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Kristi Deem
Clarksburg, WV · 22 days ago
HOT

keep them rings you made need the money out of them

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Guest
22 days ago

Why should you leave and uproot your children. Since he is already out of the house it might be worth getting some legal advice regarding you and your children staying put. 💕

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Nicole Greeno
Spring Valley, CA · 22 days ago

Smart Lady. No drama, no yelling, no cussing real grace. Can I please offer 2 pieces of advice. One leave him a copy of your detailed letter stating I am leaving due to your infidelity. I am not taking your kids from you. Your mom( or whoever ) can contact me if you want to see them. That’s just so he doesn’t hit you with the parental kidnapping. Also go back and grab those rings. You earned them you deserve them.!!!💕💕💕 good luck to you and your children💕

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Dena Goodwin
Jacksonville, FL · 9 days ago

My husband wasn’t cheating but he was abusive so my parents made several trips to where I lived to help me move stuff out. On the final load, I left the house keys and car keys. He never noticed anything missing until I was gone. I left the car because it was in his name only and I knew he would report it stolen just out of spite. Sometimes, it takes planning and stealth to get away from an abuser.

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Susan Graham Peterson
Stuart, FL · 21 days ago

Get an attorney!! Fast Don’t abandon him, your attorney will tell you what to do!

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realitychic
Chittenango, NY · 22 days ago

Consult a divorce attorney and get the money you are legally entitled to out of your accounts before he comes home.

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Rosemary Hardin
Houston, TX · 22 days ago

KEEP THE RING MA'AM

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Jessss
Wappingers Falls, NY · 21 days ago

Nope always take your rings bc then you can hock them

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cat ?
Anniston, AL · 22 days ago

I would just change the locks on the doors and say go move back home with Your mother

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Sarina Janney
Las Vegas, NV · 21 days ago

Never leave your home. Make him leave!!!

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Cindy Coppola
San Marcos, CA · 21 days ago

You stay. let him move out.

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Susan Borges
Victorville, CA · 22 days ago

Get custody of your children divorce can get so bad they will try to hurt you that way keep the ring you earned them sale them keep the money sorry I had a cheating dog of a husband too 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼 for your peace

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Barbara Kamara
Levittown, PA · 22 days ago

Keep the ring/s and sell them. Keep the money

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Bruno1 Murry1
Appleton Township, MN · 21 days ago

Take the ring and sell it !! It was a gift and you can at least enjoy the money !@

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Diana Browning
Vero Beach, FL · 21 days ago

Change the locks on the doors and pawn those rings.

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Sheila Meeks
Florence, AL · 19 days ago

The first thing you do is find a lawyer. He will walk you through the financial split. find a new home asap. Try to keep a normal routine for the kids. Only talk to him through the lawyer. Walk away. You are a strong, vital woman. You deserve respect. He stopped cherishing you when he placed another above you. Hold your head up. You've got this. God has you in the palm of his hand.

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Kathleen S
Bradenton, FL · 21 days ago

Why are you leaving and uprooting your kids? Change the locks and MAKE HIM LEAVE.

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Grace Goewey
Wilbraham, MA · 18 days ago

Keep the. Rings

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mickey
Mantua, OH · 20 days ago

take the rings😲

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Cindy Fountain
Gilbertsville, PA · 21 days ago

keep the rings an sell them he's only gonna sell them

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Judy Leclair
Greenville, SC · 21 days ago

Keep your ring always !! Make it into a necklace or trade it in!

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Judy Stuard
Mound House, NV · 19 days ago

Good luck to you. You Will Be happy and with someone who does Not cheat one day.

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Bonnie Anderssen
Owego, NY · 21 days ago

Don’t leave your rings

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Cathy Short
Nathalie, VA · 18 days ago

Make him get out,keep your home

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Bobbie Lumetta
19 days ago

According to these videos most cheaters are name Ryan Ladies stop naming your sons Ryan. We have enough cheaters already

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E Marie Sobien
Stephens City, VA · 20 days ago

I agree! Leave with everything that's worth anything. 🙏👍

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Jacqueline Boucher
Charlestown, IN · 18 days ago

Don’t give him anything he can turn into money!

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Linda Harbaugh
Bowie, MD · 21 days ago

Don’t move. It’s your house too. Did you clean out the joint account to move? And if you go, have you taken all the financial papers? Do you have good documentation of his cheating? It’s a slippery slope and you don’t want to be the one abandoning him. A good divorce lawyer will be needed BEFORE you go to give you sound advice. Been where you are and so just be careful and know your rights.

