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Alias Fox
Dallas, TX · 4 months ago
HOT

bro... pay for her food... its not like she brought the kids with her. if you decide not to date her after that... understandable

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Lee Ward
Costa Mesa, CA · 5 months ago
HOT

he's right...how she figure that man gone feed 9 kids that ain't his and she never even mention it...FOH

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john john
Tracy, CA · 25 days ago

She's looking for a stepdad for her badass kids.

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SAYIT
Detroit, MI · 2 months ago

With nine kids she should be home with her family on Mother’s Day.

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Raymond painter
Pasadena, MD · 4 days ago

God Dam 9 wtf how many baby daddies is there probably 9

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Amber Moodenbaugh
North Bend, OR · 3 months ago

if you invite an individual out on a date you should be paying for it. Doesn't matter if the date didn't work out and she is not the one you invite you pay doesn't matter the gender either.

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Non-Ya-Biz
Fort Valley, GA · 5 months ago

Does nobody have comprehension skills? No one knows how to listen to understand? She only ordered for herself not her kids he is mad that she didn't elaborate on how many kids she has.

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no offense but..
an hour ago

I mean get where Bros coming from but I'd still pay for the food it's still a date bro, just tell her I'm sorry sweetheart I can't do the 9 kids, just be glad you didn't bring them all with her that's when I'm splitting the bill.

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Raynaldo Figueroa
Houston, TX · 2 days ago

lol because 10 ain't a lucky number

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XxThe Eradicator xX
Aspen, CO · 4 days ago

Test driving a high mileage 🤣🤣🤣

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Harold Webb
Louisville, KY · a month ago

9 kids and working that EBT.

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frost
Los Angeles, CA · 10 days ago

A lot of black women do that.

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JD Miller
Manhattan, KS · a month ago

Govment got her! No worries

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Rick B
New Orleans, LA · 5 days ago

he's wrong!,

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Winter White
La Habra, CA · 2 days ago

9 ?!

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Candy GUZMAN
Allentown, PA · 2 months ago

If he invites, he should only pay for her plate but if she decides to order the whole menu and tell him that's to go plus let's order for my 9 kids bro run like Forrest Gump ran 😆🙏🥰

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all4peace
2 months ago

He is wearing a wedding band!!!!!!

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Brandy77
Lynwood, CA · 4 months ago

9 kids wtf ,yeah fk that I’m out ,she was underhanded seriously smfh ,this is on her

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LeBron Colbaugh
Chattanooga, TN · 3 months ago

9 kids without a boyfriend or husband? That's screams HO

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Cathy Slay
Crestwood, MO · 3 months ago

She’s a leach

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Wayne Gross
Bloomsburg, PA · 4 months ago

Roll out bro she only got nine kids so she can live off the government you better run dude that right there is bad news

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Michelle Barnes
Portland, OR · 3 months ago

Who wants a woman with 9 kids? By how many dads? He doesn't want to be producing #10.

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Jerry Marcum
Louisa, KY · 2 months ago

Heck no I’d ran soon as I seen her and the kids. He pays for her not an army. I’m sorry but if you got kids I’m out. I love kids but I’m not taking care of some other man’s responsibilities. Not to mention the drama that comes with it

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jana bracewell
Laurel, MS · 3 months ago

Not his place to pay for her kids!! She’s petty!

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Guitarman
Brick, NJ · 2 months ago

9 kids ? !!! Good night !

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Jesse Peterson
Hesperia, CA · 3 months ago

hell yeah split them checks

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Robert Hornyak
Bucksport, SC · 2 months ago

because he wouldn't have taken you out if you told him that.

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Kathy
Clinton Township, MI · 2 months ago

he is still wrong!

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Jason Philp
2 months ago

Bye

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David Curry
Indianapolis, IN · a month ago

If he asked her out and as long as he's just paying for her dinner and not food for her 9 kids. Then he should pay for it. If he doesn't want to be with a woman with 9 kids. Then he should tell her and not go out with her anymore.

