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AnnJustice4ALL
Akron, OH · 7 hours ago

Want advice? L.E.A.V.E. If you wait, you will be another statistic for spouses who perish at the hands of their mates, or you can be proactive and watch the movie, "The Burning Bed."

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Rhonda W Durham
Las Vegas, NV · 5 hours ago

Have the police remove him from your home and make sure you have restraining orders. This has nothing to do with love.

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Carol Kenyon
Ellerbe, NC · 10 hours ago

you are right this is wrong. be smart and calmly pack your things while he is at work. you have at least 8 hours to pack. take everything of yours. rent a storage unit if you can an put your things in there. you can rent on line but I recommend going there in person so you can pay cash. no record for your bank account this way. I recommend a domestic violence safe house instead of family and friends. he will look for you there when you call them they will set up a meeting and then take you there. they will help you move forward I also agree to take cash from the bank, destroy your credit and debit cards use cash. find a new bank and set up an account you have this. never ever let anyone abuse you.! you are important an will survive. 🌸💕

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Pw
Pueblo, CO · 8 hours ago

You leave! You leave with a cop escort when he isn’t home. Don’t tell him at all. Leaving is a very dangerous time for the abused. If you can’t do it for yourself do it for your baby because it’s just a matter of time before he abuses that baby. Go somewhere safe. Far away. Don’t be fooled by his promises of not hurting you again. Him

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Carolyn Briscoe
Concord, NC · 9 hours ago

Get out now before he starts abusing your child. He’s not going to e. Get a restraining order and file for divorce now!

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Blanche Connell
Mays Landing, NJ · 8 hours ago

He won’t stop get out now before he kills you

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Katy Ishee
Wartrace, TN · 13 days ago

Leave! He doesn’t apologize because he’s not sorry he’s just a sorry individual

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Karen S
West Warwick, RI · 17 hours ago

Talk to a lawyer. To the best of your ability, figure out the financial assets. Believe in yourself and your ability to take care of yourself and your child. The most important thing is to get out of there.

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Tamara Edwards
Waxahachie, TX · 18 hours ago

Leave him while he's at work. He will get worse over time, and that is not behavior your child needs to grow up thinking is normal and okay. He will hurt you, or your child, someday that you or your child can't come back from. Leave and don't let him find you.

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Melissa Straitwell
Erie, PA · 15 hours ago

leave...he goes to work take ten minutes to pack bags for you and your kids. get in car go to bank take half the bank accounts...dump credit cards and debit cards also your phone they can be traced. buy cheap new phone so you can get emergency assistance when needed , stop at police station tell them you are leaving and why and get gone. when you get somewhere find lawyer file for divorce then go somewhere safe talk only lawyer about the divorce never mention where you are.

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Carol Hill
Brick, NJ · 9 hours ago

He won’t stop even when you are old n feeble, He will still hurt you! Leave ! Love doesn’t hurt

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Jane Nash
Sedro-Woolley, WA · 5 hours ago

Its likely that everyone will give you the same answer. I'll just add, in case you think that he will ever change, HE WON'T!

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Jan Robbins
San Angelo, TX · 18 hours ago

Take the baby and LEAVE! Immediately! This will only escalate! He could seriously hurt you and the baby!! Seek counseling nd don’t look back!!!

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Oscar Scott
Jackson, TN · 9 hours ago

LEAVE NO PERSON NEEDS TO BE ABUSED

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Desiree Munoz
Hayward, CA · 13 days ago

While he’s at work back yours and your babies things n leave

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Ed Steinke
Rawlins, WY · 8 hours ago

A real man-husband-partner will never treat His wife like that. Leave when he is at work And never go back. You and your child Are worth much more than that. God bless and guide you.

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Carole Knause
Saint Petersburg, FL · 8 hours ago

Walk away I stayed 13yrs wasted my life . 6 yrs of abuse then one night I fought back and he saw my eye he cried and never touched me again but the damage is forever. I won't date again . I threw him out sent him home he died from cancer five yrs later. I feel sad for his daughter she lost him.

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Melisa Gobble
Lawrenceburg, TN · 8 hours ago

Call the police and get a restraining order. That is abuse. Divorce him.

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Mailan Dabbs
12 hours ago

get as far away from him as you can

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Linda Justice
Massillon, OH · 8 hours ago

Leave make him see a counselor he needs help

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CB
11 hours ago

Definitely abuse. I would not be able to stand that. What a real loser a man must have to be to hit a woman.

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Dee Mullings
New Haven, CT · 5 hours ago

When he’s not at home make a plan to leave without him noticing. Empty bank accounts & remove yourself from lease or mortgage. Obtain legal representation through a proxy Take necessary documents, meds, items for you & child. Move leaving no paper or social media details. This is abuse and no acceptable!!!