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Deb Cash
Hawthorne, Nevada · a day ago

he leaves you stay. 👍

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Francine Latorraca
Tobyhanna, PA · a day ago

Sell the rings

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Deborah Martone
Palm Springs, CA · 11 days ago

Yes. Keep the ring.

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Lisa
Detroit, MI · 21 days ago

do what you have to to take care of you. sometimes life is unfair be brave you'll get through it!

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P Christine Duran Miller
Pampa, TX · 21 days ago

Take or donate everything but a blanket!!!

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Myrna Dejesus
Port Saint Lucie, FL · 22 days ago

Wish they would show the outcome of what happens when he comes home 😲😲😲🤬🤬😡😡

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Gail Webb
Saint Clair, MI · 21 days ago

I emptied our apartment packed everything but his things (should have taken his things) took our daughter and went to visit my parents in another state. Filed for a divorce when I got there. If I had filed in the state where we were living I could not have left with my daughter. She would be a ward of the court of that state.

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Connie Myers
Villa Ridge, MO · 20 days ago

Don’t put up with ever with being #2! Number 1 or Nothing !!!

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Linda Harrison
Boerne, TX · 19 hours ago

Sad always ends up with her leaving with the kids…….

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Trudy Polonoli
Van Voorhis, PA · 8 days ago

Keep the rings and sell them.

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Maureen McCann
Annandale, NJ · 18 days ago

Why are you leaving with the children ? Change the locks and go find a good divorce attorney! If you leave the marital home you can lose your claim to it in divorce court. Don't disrupt you and your children's lives, disrupt his, this is all his doing!

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my3005
Newton, MA · 18 days ago

I wouldn’t be moving he would have his shit packed ready to go. And get an attorney to help with the transition.

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Lis
Sebastian, FL · 18 days ago

Take to jewelry shop and sell and not the pawn shop

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Karen Moniz
Fall River, MA · 19 days ago

🙏

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Pat Lewis
Leland, NC · 18 days ago

Girl, keep dem rings and pawn em.

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Nancy Palmer
La Verne, CA · 9 days ago

Don't let your hurt and anger get the best of you. Take his things out and let him know where to pick them up. Get the best divorce attorney you can find. Change the locks. Sell the rings in time not now. I'm twice divorced I let my pride get in the way of good decisions for my children and myself. Please think before you jump. Good luck!

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Donna Horton
Tustin, CA · 12 days ago

Where do you go on a 2week WORK TRIP? I mean 2 weeks is a bit much. So he went on a vacation with his other family? I don’t blame u for leaving. But I would kick his butt out, why inconvenience you and your child’s? He’s the one who chose to play so now he must pay. BYE BYE BYE!!!!!!!!

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Evelyn Essex
16 days ago

Girl I would keep those rings and pawn them

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Chrissy Marie Karkota-Owens
Saraland, AL · 17 days ago

keep your rings

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Judy Leclair
Greenville, SC · 21 days ago

Clear out bank accts ALL. Take out money from other joint accounts or just his if possible!

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Diane Stremlau
Crestview, FL · 18 days ago

Hold your ground . Remain in your home, change the locks. Keep your children's lives stable, consult an attorney, separate your joint accounts as well as credit cards. Start cleaning the house , pack his personel items, place them in the garage. Make some "me" time to be nice to yourself, take a walk, go out for lunch, rehearse how you will confront (unemotionally) your significant other. It will confuse the heck out of him.

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I'M JUST SAYING......
Tinley Park, IL · 10 days ago

1

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Maureen Minor
St Louis, MO · 11 days ago

Lots of work ahead. Lots of tears and peaceful times.

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Randall Tate
Piedmont, SC · 11 days ago

From the looks of you I would be surprised if he ever comes back

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Cheryl Baker
Columbus, OH · 11 days ago

I’m sorry 🥺

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Carol Hoousendove
Metuchen, NJ · 12 days ago

kick him out never leave your home. Now she can move in.

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B.Something
12 days ago

Mine said he’d quit his job )police and health insurance)3 kids under 10

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B.Something
12 days ago

3kids tried

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Constance O
Vancouver, WA · 13 days ago

SORRY...KARMA WORKED FOR ME👍

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usernamethisorthat
Cass Lake, MN · 15 days ago

What a clown. I hope you reconsider if his heart changes.

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Melanie Bassett
Chico, CA · 17 days ago

Good for you!!