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Nana Faloney
21 days ago

I know your crying now hon and the pain is unbelievable. But believe me you will be laughing while he’s crying in a very short while. Hugs. # Mendontmakenosense

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Sissy
Paris, TX · a month ago
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Mid life crisis I'm guessing! He's been playing without you. Consider it your lucky day! Like winning the lottery coz you have the freedom now Yippee 💯✅🤗

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Chica
Los Angeles, CA · a month ago
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Let him go. Cry for a moment then celebrate your independence. Find you. Make you. Love you. You'll be fine sis🥰🥰

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Jonny Bionic
a month ago
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Ask yourself what part you had in this. I'm currently in a relationship of 14 years and I'm ready to bounce. A man will only take being taken for granted, disrespected, and unappreciated for so long. I've hoped it would change. I'm 53 and in poor health. I'm not wasting whatever time I have left with someone who doesn't love me

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Mrniceguy😏
21 days ago

Don’t cry when you’re the cause of your own misery 😭😭😭😭

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Whitney Alexander
Missouri City, TX · a day ago

Well he ain’t have much 😂 look at the bright side lol

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damnearlocal
Meridian, ID · 5 days ago

She will be just fine ..

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Diamond
North Hempstead, NY · 17 days ago

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Never Kared Gorilla
Rochester, NY · 4 days ago

Wat cha do

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Candace Rachel
Plainville, KS · a day ago

Do who you want, whenever you want! Could be the biggest blessing you know. Do at least one thing just for you each day.🌸 Make a list you’ve wanted to see or do but never have done - and do them! Even something as simple as eating what you’d like - or watching the tv program you’d like- or adopt a pet!

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LEgIT1
Las Vegas, NV · a month ago

My ex left and i am HAPPY

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Jim Dunn
Southbridge, MA · 5 days ago

Let’s start, by elaborating on why he left, before all the poor me’s! There’s not a person looking on this post, that has any idea, what’s going on!!!

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Yolanda Pineda
Arlington, TX · 7 days ago

Hang tough, it's not the end of the world, he's not dead. You are a strong woman and you shouldn't depend on your husband to rule your world. I believe in you because you are a woman, Amen. 👍👍👍

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Sharon Wright
Houston, TX · 10 days ago

Girl get your best book go jump across that big bed , at 10 a.m. when you feel like getting up to make breakfast do so , Turn your TV on to whatever you choose !Take a deep breath and release the burden!He left and you will be Ok

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Alesha Brady
Clermont, GA · 4 days ago

Pray to God for strength. Turn everything over to Him and He will guide you through! 🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏🙏💕💕💕

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Holly Grandma Holly
North Charleston, SC · 5 days ago

First I would have messed up his truck so he had something to remember the day by! Obviously he has issues! Remember you are stronger than you think 🙏🏻

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crzydog
Boynton Beach, FL · 5 days ago

Most common reason for men to leave their wives is they need their peace and mental stability back. Most women don't understand the simple and uncomplicated minds of us men. Sorry if you couldn't provide that for him.

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Michele Aust
Bailey, MS · 7 days ago

tell him to take his ass on and don't forget to pay the mortgage every month!!!!! 👍

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Mary Gross
Arkport, NY · a month ago

say good riddance and start your life over. Pray for God's guidance and be thankful you didn't spend 50 years with the fool. God doesn't allow one door to close without opening a better door. This is not the end of your story. God is writing your story don't take away his pen. Trust with all your heart and lean on his understanding.