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Christian Jeffs
Enterprise, UT · a month ago

I dont think shes asking him to feed her kids. but he did ask her out he dont have tl pay for food for the kids but he should man up and pay for her dinner

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Richard Cyrille
Peoria, IL · 4 days ago

first off 9 kids is mad wild for you not to tell him....second..my man got a whole wedding ring on and he on a date...3rd...1 kid or 9 kids, she is still a mother on a day that reps mothers...you are buying her food not the kids bro...she at least deserved that then you could have politely removed yourself from the equation and her 9 kids...DO BETTER but I don't blame you...

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Darrell Lakowsky
Princeton, TX · 4 days ago

ok, I'm all about leaving her after she lied. but not paying for the date you took her on isn't ok. if the date went well and then found out, still pay. If she was acting a fool. spit check.

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Jamie Stout
Hampton, TN · 3 days ago

he's right,I don't blame him ,she should have told him off the rip she had nine children because it's not right and I bet nine different baby daddy no man would want to be about that drama

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stevan92325
Palm Springs, CA · 2 months ago

Hahaha you were betting that he would be all over you. Didn’t work now pay your bill and stop fishing for horney men who fall for this crap

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Dont_Play_Wit_Me
Carlsbad, NM · a month ago

9 kids is crazy tho .. that is something you might wanna clarify unless you both just looking for the 1 night stand

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Tim Spuds
Salt Lake City, UT · 3 days ago

9 kids, 8 baby daddies and not one still around and have nothing to do with them, just guessing here...lol

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TRUMP BABY
Fort Worth, TX · 3 days ago

she should pay for his with all that free welfare she's getting from those nine kids just saying

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A H
2 months ago

HELLO! Did anyone see the wedding ring on him??? What is he doing dating if he is married? 🤔🤔

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A H
2 months ago

HELLO! Did anyone see the wedding ring on him??? What is he doing dating if he is married?

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L Miles
Henderson, NV · 2 months ago

He should talked more on the phone with her before going to dinner. She should leave.

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pigebear
Southington, CT · 4 hours ago

9? bet she does not even know 3 off the daddies names

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Sun
Citrus Heights, CA · 7 hours ago

if it's just her food he asked her out if he was a real man he would pay. now if she brought all 9 kids on a date without prior consent she deserves to be stuck with her bill and the kids

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Michael Hicks
Atlanta, GA · 8 hours ago

If he asked her out he should pay for it. Only her meal and his. Sounds like it’s just them so after that he doesn’t want to continue then that’s fine. Just my opinion but hey I’m old school. I take care of my family by any means necessary. I have yet to meet another man that does in the level I do. Then they always say man you got good thing I hold I do one day.

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Dorchester ave chris
New Bedford, MA · 8 hours ago

yup you get nothing

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David
Philadelphia, PA · 10 hours ago

was told she had one , found out she had 9 during the date... double standards if dude lied and got caught she would act a certain way (probably same)

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Robert Mason
New York City, NY · 11 hours ago

if she brought the kids, yes I agree. but if she didn't bring her kids, he's petty

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Jdisel
Waxhaw, NC · 13 hours ago

what the problem is?

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Bishop Knight
Charleston, SC · 16 hours ago

I love how both of them have wedding rings on

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Donnie Anderson
Michigan City, IN · 17 hours ago

he act like she brought the 9 kids😳

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William Mitchell
Ragland, AL · 17 hours ago

Nine kids, how many baby daddies? Brother something's wrong with her, you better get up and run.

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Sugar Baby
Avondale, PA · 18 hours ago

Respect on that man

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Adan Mejia
Tucson, AZ · 18 hours ago

dirty fingers gross

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Austin Fortenberry
Springfield, MO · 20 hours ago

this homie needs help lowley 😭😭😭😭

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Edith Appleton
Birmingham, AL · a day ago

wtf 😳😳😳9....run for the hills now

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Kendrick Crawford
Tuscaloosa, AL · a day ago

damn right

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Nicole Mace
Chicago, IL · a day ago

They are Husband and Wife

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J M
New Braunfels, TX · a day ago

what do you expect?

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Manny Martinez
Douglas, WY · a day ago

bish prolly cant afford her own food thats why she tripping

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