, IL · a month ago

Yes 100% You Are

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