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Terry Burss
Massillon, OH · 9 days ago

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Swampguts
LaFayette, GA · 12 days ago

What did you do to make him leave

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Barbara Cochran
Conover, NC · 7 days ago

Believe me. In the long run you will be happier by yourself . Went through almost the same thing but reversed it. Now I don't have to answer to anyone anymore. I love it by myself. It's been 10 years now 🥰🥰👍👍

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Jason L. Graber
Krebs, OK · a month ago

13 yrs,2 beautiful children. Just to,one morning tell me she was never in love with me at all, that I was just away for her to move away from home. I had lake front property, i bought her a brand new three bedroom two bath home, the Ford wind star minivan. we\nHad four whelers, dirt bikes,kyakes , everything we wanted. For\nHer to look at me, and tell me I don't love you, i never loved you, was never in love with you. you're just an excuse for me to move out. I know exactly what you feel.And what you're going through!! and i'm so very sorry , because it does hurt, you just keep strong and keep your head up. And if you ever need a friend, you ever need a shoulder? or ever just wanna talk You just hit me up,im always here. God bless you beautiful!!

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Sally Rouch
Elkhart, IN · 5 days ago

Don’t stay down , cry get it out of your system dust yourself off and move on!! He will regret it someday!!! Keep your chin up honey there’s better days ahead!! Even if you can’t see it now!!💕

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Shirley Jones
Clearwater, FL · 21 days ago

I left my husband after 30 years because he refused to stop drinking and he was getting really bad. Pissing in the closet thinking he was in the bathroom shit like that. I told him for years if he didn’t stop drinking it was going to break up our marriage. I’ve been gone now for 14 years and I love being single. I don’t worry any more whether he’s going to get in an accident or end up in jail again. I love being alone and doing what I want to do with no one telling me I can’t go or do something. I travel the world now and go visit our 3 children and grandchildren. Sometimes to have peace you have to go it alone.

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Liam
Des Moines, IA · 12 days ago

do we care?

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That Ass tho
Athens, GA · 19 hours ago

Been married for 32 yrs since the age of 15. For the past 10 yrs my husband doesn’t even acknowledge me as a woman, don’t flirt with me, doesn’t have time for “us”, isn’t interested in being with me physically in any kind of a way. He says that he showed me enough of “all of that” when we were younger that it should be enough to last the rest of our life. I still feel the same head over heels in love with him but it’s painfully obvious that it’s not like that for him and he doesn’t have the need to want it to be any different than its current state. I’m not willing to settle for being a room mate that only gets to feel that closeness for 3 mins once a month. I am faithful but regardless of how much I love him, love isn’t everything. I look back at it and honestly I should have known because he never showed me anything that told me he would actually love me. Sure he said it, but his actions told me differently. Some ppl choose comfort & connivence over emotional honesty.

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Farrah Soward
Oklahoma City, OK · 12 hours ago

girl, my ex husband of 16 years stayed in my inherited home for the last 5 years and destroyed it and had one uhauls worth of my inherited property already moved when the court finally approved some deputies to come with me and evict him. what was once worth over $400k now looks condemned. feel lucky thats all he left with. men are evil.

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Sherry Lynn
Kaufman, TX · 13 hours ago

Honey I been there I was devastated lots of crying and begging it didn’t help I went through depression it was bad then I had enough I got mad then I said no more it’s been five years I’m stronger then I have ever been hang in there sister u will be ok if u need to talk I’m here

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Nelson Ramos
Parma, OH · a day ago

I am so sorry that you feel broken hearted. I know how that feels I've been with someone. It's going to be 37 years. I No her then, by myself, for 7 years. After 20:05 years, she's changed. She became an empty vessel. We used to love each other very much. I guess she had other plans after kids grew up. i still haven't moved on. It's very hard to trust anyone. I'm sure I stay by myself. I still miss affection though, but Joe will be okay. it going to, take a bit for you to heal you will be ok I promise

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Shelley Green
Los Angeles, CA · 3 hours ago

live baby live.!could be blessing in disguise. God will not close a door unless there is a better one to open the man who love u for u will come. take this time to learn to love yourself , people can only do to u that u will allowed them to do . ! Amen love yourself ,

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Rayanne Francis
12 hours ago

Time to let yourself go,... Go find an agressive lawyer! Go to the beauty shop! Go to Victoria's Secret! Go shopping for a stylish wardrobe! Go on vacation with your girlfriends! Just go, go, go! 😆🌸💕