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Jack P
Torrington, CT · 11 hours ago

that's assault and prison time. have his assets arrested, file for divorce, and get a no contact order. you can't allow him to get worse and worse until he hurts you AND the baby.

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Madison Newbold
Murray, UT · 20 hours ago

Leave while you still can

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venecia dacus
Montgomery, AL · 3 hours ago

leave👍

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Sheryl BerryRudic
Waterloo, IA · 18 hours ago

Get out!! This will only escalate.

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Joan Clark
San Jose, CA · 12 hours ago

Talk to lawyer to find out you rights. It is abuse and you shouldn’t have to tolerate that behavior Look for a safe place to live and seriously think about leaving him

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Mary Rose Doten
Boston, MA · 3 hours ago

He’s not going to stop. Go to the police & file a report. Get an attorney. Get a restraining order & have him arrested & served with divorce papers.

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Laura Teegarden
Bullhead City, AZ · 7 hours ago

Run! He will not get better. It will only escalate….unfortunately, you now have children coming into this abuse of relationship. Go to your parents house go somewhere but get out it will get worse.

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Zeb Hill
Rock, WV · 7 hours ago

Walk away before you get a major injury

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holly garrett
Toledo, OH · 6 hours ago

way past time to leave

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Carrie Krumrie
Cartersville, GA · 4 hours ago

Start moving small things that you will need to start over! Put them in a storage unit! A little at a time, if you have time! Otherwise, move money first. Find out where women’s shelters are! Contact the police. This is to let them know what is going on! Take your children, pick up the keys and get yourself out of this dangerous situation! Everything else can be replaced! You! Your children are the most important things here! Leave ! Go to the women’s shelter! Watch, movie: Maid ! Great movie to share what women are going through! Use it as the handbook to get the hell out!

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Barbara Stewart Brown
Chanute, KS · 3 hours ago

You can do better than this guy!!!

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Deborah West
Cedar Grove, NJ · 4 hours ago

Do you really need advice.

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Jackie Kowalski
Cincinnati, OH · 6 hours ago

All good advice…he needs anger control and should not see you or the baby alone.

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lorets
Oak Creek, WI · 4 hours ago

Leave your abusive Husband and give you and your child a safe happy peaceful life

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Albert Hall
Warminster, PA · 4 hours ago

Get out!!!

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Rhonda Hoover
Monticello, AR · 5 hours ago

He sounds dangerous. You may need to get a protective order. When you leave and he loses control of you, it could get worse, so be aware of your surroundings and don’t go out alone, if possible. Get a small pistol for your purse.

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Scott Spotanske
Madison, SD · 5 hours ago

Since it’s made up nonsense, you’ll be fine.

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Annette
Grand Rapids, MI · 5 hours ago

RUN!!!👍

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Margaret Bond
Orlando, FL · 6 hours ago

LEAVE!!!!!!!!!! It will only get worse. I lived through that with my dad, he would hit my mom and she would have a black eye for days, he knocked some of her teeth out.....he put her in the hospital one time. So for the safety of you and your baby, get out as soon as possible. It is NOT NORMAL.

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Delbert Penrod
Randolph, NE · 5 hours ago

Lady, what can anyone do for you, You know from how he acts you are in a violent relationship yet you do nothing. You said he assaulted you while holding your child, He will most likely get to the point of attacking your child yet you stay, Why no reason is adequate. If you stay without intervention who is to blame. In most cases it does not stop. Flee, get out, do not stay, That is the help you need. I will be praying for you.

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Bertha Gonzalez
Salinas, CA · 12 hours ago

Leave immediately

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Sharon Kirby
Wilmington, NC · 6 hours ago

Get out of this relationship now! It will probably get much worse. Do not let him disrespect you! You are worthy and have value.

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timothy baldwin
Flat Rock, MI · 10 hours ago

run don't walk, now

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Frank Hughes
Monroe, NY · 8 hours ago

Run

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Sanna Chambers
Lady Lake, FL · 9 hours ago

You and your baby walk out the door and don’t look back. That is not normal at all. It will only get worse.

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Annie
6 hours ago

Leave him! I speak from experience. I’m totally disabled now and depend on a wheelchair. Go and don’t go back. I tried to commit suicide a few weeks ago. Ended up in a psych ward where the shrink told me I didn’t belong there. He’d show up to visit acting like the caring husband. They released me early. Came home to the same crap

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Sherry Sizemore
Pasadena, MD · 8 hours ago

get away from him.

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Denice Scurto
Bel Air, MD · 7 hours ago

Leave him ASAP!