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Sharon
Harrisburg, PA · 12 hours ago

23 years I've been with my husband about 9 months ago we separated I never felt so good I'm living my best life by myself to peace I feel so much peace right now I'm 64 and I love being by myself because you're by yourself don't mean you're lonely and I'm not lonely I never want to be in a relationship again feel good God bless you honey embrace your quietness and a peacefulness God bless you

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Donovan Reed
Denver, CO · 4 hours ago

Some people are like seasons, and we get those Seasonal people confused with what they really aren’t! You will find roots to keep you healthy and well! #prayers for comfort

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Pam Savage
Fayetteville, NC · 16 hours ago

Give to God he will need you before you need him stop crying go live life don't sit there and fell sorry for yourself your going to live and be joyful i pray for your joy i know it hurt now but go live your life i will pray for you constanlty go on a fast tell God what you want he will give you everything you need and want that a promise !!

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Donna Doran
Ephrata, PA · 15 hours ago

I have been in your shoes. It was 10 years ago. Now I’m glad he’s gone. I waited 2 1/2 years for him to come back. He actually did me a favor.

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Grecia Maria
Casa Grande, AZ · 16 hours ago

What does one do when another wants to leave? Let them go. Hold the door open and let them go. Give yourself an exact time to cry, scream & let it out of your system. Then go and sit down by yourself with pen and paper. Dream. Write down everything you've ever dreamed of wanting, of becoming, seeing, doing or having. then for everything write dow. how you'd achieve that if there were No obstacles. you now have a life plan. Put it into action and don't look back! Best of everything to you!

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Jacqueline Bouvier Jones
Capitol Heights, MD · 16 hours ago

Let him go! I hope you helped him pack. Stop crying and adjust your 👑 Crown! Next time put GOD first and let GOD pick the right Man for you. #ThisTooShallPass #PrayAndPressOn…. Trust GOD.

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Lovely Ann Lace Edwards
20 hours ago

what ever happened that made him want to leave, dont worry you will be just fine.We always have the strengh to bounce back. He will try to come back,especially if hes driving a vehicle that looks like that.Dont take him back.👍

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Diamond
Norco, CA · a day ago

Girl I feel you I was with mine 28 yrs but at least yours packed up and left mine put me out with nothing while my daughter was dying in the hospital and I had just lost my sister… but I think it was the best thing he could have done for me…

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Janet Ramos
Winter Park, FL · 13 hours ago

Have a party the world didn't end move on you are half around the world explore you will meet someone better then you will be happy.🤔

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Princess P. Dupree
Edgewood, MD · 17 hours ago

Hold your head up, Love yourself 💕more. If he is done, you be done too. It hurts like hell💔💔💔, but you will survive this.

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Christa Cundiff
Evansville, IN · 12 hours ago

ohh honey he's not worth your tears. your going to do so much better in life. just keep your head up. you got this

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Laurie Simone
West Haven, CT · 16 hours ago

It may break your heart now but you will survive. Hold your head up high and start living for yourself. 💕🙏🏼

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Love
Spokane, WA · a day ago

Call me we can hang out! You definitely DON'T NEED a man to be happy!! It's his loss and he will realize this sooner than you think. I just hope & PRAY you DON'T go back to him when he realizes what he's lost 🙏 If he just up and then chances are he's been cheating on you for God only knows how long. Jesus will see you through this dark time & Bless you beyond your wildest dreams. Just cling onto JESUS 🥰 Read your Bible and seek his wisdom. I'm PRAYING for you sister 🙏 It's going to be alright, I promise ❤️

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Sunshine2020
Yonkers, NY · 17 hours ago

he did you a favor !! Get up get out & start taking care of yourself after you grieve his death bc hunny he should be dead to you now !! live girl 🩷

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Linn Leigh
Cleveland, OH · 17 hours ago

All of these case scenarios are funny. Maybe it's all fake. Its just a video of a random truck with a lot of stuff on it driving away. A supposedly sad person making a statement. 😅😅🤣

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MsJennaNY
Yaphank, NY · 13 hours ago

Your gonna cry, lose sleep but you are gonna be FINE. Find yourself. No dating for a while. One thing you CANNOT do is take him back. No matter what line of bs he gives you. Get help. Join a group with people going through the same thing. This is the first day of your NEW, more improved life. YES YOU CAN DO THIS! ❤️❤️❤️❤️🙏🏼🌸

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Richard lopez
Floresville, TX · 13 hours ago

should've be feminine, cooperative, friendly and give the king peace! why is it so hard for you women to understand?? so simple but oh well. Buy a dog.

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TDA
Chicago, IL · 11 hours ago

He will miss you tremendously once he wakes up from him delusional mind that the grass is greener on the other side. You can decide if you want to take him back or not but id think twice about it and not just fall in arms. He needs to appreciate and respect you first and be willing to go to counseling because you both need some help before anything will work out because he was ok with walking out on you after all those years, unacceptable!!!!!! I wish you the best!! You will be ok even if he doesn’t come back and you finding love with someone much better then him is always possible!!’ Focus on you now, not him!!!!!! ❤️❤️

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Victor Williams
Atlanta, GA · 11 minutes ago

call on GOD until the pain stops, then find a church home

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L Diaz
Yonkers, NY · 42 minutes ago

Good riddance, he’s probably a hoarder anyway.

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Jaguar Cookie
Edwardsville, PA · an hour ago

Honey, you are 65 years YOUNG!!!! You've still got plenty of life left to live! You take the time you need to get over this hurdle & not 1 minute more, ya hear?! Then, you get back on that ride called life & ride it till the wheels fall off! Make sure to getchu some alimony too!!! You got this, I believe in you!!! 💯💔❤️‍🩹🙏🏼🙌🏼

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Kathy Palmer
Atlanta, GA · an hour ago

Pick yourself up and start to living your best life.🙏

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lecia Wade
Chicago, IL · an hour ago

keep putting one foot in front of the other ❤️ who wants to be with someone who doesn't want them you're better off. I know you don't believe this now but time will let you know this

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Gracie Simon
Henderson, TX · 2 hours ago

keep living like it never hurt. Trust in God.

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Areial Kenner
Virginia Beach, VA · 2 hours ago

he may had usher situation now a days and b4

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Brian Schwarz
Lafayette, IN · 2 hours ago

start over many people do it will get better possibly even more so than before.

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Doris Allen
Odessa, TX · 3 hours ago

count your blessings.there must be some

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Goldie Morales
Elmwood Park, IL · 3 hours ago

So sorry. I lost my husband to death on his motorcycle 25 years ago. The first 10 years were the worse. I pray God gives you strength to continue and comfort your broken heart.

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Aurora Dickson
Kansas City, MO · 3 hours ago

Pray the Lord will counsel you. Through Prayer. 🙏

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Sintia Ann
Corpus Christi, TX · 4 hours ago

Is that junk on the back of the truck ?

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meandmine
4 hours ago

u got this just dont take him back and don't give him a place in ur life that will be a big screw up. believe me I know

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Ggee
Philadelphia, PA · 5 hours ago

Just let life keep Lifing....A lot of love out there waiting even a 60 His loss your new beginning

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native proud
Oklahoma City, OK · 5 hours ago

guess you should have loved and respected him more

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Lamar Headspeth
Troy, NY · 5 hours ago

🥲

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Rose Brown
Wichita Falls, TX · 6 hours ago

Live, it will hurt but I guarantee you will be ok. Whatever he’s searching for or thinks he’s found will not be what he thought it would be. Cry it out, grieve the loss, you will survive.

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Delilah Munoz
Hereford, TX · 6 hours ago

What that gotta do with me😅

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